I have a friend who is a chronic cheat

He cheats on his girlfriend whom he has spent over 9yrs dating

I got to be friends with the girl through my friend on their second year of dating

This friend of mine isn’t well to do, the girl has paid her dues and even sleep on the floor with him and go through hard times with him but why he continues to cheat on her is what I don’t understand.

Atleast if I don’t know, I know three girls he has impregnated but it was terminated.

I know his three present side chicks as we speak.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EU3zIpAEQ64

The main chick everyday complains to me but hey! You don’t expect me to tell you to quit a relationship with my guy.

I say some words indirectly to her and she isn’t catching the clues I give to her to quit that relationship. Over the years I have given her clues upon clues for her to move on and find love elsewhere but I think she is blinded by love and not even catching all the clues

I can’t openly tell you that my guy is doing shit here and there. You see the signs, you know the girls and the pregnancy, I give you clues yet you still sick advise or want me to talk to my friend

Yes I do talk to him Every time but had to stop talking let him as a man make his decisions.

Over 9yrs with someone and in the next 5yrs he doesn’t seem like who still has intentions of settling down with her. To think that his new side chick has taken him to see his uncles and parents , starting marriage talk is disgusting. He is playing the new side chick too and his family

Wetin Consine you?

Jeruadamma:
■ I have a friend who is a chronic cheat He cheats on his girlfriend whom he has spent over 9yrs dating I got to be friends with the girl through my friend on their second year of dating This friend of mine isn’t well to do, the girl has paid her dues and even sleep on the floor with him and go through hard times with him but why he continues to cheat on her is what I don’t understand. Atleast if I don’t know, I know three girls he has impregnated but it was terminated. I know his three present side chicks as we speak. The main chick everyday complains to me but hey! You don’t expect me to tell you to quit a relationship with my guy. I say some words indirectly to her and she isn’t catching the clues I give to her to quit that relationship. Over the years I have given her clues upon clues for her to move on and find love elsewhere but I think she is blinded by love and not even catching all the clues I can’t openly tell you that my guy is doing shit here and there. You see the signs, you know the girls and the pregnancy, I give you clues yet you still sick advise or want me to talk to my friend Yes I do talk to him Every time but had to stop talking let him as a man make his decisions. Over 9yrs with someone and in the next 5yrs he doesn’t seem like who still has intentions of settling down with her. To think that his new side chick has taken him to see his uncles and parents , starting marriage talk is disgusting. He is playing the new side chick too and his family

OP, have you considered finding yourself better friends tp hang with instead? Those two you described seem to have drama and lack of discipline written all over them and I wonder why In this hard time anyone would want to busy themselves with such unnecessary dirty drama.

Please do not get me wrong here, I am not in any way suggesting you cut yourself off completely from the drama of life. If drama is really what you love then there are more cleanly written stories out there you can binge online or in other lives that at least boast contain some amount of character growth and even progress. Just that these friends of yours seem to be going nowhere fast and I would not recommend any of them to anyone I know or care about.

So you are referring to him as the devil's first son because he is cheating on a girl?

Na because of woman u dey call guyman all these names

Na wa for you o

Jeruadamma:
I have a friend who is a chronic cheat

He cheats on his girlfriend whom he has spent over 9yrs dating

I got to be friends with the girl through my friend on their second year of dating

This friend of mine isn’t well to do, the girl has paid her dues and even sleep on the floor with him and go through hard times with him but why he continues to cheat on her is what I don’t understand.

Atleast if I don’t know, I know three girls he has impregnated but it was terminated.

I know his three present side chicks as we speak.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EU3zIpAEQ64

The main chick everyday complains to me but hey! You don’t expect me to tell you to quit a relationship with my guy.

I say some words indirectly to her and she isn’t catching the clues I give to her to quit that relationship. Over the years I have given her clues upon clues for her to move on and find love elsewhere but I think she is blinded by love and not even catching all the clues

I can’t openly tell you that my guy is doing shit here and there. You see the signs, you know the girls and the pregnancy, I give you clues yet you still sick advise or want me to talk to my friend

Yes I do talk to him Every time but had to stop talking let him as a man make his decisions.

Over 9yrs with someone and in the next 5yrs he doesn’t seem like who still has intentions of settling down with her. To think that his new side chick has taken him to see his uncles and parents , starting marriage talk is disgusting. He is playing the new side chick too and his family

you're secretly eyeing your friend's girlfriend I knew it's difficult to admit this but I can pinned a lot of jealousy vibes from your write up .

Kobojunkie:
OP, have you considered finding yourself better friends tp hang with instead? Those two you described seem to have drama and lack of discipline written all over them and I wonder why In this hard time anyone would want to busy themselves with such unnecessary dirty drama.

Please do not get me wrong here, I am not in any way suggesting you cut yourself off completely from the drama of life. If drama is really what you love then there are more cleanly written stories out there you can binge online or in other lives that at least boast contain some amount of character growth and even progress. Just that these friends of yours seem to be going nowhere fast and I would not recommend any of them to anyone I know or care about.

Spot on

manmade:
you're secretly eyeing your friend's girlfriend I knew it's difficult to admit this but I can pinned a lot of jealousy vibes from your write up .

This is exactly it. My brother's friend went to report my brother to his then girlfriend that he was cheating on her. Little did my brother’s gf knew that the reporter was seriously finding a way to fvck her and all he did was in a bid to cause disunity so he can gain entry. He eventually came out with his true intent and my brother had to cut ties with him.

Beware of people you call friends especially the ones that poke nose into your personal affairs. This OP is like that, he’s a snitch trying to gain entry into the pants of his friend's babe

Apart from Kobo's comment, all the men who commented on the post are in support of the ev!l broke womanizer friend, they don't care if he will finally infect his desperate 9yrs girlfriend with ailments, they don't see anything bad about his doings. Majority of the$e men are badly rai$ed, heartless and don't have con$cience. Imagine that none of them see's anything wrong with a guy who has a girlfriend, plus 3 side chicks and with records of his girlfriend's committing uncountable ab0rtions. Hopefully, karma and the wrath of G0d decends on y0u all.

that’s why I think they more often than not deserve whatever they get in these relationships .

LilMissFavvy:
Apart from Kobo's comment, all the men who commented on the post are in support of the ev!l broke womanizer friend, they don't care if he will finally infect his desperate 9yrs girlfriend with ailments, they don't see anything bad about his doings. Majority of the$e men are badly rai$ed, heartless and don't have con$cience. Imagine that none of them see's anything wrong with a guy who has a girlfriend, plus 3 side chicks and with records of his girlfriend's committing uncountable ab0rtions. Hopefully, karma and the wrath of G0d decends on y0u all.

LilMissFavvy:
Apart from Kobo's comment, all the men who commented on the post are in support of the ev!l broke womanizer friend, they don't care if he will finally infect his desperate 9yrs girlfriend with ailments, they don't see anything bad about his doings. Majority of the$e men are badly rai$ed, heartless and don't have con$cience. Imagine that none of them see's anything wrong with a guy who has a girlfriend, plus 3 side chicks and with records of his girlfriend's committing uncountable ab0rtions. Hopefully, karma and the wrath of G0d decends on y0u all.

A big amen to your prayer 🙏🏽

Bunch of useless damaged idiots.

It is really heart breaking. It doesn't seem normal at all. I cannot understand what would cause humans to totally lose morals and conscience to such extents.

cococandy:
that’s why I think they more often than not deserve whatever they get in these relationships .

LilMissFavvy:
It is really heart breaking. It doesn't seem normal at all. I cannot understand what would cause humansMEN to totally lose morals and conscience to such extents.

ITS MISOGYNY. The world’s biggest oldest prejudice. They don’t even know when they do it. It’s so deeply ingrained

LilMissFavvy:
Apart from Kobo's comment, all the men who commented on the post are in support of the ev!l broke womanizer friend, they don't care if he will finally infect his desperate 9yrs girlfriend with ailments, they don't see anything bad about his doings. Majority of the$e men are badly rai$ed, heartless and don't have con$cience. Imagine that none of them see's anything wrong with a guy who has a girlfriend, plus 3 side chicks and with records of his girlfriend's committing uncountable ab0rtions. Hopefully, karma and the wrath of G0d decends on y0u all.

Oh you guys are pained now .. when a story like this occurs and it's the guy that's the victim, what do you females do??

Do you lots not do the same by supporting female over the guy that's a victim..


Now tables has turned, una dey cry foul .. dey Play..

I like how pained those females up there are ..


Yes, that's more like it ..

Keep it coming guys..