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Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by Iamblessed85: 1:06pm On Jun 29 |
yewit37486: It’s not in my place to comment because Jarus is a solid individual. However, for me, it’s not even the DV per se. We all know that was wrong and most likely a mistake. It’s her diabolic activity that is more worrisome. She most likely would have been into it for a while now. Would you live with such a person? How come you’re condemning the DV but turning a blind eye to a potential ritualist? |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by Gerrard59(m): 1:06pm On Jun 29 |
yewit37486: I am not defending him because I like him. I am defending his right to do what his religion supports. I don't have to like Islam or any Muslim, but I will support your right to do what is legally permissible by your religion. I mentioned APC supporter because he is one and nothing will happen to him. It is Nigeria for a reason. 1 Like |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by Gerrard59(m): 1:14pm On Jun 29 |
Tightpussy2024: Again, nothing will happen. Jarus is a rich Yoruba Muslim man. Maybe you have to read his history of supporting APC - the governing party in Lagos and Nigeria. Nothing will happen. If Jarus was Igbo, yes, something will happen. It happened to Bebex, an illiterate but rich Igbo trader, who harassed a Yoruba woman in public. Initially, he used money to solve the matter. But Ronu advocates resurrected the matter because he is Igbo and tagged the DV division. He is free as I write. Why? Bebex is rich. Most of you people need to understand how humans behave. This lovey-dovey approach to life is unrealistic. 3 Likes |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 1:15pm On Jun 29 |
GTCO: What .. I don't think ahnie has ever given 1000n to someone on this forum not to talk of paying anyone's school fees.. The lady is all talk and no do .. silentgroper see am finish.. 1 Like |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by kayperry: 1:19pm On Jun 29 |
Beremx: The fair angle, he takes responsibility for his actions and consequences arising from that lust .. whatever a man uses his preek to cause he bears but women are always looking for who to put their load a single mother of 3 is presently chasing my friend want him to help with paying school fees 1 Like |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by cococandy(f): 1:20pm On Jun 29 |
You don’t have problem with domestic violence because the perpetrator is a “solid” individual ? What makes him solid? But you have a problem with someone practicing their native religion as a recourse? Iamblessed85: 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by yewit37486: 1:22pm On Jun 29 |
Iamblessed85: A mistake is not something that happens repeatedly, even his wife months back on an online account mentioned he BEATS her, wasn't a one off occurrence, which he also confirmed by his reference to a 'couple of times'. The moment he found out she was fetish and it was something he couldn't live with, he should have sent her packing, not pummel her to pieces. 2 Likes |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by cococandy(f): 1:25pm On Jun 29 |
Gerrard59: Will you support slavery because the Bible allows it? Even to the point of saying the servants should submit to cruel masters because God commands it. I mean it’s clearly outlined in different versions. Do we not practice religion anymore with a heart and conscience rather than hurting other people because a man from many centuries ago told us that’s what God told him? 3 Likes
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Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by Gerrard59(m): 1:27pm On Jun 29 |
Proserpina: Islam is a very conservative religion. Adherents need to know what they are in for. Islam is not Christianity. In fact, Islam is the major reason Northern Christians are more conservative than their counterparts in the south. Point 2. Let's say you go into partnership with a very good friend of yours to start a business on a 40-60 profit sharing percentage. After 14 years of sacrifice and labour and the business is finally paying off your friend decided bring in another partner who will invest little to nothing but share your 40% profit with you.Note your friend brings in this new partner not for financial/ business contributions but for personal reasons. How would you genuinely feel? Accept it without making any fuss? To make this more relatable, Partnership= Marriage, A good friend of yours = Jarius , Business= Home/Family , New partner= Second wife. I hope you understand why women don't easily accept second wives even if they had been told before they were born. Unfortunately, in this case, religion is not a business. A business is bounded by legal documents which can be challenged in a court of law. Religion is static, especially for a conservative religion such as Islam. A business partnership gives one the right of refusal, and if not honoured can be challenged in court. Is it a Sharia Court that would prevent a rich Muslim man from marrying a second wife? I have met a Senegalese Muslim who is married to a Japanese woman. Before marrying, he told her she would have to convert to Islam and be prepared to accept him marrying a second or third wife if need be. She agreed and is a Muslim as I write. If tomorrow, she objects to him marrying another wife, that is being dishonest. Agreement is agreement. If you don't like the agreement, don't sign the documents. According to some account online, J's first wife had been there for him when he had nothing. He mentioned a case of selling her gold to celebrate a festival or something. That shows how much this woman loves and sacrifice for her husband, are you saying she shouldn't have gone that far and held some of her love, support and kindness since she's aware a new wife would join later so she won't get hurt? . Maybe y'all don't see the implications of what you type here. Here's your logic. "As a Muslim woman don't be 100% devoted to your husband because he is not for you alone" She was offered compensation. Jarus is not the first Muslim man who had nothing and later married another woman. If Muslim women don't like that arrangement, they should not marry Muslim men. How is this hard? They have a choice. Nobody is stopping them. I gave an example of Korean women. In return, Korean men aren't marrying as well. I see both J and wife are very advanced in age. They are from the time where genuine love and companionship exist instead of them to cherish that, they want a 22 year old faargin to ruin what they have. Lol Their choice really... I don't care. My problem is , don't downplay a woman's feelings and emotions because you believe a religion gives you the permission to be selfish. She's right to object and hurt. If you want to exercise your Islamic right do it when you had nothing so you all can build together. That's my grouse. Yes, she has the right to be hurt, but not use juju when he hates it. She is a Muslim woman. If she does not like what Islam does in that aspect, change to another religious belief. BTW, marrying a second wife is WAY better than carrying side chicks upandown like Odanz who is now a WAZOBIA womaniser. The problem here is that modern day women don't understand or want to accept the men's biology. 3 Likes |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by 1Sharon(f): 1:27pm On Jun 29 |
islamics: All it takes for a Muslim man to divorce his wife is at talaq 3 times and poof, he's now single. Why does a Muslim woman need to go jump through all these hoops? Where is the justice? Who is this truly benefitting? 1 Like |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by Gerrard59(m): 1:29pm On Jun 29 |
cococandy: Again, Ms Coco, that is the business of Muslims. I am not a Muslim neither are you one. Muslims who wants to change/reform Islam are free to do so. Non-Muslims who want to the same should convert to Islam. Reformists within Christianity reformed Christianity. Muslim reformers should do so, not outsiders. 3 Likes |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by cococandy(f): 1:31pm On Jun 29 |
Gerrard59: If he can do what she hates, she can as well do what he hates I thought you don’t like hypocrisy 5 Likes |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by DonroxyII: 1:32pm On Jun 29 |
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Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by descarado: 1:33pm On Jun 29 |
Gerrard59:Tell the Nigerian police that's already neck deep in the matter that one. He use im mouth talk say im beat his wife. Goodluck to him Punch newspaper don carry the matter too. Wonder how much he has in his account that you considered him rich. And b3cuase he is rich according to you, he can beat his wife. What a fish brain 8 Likes |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by DonroxyII: 1:41pm On Jun 29 |
absoluteSuccess:May Your Brain Be Honoured as I'm Tired of African Entitlement Mentality! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by ThothHermes: 1:43pm On Jun 29 |
Sapasenator:I can't even begin to explain how retard.ed this comment is. How cringeworthy. 2 Likes |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by cococandy(f): 1:46pm On Jun 29 |
Gerrard59:Obviously it’s their business But I’m referring to your post of supporting what people do if their religion permits it. Would you support a Christian slave owner? Clearly Christianity permits it. Why are you cherry picking which religion you’ll support? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by Iamblessed85: 1:47pm On Jun 29 |
PrinceofAgoAre: Another angle. What if she is FatherChristmas? |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by DonroxyII: 1:47pm On Jun 29 |
jaybee3: You Understand The Context So Better !! Many Men Wrecked the Life of Their wives, Children & Families simply because of some Provisions that Has Been Washed away to Time! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by Gerrard59(m): 1:48pm On Jun 29 |
descarado: NOTHING WILL HAPPEN. If you don't like it, go and sue him in court. When she climbed on his head nko? What if he died? Are you saying he has no right to defend himself? See, this is the innate dishonesty I hate in Nigerians and the hypocrisy of so-called modern women. You are seeing A and calling it B. This is a Yoruba Muslim who says he wants a second wife and the first wife objected. He placated her, which she refused. Is he the first Yoruba Muslim man to seek another wife? When she was doing juju in his house nko? Call me Fish Brain whatever, but NOTHING WILL HAPPEN TO HIM. He is entitled to FOUR WIVES as a MUSLIM man. If you don't like it, go to hell! Who the fvck do you think you are to dictate to a RICH (yes, he's rich!) Yoruba Muslim man to marry? Huh?! Are you a Muslim? What do you know about Islam? Look, if it pains you so much, book a ticket to MMIA. It is six hours from the UK where you reside. Go to the courts to challenge a Muslim man from marrying another wife. Do it! Make Islam proud! Imagine the temerity! If nothing happened to Bebex, NOTHING WILL HAPPEN TO JARUS! Period! 5 Likes |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by Omoawoke: 1:49pm On Jun 29 |
hyzich: Women have serious problem walahi! Women are naturally full of envy and cannot tolerate the thoughts of another woman sharing their gbola with them, and the natural order is for a male to copulate as many female as possible. That’s why one single male can fertilize an entire army of females, it’s all natural. Women should stop unnecessary jealousy and learn to share |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by Tightpussy2024(f): 1:50pm On Jun 29 |
Gerrard59:That is why I said he will be made to compensate his wife heavily. I don't see that woman parting with less than 10m and a property. She should re-package herself and remarry( in Islam women can remarry as much, even grand mothers). Las las na gold diggers win the game of love . good woman no dey pay.mistresses are living better than wife . since time immemorial. A side chick gave Nigeria the name we have . this women are trained, groomed from birth. Target top 20% of men in your youth, extract money from them and give your generation unborn a good life. They will refuse , with the "but no man will marry me after being the mistress or baby mama to rich man". Even if you don't want to go that route, become a fifth wife to a rich man. At least when he leaves you for a younger woman when your time expires , it will not pain you, because you didn't build. Why are ned nwokos wife not complaining? Because they didn't build. Just as you men believe that not all women deserve commitment, not all men should procreate . These dustys of men should not be given a chance to procreate. Me? Waste my youth and money to build then another woman will come and enjoy? Similar to raising another man seed than having the real father come to claim. Naija women wise up. Package yourselves, tosh up . don't ignore your hypergamous nature with the hope of men ignoring their polygamous nature. That dirt-poor guy you are struggling with,is too poor to avoid polygamy. Let small change enter his hand and he will suddenly notice your stretch marks. You will suddenly find them in the DMs of girls they spend their youth criticizing . Who are the women men are importing as second wives nowadays? You think it is the virtuous women they always applaud ? It is those hard gold diggers,hook up girls with plastic butts, divorcees and single moms! Are men not paying the school fees of divorcees and single mothers children while their wives are struggling to collect money from them? A word is enough for the wise. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 1:51pm On Jun 29 |
Iamblessed85:they seem to be both nutjobs . I wouldn't ignore the possibility though.. 1 Like |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by Iamblessed85: 1:56pm On Jun 29 |
yewit37486: DV is wrong but a victim is not an angel either. Question is, what did she do to provoke such a peace loving guy into violence? Can you imagine how it made Jarus feel to have to go to such extent? I think he is even the real victim here. Do i support that he put his hands on her? NO Do i think he was instigated into doing so? YES Do i believe he has it in him to be a wife beater? NO Do i think the issue of strange rituals carried out by the wife is weightier than the DV? YES Would i ever be able to live with such a woman again? NO Meanwhile, i hope you know this issue of visiting talismen is very common with women? The average woman or her Mum knows all the spiritualists in town. What do they gain from such wickedness? Lastly, if Jarus were your brother or son, wouldn’t you be happy that the evil woman has been exposed before you reprimand him for hitting her? |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by Gerrard59(m): 1:56pm On Jun 29 |
cococandy: I do not support slavery in any form neither based on religion because in Christianity, my religion, it has been outlawed. By whom? Christians. Muslims should do whatever they want in Islam. It is their religion. I respect their right to do what they want provided it is legal in the country. In the country's constitution, it is permissible to marry more than one wife as a Muslim. In fact, in parts of Delta where Christianity is the dominant religion, three wives are permissible. Marrying another wife is not a criminal offence. I have outlined solutions to the main issue. Korean women are doing theirs. Nigerian women or American women did not tell them what they to do. Muslim women should do what they want. They have the right to choose, just as their men. I will always support people's legal choices. I don't have to like you, but I will support your right to choose. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by cococandy(f): 2:01pm On Jun 29 |
No. slavery hasn’t been outlawed by Christianity. Slavery was outlawed by the secular state. The government which is separate from the church outlawed slavery . It wasn’t done on a religious basis. Bigamy which is the act of marrying more than one wife is also outlawed by the secular state but people like you make excuses for Muslims who practice an illegal act simply because their religion permits it. As if their religion comes above the law of the land.But Christian religion doesn’t. What you’re saying is the same as when someone reads the law against owning slaves and then turns around to say they support a Christian doing it because their religion permits it. You really don’t have an argument. We made a law but chose to exclude Muslims because we’re afraid they’ll rise up in violence But the law against slavery will pertain to Christians because obviously people like you only support Muslims right to choose. Lol Gerrard59: 3 Likes
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Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by Beremx(f): 2:02pm On Jun 29 |
Omoawoke:would you advise your dad to take another wife while your mother is still alive? You think it's only women that are jealous? Children from the first wife are also jealous. Anything you can't do, don't advise someone else to do it. I mean, why wouldn't women be jealous? Why? 7 Likes |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by cococandy(f): 2:03pm On Jun 29 |
You can’t be serious Iamblessed85: 5 Likes |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by Tightpussy2024(f): 2:04pm On Jun 29 |
descarado:Let them be deceiving themselves. They will call burning of blasphemers barbaric, amputation of theives and castration of rapists backward . But when is polygamy , they agree with their religion. A Muslim woman is allowed to have sex and remarry 3 months after her husband death. If a man confesses to child rape, in sharia court he is to be stoned to death. Its not your wife duty to cook or take care of your home ( that explain why you see the men going to market to shop), all she owes you is children, finish. That is why their women don't age fast. You will see a grandma slaying. The aforementioned will sound unpalatable to the average non- Muslim man but only polygamy they wholly accept. Islam in my opinion is the fairest religion to women. How many misogynists or redpillers are Muslims? How many come online to call women damaged goods or used products or whhoess? Christian men will not emulate them in those aspect only in polygamy. Cc: cococandy, gerrard59 |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by yewit37486: 2:04pm On Jun 29 |
Iamblessed85: Lots of DV sympathizers outing themselves in this case. Carry on. 5 Likes |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by Iamblessed85: 2:06pm On Jun 29 |
cococandy: 1. What Jarus represents at his best moments is way more impactful than the damage he has done at his worst. How have you impacted your immediate society other than rallying fellow women to seen themselves as victims of men? Do you know what the guy has done for people and the society at large? 2. A ritualist is 100x worse than someone who hit a woman. This is why it is easy for me to ignore the DV part. 3. If he were your Son or brother, would you honestly be happy with that woman? Which would bother you more, the fact he hit her (not in a life threatening way oo) or the fact she has a shrine in her house? 4. Yes she is entitled to her religion but that was not the agreement at the time of marriage. He would not have wifed her if he knew she is a diabolically inclined person. I’m not against her religion, but I am aggressively against her practicing it deceitfully. 5. How would you react if you discover that your own husband is giving spiritualists your personal info? 6. If your husband were to decide to marry again, would u recourse to ritualists? Notice how i’m trying to personalize this so that i can help you view this without the lens of gender. To you, it’s a random monicker or male but to someone else, it’s their friend/brother/son 2 Likes |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by Omoawoke: 2:07pm On Jun 29 |
Beremx: Hmmmm, Isokay |
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