cococandy:
I love the organization. Someday in the future I’d love to spend part of my retirement volunteering with them.

Mtchewww....fishlips

HeatSeeker:


He is a Muslim. He is permitted to marry more than one wife, and also enforce discipline in his household. He should request to be tried according to Islamic law, the case will be quashed and thrown out the window.

You are right, his problem is that he is knowledgeable about Islamic law but ignorant of Lagos State law, next time, he will move to Zamfara before beating up his wife.
Make e chop beans small

That’s definitely not a woman. I’ve known for years and I commend him for putting up the act this long. It takes commitment and deep seated hatred for women to be able to do what he does

Biglittlelois:



Even a fool will know you are definitely not a woman, because no woman will say the rubbish you typed

He went to report himself to twitter folks on his own, yet you had to make it the wife's fault, tsinnanu.

SULBELL:

Haaaa!
Mama, bottle ke , no be efo riro or kanyamata dem dey use again
abeg how them dey do that one make i no fall victim o. Or who knows how many of us don dey inside bottle

I no sabi that one ooo but as men sabi fear juju e serve am right for beating her countless times. He should never have layed his hands on her. Never

HeatSeeker:


He is a Muslim. He is permitted to marry more than one wife, and also enforce discipline in his household. He should request to be tried according to Islamic law, the case will be quashed and thrown out the window.

So this is what your own Islam thought you?

Beverlyjean:
Jarus pls divorce that woman... she is out to ruin u ....

he should divorce her and marry you as third wife? Madam park well abeg.

Oniranu oshi!!!

Zonefree:

You still want to continue your wicked and extreme feminism even after retirement?

Are you saying this organization is extreme?

DeepSight:


Yes because Islamic Law permits wife beating - Sura 4:34.

Let him tell the court that abi you want to be hus lawyer?

cococandy:


Are you saying this organization is extreme?

I'm saying you practise extreme feminism.

Chikel20000:
Who's dis Jarus abi what name...why is dis issue disturbing our peace here?

He's one of the oldest Nairalanders.

Been there since the very beginning, I think. At least I met him here, and I've been here for over 14 years.

SULBELL:



This is loaded. more like saying something without saying anything.

Seun na sadist na abi you no know before?

cococandy:
The only reason why you guys are like this is because your moms and the women around you are international pick mes. They blame victims & make excuses for abusers and this is the end result.

Pick me women are dangerous to other women. In fact I’d say they are more dangerous than the abusive men. Abuse wouldn’t thrive without them.

They raise men like you guys who have never been told NO in your lives. And that makes you guys walk around with entitlement and inability to perceive women as equal humans.

What do they get in return, no respect no real heart felt love. You still come on the internet and insult them. And tell them the process of them risking their lives to create and birth you is nothing because goats do it too.

Shame on pick mes. And shame on me if I were to ever coddle a man because he’s my son.

Stop capping nonsense and be forming tiger online when you are a pussycat at home. Swear you have never endured abuse from your husband be it physical or emotional or that you have never abused him. You lots will be here claiming what you are not only to crawl back home and be ranting about your husband's anonymously in women forums. I know your type so I'm not fazed.

UjuJoan2:


He used to be a prominent Nairalander. Preaching to us and acting all holier than thou. Infact, he used to be one of the people they look up to here, like a role model. And we wonder why Nairaland deteriorated to a place where a bunch of women bashes and abusive psychopaths come to flex muscle!

He was a politics section moderator.

Beverlyjean:


Why dint she divorce him ...when he talked about a new wife... instead , she started doing juju

He should tell the court that. Social media is not law court.

But this woman knows that as a muslim her husband has right to marry additional wives

Beremx:
he should divorce her and marry you as third wife? Madam park well abeg.

Oniranu oshi!!!

Oniranu oshi too!!
Whatever it means

His name is "Suraj"
Suraj elepon blue Fe Fe iyawo tuntun.
Let's see if his Nupe yooba slav.e charge and bail lawyer will get him out on bail.

Seun:
It has never been my wish for any harm to befall Jarus.
I just wanted him to apologize for what he did and to be forgiven.

Now I can see why people take this personal. They react to what happened in their houses. This is how people who came from a divorced home respond. They take the trauma and think all marriages are doomed for failure when they see the pattern repeating. Again, I insist that Nigerians have a lot of growing up to do when it comes to people's personal lives. Some people grew up in slums where their dads were drinking and decided not to do it again. You do not need to repeat your dad or mom's cycle. This is why you are an adult. Fearing that something you experienced will happen to another person is projection. Projection is a form of insecurity.

I cannot judge by social media and will not take any sides. I believe this is a private affair and should never be on social media. I also do not believe in beating anyone, no matter what the issue is. I see how people are trying to justify hitting a spouse but you can never convince me that is right whether the issue is about second wife or second house. If you have resolved issues between man and woman, you will know that taking sides only makes you foolish because you don't live with them. This is the problem people have when women are with abusive partners. It is obvious the man is not good for her but she will go back to him and you can't explain the logic because there are things about him she won't tell you. It's complicated when it's marital issues. People always urge women to leave or men to leave or abuse older folks who 'stayed' in marriages, calling them mumu. You all want to be active and protestant, you don't consider the deeper issues involved. I don't like talking about people but for this one, just take the matter off social media. If you divorce your wife and marry another person that's not taking a second wife, that is having a new wife. That defeats the purpose of having another wife. To have peace, do not bring that second woman to your house. Even women fight themsleves from the same family, not to talk of women from outside. Handle your family affairs with maturity. You as the man is the only one who can decide how you want your family to live and you are responsible for your families, regardless of what strangers on social media think. Tidy your house(s). People have 4 wives and we don't hear noise about it. I wish everyone healing.

cococandy:
She’s not the one charging him tho. If she were, I bet you she would have dropped it.

Is she not a Nigerian woman anymore? Family and friends would have already pressured her by now to go and kneel down and beg him for forgiveness for not enduring long enough

Whether he goes to jail or not, she's single again now.

Slytiger:

It's Lagos state vs Jarus,
Not Jarus wife vs Jarus.

And the witness would be who?

There's nothing like Lagos State vs anybody in a matter like this, unless the supposed 'victim' is dead, incapacitated, or alive and willing to provide evidence.

People fight and beat each other / assault each other up everyday all over the world. If the assaulted party is an adult, and comes out later to say oh, I'm all in on it and we're cool, no issues. Who or what is the government to prosecute the other party?

Law was made for man not man for the law.

So, the fact is that the woman will have to bear responsibility. Let her embrace her Pyrrhic 'victory'. A big win for Nigeria's fake feminists and a massive L for her.

cococandy:
That’s definitely not a woman. I’ve known for years and I commend him for putting up the act this long. It takes commitment and deep seated hatred for women to be able to do what he does

I also think it's a mental deficit, because I don't understand how a full grown male will hate his gender so much that he had to claim to be female on a faceless forum to get accolades and praises from damaged boys with his negative female comments, it has to be insanity.

I literally send my vote through mail since I’m not currently home in Washington. I will mail my vote from abroad if I need to and it will get there when needed and counted appropriately

We have a long way to go. But our people are the assets. And contrary to the narrative on NL, I believe the majority of Nigerian youth want progress so things will get better for sure. Someday

descarado:

I watch berekete online. You will just give up.
This country need levelling and starting from the beginning with solid foundation. Its rotten.
As for domestic violence, do they even create awareness? Common food we eat, have you ever seen a nutritionist on tv telling people eat this and avoid that or combine this so you will gain this?

You see rich people get sick simply cos they don't eat right. Cos they a truly don't know what is good for their body.

I went to cast my vote today. Polling unit is on till 10pm. You breeze in and breeze out like you went to buy a pack of egg.

How is it an L for her?

She won’t have to live with her abuser. How’s that an L?

Hedonisco:




So, the fact is that the woman will have to bear responsibility. Let her embrace her pyrhic 'victory'. A big win for Nigeria's fake feminists and a massive L for her.

Jeezuzpick:


Whether he goes to jail or not, she's single again now.

Okay....and so what?

It has to be

Biglittlelois:



I also think it's a mental deficit, insanity.

Jeezuzpick:


Whether he goes to jail or not, she's single again now.

Tell me again what’s wrong with being single?

Jeezuzpick:


He's one of the oldest Nairalanders.

Been there since the very beginning, I think. At least I met him here, and I've been here for over 14 years.

I hope s.eun done give you badge?

Nonexisting:
Did you live with them to confirm she has never physically assaulted Jarus? By the way, you think emotionally abuse is not a big thing? Maybe until you see a man commit suicide over emotional abuse by his wife, you'll change tone.

At bolded, are we talking of real men? I guess not.
Married men face series of challenge at home how they handle the situation is what makes a real man.
Nagging and emotional blackmail has always been women weapon from time immemorial.
If a man feels threatened by that, he can also report that rather than going physical on the woman.

Jeezuzpick:


Whether he goes to jail or not, she's single again now.

And?

Seun:
It has never been my wish for any harm to befall Jarus.
I just wanted him to apologize for what he did and to be forgiven.

now that you have gotten him arrested,I hope you will be happy to marry his wife , I don't think you've heard anything about busy-body and meddle some before?

Matter wey dem go sweep under the rug. It seems y'all forgot that Nigeria is a man's country. This is why I love my country Nigeria. You can literally get away with anything as long as you are close to the power structure.

descarado:

Oniranu oshi too!!
Whatever it means