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Feeling So Lonely..... Help!!! by holarmylekan(m): 9:51am On Jul 07
Feeling so lonely especially with the same routine day in and out though doing well for myself at my age and having clear focus planning my future...
Pls I need help on how to be friendly with ladies mostly as I don't have friend cuz I don't trust easily and all the ones I chat/meet with are just the billing types
Is there any guidelines on how to meet good mature ladies I can plan my with

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Re: Feeling So Lonely..... Help!!! by advanceDNA: 11:36am On Jul 07
Lol....u will soon come and cry....

U will be eaten for breakfast

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Re: Feeling So Lonely..... Help!!! by RealityKings: 11:44am On Jul 07
Women should never be considered as a problem.

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Re: Feeling So Lonely..... Help!!! by AlphaMale666: 11:45am On Jul 07
Mugu.

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Re: Feeling So Lonely..... Help!!! by holarmylekan(m): 11:47am On Jul 07
AlphaMale666:
Mugu.
What should I do then
Re: Feeling So Lonely..... Help!!! by Templee333(m): 12:07pm On Jul 07
My brother if you have money eat good food and be happy. Friends can mess up your lives. Ladies can make you miserable. If you want to meet a woman, make sure you've had a happy life and live to your satisfaction before she comes.

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Re: Feeling So Lonely..... Help!!! by BigYash: 3:05pm On Jul 07
RealityKings:
Women should never be considered as a problem.
They know themselves,and that is why majority of them will tell you,they don’t have fellow gender as friends..

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Re: Feeling So Lonely..... Help!!! by Themainboy22: 4:17pm On Jul 07
I think most of the commenters above don't really understand the op.

They think that having money will make one to be immune to lonliness and all that.

The truth is that it's really lonley at the top.

If you have money and know your onions
(not the money miss road type of man),
you're most likely going to find it difficult getting the type of woman you want (in this present Nigeria). Unless you are lucky to met one on your way to climbing the ladder.

Another thing is location.
You may need to change location, lf you are living in say rural area.

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Re: Feeling So Lonely..... Help!!! by tanigororo: 5:30pm On Jul 07
holarmylekan:
Feeling so lonely especially with the same routine day in and out though doing well for myself at my age and having clear focus planning my future...
Pls I need help on how to be friendly with ladies mostly as I don't have friend cuz I don't trust easily and all the ones I chat/meet with are just the billing types
Is there any guidelines on how to meet good mature ladies I can plan my with
Focus on yourself, feed well, dress well, keep fit, change your orientation about the type of girls you go after. Be happy

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Re: Feeling So Lonely..... Help!!! by Obainoman6: 6:15pm On Jul 07
holarmylekan:
Feeling so lonely especially with the same routine day in and out though doing well for myself at my age and having clear focus planning my future...
Pls I need help on how to be friendly with ladies mostly as I don't have friend cuz I don't trust easily and all the ones I chat/meet with are just the billing types
Is there any guidelines on how to meet good mature ladies I can plan my with

op i am just like you, i wake up everyday go to work, come back rest, eat, sleep, go to feild/gym on Saturdays and train and go to church on Sundays, repeat the same routine everyday but i don't feel lonely at all.
Also i don't see women as source of fun or happiness, there's nothing beneficial in women, EXCEPT Oloshos that i go to fork sometimes.
Dress well, be hardworking and focused, eat good food, be disciplined, play with strangers, have data on your phone so that you can watch movies, browse nairaland, Facebook and YouTube, drink alcohol, play football game, then lastly, from time to time carry prostitute and fork, then you will see your life will actually be so much fun and fun without woman or girlfriend.

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Re: Feeling So Lonely..... Help!!! by Kaczynski: 6:35pm On Jul 07
Download Grindr
Re: Feeling So Lonely..... Help!!! by dkidd: 7:07pm On Jul 07
holarmylekan:

What should I do then
Do the things u enjoy doing and do them to the fullest. Just be enjoying urself, treat urself special, get urself gifts, good gamz, look good, take urself out and spoil u and don't stress over any 403's then come back after 6 weeks to report here.

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Re: Feeling So Lonely..... Help!!! by heavenisreal18: 7:18pm On Jul 07
Obainoman6:

op i am just like you, i wake up everyday go to work, come back rest, eat, sleep, go to feild/gym on Saturdays and train and go to church on Sundays, repeat the same routine everyday but i don't feel lonely at all.
Also i don't see women as source of fun or happiness, there's nothing beneficial in women, EXCEPT Oloshos that i go to fork sometimes.
Dress well, be hardworking and focused, eat good food, be disciplined, play with strangers, have data on your phone so that you can watch movies, browse nairaland, Facebook and YouTube, drink alcohol, play football game, then lastly, from time to time carry prostitute and fork, then you will see your life will actually be so much fun and fun without woman or girlfriend.

Olosho will ruin you life so many STD outside , fornication is not pleasurable there are still good ladies out there.

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Re: Feeling So Lonely..... Help!!! by Proserpina: 7:18pm On Jul 07
This is how depression start o.

Dear Op why do you want to make FRIENDS with LADIES?
Re: Feeling So Lonely..... Help!!! by holarmylekan(m): 8:17pm On Jul 07
Proserpina:
This is how depression start o.

Dear Op why do you want to make FRIENDS with LADIES?

I just think it's time getting a life partner as in a serious relationship

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Re: Feeling So Lonely..... Help!!! by bendaniel1616: 8:27pm On Jul 07
@ Op don't be desperate to get a woman , focus on getting money , you will see women when you have money , as others said just be happy , love your self first and work on your self .
Re: Feeling So Lonely..... Help!!! by imagrg(m): 9:07pm On Jul 07
True talk.

You are better off without them if you are still hustling.
advanceDNA:
Lol....u will soon come and cry....

U will be eaten for breakfast
Re: Feeling So Lonely..... Help!!! by Verbtips(m): 9:34pm On Jul 07
I dey cultivate women for my backyard come hit me up to get ya own @ cheap rate
Re: Feeling So Lonely..... Help!!! by Eddie2024: 9:34pm On Jul 07
[quote author=holarmylekan post=130835696]Feeling so lonely especially with the same routine day in and out though doing well for myself at my age and having clear focus planning my future...
Pls I need help on how to be friendly with ladies mostly as I don't have friend cuz I don't trust easily and all the ones I chat/meet with are just the billing types
Is there any guidelines on how to meet 😔
Re: Feeling So Lonely..... Help!!! by Gadafii: 10:13pm On Jul 07
Make more money and travel to other parts of the world
Re: Feeling So Lonely..... Help!!! by onumadu: 4:07am On Jul 08
OP do you live in Nigeria?
If you do, then you are the problem, because there are always people in your business at every turn in Nigeria.
You step out of the house and people would greet you good morning or afternoon or whatever...
That is something most Nigerians take for granted.
Abroad, nobody dey talk to you.
If you are in Nigeria but still lonely, please never ever dream of moving abroad because boredom will kee you for sure.
One thing good about Nigeria (and Africa at large) is the relatively socially connected society.
I watched a Youtube video of one of the European countries, and I could count the number of people in a whole city center.
Everybody is indoors and quiet.
In such countries abroad, you could go a whole month without seeing anybody to talk to unless at work or school.
So, if you are in Nigeria, please check yourself again and embrace the already available people all over the place.

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