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Re: Suraj "Jarus" Oyewole Has Been Charged To Court For Assault by papyjaypaul: 8:41pm On Jul 04
Wotowotoman:


Do you really believe anyone read this epistle? undecided

Re: Suraj "Jarus" Oyewole Has Been Charged To Court For Assault by DeeScan: 8:48pm On Jul 04
EreluRoz:
ok 6am tomorrow or the marriage cancelled


grin .. hold on..

We no go plan the whole thing... Abi you no go buy wedding gown??

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Re: Suraj "Jarus" Oyewole Has Been Charged To Court For Assault by CaptainGo: 9:23pm On Jul 04
Seun:
It has never been my wish for any harm to befall Jarus.
I just wanted him to apologize for what he did and to be forgiven.

cheesy
What is this? Seun!
Re: Suraj "Jarus" Oyewole Has Been Charged To Court For Assault by Procashtips(m): 9:27pm On Jul 04
Kobojunkie:
Juju/Fetish is not a crime though. It is actually a celebration of traditional religion, right? undecided

I will confess that I don't know the original story or anything about the man or woman in this case, but the Juju thing is not a good enough excuse for the assault at all. There is no reason why a person should assault another person by law. undecided

You don't know juju?

It's done to cast a spell on people mostly for negative purposes.
Re: Suraj "Jarus" Oyewole Has Been Charged To Court For Assault by Procashtips(m): 9:27pm On Jul 04
Re: Suraj "Jarus" Oyewole Has Been Charged To Court For Assault by Kobojunkie: 9:28pm On Jul 04
Procashtips:
■ You don't know juju? It's done to cast a spell on people mostly for negative purposes.
How is that any different from the numerous "die by fire" prayers offered in churches and mosques, abeg? No be the same casting of spells mostly for negative purposes? Make una stop to dey spread disinformation about the traditional religion abeg! grin

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Re: Suraj "Jarus" Oyewole Has Been Charged To Court For Assault by Procashtips(m): 9:34pm On Jul 04
Kobojunkie:
How is that any different from the numerous "die by fire" prayers offered in churches and mosques, abeg? No be the same casting of spells mostly for negative purposes? Make una stop to dey spread disinformation about the traditional religion abeg! grin

What brought about comparison here?

Oh it's kobo the never ending argumentator.
Re: Suraj "Jarus" Oyewole Has Been Charged To Court For Assault by Kobojunkie: 9:37pm On Jul 04
Procashtips:
∆ What brought about comparison here?
∆ Oh it's kobo the never ending argumentator.
Juju is an aspect of our traditional religion, is it not? undecided

Ah! you were thinking you could simply cough up and vomit and I would take it without so much as a question? 🥴
Re: Suraj "Jarus" Oyewole Has Been Charged To Court For Assault by oxyG: 9:39pm On Jul 04
HeatSeeker:


You have no freaking idea! grin

Muslim men are not just permitted to beat their wives, in fact, he is not a good Muslim if his wife misbehaves and he does not instill discipline in her. It is good practice in Islam, and unfortunately many women who married Muslim men are gleefully oblivious of this Islamic principle.
Why ignorantly emphasizing what you obviously have no idea about.
Yeah, what most of you do not understand about Islam is that it's a very realistic religion.
Do you know that Prophet Muhammad never beated any of his wives, do you know that Umar referred to those who beat their wives as the worst of us?
Re: Suraj "Jarus" Oyewole Has Been Charged To Court For Assault by chidiokay: 9:42pm On Jul 04
UjuJoan2:


People change is not enough reason to marry a second wife. Divorce your first wife and then go and find someone to suit your newly changed status. You can’t eat your cake and have it.



You make it sound as though its only the Rich that marry two wives or more, how grand fathers that married even more were not even RICH yet they lived long in it
That you find a 2nd wife does not mean you can't love the 1st wife anymore, it could be that one compliment the other, maybe 1st wife doesnt like sex that much but she is perfect in other area the Man can marry another wife that makeup for the sex or it could be food or fruit of the womb
There are various unprecedented reasons why men marry more than one ... i remember a family friend had to take 2nd wife cos 1st wife was just birthing girlz he felt he had no choice but to try another

On these thread i chose to play the devil's advocate

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Re: Suraj "Jarus" Oyewole Has Been Charged To Court For Assault by NoToPile: 9:57pm On Jul 04
My own question is since the woman still wants the marriage by all indications, is the marriage still viable after all these?
Re: Suraj "Jarus" Oyewole Has Been Charged To Court For Assault by pocohantas(f): 10:30pm On Jul 04
NoToPile:
My own question is since the woman still wants the marriage by all indications, is the marriage still viable after all these?

Couples have remained even after worse drama and fallout. However, what they do with the versions of themselves that was unraveled in the past few weeks might be unknown to us. I don't trust him though. He might still bite.grin

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Re: Suraj "Jarus" Oyewole Has Been Charged To Court For Assault by Kobojunkie: 10:48pm On Jul 04
NoToPile:
My own question is since the woman still wants the marriage by all indications, is the marriage still viable after all these?
Someone pointed out that this problem all started with the guy himself. He went on social media to announce he had assaulted his wife and even went as far as live Radio to talk about it too. It is from his many communications that the authorities took up the case, without any actual input from the battered woman. So, she seems fine in her battered marriage; the one who had the problem with all of it and revealed it was her husband. lipsrsealed
Re: Suraj "Jarus" Oyewole Has Been Charged To Court For Assault by Padipadi: 11:19pm On Jul 04
HeatSeeker:


He is a Muslim. He is permitted to marry more than one wife, and also enforce discipline in his household. He should request to be tried according to Islamic law, the case will be quashed and thrown out the window.
Do you support battery?
Re: Suraj "Jarus" Oyewole Has Been Charged To Court For Assault by Padipadi: 11:24pm On Jul 04
Seun:
It has never been my wish for any harm to befall Jarus.
I just wanted him to apologize for what he did and to be forgiven.
I v been thinking is it Jarus of Nairaland and am shocked he's the one.
You know muslims love extra p ussy so don't Blake him.
Anyways,ake una dey update is as they settle the matter amicably or scatter it.
So shameful matters like this dey enter public eye. Chai! How ll people be looking at him, his personality!

Say no to domestic violence!

Re: Suraj "Jarus" Oyewole Has Been Charged To Court For Assault by DeeScan: 11:30pm On Jul 04
NoToPile:
My own question is since the woman still wants the marriage by all indications, is the marriage still viable after all these?
fvck no !!!


She should get divorced...
Re: Suraj "Jarus" Oyewole Has Been Charged To Court For Assault by DeeScan: 11:33pm On Jul 04
pocohantas:


Couples have remained even after worse drama and fallout. However, what they do with the versions of themselves that was unraveled in the past few weeks might be unknown to us. I don't trust him though. He might still bite.grin
so you want her to keep being a punching bag .. I'd reckon they split up and go separate ways and of cus jarus retracting everything he has ever given her tongue tongue tongue
Re: Suraj "Jarus" Oyewole Has Been Charged To Court For Assault by Ibehchizzy: 11:57pm On Jul 04
Hmm
Re: Suraj "Jarus" Oyewole Has Been Charged To Court For Assault by Ibehchizzy: 11:57pm On Jul 04
Hmm
Re: Suraj "Jarus" Oyewole Has Been Charged To Court For Assault by Gerrard59(m): 2:33am On Jul 05
folake4u:


Make I help you tag am, Mama.

Cc: Gerrard59

cheesy

https://www.nairaland.com/8144720/suraj-jarus-oyewoles-statement-assault

The case was struck out. Nothing, as I predicted, happened. If Bebex who had done worse and which was unprovoked in the full public glare, nothing would have happened to Jarus who was provoked.

That said:

Proserpina:
I read through the links on DSVA fights against domestic violence... It's going to be a long run for Jarus.

That said, are you Gerrad9?

I am not DeeScan. This is my only account.
Re: Suraj "Jarus" Oyewole Has Been Charged To Court For Assault by Sapasenator: 3:21am On Jul 05
Gerrard59:


cheesy

https://www.nairaland.com/8144720/suraj-jarus-oyewoles-statement-assault

The case was struck out. Nothing, as I predicted, happened. If Bebex who had done worse and which was unprovoked in the full public glare, nothing would have happened to Jarus who was provoked.

That said:



I am not DeeScan. This is my only account.

I knew nothing is going to come out of this.
Re: Suraj "Jarus" Oyewole Has Been Charged To Court For Assault by Sapasenator: 3:30am On Jul 05
ravensckar:
This right here is where he messed up. I've followed several threads of his, dude is a great guy. But to condescend to the level of beating his wife is outrightly idiotic. His first mistake.

Then, he rushed to Twitter (where most of his asslickers reside) to post about it. He even emphasized on "wielding the big stick".. His second mistake.

After receiving several backlash, he probably pleaded with the woman in question and they settled it amicably. Then, the childish JARUS struck again! This time around, he made a video with his wife claiming that his enemies wanted to ruin his marriage. Even mentioning some names and calling them "Olote". His third mistake.

Again, his case was mentioned on Naija Info. He dialled in and started his childish "shalaye". No apology, no remorse, rather he was just grandstanding. Rather than seize the opportunity to apologize and show his remorse, all he did was rant endlessly. His fourth mistake.

If something happens the first time, it's called HAPPENSTANCE. The second time, it's called a COINCIDENCE. The third time, it's the DEVIL's HANDIWORK. What then do we call the fourth time? angry angry angry


Even MC Oluomo who is a known Agbero has never posted for once about beating any of his wives. Talk less of an educated and supposedly refined man like JARUS. Truth is that some of these people that are supposedly famous are ridiculously stupid in real life.

An example should be made out of him so that this issue of Domestic Violence can become a thing of the past in our society. It's barbaric and idiotic and should never be condoned.

Nothing is going to happen to him on Nigerian. Relax.
Re: Suraj "Jarus" Oyewole Has Been Charged To Court For Assault by Sapasenator: 3:34am On Jul 05
copyrites:


...anything for my daughter.

You think you have monopoly on violence?

Dey play!
Re: Suraj "Jarus" Oyewole Has Been Charged To Court For Assault by Sapasenator: 3:44am On Jul 05
CaptainGo:


cheesy
What is this? Seun!

Just Imagine wetin Seun dey yearn!

Who is Seun to demand an apology as a third party to the assault.
Now I think Seun is taking it personally. Abi hom dey crush on Jarusa?
Re: Suraj "Jarus" Oyewole Has Been Charged To Court For Assault by SSpeter(m): 5:33am On Jul 05
HeatSeeker:


He is a Muslim. He is permitted to marry more than one wife, and also enforce discipline in his household. He should request to be tried according to Islamic law, the case will be quashed and thrown out the window.
there is no Islamic law in Lagos
Re: Suraj "Jarus" Oyewole Has Been Charged To Court For Assault by TheSuperX(m): 7:00am On Jul 05
descarado:

Internet has giving everybody absolute freedom to yarn rubbish without thinking twice.

How I wish you will met that lady in real life.
I will love to see your reaction.
Who is she that I can't say that to her face?
Re: Suraj "Jarus" Oyewole Has Been Charged To Court For Assault by maasoap(m): 7:37am On Jul 05
DeeScan:
well until you get hit with one .. maybe then you'd find a reason to believe in it..

Lol. I probably grew up in an environment more local than yours. I saw it all while growing up. Now, I realise that it is more of a brainwashing and fear of what we grew up believing. Let me ask you, why didn't the shiit that @jarus claimed to have found in his wife's room work on him? Juju that works on only Africans grin grin grin
Re: Suraj "Jarus" Oyewole Has Been Charged To Court For Assault by maasoap(m): 7:40am On Jul 05
naptu2:


And what the hell will you do if I don't?

It doesn't appear that you have anything serious or sensible to post, so I am done with you. I can't waste my time on nonsense or stupid questions. I won't read your posts, neither will I respond to them. If you want to know why people create threads, I suggest you get an education.

Goodbye

Imagine coming to a forum to ask me such a useless question. What do people do on forums??

You did not only create this thread but also took your time to put previous threads on this same issue in this thread. Just confess that this whole thing is giving you an erection dude grin grin grin
Re: Suraj "Jarus" Oyewole Has Been Charged To Court For Assault by maasoap(m): 7:46am On Jul 05
Sapasenator:


Just Imagine wetin Seun dey yearn!

Who is Seun to demand an apology as a third party to the assault.
Now I think Seun is taking it personally. Abi hom dey crush on Jarusa?
You would rather be happy to see their home crumbled, the man going to prison and the kids growing up with a single parent and the new kpeku starving for months or years grin grin grin
The truth is that many homes around us all experience this kind of issue but @jarus blew up everything by going on social media to tell the world that he's indeed a woman beater with evidence of physical assault from the woman too. I'm sure that both husband and wife would have realised now that they have complicated the whole thing for themselves

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Re: Suraj "Jarus" Oyewole Has Been Charged To Court For Assault by maasoap(m): 7:52am On Jul 05
Kobojunkie:
Juju/Fetish is not a crime though. It is actually a celebration of traditional religion, right? undecided

I will confess that I don't know the original story or anything about the man or woman in this case, but the Juju thing is not a good enough excuse for the assault at all. There is no reason why a person should assault another person by law. undecided

You're very much correct. This is what I have been saying too. The juju thing is not more than a forklore. He should have picked up the object and thrown it away, simple.

Procashtips:


You don't know juju?

It's done to cast a spell on people mostly for negative purposes.

Yeah yeah yeah! How it didn't work on him? grin grin grin
Re: Suraj "Jarus" Oyewole Has Been Charged To Court For Assault by Tommydare(m): 8:22am On Jul 05
I no dey put mouth for husband and wife matter cos when, how and who started it, you will never get to know. No one will put the blame on him or herself. It's only the opposite gender that will be at fault. You will never get to hear the pure truth.

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Re: Suraj "Jarus" Oyewole Has Been Charged To Court For Assault by NoToPile: 9:15am On Jul 05
Kobojunkie:
Someone pointed out that this problem all started with the guy himself. He went on social media to announce he had assaulted his wife and even went as far as live Radio to talk about it too. It is from his many communications that the authorities took up the case, without any actual input from the battered woman. So, she seems fine in her battered marriage; the one who had the problem with all of it and revealed it was her husband. lipsrsealed
pocohantas:


Couples have remained even after worse drama and fallout. However, what they do with the versions of themselves that was unraveled in the past few weeks might be unknown to us. I don't trust him though. He might still bite.grin


Truly husband and wife matter is really difficult to chook mouth, so they will now go back to all the lovey dovey after all this drama.

Will this stop the 2nd wifes entrance to the home? Maybe maybe not.

It is really well.

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