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Re: How Nature Humbled My Stance On Redpill by Negroid001(m): 6:26pm On Jul 01
xeju:
If you did little biology, you'll understand that African lionesses take charge of hunting & caring for the pride. So also spotted hyenas, African elephants, lemurs, bonobos, etc. Nature doesn't support your view as you claim you think

Contrary to what popular belief. Male lions hunt too. Though their main responsibility is protecting their territory.
Re: How Nature Humbled My Stance On Redpill by Negroid001(m): 6:26pm On Jul 01
lexxybb:

Let's see the picture of the completed nest. If not...

grin
Phone camera ain't clear
Re: How Nature Humbled My Stance On Redpill by Negroid001(m): 6:27pm On Jul 01
Akuruoulo:

Who told you that the one bringing twigs is the male , while the one making the nest is female?
Ur mumu no too much?

U just rush to rubbish redpill that u know nothing about.
Ur simping is on another level.
U learn this from ur home

So na male dey sit on top eggs?
Mayberry it's a gay male like you lol
Re: How Nature Humbled My Stance On Redpill by Negroid001(m): 6:28pm On Jul 01
fineberry:
let have....let have !

@Op I promise you; your tears will be premium after ladies/girls of nowadays finish with you. I pity you in advance bro.

Bro. Me sef ya were gaan.
I'm just playing it safe
Re: How Nature Humbled My Stance On Redpill by Negroid001(m): 6:29pm On Jul 01
Akuruoulo:

U are a full time over pampered simp .
What have redpill to do with this crap u wrote?
Calling you a weak simp is a big time hype

Ok sir, Mr alufaa male.
Re: How Nature Humbled My Stance On Redpill by Negroid001(m): 6:30pm On Jul 01
ukaface:



Awwn so sweet of you

Something is going on.
This redpill shi is making men hate women.
I'm very sure it's a gay person that started it.
Re: How Nature Humbled My Stance On Redpill by Negroid001(m): 6:30pm On Jul 01
ItisWell22:


Flesh and blood did not reveal this to you. šŸ™Œ

The emboldened has always been my take about this who misogyny-misandry bullshitā€¦

Exactly bro
Re: How Nature Humbled My Stance On Redpill by Negroid001(m): 6:33pm On Jul 01
10thTenthMan:





So this is basically instinct. The birds are acting based on instinct. Instinct in Animals. There are animal species who also birth and abandon their mates and even their young. There is the argument that those who are R-Selected species birth large offspring and are generally small and fast growing and hence evolution has created this instinct in them. While the K-Selected organisms like Homo Sapiens, Chimps, Blue Whales, Dolphins, Bird species, etc are slow growing, live in more stable environments and produce offspring they can give a lot of care to to increase their chances of success and survival.

Humans and K-Selected species have instinct and (higher) intelligence especially because we possess the ability to store and transmit and transfer information, wisdom and knowledge and can think in a multi variate manner.

IN MY OPINION HUMANS OF TODAY ARE SUFFERING FROM THEIR OWN ā€œINTELLIGENCEā€. Denying what they are supposed to do, and accepting what they are not supposed to. A woman hears that a man broke the heart of another woman, and bam she says she will not mow same happen to her, despite the instinct in her telling her to date, get married and bear children. Same thing happens to men who are driven by instinct of mating with as many women as possible. They refuse to use intelligence to control this urge in the society of today. Forgetting their life expectancy reduces with uncontrollable sexual desires and activities.


Both instinct and intelligence need to be properly used and deployed. Humans have instinct and Humans have Intelligence.
- Instinct is the go forth and procreate urge in men.
-Instinct is the feel the urge to have sex during ovulation.
-Instinct is Kill your fellow man and take his possessions if you are more powerful.
-Instinct is look for and accept the flashiest and richest man in the society
-Instinct is someone mistakenly steps on your toe and you shove and push and punch the person. Reacting like an animal would.

I can give you many other instinctive responses and reactions. But the above are enough. Intelligence is realizing that instinct (at time and many times) in todays world might produce the wrong Results and outcomes.

Apply instinct as a fuel and motivating factor for hustling and creating value and survival. It will help you for your instinct to be sharp. And when it comes to using intelligence to override instinct , do so with thought and think actions and responses through. There are always exceptions to applying instinct and/or intelligence.

Within our own species and the intelligence we gather and our instinct, HUMAN SPECIES THRIVE BETTER WHEN the Female focuses all or most of her strength in Child raising and family unit catering and management. Decision makers and policy makers (if not driven by commercial greed) should encourage a society where the females whether with a career or not spend more time in taking care of the family unit while the male folk do the main hustling.

Some men argue that when a woman is economically independent she becomes haughty, hard headed and difficult to tell what to do. While this may be true, pick your mates wisely. Ensure she is someone who will show ultimate respect and regard for you regardless of her personal wealth. And regardless of her personal wealth, also play your role AS THE MAN and Work hard and provide the best you can.

Woah. Lengthy one. Had to take my time to read through. I took some major points into consideration. We can create a new thread and discuss this.
Re: How Nature Humbled My Stance On Redpill by Negroid001(m): 6:34pm On Jul 01
Benwallt:


Another man go fvck your wife tire with this your mentality. You dey compare animal kingdom with that of human. Depression go hold you when you found out the so called woman you laboured for is being chopped by your dry cleaner.

If I happened to be that male bird, after risking my to get the twig n d female discarded it like that, I will pluck more than a hundred feathers from body

Why are you so insecure? grin

Bro walai you funny o. Make i no lie. Especially the part where you said she'll be chopped by dry cleaner.
God no go let me jam that kin woman.

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Re: How Nature Humbled My Stance On Redpill by Negroid001(m): 6:36pm On Jul 01
femi4:
The only thing that baffles me is your ability to identify or differentiate between the male and the female pigeon

She was incubating eggs.
Re: How Nature Humbled My Stance On Redpill by ItisWell22(f): 7:04pm On Jul 01
Negroid001:


Exactly bro
Re: How Nature Humbled My Stance On Redpill by Negroid001(m): 7:07pm On Jul 01
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Um?
Re: How Nature Humbled My Stance On Redpill by ukaface(f): 8:49pm On Jul 01
Negroid001:


Something is going on.
This redpill shi is making men hate women.
I'm very sure it's a gay person that started it.
hmmmmmmmm

Na true oooo
Re: How Nature Humbled My Stance On Redpill by femi4: 9:44pm On Jul 01
Negroid001:


She was incubating eggs.
And that automatically made the other pigeon a male because e no dey ontop eggs
Re: How Nature Humbled My Stance On Redpill by LordReed(m): 9:53pm On Jul 01
Negroid001:


She was incubating eggs.

In some animal species it's the male that incubates the eggs. For example:
Emus
Cassowaries
Emperor penguins
Jacanas
Dotterels
Phalaropes
Re: How Nature Humbled My Stance On Redpill by FRANCISTOWN: 10:07pm On Jul 01
VTJN:
Redpill only exist on social media truly. My cousin sister got a gift (human hair) from her guy. 450k hair. Although he earn well where he works, he also bought her iphone 15 and lots of goodies. I believe it's only broke guys that talk about Redpill. I have never seen a single guy with money and doesn't spend on his babe. I never see

Like I've said. It's tomfoolery and stupidity at it's peak to use your own personal experience to judge everyone's lifestyle.

You said you've never seen a single guy with money who doesn't spend on his babe. The thing here is, there are about 8billion people on the planet, about 200Million people in the country. Since the time you were born up till right now. You've never had even the littlest "good morning" or "excuse me" with more than 50,000 people. Yet you are using 50,000 people from the same set of data to judge a distribution that is really spread out of about 8billion people.

People are different and culture is different, I guess you're unexposed and you've not been outside the shores of Nigeria. In some countries, their men literally do nothing and the women feed them. In some countries the women pay dowry. But all the men you've seen pay bride price, but the reverse is the case elsewhere.

You yourself, sit down and ask yourself whether what you said makes sense or not.

There are many rich men who are very stingy, even to their wives.
This is the mistake people make, giving is not according to what you have in your hands, it's according to what you have in your heart.
Some broke girls even finance their rich boyfriends' lifestyle. It's all about who you are and what you have upstairs.

Your cousin sister or whoever's boyfriend can decide to do whatever he wants with his money. It's no one's cup of tea.
But saying guys who don't spend on women are broke is a statement of foolishness from a stupid man.

I'm far from being broke and surviving. I'm extremely blessed and being comfortable is an understatement. Yet I've never spent a dime on any lady I'm in a romantic relationship with in the last 10years.

Well, people can't say what's higher than what they have in their brain.

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Re: How Nature Humbled My Stance On Redpill by VTJN(m): 10:20pm On Jul 01
FRANCISTOWN:


Like I've said. It's tomfoolery and stupidity at it's peak to use your own personal experience to judge everyone's lifestyle.

You said you've never seen a single guy with money who doesn't spend on his babe. The thing here is, there are about 8billion people on the planet, about 200Million people on the planet. Since the time you were born up till right now. You've never had even the littlest "good morning" or "excuse me" with more than 50,000 people. Yet you are using 50,000 people from the same set of data to judge a distribution that is really spread out of about 8billion people.

People are different and culture is different, I guess you're unexposed and you've not been outside the shores of Nigeria. In some countries, their men literally do nothing and the women feeds them, in some countries the women pay dowry. But all the men you've seen pay bride price, but the reverse is the case elsewhere.

You yourself, sit down and ask yourself whether what you said makes sense or not.

There are many rich men who are very stingy, even to their wives.
This is the mistake people make, giving is not according to what you have in your hands, it's according to what you have in your heart.
Some broke girls even finance their rich boyfriend's lifestyle. It's all about who you are and what you have upstairs.

Your cousin sister or whoever's boyfriend can decide to do whatever he wants with his money. It's no one's cup of tea.
But saying guys who don't spend on women are broke is a statement of foolishness from a stupid man.

I'm far from being broke and surviving. I'm extremely blessed and being comfortable is an understatement. Yet I've never spent a dime on any lady I'm in a romantic relationship with in the last 10years.

Well, people can't say what's higher than what they have in their brain.
Only dead BROKE men don't spend on women, after all they got nothing to spend. I can't imagine this life without women. I can't imagine having money and not spending on women. God forbid.
Re: How Nature Humbled My Stance On Redpill by MIKOLOWISKA: 4:13am On Jul 02
Negroid001:
Was relaxing on my verandah sometime last week and i witnessed something that had me thinking up till this moment.

For over 2 days a particular pigeon had been visiting my compound and i dismissed it in my subconscious as nothing peculiar. This particular morning though, the pigeon swooped in again, hopped here and there and in one crazy frenzy picked up a piece of discarded rubber material and took off. My eyes followed it and surprisingly it's destination wasn't far, it flew to a piece of erected metal beam opposite my house, curiosity got the better of me and i stood up and observed.
Behold, it had been picking up twigs and sorts for it's partner. The partner was building a nest, and when it arrived she collected the piece of rubber material from the male, tried fitting it in the nest and threw it away when it didn't fit. The male flew took off immediately to get another twig. I somehow forgot about the incident not until this morning i can see both lovebirds cuddled up in a complete nest.

Bam! It hit. Epiphany or whatever you call it. Men are naturally built to be providers and women are home makers.

Don't know what's wrong with this generation and the hype about being woke with women shi. Sounds like a homosexual propaganda to me.
I love women, smart ones, beautiful ones, every one...

It's my duty to provide for the woman i love with what i have at my disposal and it's her responsibility to support me. Together we shall make our abode a Haven. Simple...

Any other thing? Na una sabi.
I'm not weak, neither am i lazy.
I only go women that have interest in me.
I don't simp.

But say i no go provide, that one na lie.
you will learn the hard way, like fools do
Re: How Nature Humbled My Stance On Redpill by BluntCrazeMan: 9:54am On Jul 02
Negroid001:
Was relaxing on my verandah sometime last week and i witnessed something that had me thinking up till this moment.

For over 2 days a particular pigeon had been visiting my compound and i dismissed it in my subconscious as nothing peculiar. This particular morning though, the pigeon swooped in again, hopped here and there and in one crazy frenzy picked up a piece of discarded rubber material and took off. My eyes followed it and surprisingly it's destination wasn't far, it flew to a piece of erected metal beam opposite my house, curiosity got the better of me and i stood up and observed.
Behold, it had been picking up twigs and sorts for it's partner. The partner was building a nest, and when it arrived she collected the piece of rubber material from the male, tried fitting it in the nest and threw it away when it didn't fit. The male flew took off immediately to get another twig. I somehow forgot about the incident not until this morning i can see both lovebirds cuddled up in a complete nest.

Bam! It hit. Epiphany or whatever you call it. Men are naturally built to be providers and women are home makers.

Don't know what's wrong with this generation and the hype about being woke with women shi. Sounds like a homosexual propaganda to me.
I love women, smart ones, beautiful ones, every one...

It's my duty to provide for the woman i love with what i have at my disposal and it's her responsibility to support me. Together we shall make our abode a Haven. Simple...

Any other thing? Na una sabi.
I'm not weak, neither am i lazy.
I only go women that have interest in me.
I don't simp.

But say i no go provide, that one na lie.


I would love you to find a cock or a hen,, watch it closely -- (just the way you watched the pigeon) -- and then, try to learn similar things from its relationships too..

Then come back and tell us the things you learnt from the relationship-story of chickens..

..

Pigeons are pigeons.
Chickens are chickens.
HUMANS ARE HUMANS..
Re: How Nature Humbled My Stance On Redpill by FRANCISTOWN: 10:19am On Jul 02
VTJN:
Only dead BROKE men don't spend on women, after all they got nothing to spend. I can't imagine this life without women. I can't imagine having money and not spending on women. God forbid.
Well that's your reality sir.
I'd rather I spend my money buying Valentino shirts and putting it around my dog's necks rather than spending a shingbai on a woman except she's a relative.
Re: How Nature Humbled My Stance On Redpill by UrgentNeeds(m): 10:33am On Jul 02
In A Sane Society, The Man And Woman Provides And Are Also Responsible For Being Home Keepers For Themselves.

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Re: How Nature Humbled My Stance On Redpill by UrgentNeeds(m): 10:35am On Jul 02
BluntCrazeMan:


I would love you to find a cock or a hen,, watch it closely -- just the way you watched the pigeon -- and then, try to learn similar things from it too..

Then come back and tell us the things you learnt from the relationship-story of chickens..

..

Pigeons are pigeons.
Chickens are chickens.
HUMANS ARE HUMANS..


Correct.


Documentaries Expose Us To Lionesses Going To Hunt For The Lions Most Times.


So, Humans Aren't Pigeons And We Will Never Live like Them.... Our Rationalisms Are Very Different.

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Re: How Nature Humbled My Stance On Redpill by DonroxyII: 11:37am On Jul 02
Negroid001:
Was relaxing on my verandah sometime last week and i witnessed something that had me thinking up till this moment.

For over 2 days a particular pigeon had been visiting my compound and i dismissed it in my subconscious as nothing peculiar. This particular morning though, the pigeon swooped in again, hopped here and there and in one crazy frenzy picked up a piece of discarded rubber material and took off. My eyes followed it and surprisingly it's destination wasn't far, it flew to a piece of erected metal beam opposite my house, curiosity got the better of me and i stood up and observed.
Behold, it had been picking up twigs and sorts for it's partner. The partner was building a nest, and when it arrived she collected the piece of rubber material from the male, tried fitting it in the nest and threw it away when it didn't fit. The male flew took off immediately to get another twig. I somehow forgot about the incident not until this morning i can see both lovebirds cuddled up in a complete nest.

Bam! It hit. Epiphany or whatever you call it. Men are naturally built to be providers and women are home makers.

Don't know what's wrong with this generation and the hype about being woke with women shi. Sounds like a homosexual propaganda to me.
I love women, smart ones, beautiful ones, every one...

It's my duty to provide for the woman i love with what i have at my disposal and it's her responsibility to support me. Together we shall make our abode a Haven. Simple...

Any other thing? Na una sabi.
I'm not weak, neither am i lazy.
I only go women that have interest in me.
I don't simp.

But say i no go provide, that one na lie.
Redpill is a Mental Disorder!

Just Be a Man, an Odogwu, Nwoke-Oma Okunrin-Lada & You will be Owkay while Your wife/Wives/Girls/Ladies/Women Would Be In Their Rightful Feminine Places .... Then If Not, as a Man That has Tried his best just waka go front without complaining like parrots ...

Any Other Nonsense apart from being a Man, Na Mental Disorder!

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Re: How Nature Humbled My Stance On Redpill by DonroxyII: 11:40am On Jul 02
immortalcrown:
A nice writeup.

But the problem in this generation is entitlement mentality, not provision.

Provision is for basic needs and according to the provider's capacity.

Entitlement mentality amounts to greed and inconsideration.

Providing for a woman is different from satisfying a woman that feels entitled. Examples: buying her latest iPhone or latest hair is not provision, buying her cloth and shoes each time she is invited for ashebi is not provision.

It is a Trend not Entitlement Mentality...

That's part of what makes her to be woman by following trend/Vogue .... if you can't give her she will waka go front Except She Loves You For Other Aspects of Life or She is Well Trained From Good Home If Not ... She go waka... But if she can't get her taste ... she will waka come back to you ... grin

Just find the one within your budget cuz Provisions is 10x expensive unlike back in the days ... No kill yasef !
Re: How Nature Humbled My Stance On Redpill by DonroxyII: 11:43am On Jul 02
Afrobasic:
Oddly enough, I was watching a documentary on the BBC recently.

Some female lions went to hunt and caught a small deer. As they are about to feast on it, the male lion makes an appearance, roars, and they all left the meal for him. The male lion eats the whole meal, leaving the females hungry. Regardless, by morning, the next day, they were all loved up. (Really happened!)

Bam! It hit. Epiphany or whatever you call it. Women are naturally made to serve men! No questions asked.

Do you see how ridiculous it sounds to draw conclusions from nature?

Going philosophical, what you have done is to cherry-pick a scenario from nature that confirms your preconceptions about relationships. Look up confirmation-bias or selective-evidence-fallacy.

Until one day the lioness revolted against the lion & killed him ..

Or banished him away from the Pride ....

Keep watching šŸ‘€ šŸ™‚ šŸ˜Ž!
Re: How Nature Humbled My Stance On Redpill by DonroxyII: 11:44am On Jul 02
skywalker240:
Say for example

That Pigeon was trying to go back to get another twig after the obviously entitled she threw away the first one he brought, and on his way, one small tegoulo use catapult burst he head?

What the red pill is trying to say is,


You don't have to kill yourself to be acceptable in the face of women and the society.
This is just basic sense 101 ...
You don't need redpill to kill yasef for anybody nor anything!
Re: How Nature Humbled My Stance On Redpill by FRANKOSKI(m): 3:20pm On Jul 02
Negroid001:


Amen ooo. My brother

AMEN
Re: How Nature Humbled My Stance On Redpill by 9japride(m): 1:40am On Jul 03
Negroid001:
Was relaxing on my verandah sometime last week and i witnessed something that had me thinking up till this moment.

For over 2 days a particular pigeon had been visiting my compound and i dismissed it in my subconscious as nothing peculiar. This particular morning though, the pigeon swooped in again, hopped here and there and in one crazy frenzy picked up a piece of discarded rubber material and took off. My eyes followed it and surprisingly it's destination wasn't far, it flew to a piece of erected metal beam opposite my house, curiosity got the better of me and i stood up and observed.
Behold, it had been picking up twigs and sorts for it's partner. The partner was building a nest, and when it arrived she collected the piece of rubber material from the male, tried fitting it in the nest and threw it away when it didn't fit. The male flew took off immediately to get another twig. I somehow forgot about the incident not until this morning i can see both lovebirds cuddled up in a complete nest.

Bam! It hit. Epiphany or whatever you call it. Men are naturally built to be providers and women are home makers.

Don't know what's wrong with this generation and the hype about being woke with women shi. Sounds like a homosexual propaganda to me.
I love women, smart ones, beautiful ones, every one...

It's my duty to provide for the woman i love with what i have at my disposal and it's her responsibility to support me. Together we shall make our abode a Haven. Simple...

Any other thing? Na una sabi.
I'm not weak, neither am i lazy.
I only go women that have interest in me.
I don't simp.

But say i no go provide, that one na lie.
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It's only black American women that are the main people propagating wokeness.
They are very toxic. Are they the only women in America? It's unfortunate the younger ones listen to those toxic older ones.
I don't blame the men for going after Latin Americans, Asians or eastern European women.

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Re: How Nature Humbled My Stance On Redpill by FitCorper: 6:33am On Jul 04
Beverlyjean:


Do u even understand what he wrote ...he actually supports the redpill... the redpill movement is not hating women, its differentiating between the women that deserves to be provided and protected and the ones that don't deserve it ... imagine if that pigeon was getting those stuffs and the female pigeon is approached by another pigeon that have a full built nest and female pigeon leaves the one thats working had to provide for the one that has a well built nest ... that's what most women do these days ...simply shows that pigeons are even more loyal than most women... reason he said society is going down and he can't be a simp
Redpill I know of is all about self improvement and making yourself the center of your focus as a man, but the one being practiced on Nairaland which you and I know very well is all about shaming and hating women. As a man who desires to be in a relationship, you should know providing is important to gaining a womanā€™s submission. Relation between a man and a woman must involve an exchange and believe me money is the least of that, to me I consider my time and attention even more important than the money aspect. I am too focused on my self development that I need enough time be alone to rest and recharge myself for each day.
Re: How Nature Humbled My Stance On Redpill by FitCorper: 6:39am On Jul 04
BeautifulSmiles:


There is an intellectual discuss going on and you are shouting broke men. This is a public annanynous forum how do you ascertain those who are broke? If you exude high intellectual acumen you will understand that your point of reasoning is faulty and weak.

I have a mindset that whoever don't feel that withholding their resources from me doesn't deserve my resources, that is my greatest test for love and commitment in relationships. I strictly do symbiotic relationships, where the two parties have the mindset that giving of resources is not gender based and should never come from one party. In so doing I guard against thieves in form of women who use romance scam to siphon the money of men.

This has worked for me so far, the entitled women who think I am was born specifically to toil , make money and spend all my resources on them are discarded without a blink of my eyes. I don't believe I should worship the ground in which women walk on but we can mutually live together if both parties have same mindset for each other without having the subconsciousness of reaping and destroying the man on the way.

I'm am neither a red pill nor anything you guys call yourself as regards any herd mentality gmthat go on in the society because I hate herd mentality but still don't criticize anyone who deem it for to indulge in any. That I believe I don't need to waste any resources on anyone because she is a woman but on a woman who equally have that symbiotic mindset for me doesn't make me broke or anyone who calls themselves any names. I repeat no body knows anyone hear no need to blow each others trumpet for a non existent reason,, if you think you should squander all your resources on women doesn't make you richer than the one who think squandering their resources on women doesn't cut it.

Bros I donā€™t need to know anyoneā€™s worth here to decide their state, ā€œfrom the abundance of the heart the mouth speaksā€. Bitter truth is if you want a woman to be submissive to you, u must provide for her in a way, even independent women working still enjoy being spoiled by their man. Who wants to be foolish enough to spend his whole savings on a woman na dat man con sabi. 2021-2022 I was a staunch redpiller (Nairaland version), but when money enter hand I realize say na normal thing to de flex ur babe once once. To anyone reading this pls hustle o, so that u no go see sending girl little change as one kin big deal.
Re: How Nature Humbled My Stance On Redpill by FitCorper: 6:42am On Jul 04
maasoap:


Believing in redpill or being a redpiller doesn't mean that you can't marry a woman, living with a woman or providing for her. I'm a redpiller, I think. At least, I believe in it. And I'm married, providing for my wife. I don't even think I can live separately from her at this stage we are in our union. If I have to, for a reason, it is going to be a serious challenge for me. But I don't simp
Honestly bro we donā€™t even have to give it a tag. To me redpill, bluepill, any color pill is all rubbish. As a man just strive to be better all round than you were yesterday. Ditch this nonsense redpill and strive to become a better me. Make it ā€œme vs meā€.
Re: How Nature Humbled My Stance On Redpill by darediamond(m): 4:40am On Jul 08
Mayeldah:
Relationship requires that both partners contribute to its success, nothing like redpill or bluepill, just a balance is needed.

Yes, infatuation can make some silly men feed the entitlement mentality of some ladies but that shouldn't make a good man not to provide for a sensible woman to his capacity.

The problem of some men is that when they fall in love, they switch off their sense of reasoning, love your woman but don't take shit repeatedly from her, courtship is necessary to ascertain if a woman fits, after six months and she ain't changing, throw her away

Don't domesticate a hoe, a gold-digger or a lazy woman!

Life AND Direct!!!!!!

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