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Re: What Advice Would You Give To Someone Who Is About To Get Married???? by Sapasenator: 4:18pm On Jul 11 |
goran3310: Not all women divorce or make their husband divorce them though. |
Re: What Advice Would You Give To Someone Who Is About To Get Married???? by goran3310(m): 4:52pm On Jul 11 |
Sapasenator:Of course. Not all, 80%. You have a better chance of winning the jackpot than of saving your marriage. |
Re: What Advice Would You Give To Someone Who Is About To Get Married???? by Lionessza6(f): 4:56pm On Jul 11 |
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Re: What Advice Would You Give To Someone Who Is About To Get Married???? by KingCold: 4:57pm On Jul 11 |
Lionessza6:Elaborate please.. ![]() |
Re: What Advice Would You Give To Someone Who Is About To Get Married???? by meobizy(f): 5:01pm On Jul 11 |
Sorry in advance. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Advice Would You Give To Someone Who Is About To Get Married???? by Sapasenator: 5:07pm On Jul 11 |
goran3310: No you dont. Chances of winning the jackpot is a very low statistical probability. Marriage is not do or die in my opinion and if not working option of a divorce will always be on the table and a divorce is not necessarily a bad thing per se. |
Re: What Advice Would You Give To Someone Who Is About To Get Married???? by Lionessza6(f): 5:08pm On Jul 11 |
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Re: What Advice Would You Give To Someone Who Is About To Get Married???? by KingCold: 5:09pm On Jul 11 |
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Re: What Advice Would You Give To Someone Who Is About To Get Married???? by goran3310(m): 5:22pm On Jul 11 |
Sapasenator:You are a woman? |
Re: What Advice Would You Give To Someone Who Is About To Get Married???? by Sapasenator: 5:25pm On Jul 11 |
goran3310: Nope. I am a man and have previously advised couples about conflict resolution techniques. I have also, asked a lot of women to leave their marriages and get out in the past. If a woman overstresses me for marriage, I abandon the marriage sharparly, life is too short not to enjoy. |
Re: What Advice Would You Give To Someone Who Is About To Get Married???? by Smitaro100(m): 5:48pm On Jul 11 |
It's obvious ure not yet matured enof to get married. |
Re: What Advice Would You Give To Someone Who Is About To Get Married???? by Lionessza6(f): 6:05pm On Jul 11 |
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Re: What Advice Would You Give To Someone Who Is About To Get Married???? by KingCold: 6:12pm On Jul 11 |
Lionessza6:I am weak ![]() ![]() |
Re: What Advice Would You Give To Someone Who Is About To Get Married???? by Lionessza6(f): 6:15pm On Jul 11 |
KingCold: LMFAO. You go hear em....wahala loading in that one your house ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: What Advice Would You Give To Someone Who Is About To Get Married???? by ojotobiloba1: 8:32pm On Jul 11 |
plenitude:If your patience level is 40 before, you gat to increase it to 95% Na patience we dey use do husband for wife because hmmm Close ur eyes with other ladies around or else, ones marriage might be over bf it begun |
Re: What Advice Would You Give To Someone Who Is About To Get Married???? by jeromestarks: 9:05pm On Jul 11 |
If she's not a virgin or disvirgined by you, you're cheated. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Advice Would You Give To Someone Who Is About To Get Married???? by Jaycobbs(m): 11:42pm On Jul 11 |
Sapasenator: I like your advice about waiting to create a nest egg before having kids. But I wouldn't support having only one child. Kids need siblings for healthy, all-round development. As an adult, you won't always have time for your kids; they can't play with you or talk "child" things with you. Children need to fight among each other to learn conflict resolution, individuality, and standing up for themselves That's what siblings are meant for. Also, as a child gets older, a lot of your hope and expectations (from both parents) would be transfered to that child. Might prove too much for one child to bear. You see parents with undue attachment to their kids? Lots of the time, it's cos it's just the one. Not that anyone is praying to lose their child but parents with just one child would have higher anxiety compared to other parents whenever their child is traveling (especially as the child gets to their late teens), because anything that would lead to the death of that child, that's the end of the bloodline. It's too late to raise another one. Besides, when you finally leave this world, who would your child be close to? Cousins? There's a bond between siblings — I see it in my mother's family — it transcends generations. That's the power of having brothers and sisters I'll suggest to have at least two kids. For the sake of balance. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Advice Would You Give To Someone Who Is About To Get Married???? by Sapasenator: 12:07am On Jul 12 |
Jaycobbs: "Also, as a child gets older, a lot of your hope and expectations (from both parents) would be transfered to that child. Might prove too much for one child to bear" "Kids need siblings for healthy, all-round development. As an adult, you won't always have time for your kids; they can't play with you or talk "child" things with you." This is 100% NOT CORRECT. Children are not a retirement fund for the parents and not their duty to bear the parent's burdens especially financial wise. The parents have more than 5 decades of work and should have planned, saved, and invested for their retirements. That is the way it should be but we have got it upside down in our society. The parents are careless, squandering away their resources and expecting the young children to suffer unnecessarily. This has to change. Also, I have seen lots of healthy, well-rounded one child in society. A child can fight with friends in school and there is nothing wrong with having one child to avoid unnecessary burdens and the ability to give the best to the child. |
Re: What Advice Would You Give To Someone Who Is About To Get Married???? by ObalendeCMS: 12:56am On Jul 12 |
That That woman you are calling your wife will & can stain your white!
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Re: What Advice Would You Give To Someone Who Is About To Get Married???? by Lionessza6(f): 7:35am On Jul 12 |
KingCold: Cima cima cima leyo post before amagrigamba see it ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: What Advice Would You Give To Someone Who Is About To Get Married???? by KingCold: 10:07am On Jul 12 |
Lionessza6:Yiphi yona sistas? ![]() |
Re: What Advice Would You Give To Someone Who Is About To Get Married???? by galadima77(m): 3:56pm On Jul 12 |
As a man, don't complain too much, don't talk too much. Be patient and kind. Have frame. 1 Like |
Re: What Advice Would You Give To Someone Who Is About To Get Married???? by ukaface(f): 8:04pm On Jul 12 |
‘ I’m not married, but I hope you know it ain’t all roses in marriage? |
Re: What Advice Would You Give To Someone Who Is About To Get Married???? by Sapasenator: 8:11pm On Jul 12 |
ukaface: How come you are still single. Lemme find you husband sharp sharp. You sabi pound akpu and cook better ofe nala ? |
Re: What Advice Would You Give To Someone Who Is About To Get Married???? by ukaface(f): 2:07am On Jul 13 |
Sapasenator:I hope the husband you want to help me find, sabi hunt? And he has to own a farmland too. |
Re: What Advice Would You Give To Someone Who Is About To Get Married???? by Sapasenator: 2:08am On Jul 13 |
ukaface: Hahahah! Hunt? Na hunter you dey find or a farmer. You have to choose one so I can narrow my searches. |
Re: What Advice Would You Give To Someone Who Is About To Get Married???? by ukaface(f): 2:10am On Jul 13 |
Sapasenator:if I fit sabi pound and make ofe nsala, why can’t he hunt and farm? Na both I Dey look for and he must be a graduate too. |
Re: What Advice Would You Give To Someone Who Is About To Get Married???? by Sapasenator: 2:17am On Jul 13 |
ukaface: Nsogbu adiro. He will be a confirm graduate, with a good business and able to take care of your needs financially so you can focus on the ofe nala, ofe ora and the likes. People don't hunt anymore. Lol |
Re: What Advice Would You Give To Someone Who Is About To Get Married???? by nairalanda1(m): 11:38pm On Jul 27 |
jeromestarks: Just like you cheated your wife by not being a virgin too? Mr Virginia |
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