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Re: Sir Jarus Arrested For Beating His Wife by advocatejare(m): 6:24pm On Jul 03 |
shortgun:Thank you. Wife beating is Islamic "Narrated Umar ibn al-Khattab: The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: A man will not be asked as to why he beat his wife. Sunan Abu Dawud 11:2142 "Men are the maintainers of women because Allah has made some of them to excel others and because they spend out of their property; the good women are therefore obedient, guarding the unseen as Allah has guarded; and (as to) those on whose part you fear desertion, admonish them, and leave them alone in the sleeping-places and beat them; then if they obey you, do not seek a way against them; surely Allah is High, Great." -Quran 4:34 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Sir Jarus Arrested For Beating His Wife by yinkeys(m): 6:24pm On Jul 03 |
FaceTanke:Lol I hope she’s skilled enough to cater for the children if they separate This dent on the man’s reputation will/could affect the family’s income Office politics exists Shortsightedness is bad when making decisions Heard she was going to a witch doctor to spiritually tie her husband People get mind o ![]() Is second wife not better than side chick ? 2 Likes |
Re: Sir Jarus Arrested For Beating His Wife by descarado: 6:26pm On Jul 03 |
absoluteSuccess:Thank you. 1 Like |
Re: Sir Jarus Arrested For Beating His Wife by descarado: 6:29pm On Jul 03 |
advocatejare:Well, Nigeria is a secular state and part of UN. That solves it. We also have laws for wife beater. Any beater be it man to man, man to woman, woman to woman, woman to man or adult to children 3 Likes |
Re: Sir Jarus Arrested For Beating His Wife by absoluteSuccess: 6:31pm On Jul 03 |
advocatejare: Sapasenator: Ooni Of Ife wrote the precept of Ifa that says "okan soso lobinrin dunmo nile oko?" From the first quote, its also sunah to beat your wife, do you? 2 Likes |
Re: Sir Jarus Arrested For Beating His Wife by advocatejare(m): 6:33pm On Jul 03 |
absoluteSuccess:I don’t beat my own wife because I’m not bound by Sunnah or the Quran but those who are under the sharia law and who hold the Quran and sunnah as religious books and laws are committing no crime if they beat their wives |
Re: Sir Jarus Arrested For Beating His Wife by advocatejare(m): 6:36pm On Jul 03 |
descarado:Are you aware that Nigeria is also part of the Organisation of Islamic Cooperation (OIC) ? |
Re: Sir Jarus Arrested For Beating His Wife by Beremx(f): 6:37pm On Jul 03 |
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Re: Sir Jarus Arrested For Beating His Wife by Sapasenator: 6:40pm On Jul 03 |
absoluteSuccess: It depends if you are in a Muslim country governed by sharia in which case it may be Sunnah/legal to beat your wife. Notice I am talking about the legality here in relation to your question. Now for Nigeria, the law is the constitution, and beating of wife is considered an assault which is prosecutable under the Nigerian penal code. I the two cases above, I would never beat a woman under any circumstances except my life is in danger and I am using extreme measures to defend myself. |
Re: Sir Jarus Arrested For Beating His Wife by absoluteSuccess: 6:41pm On Jul 03 |
advocatejare: Sure I know, I'm only using you post as citation for my brother, at least he can't go cherrypicking from the Almighty Allah's commandments. 3 Likes |
Re: Sir Jarus Arrested For Beating His Wife by descarado: 6:42pm On Jul 03 |
advocatejare:UN declaration against domestic violence supercedes whatever. Nigerian is part and parcel of it. Nigerian constitution is against it. I'm sure if I check well, OIC is against domestic violence too. Just stop, you make no sense defending domestic violence based on religion. It's disgusting. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sir Jarus Arrested For Beating His Wife by IyaTola: 6:43pm On Jul 03 |
Maxtipulation: ![]() |
Re: Sir Jarus Arrested For Beating His Wife by Lucasinho(m): 6:46pm On Jul 03 |
Shevchenkko: Two of those ways? |
Re: Sir Jarus Arrested For Beating His Wife by Sapasenator: 6:47pm On Jul 03 |
descarado: "No child of polygamous home is happy. None. It's all about the greediness of the father that don't love his children." Be careful what you say my friend as your assertions above dwell in the realms of the absolutes. All I have to do is show you just one happy polygamous home and your argument is easily disproved. On the other hand, I can also show you thousands of monogamous homes that are very misreable. 3 Likes |
Re: Sir Jarus Arrested For Beating His Wife by Maxtipulation(m): 6:49pm On Jul 03 |
IyaTola: I take that as a yes because you can speak up as a Yoruba lady you don't have mind of your own You are waiting for your mum or your kinsmen to say jump before you jump ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Sir Jarus Arrested For Beating His Wife by absoluteSuccess: 6:49pm On Jul 03 |
Sapasenator: My brother, our law dares Allah if it alienate wife beating, and by so doing we are never a slave of the Arabs or any Semitic laws. Remember that the Arabs were mushriks, (illiterates), when the Yoruba actually have a system of social guidance that passes as law from time, in form of ifa, which predates the advent of Islam in Yoruba land. Now listen to what Yoruba proverbs says: "obinrin re seo, won nbe o loo nii gbo, se o fe kan an loogun ni" (your woman offended you, they are begging you and you refuse to listen, do you want to use a weapon on her?) So, touching a woman is as good as using a weapon on her or lying against her that she's using a charm on you. If you wont beat a woman, you are not a good companion because you are only picking the option that will make you look good to the next woman on your list of marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Sir Jarus Arrested For Beating His Wife by papyjaypaul: 6:51pm On Jul 03 |
dchamp234: I disagree with you on this. What you describe here is an animal. Even when we dey primary school dat time, we go de abuse girls say na mouth dem get to provoke, your friends go abuse you if you follow woman fight. Wetin u de talk ![]() I fit say man go lose temper but never ever justify beating women. Men no de do dat thing. Na 1 of the first things dem go teach u when u wan reason woman mata. Their mouth sharp but no fall for am Persin wey u go do kerewa for night, u com de beat am. How u wan take enjoy am ![]() ![]() ![]() 3 Likes
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Re: Sir Jarus Arrested For Beating His Wife by descarado: 6:52pm On Jul 03 |
advocatejare:I read just now where OIC secretary General is preaching against violence to women. Search for it. The world has moved on, move with it. It's very hard to let go of once held custom but if that custom is not progressive, it should be abolished. In tge western world, concubines ruled. Nigeria was a name given to us by a concubine. But concubine is as evil as it can be so it was abolished by them. Christianity has its flaws also but they let go of so many ills. During the time of the bible and Koran, lots of things were normal then, but now they cannot be tolerated. In the next 60 yrs or less, I am sure that the generation then will outlaw what we see as right and good today. That is how progressive society works. T 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Sir Jarus Arrested For Beating His Wife by Sapasenator: 6:57pm On Jul 03 |
absoluteSuccess: I agree with you. There is no reason to raise your hands on a woman. That is even considered criminal by most laws and I do not condone or advocate that position by any means. I never saw my dad beat my mom for one single day and do not support violence in any way. I do not beat a woman, wife, child or a man. I am a strong advocate in communication and dialogue to resolve conflicts. 3 Likes |
Re: Sir Jarus Arrested For Beating His Wife by Rilwayne001: 6:58pm On Jul 03 |
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Re: Sir Jarus Arrested For Beating His Wife by seunmsg(m): 6:59pm On Jul 03 |
helinues: With what I’ve seen so far, it’s better to have an enemy than a friend like seun. Jarus is not even under arrest. He was simply invited by the police but Seun and nlfpmod quickly moved this to front page without any confirmation. To what end? A former moderator who still promote the forum for that matter. 2 Likes |
Re: Sir Jarus Arrested For Beating His Wife by NaijaMemes: 7:01pm On Jul 03 |
Rilwayne001: Another Jarus crew member. Is that all you can post? Awon wife beater polygamist crew... 3 Likes |
Re: Sir Jarus Arrested For Beating His Wife by HellVictorinho6(m): 7:02pm On Jul 03 |
Sapasenator: How far bro |
Re: Sir Jarus Arrested For Beating His Wife by Sapasenator: 7:03pm On Jul 03 |
HellVictorinho6: A no forget my G. In couple of hours when I get home. |
Re: Sir Jarus Arrested For Beating His Wife by helinues: 7:04pm On Jul 03 |
seunmsg: People were attacking me earlier. If Seun did not put mouth in the case, it wouldn't have gained attention |
Re: Sir Jarus Arrested For Beating His Wife by absoluteSuccess: 7:06pm On Jul 03 |
Sapasenator: Thanks very much dear brother. religion must bring out the best in us, not the worst. Either the indigenous or the foreign one. There are many flaws we have to abandon to move forward. But that notwithstanding, it never means modern man is less crazy, but that at least, we should get it right, family wise, or else the other crazy set of people will use that as an advantage for their pride. |
Re: Sir Jarus Arrested For Beating His Wife by Sapasenator: 7:08pm On Jul 03 |
absoluteSuccess: Thank you so much for your abundance of wisdom. Yoruba says "Agba ki wa'loja kori omo tutun wo" 1 Like |
Re: Sir Jarus Arrested For Beating His Wife by helinues: 7:10pm On Jul 03 |
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Re: Sir Jarus Arrested For Beating His Wife by absoluteSuccess: 7:13pm On Jul 03 |
Sapasenator: You are welcome dear brother, Oluwa a tunbo fun gbogbo wa ni aseyori, oye ati ogbon pelu imo, nitori wipe oye ni akoko, leyin oye ni imo, leyin imo ni ogbon. Gege bi awon Musulumi ti maa nso wipe, "imo lo ladinni, ogbon o gbe", babanla otito ni, ko seese ka gbe oko fun enikan lati wa nitori pe ologbon ni. Ti ko ba ni imo, afaimo ko ma si iyonu. A maa juse fun wa, ase. |
Re: Sir Jarus Arrested For Beating His Wife by Sapasenator: 7:14pm On Jul 03 |
absoluteSuccess: Ase ba mi! 1 Like |
Re: Sir Jarus Arrested For Beating His Wife by Bbyshare: 7:18pm On Jul 03 |
TableLeg: You are correct |
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