Nonexisting:
Stop capping nonsense and be forming tiger online when you are a pussycat at home. Swear you have never endured abuse from your husband be it physical or emotional or that you have never abused him. You lots will be here claiming what you are not only to crawl back home and be ranting about your husband's anonymously in women forums. I know your type so I'm not fazed.

cococandy:
I love the organization. Someday in the future I’d love to spend part of my retirement volunteering with them.

cococandy:


@bold, You wish.

Not you trying to normalize abuse as something everyone goes through and such should be tolerant of.

No I don’t experience abuse from my husband. And I’m not an abuser.

cococandy:


Tell me again what’s wrong with being single?

HeatSeeker:


He is a Muslim. He is permitted to marry more than one wife, and also enforce discipline in his household. He should request to be tried according to Islamic law, the case will be quashed and thrown out the window.

Caleb15:

I hope s.eun done give you badge?

HeatSeeker:


He is a Muslim. He is permitted to marry more than one wife, and also enforce discipline in his household. He should request to be tried according to Islamic law, the case will be quashed and thrown out the window.

Hedonisco:


And the witness would be who?

There's nothing like Lagos State vs anybody in a matter like this, unless the supposed 'victim' is dead, incapacitated, or alive and willing to provide evidence.

People fight and beat each other / assault each other up everyday all over the world. If the assaulted party is an adult, and comes out later to say oh, I'm all in on it and we're cool, no issues. Who or what is the government to prosecute the other party?

Law was made for man not man for the law.

So, the fact is that the woman will have to bear responsibility. Let her embrace her Pyrrhic 'victory'. A big win for Nigeria's fake feminists and a massive L for her.

Farfalla:


And?

Procashtips:


This is coming from a place of stored hate for the guy.

I guess he offended you while he was still active on NL.

Nonexisting:
For the first time in my life of over 30 years, I am someone in a perfect marriage. Madam, this is the internet so I believe you.

cococandy:


Tell me again what’s wrong with being single?

Biglittlelois:


Okay....and so what?

Nonexisting:
For the first time in my life of over 30 years, I am seeing someone in a perfect marriage. Madam, this is the internet so I believe you.

jayce232:

Retirement wey u suppose take rest, u still wan carry am dey make trouble? Who do u this one? I pity u

Jeezuzpick:


Absolutely nothing.

Happy now?

Zonefree:

I'm saying you practise extreme feminism.

UjuJoan2:


So he’s permitted to harm someone’s child? If he wants to instill discipline he can send her back to her father’s house, not physically assaulting her.

Jeezuzpick:


You might want to ask her what it'll mean, not having a husband again.

It m and different things to different people, y'know.

rowrowland:
■ Wife battering, especially on the face, isn't acceptable in shari'a.
However I'm not happy with the way she came out on social media except she'd previously tried other mediation options but didn't work out. She could've spoken to their local religious leader and people the husband respects, or report quietly to the domestic violence agency; This is bad for husband's business. Times are hard oo.

TheSuperX:
Sometimes some of you deserves to be slapped to default settings.

Zonefree:

She's not even married.

EreluRoz:
You wan marry second wife and you thought beating your first wife up is the best way to go about it. My anger now is why the first wife was careless with her juju? Person wey for don Dy cool down inside bottle 🍾

EreluRoz:
You wan marry second wife and you thought beating your first wife up is the best way to go about it. My anger now is why the first wife was careless with her juju? Person wey for don Dy cool down inside bottle 🍾

Jeezuzpick:
■ You might want to ask her what it'll mean, not having a husband again. It m and different things to different people, y'know.

Seun:
It has never been my wish for any harm to befall Jarus.
I just wanted him to apologize for what he did and to be forgiven.

HeatSeeker:


He is a Muslim. He is permitted to marry more than one wife, and also enforce discipline in his household. He should request to be tried according to Islamic law, the case will be quashed and thrown out the window.

Biglittlelois:



Are you okay? What has feminism got to do with a man beating up his wife? I'm starting to believe so many men on this forum had a damaged upbringing that makes them see beating up wives and probably their mothers as the norm, or they were not loved at home, cos what type of rubbish comment is this?

Do you even understand the law? Assault and battery in whatever form is illegal in Lagos state, either the wife or whoever likes it or not, he will be charged to court to defend himself and he will be made to appear to prove his case or get jail term, why the hell will you try to make up silly excuses for assault?

Later the likes of you will open your dirty mouth to say Nigeria is so corrupt and nothing is working, you want things to work but hate when the laws works because it negatively affects a man because of a woman, you want a sane society but do not want to do the work to achieve it

Nigeria is on a long thing, if this is the breed of old men we will have 20 to 30 years from now, Nigeria will not get better.

StOla:
The wife is referring to the husband as "she".

Now I understand the problem of that guy.

Unto say he don make money, so time for African Muslim man to marry 2nd wife wey classy pass the 1st wife.

You blind when you dey chase Ramota wey be semi-illiterate just because you want to marry someone lowly you can control?

Men should stop marrying anyhow when poor, with the belief that when they make it in the future, they will marry another who can measure up to their level and can be socially presentable.

Worse still, is not doing anything to brush of the first wife to look like the 2nd wife you want.