toboizilla:

I love this girl but I am really confused

you are not confused, You know what you are doing. You are a manipulative control freak and you are just angry that the girl is not ready to allow you dictate for her. You just derive joy in frustration of yourself and the girl.
What right do you have to change another human being? Why are you not talking about your own flaws? or you think nobody has things they need you to change?
Leave her alone and face another babe if she doesn't fit into your plans and ways.

toboizilla:


Brother thanks, but I have done that severally and told her that there are better guys out there, but she said it is me she wants. In her words “There is nothing to enjoy”

We're you making rational decisions at 19?

Why go for a lady that young? Even if you marry her now she must want to test another preek probably belonging to a guy in her age range.

Na so them be. I have one here too but na for bleeping only because she's a smart hookup babe. Her toto wide but my big preek dey still dey try when doing digging and pouring.

Please don't make her your wife material. Just dey dig her toto until you get an older and a more responsible lady.

That's my humble advice.

She's manipulating you. She dey fvck outside steady.

toboizilla:


Brother thanks, but I have done that severally and told her that there are better guys out there, but she said it is me she wants. In her words “There is nothing to enjoy”

toboizilla:


Brother thanks, but I have done that severally and told her that there are better guys out there, but she said it is me she wants. In her words “There is nothing to enjoy”

This is called manipulation

A girl of 19 is still very much in her prime and she's still exploring life. To make matter she's even a student. You're just her backup option should in case things don't go down well with other guys that her drilling her kpekpus!

toboizilla:
I have been with this my Girl friend Name XYZ, for a year and half. She is in her third year in school. I love everything about her.

I see prospect and she is a girl i will like to spend the rest of my life with. XYZ is still 19, she has a promising character, she always says she will. change when she does wrong. She is intelligent and smart. She is a good cook and is homely. She does demand or ask me for money, na me they give her and i do it without stress because i have it
I am made Tech Bro and am ready to settle down, she is graduating next year, so my eyes are on her.

However, The thing i detest about her is that she is has an eye for promiscuity. She likes fashion and does it in a style that is against my believe.
She sees no problem with wearing leg chains, waist beeds and all her paintings. For me, i just want her to be desent in it, and that is where our problems started. When she was in Year 1, I couldn't attend her matric because all of this. She does it and go to the extreme, but when confronted, she is always sobber and apologizes, but she obviously still goes back to them.

Lets focus on the one that happened recently
After a fight, which her mum settled, She sent me a picture of her close friend which she used as her Lock screen. Her friend was bent in a sexy doggy style bikini attire and i asked her why she used the picture as her lock screen and she said its because she liked it.
Na there I come tire for this girl. She has been pleading but I am feeling she has corrupted her ways.
I take many hours to talk to this girl about prostitution and corruption but it seems they are all falling on deaf ears.
She takes delight in tweaking, making videos of her tweaking or dancing, and all of this but I dont know.
She has changed alot compared to what she was. This is true.
but
if she is pretending?
If she is wasting my time?
If I should break up?
If i should take a break?
Any time i talk about break up, she crys and promise to change but she conitnues to go back, to another style and this is seriously affecting me.
I love this girl but I am really confused

Nawa bro dump her now ooo she's a narcissist
She's into coded Hookup
A lady who can't be submissive to you 💯 is not a lady you should put in your house..
She will play serious mind games on you trust me...but dump her now tho

If you cannot tolerate it now, I will advice you move on, as it will be worse when you tie the knot. Take your decisionow and deal with it immediately.

Buzz me on telegram @Waifukimchi I sell WhatsApp spy app

Lessonteacher:
don't break up with her just like that, her blood is still hot like someone said above. and you never know if another girl you will get will be worse

So he should just keep up with the young hoe? OP the hand writing on the wall is written clearly, use your head, that girl is not someone that wants to settle down anytime soon, trust me she's still exploring different dick sizes, obsessed with material stuff, can't mentor lil kids. Is that the person you want to be the one to take care of your kids? Think deeply and don't think with your dick, leave her for the streets.

Ashawo vibes is genetic.
it is in her.
She probably got the looks of a female celebrity.
Beautiful and sexy.
She can't change.
It is an a software problem.
As a user of machine, u can't changer the operating system of the machine.
U can only customize some features, but a little system crash and rebooting, it goes back to the root sw.
Pay attention to women in brothels, they have something in common and u cant change them even if u have money.

[Ashe won't because she already know you will give without asking and moreso who told you she's ready to settle down 😀😀😀
She's cashing out from you and all the sobberness na scam so that the money won't stop. So to you now you don see wife abi but you never know say nah small girl wey never know wetin life means
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Thanks for your reply but she doesn't really ask me for money ooh[/quote]

Read her messages on WhatsApp and see if she chats dirty with the opposite genders.

I can teach you how to secretly read her messages without her knowing this.
Check my number on my signature and text me on WhatsApp.

Everyone is free to WhatsApp me..
Just hold your #1500.

Cos it's not free ooo..
My number is on my signature

DonBenny77:
Dump her she's into coded hookup.
You can't be dating a university student when you are not in same school.
She's just using you too foot bills.
Dump her and run for your life
Even lecturer dey chop your babe bro...

Dumping her is a Cowardice acts ...

She is just a Baddie ... Some people just have to live out their Wild Phase of Life Afterwards they will Calm Down ..

toboizilla:


Thanks so much I appreciate.
The only problem na say over little thing you wil have to talk and talk before she understand

She is a Gen Z Baddie ... That's the Trend & Vogue for all Children Born Post 2000s ... If You Can't Cope with Their Trends, Just Bow Out ..... Wait till They Finish Their Wild Phase & Come & pick them ....

You Can't take a Girl Out of Her Contemporary Generations.... You Can't Take Her Back to Your Ancestral Generations....

Every Generations has their Wild Phase .... Afterwhich they will calm down Because Life would descend on them & Nature will Task Them On The Essence of Their Presence on Earth ... Till Then, Don't Take Away Her Fun !

Weak Men are Evil, You are Seeing all The Flags Your Maturities couldn't Withstand but Here You Are Trying to Denied a 19yo Baddies a Wilder Phase of Life ...

You want to denied her Her Own Fun ... You wanna take her away from Her Momentum Memories that she would cherished when she grow up ...

She be like "Back in the days Yeah, when I was a girl Yeah, I was a Baddie ... Me & My Girls were running town Cruising From Parries to Parries" ... She would have pictures to back it all Up & Cherish Herself ...

If You Can't Deal ... Bow Out before She Massacred Your Hearts into Pieces but She ain't doing anything wrong for her Generation...

You Can't Manage a Baddie if You ain't a Baddie Yourself.. She Go Jogo You, Gaslight You or Trash You Pretty Soon cuz You are a Negative Vibes!

They are the Gen Z Baddies ... They make the world a easier place than Old Generations...

They are Outspoken & would Never-Ever allowed themselves to be shut down by Ancestral Ancient Traditions.....

The World is now a Global Village ... We are easily influenced from culture to culture across the globe .... Deal In or Deal Out ... It is What it is ...

The Past has You have known it is Gone !

Veryyellowman:



Nawa bro dump her now ooo she's a narcissist
She's into coded Hookup
A lady who can't be submissive to you 💯 is not a lady you should put in your house..
She will play serious mind games on you trust me...but dump her now tho

a 19yo is a narcissist ....

Nairaland boys would just troway English anyhow ....

DonroxyII:
Dumping her is a Cowardice acts ...

She is just a Baddie ... Some people just have to live out their Wild Phase of Life Afterwards they will Calm Down ..

Baddie was obtained from the word bad. Bad isn't good, once a good girl's gone bad she's gone forever.

DonBenny77:

Baddie was obtained from the word bad. Bad isn't good, once a good girl's gone bad she's gone forever.

E be like say u like English .... Baddie is not a Bad Girl ... It's a street Slang for a Girl That Expressed Herself regardless of what the Ancient Norms of the society states ....

They are not your normal Conservative girls wearing "Amaka Wrapper" Yes Ma, Yes Sir ....

Baddie will Fvck, Pierce, Slay, Tattoos in Nice Places, Speak Up for Herself & Fight Up Where necessary to Defend her stance .. .... She still go church/Mosque on Sunday/Friday ... immediately afterwards She Slays ... Omosexy!

She Lives Her era in her worlds ... if you can't cope then leave her alone .... go find ya people!

Most girls today are Baddie except few ones that are of Ancestral Mental Spheres But Normal Normal ... Baddie is the Street Trends!

DonroxyII:
E be like say u like English .... Baddie is not a Bad Girl ... It's a street Slang for a Girl That Expressed Herself regardless of what the Ancient Norms of the society states ....

They are not your normal Conservative girls wearing "Amaka Wrapper" Yes Ma, Yes Sir ....

Baddie will Fvck, Pierce, Slay, Tattoos in Nice Places, Speak Up for Herself & Fight Up Where necessary to Defend her stance .. .... She still go church/Mosque on Sunday/Friday ... immediately afterwards She Slays ... Omosexy!

She Lives Her era in her worlds ... if you can't cope then leave her alone .... go find ya people!

Most girls today are Baddie except few ones that are of Ancestral Mental Spheres But Normal Normal ... Baddie is the Street Trends!

It's a trendy name for being loose, stubborn disrespectful, outta control and wayward.
Gen Z vocabulary.
You can believe what you like. I'm almost 4 decades old and I know what I'm saying

Dis man lol , well first of thank ur stars that u know ur girl is portraying these attitudes , u see at age 19 most girls are serial pretenders and manipulators. Ur girl too is one of them tbh , she doesn't want to lose u no doubt at d same time she doesn't wanna lose her youth , I bet she still wants to date all kinds of guys, sleep around and party to her outermost satisfaction , u can't tame her, let her fly.

My advice is that you ghost her and move on to someone else more serious and if u still love then u have to wait till she's at least 23 at dat age she would have either advanced or slowed down depending on her mindset.

DonBenny77:

It's a trendy name for being loose, stubborn disrespectful, outta control and wayward.
Gen Z vocabulary.
You can believe what you like. I'm almost 4 decades old and I know what I'm saying

I know You are Oldie I'm also More than 3decades Old ....

I remember my Great Grandmother used to say Grandma spoilt My Mom & Her Siblings & how the World has changed ... How Children Born in 60s are Spoilt ...

My Grandma did the same thing ....

My Mom did same ....

That shows the trend of how Old people who are stucked to their own Teenage age values thought the same Value Systems should be the repository Norms across all Generations..

I discovered we are all Biased because Nature keep Evolving & Revolving thus Realities is Never-Ever what It Used to be & can Never-Ever be what it used to be due to Innovations, Inventions, Globalisation, Exposures Among Many Things While Each Generations would complied with Her Civilisations as well as Advancements in That Civilisations.....

You Can't be Stucked in the Early 90s & Be Projecting Early 90s Values on Children Born in 2009 Haba !!

You used android/ios during your teenage ... Facebook dey during your teenage 🤣.......

Baba, abeg Port Come Gen Z there is nothing in Millennial but Quack Civilisations .....

The Civilisations that Meets You alive is Your Civilisations & That's is Your Realities Regardless of Your Age Inability to Comply With Its Vibes Makes You a Toxic Man & That's how You Become agent of Evils Unknowingly...

Let them Slay ... Na their time ... they go soon calm down & Another Generations would evolve(Gen Alpha is already evolving, The Tiktok & Podcast Genz) while Gen Z would also be forming Saints Because All The Madness People are Keeping as Secrets Na ihm Children of These Gen Alpha Would Cast .... Other Than Bad Dressings ... If you do anyhow, you will be arrested for Constituting Nuisance to the Society While The real Nuisances Would Walk Free ... Dem no dey hear anything

Nevertheless, Humanities would Never-Ever stopped Progressing & Humanities has Never-Ever Stopped Advancing except to some Fanatical Moralists & Religionists Who Think They are Holier Than God.... Earth is not ending Until It Creator States So ...

Humanities is not going backward except to some that only see Morality as the only means of existence while all other achievements are no Issue to them

As NASA/Elon Musk/Dangote Etc are all doing their Things while Techs/AI is Revolutionising our worlds, Same Way The Baddies are Doing their Own Things...

Baddies are as Old as Humans but what we are doing behind closed doors is now "Outside" ... Burna Boy "Monday, Italawa, Tuesday Italawa" .. We Outside

Nothing new just Nature doing its trick on Us all ... You Just Choose what You Represent in Your Contemporary Worlds !!

DonroxyII:
I know You are Oldie I'm also More than 3decades Old ....

I remember my Great Grandmother used to say Grandma spoilt My Mom & Her Siblings & how the World has changed ... How Children Born in 60s are Spoilt ...

My Grandma did the same thing ....

My Mom did same ....

That shows the trend of how Old people who are stucked to their own Teenage age values thought the same Value Systems should be the repository Norms across all Generations..

I discovered we are all Biased because Nature keep Evolving & Revolving thus Realities is Never-Ever what It Used to be & can Never-Ever be what it used to be due to Innovations, Inventions, Globalisation, Exposures Among Many Things While Each Generations would complied with Her Civilisations as well as Advancements in That Civilisations.....

You Can't be Stucked in the Early 90s & Be Projecting Early 90s Values on Children Born in 2009 Haba !!

You used android/ios during your teenage ... Facebook dey during your teenage 🤣.......

Baba, abeg Port Come Gen Z there is nothing in Millennial but Quack Civilisations .....

The Civilisations that Meets You alive is Your Civilisations & That's is Your Realities Regardless of Your Age Inability to Comply With Its Vibes Makes You a Toxic Man & That's how You Become agent of Evils Unknowingly...

Let them Slay ... Na their time ... they go soon calm down & Another Generations would evolve(Gen Alpha is already evolving, The Tiktok & Podcast Genz) while Gen Z would also be forming Saints Because All The Madness People are Keeping as Secrets Na ihm Children of These Gen Alpha Would Cast .... Other Than Bad Dressings ... If you do anyhow, you will be arrested for Constituting Nuisance to the Society While The real Nuisances Would Walk Free ... Dem no dey hear anything

Nevertheless, Humanities would Never-Ever stopped Progressing & Humanities has Never-Ever Stopped Advancing except to some Fanatical Moralists & Religionists Who Think They are Holier Than God.... Earth is not ending Until It Creator States So ...

Humanities is not going backward except to some that only see Morality as the only means of existence while all other achievements are no Issue to them

As NASA/Elon Musk/Dangote Etc are all doing their Things while Techs/AI is Revolutionising our worlds, Same Way The Baddies are Doing their Own Things...

Baddies are as Old as Humans but what we are doing behind closed doors is now "Outside" ... Burna Boy "Monday, Italawa, Tuesday Italawa" .. We Outside

Nothing new just Nature doing its trick on Us all ... You Just Choose what You Represent in Your Contemporary Worlds !!

That one dey too
I have Gen Z friends I learn from as per tech, crypto and others
I'm liberal minded
I can learn and unlearn
But there are excesses I won't understand those exposing private parts to earn money on Bigo and tango are prostitutes/"hookupers" and ladies with Multiple piercings and leg chain like Charly boy I won't date such a baddie in the name of advancement...
I mentioned Charlie boy because he to na old school. Bad is bad, Good is good.
The Nigerian baddie and the one you see for urban dictionary no relate.
Nigerian baddie na hookup, latest Iphone, fraud and sugar daddy dey their brain.

DonBenny77:

That one dey too
I have Gen Z friends I learn from as per tech, crypto and others
I'm liberal minded
I can learn and unlearn
But there are excesses I won't understand those exposing private parts to earn money on Bigo and tango are prostitutes/"hookupers" and ladies with Multiple piercings and leg chain like Charly boy I won't date such a baddie in the name of advancement...
I mentioned Charlie boy because he to na old school. Bad is bad, Good is good.
The Nigerian baddie and the one you see for urban dictionary no relate.
Nigerian baddie na hookup, latest Iphone, fraud and sugar daddy dey their brain.

Criminality is as Old as Humanities, It's still part of the Equation Of Life ...

No be inside Bible Adam Son kill ihm Brother & Bury am afterward he started crying that he has sin ....

Olosho, aristo, Hookup, Runz, No go everly end ...if you ban them from open space then would do it underworld....

Social Media just Blossomed it ....

Human are animals if not for Civilisations & some have not yet completed their Humanistic Evolutions Albeit we all walk erect no mean say we carry the same Mental Formatting


It's all part of the equation of Life, as some they do Good, Na so some go dey Craze & na so some are blatant Criminals .... It's all Life ...

Laslas, the Forces of Good always Triumph The Forces of Bad as such ... Baddie self would retire after her slay time lapse, Nobody go tell am before your body would have Had enough ...

Till Then, You Can't Stop a Wild from Being Wild ...You go see Craze 👀