UjuJoan2:


Nope, not really. I actually used to respect him and admire his love for his family. I’m just really disappointed that it was all a facade!

You're judging based on just this event?

You didn't even say a word about the juju/fetishism the so called wife is into.

Nonexisting:
My brother, this is the internet so anyone can claim anything. I am not with her and her husband who worships her, who serves her breakfast in bed, who washes her clothes and carries her around everywhere so that her feet will not touch sand. Who am I not to believe her, do I live with them in their castle.

She never said all this, so stop trying too hard.
If your mum or dad endured physical and emotional abuse, tell us more about it. At least it would put more perspective to why you think healthy marriages do not exist.

Only idiots hit their wives.

Kobojunkie:
Not having someone to bash your face in when you disagree with them is a very good thing. Ask any man out there who has been in an abusive marriage and they will tell you the very same.

Not very sure he beats her up at the drop of a hat, but, one can't say, sha.

Jeezuzpick:
■ Not very sure he beats her up at the drop of a hat, but, one can't say, sha.

It is better not to be married at all than for a man to be married to a woman who has slapped him even once. The same goes for women. That one assault is more than enough of a reason to quit and run for your life because it is likely to happen again, and again, and again....

Now we are discussing a case of a wicked man who thought beating his wife was reasonable but we should not forget some women are also husband beaters, and their victims dare not speak up unless they want more beating.

He just put himself in unnecessary trouble.

Procashtips:
You're judging based on just this event? You didn't even say a word about the juju/fetishism the so called wife is into.

Juju/Fetish is not a crime though. It is actually a celebration of traditional religion, right?

I will confess that I don't know the original story or anything about the man or woman in this case, but the Juju thing is not a good enough excuse for the assault at all. There is no reason why a person should assault another person by law.

Hedonisco:


Will you shut up, you emotionally confused mannequin.

Making stupid noise about what you don't understand. Where were you when video evidence emerged of an EFCC operative brutally slapping a harmless girl in a night raid on a hotel? Why isn't your voice loud to ask for that animal's prosecution? Or na only husband and wife matter dey make una n*poles stand? I don't understand you fake feminazis. There was a video of P Diddy assaulting Cassy, and he owned up to it. Why hasn't he been prosecuted for assault? Or is it Chris Brown and Rihanna? We are even talking about the almighty USA.

Or is it particularly different when it comes to a husband administering some punitive slaps to his wife? In Nigeria? A country where Old men are legally allowed (under Sharia law) to marry children as young as 13? Where is your sharp mouth to campaign vigorously against such nonsense?

It is when a husband and wife have issues which resort to a few slaps here and there (a massively common phenomenon), then you raggedy pseudo feminazis would jump out to form knowledge of the law. Have you heard about alternative dispute resolution?

Illiterate. I don't waste time with flat chested, evening newspaper, failed relationships brooding feminazis. Na you want teach me law. Gerrout joor. Rubbish people.

As expected, they resort to name calling when empty of a reasonable counter defense, then easiest route of "whatabouism" surfaces, typical of nairaland boys

@ bolded not surprised you are also an abuser, shows a clear case of mental deficit due to damaged upbringing and not being loved at home, I leave you to your demons.

manmade:
now that you have gotten him arrested,I hope you will be happy to marry his wife , I don't think you've heard anything about busy-body and meddle some before?

I didn't get him arrested. He was arrested because his wife said that his side chick makes long calls to him every night, which makes her angry, and then he beats her over it. Then internet sleuths located two pictures where his wife was photographed with a bruise on her face. Then he confessed that he overreacted a couple of times, "which led to beating". Then the Lagos State government took interest in his case. I did nada.

HeatSeeker:


He is a Muslim. He is permitted to marry more than one wife, and also enforce discipline in his household. He should request to be tried according to Islamic law, the case will be quashed and thrown out the window.

Islamic laws allow domestic violence?

Well, una never jam crazy inlaws.

pocohantas:


She never said all this, so stop trying too hard.
If your mum or dad endured physical and emotional abuse, tell us more about it. At least it would put more perspective to why you think healthy marriages do not exist.

She is in a perfect marriage, that's exactly what she said when she claimed she had never abused her husband and neither had her husband abused her too. Now let me address that a little. What she practically meant is that she and her husband have never gaslighted each other, never given each other silent treatment, never tried to somehow control each other's behaviors, never overly being critical of each other, never argued seriously over irrelevant issues, and never isolated each other over flimsy reasons etc. You think abused starts and ends with your husband beating you up? She is in a perfect marriage and that's exactly what she implied, stop trying to twist facts.

Modified:

I didn't know it was you, same gang member as her. Mtchew, I just wasted my precious time.

HeatSeeker:


He is a Muslim. He is permitted to marry more than one wife, and also enforce discipline in his household. He should request to be tried according to Islamic law, the case will be quashed and thrown out the window.

domestic abuse apologist

Seun:
■ I didn't get him arrested. He was arrested because his wife said that his side chick makes long calls to him every night, which makes her angry, and then he beats her over it. Then internet sleuths located two pictures where his wife was photographed with a bruise on her face. Then he confessed that he overreacted a couple of times, "which led to beating". Then the Lagos State government took interest in his case. I did nada.

CHEEEEZZZZUUUSSSS!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

UjuJoan2:


He used to be a prominent Nairalander. Preaching to us and acting all holier than thou. Infact, he used to be one of the people they look up to here, like a role model.

This right here is where he messed up. I've followed several threads of his, dude is a great guy. But to condescend to the level of beating his wife is outrightly idiotic. His first mistake.

Then, he rushed to Twitter (where most of his asslickers reside) to post about it. He even emphasized on "wielding the big stick".. His second mistake.

After receiving several backlash, he probably pleaded with the woman in question and they settled it amicably. Then, the childish JARUS struck again! This time around, he made a video with his wife claiming that his enemies wanted to ruin his marriage. Even mentioning some names and calling them "Olote". His third mistake.

Again, his case was mentioned on Naija Info. He dialled in and started his childish "shalaye". No apology, no remorse, rather he was just grandstanding. Rather than seize the opportunity to apologize and show his remorse, all he did was rant endlessly. His fourth mistake.

If something happens the first time, it's called HAPPENSTANCE. The second time, it's called a COINCIDENCE. The third time, it's the DEVIL's HANDIWORK. What then do we call the fourth time?


Even MC Oluomo who is a known Agbero has never posted for once about beating any of his wives. Talk less of an educated and supposedly refined man like JARUS. Truth is that some of these people that are supposedly famous are ridiculously stupid in real life.

An example should be made out of him so that this issue of Domestic Violence can become a thing of the past in our society. It's barbaric and idiotic and should never be condoned.

HeatSeeker:


He is a Muslim. He is permitted to marry more than one wife, and also enforce discipline in his household. He should request to be tried according to Islamic law, the case will be quashed and thrown out the window.

You’re right! According to Quran 4:34, husbands are permitted to beat their wives.

I pray your sister and children encounter men who would be beating and inflicting injuries on them.

cococandy:
How is it an L for her?

She won’t have to live with her abuser. How’s that an L?

yeah well, hope she's got her own money or has been smart enough to stack up whilst they were together..


Cause na big L for her if none of those two is a reality ..

Btw, jarus can withdraw all he has given plus the shop she sells her stuff ..

Stickinh with him would be the best thing that ever happened to her...

UjuJoan2:


He used to be a prominent Nairalander. Preaching to us and acting all holier than thou. Infact, he used to be one of the people they look up to here, like a role model. And we wonder why Nairaland deteriorated to a place where a bunch of women bashes and abusive psychopaths come to flex muscle!

How true is this information and what is his username?

EreluRoz:
Naptu2 how I take enter this fight for your diary. Na wa

Lol. The guy go soon say you be one of the monikers hiding in a fake account to troll him.

Any small thing fiam, your name don enter him diary.

Nonexisting:
She is in a perfect marriage, that's exactly what she said when she claimed she had never abused her husband and neither had her husband abused her too. Now let me address that a little. What she practically meant is that she and her husband have never gaslighted each other, never given each other silent treatment, never tried to somehow control each other's behaviors, never overly being critical of each other, never argued seriously over irrelevant issues, and never isolated each other over flimsy reasons etc. You think abused starts and ends with your husband beating you up? She is in a perfect marriage and that's exactly what she implied, stop twing to twist facts.

That is not perfection. Argument is not physical or emotional abuse. I would advise you stop looking for marriages that are failing because I have known you across your various monikers to know nothing delights you as such.

Your post I quoted clearly said her husband cooks and washes for her...etc, I have seen you make this claim severally even when the said moniker is an active participant of the Food thread where she posts meals she made for her family.

Since you don't want to marry, remove your eyes from other people's marriage.

Thank you!

I didn't know it was you, same gang member as her. Mtchew, I just wasted my precious time.

Your precious time hasn't put you in the list of elite men, so what is the fuss? Abeg swerve.

Slytiger:

It's Lagos state vs Jarus,
Not Jarus wife vs Jarus.

What if he pleads not guilty and the wife refuses to testify against him?

The case has been struck out as claimed by Jarus this evening.

cococandy:


I don’t endure abuse. Doesn’t mean my life is perfect. I have regular everyday life problems that is not caused by a man who thinks I’m a lower creature beneath him.

You have a brain.You should be able to know the difference.

But I won’t hold my breath

but you guys chose to make yourself a lower creature beneath a man ..

What do you think a man would think of your lots when you rely on him for almost everything..

I just said he doesn’t abuse me. That’s all I said.

See how offended you are by that. You’re making up scenarios to try to put words in my mouth and claim I’m lying.

I never said I live in a castle. Or that he physically carries me around so that my feet don’t touch the ground. Or that he serves me breakfast in bed, worships me, washes my clothes etc.

The simple thing I said is My husband doesn’t abuse me . It’s really that simple. Pls don’t be offended by that. It’s not a good look on you

Nonexisting:
My brother, this is the internet so anyone can claim anything. I am not with her and her husband who worships her, who serves her breakfast in bed, who washes her clothes and carries her around everywhere so that her feet will not touch sand. Who am I not to believe her, do I live with them in their castle .

DeeScan:
but you guys chose to make yourself a lower creature beneath a man ..

What do you think a man would think of your lots when you rely on him for almost everything..

We rely on each other.

As with most marriages.

The difference is that you men are quick to discredit your women for everything they do and contribute in your lives. The moment you don’t have a woman, you’re quick to find another one because you can’t survive without a woman. But you claim you don’t rely on them. Ungrateful

cococandy:
I just said he doesn’t abuse me. That’s all I said.

See how offended you are by that. You’re making up scenarios to try to put words in my mouth and claim I’m lying.

I never said I live in a castle. Or that he physically carries me around so that my feet don’t touch the ground. Or that he serves me breakfast in bed, worships me, washes me clothes etc.

The simple thing I said is My husband doesn’t abuse me . It’s really that simple. Pls don’t be offended by that. It’s not a good look on you

Oh he has to be offended because it doesn't fit the life he wishes for you. I wonder why they are so triggered by healthy marriages. Next they run making extreme scenarios to push an agenda that you are walking on your husband's head. But if a woman comes out to say her husband is abusing her, same person would claim she is lying.

Someone says her husband doesn't abuse her and you are triggered. Are you a wizard? Shouldn't that be a win for men he so loves to support?

Case has been settled

https://x.com/SirJarus/status/1808902904348127573

The mistake Jarus made was not divorcing her immediately and allowing her to provoke him to the point of battery.

Very selfish ungrateful woman


Chop alone thief.

Max na 2 years. You come out and deal with her properly.

Seun:

I didn't get him arrested. He was arrested because his wife said that his side chick makes long calls to him every night, which makes her angry, and then he beats her over it. Then internet sleuths located two pictures where his wife was photographed with a bruise on her face. Then he confessed that he overreacted a couple of times, "which led to beating". Then the Lagos State government took interest in his case. I did nada.

The beating wasn't continuous.. she's lying..

That's now what a continuous beating would look like ..

Seun:
It has never been my wish for any harm to befall Jarus.
I just wanted him to apologize for what he did and to be forgiven.

Seun , You are not serious. Even if you guys are no longer speaking. There are ways you can get to him to find out what is going on. But yiou decided to act sanctimonious. Continue your sneaky ways.

Bro you’re flailing wildly in your attempt to stick a landing.

So if you argue over irrelevant issues or be critical of your partner’s behavior it’s abuse?

Y’all, I can’t make this shit up .

And you’re even calling it FACTS. I don’t think any word has been misused as much as facts.

Nonexisting:
She is in a perfect marriage, that's exactly what she said when she claimed she had never abused her husband and neither had her husband abused her too. Now let me address that a little. What she practically meant is that she and her husband have never gaslighted each other, never given each other silent treatment, never tried to somehow control each other's behaviors, never overly being critical of each other, never argued seriously over irrelevant issues, and never isolated each other over flimsy reasons etc. You think abused starts and ends with your husband beating you up? She is in a perfect marriage and that's exactly what she implied, stop trying to twist facts.

Modified:

I didn't know it was you, same gang member as her. Mtchew, I just wasted my precious time.

HeatSeeker:


He is a Muslim. He is permitted to marry more than one wife, and also enforce discipline in his household. He should request to be tried according to Islamic law, the case will be quashed and thrown out the window.

No be only Islamic law, na Sharia law.