udede:
Don't marry anybody that eats ewedu even if you do. E get why.

samuelson06:
Once married, you'll have to learn to take your eyes off certain things. Just ignore. In all you do, make peace a priority. Make sure you settle your issues before going to bed. Lastly, don't keep a boring sex life else one person will feel seriously bad about it and that could lead to other issues.

plenitude:
What advice would you give to someone who is on the verge of getting married?

BeyondCertainty:
Marriage is WAR, it's OK to lose some battles but NEVER lose the WAR.

plenitude:
please what kind of war? Does it involve Gun and bullets??

Samfloxin:
Money is more important than love in marriage. Love is not a big deal, even animals can love. MAKE SURE YOU PREPARE FINANCIALLY before bringing somebody's daughter in

MarketDispatch:


Don't be carried away to do joint account.
Don't be carried away to do joint business..some partner sometimes end up duping each other. One partner may open secret account and may be diverting money without the other's knowledge.

plenitude:
please kind of war? Does it involve Gun and bullets??

plenitude:
What advice would you give to someone who is on the verge of getting married?

plenitude:
What advice would you give to someone who is on the verge of getting married?

superCleanworks:


Don't get married if you are selfish & inconsiderate. You will pay for it one way or the other.

If you are a redpiller and you still went ahead to get a woman whom you actually need to apply redpill treatment to, then you have failed before the game starts.

You can never know a woman 100% but Be sure you have done your own due diligence and kindness, cheerfulness, contentment and at least 70% honestly are part of the items you ticked as her traits. Coming back later to call her a bad and wicked woman would make you look foolish.

As a man, I hope you can do very vital things for yourself. This is important so she knows that you can actually do without her but you married her because you chose her to spend life with you. If woman sabi say you no sabi do anything at all, you are finished. How? She knows if she chooses to cook LUNCH by 7pm, there is nothing you can do. But when a woman knows that you can get up and cook for yourself if she messes up, then she would MOST LIKELY not want to use that as a weapon.
I no talk say make you go dey cook and clean house for your marriage oh. Those are cards you should play once in 5 years. very rare.

If you are the blame game master, habitual lier, bad in bed, intolerant naggermaniac, marriage will turn you to a woman.

If you are about to marry someone who you have had the need to check her phone more than once or even ever before, you are headed for a slopy hill on gear 7.

I remember when I had a conversation with my cousin who just got married and I asked him "what is she like", he told me "Bros, this one no be all those one wey go dey tell you I CAN EXPLAIN"... and that was very satisfying.

Marry with intention and purpose. There should be set goals that must have been subtly discussed in jokes or light talks by both of you. It might not go as planned but it will keep you from autopilot situation.

If you feel you can run your marriage by dishing out commands and commands and too much expectations with no appreciation, get ready to beat your wife one day.

Lastly, if you can't pay for all these which I have written, then you have broken the first advice.

plenitude:
What advice would you give to someone who is on the verge of getting married?

Sapasenator:
Never give birth the next two years after marriage to organize your finances and ensure both of you have your careers in place.

Ignore pressures from parents and friends about pregnancies and kids, no big deal, you will have kids eventually.

When you are ready, only have one child.

If you are doing well financially, you can have the second child with at least 5 years gap in between otherwise, I would stick to one child only.

If you follow my advice, you will thank me 10years from now. I see the future very clearly.

LordIsaac:

In addition, I followed this rule, and I never regretted it. By the grace of God, we are ok.

Sapasenator:
Never give birth the next two years after marriage to organize your finances and ensure both of you have your careers in place.

Ignore pressures from parents and friends about pregnancies and kids, no big deal, you will have kids eventually.

When you are ready, only have one child.

If you are doing well financially, you can add the second child with at least 5 years gap in between otherwise, I would stick to one child only if possible.

If you follow my advice, you will thank me 10years from now. I see the future very clearly.

goran3310:

You will get divorced sooner or later. Look at your marriage like that and be ready for it. A woman will ruin your marriage. She will divorce you or force you to divorce her, to leave her. That is the sad reality of 2024. When you divorce, continue to take care of your children and forget about her.

plenitude:
could this be from experience?