Zooposki:


Women should make sure they date men that can comfortably take care of them and any future children they have together. Don’t let any man broke shame you. Look for husband material, same way they look for wife material.

chrisxxx:

It is not all Nigerian women. It is women from a particular tribe the prioritises money over all things. Even in their husband's house offer them good money they will bed you. They think that there God given asset is for Monday making. I never mentioned any tribe. There are over 200 tribes in Nigeria.

Yorubafather:





Dude this matter is above your level, get the hell out of here with nauseating ignorance

Lionessza6:



I have been following your arguments with Zooposki from the start and my conclusion is that you're both correct, you both raised issues that could lead to the breakdown of a healthy marriage.

If I understood her correctly she said if both the woman and man are out there working to provide for the family then the man must also help with house chores. Let's say you both spend 8 hours at work , when you come home you can't have the woman alone running around cleaning, doing homework with the kids, cooking etc. Whilst the husband is sitting around watching TV. This will lead to resentment in the end.

You're correct about gender roles and there are things that come naturally to both genders , but just like the women are helping in providing ( male *traditional duty*.... then the man should also help her out with hers to ease the burden on her as well.). There is is no script for marriage especially in today's world so everyone needs to be flexible , you cannot have one person carrying 70% of the burden and think that will make a happy home. Again with gender roles; it makes sense that on weekends the man will be busy with much more *mascular * home activities like maintaining the yard,cars etc....while the woman will be doing laundry and other house chores. But I think what I got from her posts is that there needs to be cooperation; where you see your partner is overwhelmed, you come in and assist. The same way that if a woman isn't working and the man is struggling to meet the Bills, she has to think on her feet and find ways to help...be it hairdressing, trading etc ...just to help ease the burden on the man.

With that being said , if a man is the sole breadwinner then I don't see why a woman would complain of slavery if he requests of her to do all the house chores.... now that's being silly and selfish .

Tellmeastory:
On a recent business visit to the UK, I met an Ethiopian professional guy in London, and we had a conversation in which I stated half-jokingly that I would love to visit Ethiopia to get myself a nice, beautiful Ethiopian woman.

He erupted in laughter, and said that I was most welcome to visit Addis Ababa anytime, as the city is filled with beautiful women who are also very humble.

He then said that he liked Nigerian women, but that the only problem based on his experience with them is that the only thing they care about is money, and that that was why he doesn’t like dating them.

I was so embarrassed.

Why are our women like this?

It’s terrible.

Their reputation for money obsession is now international.

They need major reorientation, so that they can understand that life is not just about money and wealth.

And the funny thing is that they are the most church-crazed women in Africa, yet the most highly materialistic.

A tragic, stunning irony, and a clear sign that they are only deceiving themselves with that ‘Jesus’ stuff, because no one is fooled, least of all the Most High.

Beverlyjean:


U made alotvof sense and valuable points... yes , certainly , when ubsee ur partner is overwhelmed with chores , u can help out but it should not be expected ... now the reason I believe in sticking with gender roles , is because the moment u both start to do both roles , high expectations will come in... if he doesn't enter the kicked for a whole week, the woman might start to cause wahala ,and if the woman starts to contribute financially non stop , the day she doesn't, the man will flair up ...cos both now see those role as an expectation.... as they say , don't start what u can't finish ...

Paythemback:


Most Nigerian women are so useless and lazy to the extend that most of them can't even get themselves airtime,they see relationship as poverty alleviation program. It's in Nigeria that you will see a girl with 2k in her account calling someone broke boy.what useless set of animal majority of them are.

Leemzyy:
You are right even tho its the bitter truth that most wouldnt agree with,sometimes i believe when a real girl truly loves a guy,it will be a great problem 2 demand something 4rm that guy,but i no longer know if that point still exist or not,4 real we girls should respect ourselves!

Paythemback:


God bless you for this

Tellmeastory:
On a recent business visit to the UK, I met an Ethiopian professional guy in London, and we had a conversation in which I stated half-jokingly that I would love to visit Ethiopia to get myself a nice, beautiful Ethiopian woman.

He erupted in laughter, and said that I was most welcome to visit Addis Ababa anytime, as the city is filled with beautiful women who are also very humble.


He's trying to express his own opinion on Nigerian ladies he has met on international system. How will you conclude that all 9ja girls are the same.

If you're also a victim of what he said then that's probably those you've met are the same category of what your Ethiopian guy is talking about.

In conclusion, not all women in Nigeria are bad as well as not all guys too are okay

He then said that he liked Nigerian women, but that the only problem based on his experience with them is that the only thing they care about is money, and that that was why he doesn’t like dating them.

I was so embarrassed.

Why are our women like this?

It’s terrible.

Their reputation for money obsession is now international.

They need major reorientation, so that they can understand that life is not just about money and wealth.

And the funny thing is that they are the most church-crazed women in Africa, yet the most highly materialistic.

A tragic, stunning irony, and a clear sign that they are only deceiving themselves with that ‘Jesus’ stuff, because no one is fooled, least of all the Most High.

Leemzyy:
Ameen ya Allah, u deserve more sir

Bakrabas:



Always write your name correctly.

Leemah as a nickname is very wrong and it has a meaning that is capable to ruin your day if I should tell you. You're Haleemah by name but removing the first two letter adopting the remaining letters as your nickname is wrong.


As salaam alaikum sis...

Bakrabas:



Always write your name correctly.

Leemah as a nickname is very wrong and it has a meaning that is capable to ruin your day if I should tell you. You're Haleemah by name but removing the first two letter adopting the remaining letters as your nickname is wrong.


As salaam alaikum sis...

Zooposki:


Always monitoring the females while your mates from other races are flying to the moon.

Leemzyy:
Lol he may be right tho,just maybe my research on the name was not tangible and correct

Zooposki:
All I’m saying is that if you want women to contribute towards the finances of the home, then you should not expect a traditional wife. You the man must also contribute towards the everyday boring tedious work like the cooking, the cleaning, the laundry work, looking after the kids etc.

Zooposki:


I know you are a man though with a female moniker.

Zooposki:


Always monitoring the females while your mates from other races are flying to the moon.

Zooposki:


Women should make sure they date men that can comfortably take care of them and any future children they have together. Don’t let any man broke shame you. Look for husband material, same way they look for wife material.

Tellmeastory:
On a recent business visit to the UK, I met an Ethiopian professional guy in London, and we had a conversation in which I stated half-jokingly that I would love to visit Ethiopia to get myself a nice, beautiful Ethiopian woman.

He erupted in laughter, and said that I was most welcome to visit Addis Ababa anytime, as the city is filled with beautiful women who are also very humble.

He then said that he liked Nigerian women, but that the only problem based on his experience with them is that the only thing they care about is money, and that that was why he doesn’t like dating them.

I was so embarrassed.

Why are our women like this?

It’s terrible.

Their reputation for money obsession is now international.

They need major reorientation, so that they can understand that life is not just about money and wealth.

And the funny thing is that they are the most church-crazed women in Africa, yet the most highly materialistic.

A tragic, stunning irony, and a clear sign that they are only deceiving themselves with that ‘Jesus’ stuff, because no one is fooled, least of all the Most High.

chrisxxx:

It is not all Nigerian women. It is women from a particular tribe the prioritises money over all things. Even in their husband's house offer them good money they will bed you. They think that there God given asset is for Monday making. I never mentioned any tribe. There are over 200 tribes in Nigeria.

MrBrownJay1:


- where in your TRADITIONAL wife bible did you read that a man must be rich to take care of a home?
- where in your TRADITIONAL wife bible did you read that, if wife works too she should keep her own money and spend it on yeye irrelevant nonsense (while husband slave to pay for everything for the family)?
- a traditional wife is a woman who stays home and take care of the family home and children.... the minute that woman gets a job, then no matter how "traditional" she may think she is, she must contribute to the family wellbeing too.

no man has ever been afraid of a woman contributing to family, the problem is that when you women make a little bit of cheddar, you automatically think that you now wear the pant in that family.

Tellmeastory:
On a recent business visit to the UK, I met an Ethiopian professional guy in London, and we had a conversation in which I stated half-jokingly that I would love to visit Ethiopia to get myself a nice, beautiful Ethiopian woman.

He erupted in laughter, and said that I was most welcome to visit Addis Ababa anytime, as the city is filled with beautiful women who are also very humble.

He then said that he liked Nigerian women, but that the only problem based on his experience with them is that the only thing they care about is money, and that that was why he doesn’t like dating them.

I was so embarrassed.

Why are our women like this?

It’s terrible.

Their reputation for money obsession is now international.

They need major reorientation, so that they can understand that life is not just about money and wealth.

And the funny thing is that they are the most church-crazed women in Africa, yet the most highly materialistic.

A tragic, stunning irony, and a clear sign that they are only deceiving themselves with that ‘Jesus’ stuff, because no one is fooled, least of all the Most High.

Zooposki:
I’m not a religious person. I believe in equity. Whomever is more qualified in a particular area btw husband and wife should make the decisions. You can wear the pant in your xtian marriage. Not my business. Research shows that non religious marriages are more fulfilling and has less divorce rates cos the husband and wife are working hand in hand to make the best decisions.

Leemzyy:
Wa alaikah salam,thanks 4 that advice,but well i did research before i actually adopted the name,which means"endure","patience",or "gentle",and by the way its leemzy with my name and surname 2gthr,but plss detail me more on that name if i may be wrong with my research,thank you bro

Bakrabas:




As salaam alaikum sis, sorry for being late not quiet long I closed from work I was busy that's I was unable to to reply you.

Below are some Muslimah names that some think that by removing some letters will give it a beautiful calling

Rasheedah ( righteous) Sheedah (difficulty)

Haleemah (gentle) Leemah (Wig)

Fareedah (unique) Freedah (apostasy)

Fateemah (abstinence) Teemah (catastrophe)

Lateefah (kind) Teefah (ghost)

Leemzyy:
,Wslm,well you are right tho some research says meaning like patience,and endure while some says wig as u stated,but mashallah i will take still take that as an advice and lesson,jazakallah yaaya

Bakrabas:

Waantum fajazakhumllahu khaeran fhee Duniya Wal akhirah...
Sleep tight. Masalaam

Zooposki:


Same women that discriminate against you and call you monkies? Hmmm, ok.

Tallesty1:
Oyibo women are divorcing their husbands and walking away with half and sometimes everything the men have as settlement for divorce but it's Nigeria women that love money.

The Ethiopian dude obviously uses Nairaland.