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Re: What An Ethiopian Man Told Me About Nigerian Women by Standing5(m): 10:12am On Jul 13 |
Zooposki:thing do change. |
Re: What An Ethiopian Man Told Me About Nigerian Women by igborilla: 10:33am On Jul 13 |
chrisxxx:the tribe is my moniker |
Re: What An Ethiopian Man Told Me About Nigerian Women by igborilla: 10:36am On Jul 13 |
Yorubafather:afar find one yellow owerri ashawo for me na |
Re: What An Ethiopian Man Told Me About Nigerian Women by Beverlyjean(f): 10:58am On Jul 13 |
Lionessza6: U made alotvof sense and valuable points... yes , certainly , when ubsee ur partner is overwhelmed with chores , u can help out but it should not be expected ... now the reason I believe in sticking with gender roles , is because the moment u both start to do both roles , high expectations will come in... if he doesn't enter the kicked for a whole week, the woman might start to cause wahala ,and if the woman starts to contribute financially non stop , the day she doesn't, the man will flair up ...cos both now see those role as an expectation.... as they say , don't start what u can't finish ... |
Re: What An Ethiopian Man Told Me About Nigerian Women by Blitzking: 11:13am On Jul 13 |
Tellmeastory:Bring money out and u will be surprised that beret wearing nigerian sister..Christian video status posting sister will hang her legs for you.. |
Re: What An Ethiopian Man Told Me About Nigerian Women by Leemzyy(f): 11:43am On Jul 13 |
Shame 2 girls who are nothing but liability!!! |
Re: What An Ethiopian Man Told Me About Nigerian Women by Lionessza6(f): 11:49am On Jul 13 |
Beverlyjean:I hear you . This where the issue of personal choices and taking full responsibility of the consequences comes in. Some men on this page have said they prefer a woman who is working , now if you choose a nurse, paramedic, Dr, electrician etc people that can work long and odd hours, you need to make peace with the fact that she will not be able to meet your expectations in terms of domestic duties (she's no robot, she gets tired both physically and emotionally). Now I think where we are headed to is to the issue of COMPATIBILITY. From the onset, don't marry someone whose career might disturb the kind of home you envision. This is for both genders . If you prefer to be a housewife and not be engaged in any type of work or trade, then go for a man that prefers that and is capable of carrying through with it. If you want to be a bit of both;work for a few hours but be a dedicated home-mom.....then get someone who will meet you halfway. And ofcourse you can add a house help in the mix( for the couples who both work long hours) .. Whether the maid is a live-in nanny or just someone who comes in once in a while for cleaning and laundry etc. This helps in keeping things balanced on busy days , then on more relaxed days you can both go back to your more traditional roles. My 2cents. But I'm totally against having one part of the relationship carrying a much heavier load than the other just to keep the peace ....because it never ends in peace . Choose wisely I guess. |
Re: What An Ethiopian Man Told Me About Nigerian Women by Leemzyy(f): 11:53am On Jul 13 |
Paythemback:You are right even tho its the bitter truth that most wouldnt agree with,sometimes i believe when a real girl truly loves a guy,it will be a great problem 2 demand something 4rm that guy,but i no longer know if that point still exist or not,4 real we girls should respect ourselves! |
Re: What An Ethiopian Man Told Me About Nigerian Women by Paythemback: 12:43pm On Jul 13 |
Leemzyy: God bless you for this |
Re: What An Ethiopian Man Told Me About Nigerian Women by Leemzyy(f): 12:47pm On Jul 13 |
Paythemback:Ameen ya Allah, u deserve more sir 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What An Ethiopian Man Told Me About Nigerian Women by Bakrabas: 3:25pm On Jul 13 |
Tellmeastory: |
Re: What An Ethiopian Man Told Me About Nigerian Women by Bakrabas: 3:29pm On Jul 13 |
Leemzyy: Always write your name correctly. Leemah as a nickname is very wrong and it has a meaning that is capable to ruin your day if I should tell you. You're Haleemah by name but removing the first two letter adopting the remaining letters as your nickname is wrong. As salaam alaikum sis... |
Re: What An Ethiopian Man Told Me About Nigerian Women by Zooposki(f): 4:12pm On Jul 13 |
Bakrabas: Always monitoring the females while your mates from other races are flying to the moon. |
Re: What An Ethiopian Man Told Me About Nigerian Women by Leemzyy(f): 4:58pm On Jul 13 |
Bakrabas:Wa alaikah salam,thanks 4 that advice,but well i did research before i actually adopted the name,which means"endure","patience",or "gentle",and by the way its leemzy with my name and surname 2gthr,but plss detail me more on that name if i may be wrong with my research,thank you bro |
Re: What An Ethiopian Man Told Me About Nigerian Women by Leemzyy(f): 5:06pm On Jul 13 |
Zooposki:Lol he may be right tho,just maybe my research on the name was not tangible and correct |
Re: What An Ethiopian Man Told Me About Nigerian Women by Zooposki(f): 5:11pm On Jul 13 |
Leemzyy: I know you are a man though with a female moniker. |
Re: What An Ethiopian Man Told Me About Nigerian Women by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:19pm On Jul 13 |
Zooposki: - where in your TRADITIONAL wife bible did you read that a man must be rich to take care of a home? - where in your TRADITIONAL wife bible did you read that, if wife works too she should keep her own money and spend it on yeye irrelevant nonsense (while husband slave to pay for everything for the family)? - a traditional wife is a woman who stays home and take care of the family home and children.... the minute that woman gets a job, then no matter how "traditional" she may think she is, she must contribute to the family wellbeing too. no man has ever been afraid of a woman contributing to family, the problem is that when you women make a little bit of cheddar, you automatically think that you now wear the pant in that family. |
Re: What An Ethiopian Man Told Me About Nigerian Women by Leemzyy(f): 5:33pm On Jul 13 |
Zooposki:Lol what made you think so?am haleemah by name which made him 2 correct me on using a wrong nickname by taking off the first two letters |
Re: What An Ethiopian Man Told Me About Nigerian Women by Bakrabas: 5:36pm On Jul 13 |
Zooposki: Thanks for what you just said but I didn't monitor anyone, I only corrected a muslimah and she understands better. And if there's any doubt at all, simply expose me through who I've monitored. If correcting a muslimah is what you termed monitoring, I'm sorry then. Also, if you are not the real monitoring attachē ma/sir, how do you get to know that my mate are already in the moon🌒 The fact that I'm not in the moon yet is not a barrier because I really appreciate God for where I am currently. I love where I am and very happy Alhamdulillah although I look further to greater height by God's grace Wherever the location of my mates according to you, is not a symbol of success and the location I am right now is not a symbol of failure. What can I say than to thank God... I've a roof over my head, I responsible for my bills, I'm a legit hustler, I'm doing what is expected from someone in my age range, I possess what my mate have possessed legitimately, I am happy, Alhamdulillah... |
Re: What An Ethiopian Man Told Me About Nigerian Women by Esama: 5:45pm On Jul 13 |
This is exactly where the problem is coming from. The entitlement that a man must take care of his wife by providing all necessary even to extend to the wife family. Zooposki: |
Re: What An Ethiopian Man Told Me About Nigerian Women by alphaNomega: 6:12pm On Jul 13 |
Tellmeastory:why are our women like this? it is because they grew up in poverty |
Re: What An Ethiopian Man Told Me About Nigerian Women by Tochi3(m): 6:15pm On Jul 13 |
chrisxxx:..dis one don enter tribalism fast fast.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What An Ethiopian Man Told Me About Nigerian Women by Zooposki(f): 6:39pm On Jul 13 |
MrBrownJay1: I’m not a religious person. I believe in equity. Whomever is more qualified in a particular area btw husband and wife should make the decisions. You can wear the pant in your xtian marriage. Not my business. Research shows that non religious marriages are more fulfilling and has less divorce rates cos the husband and wife are working hand in hand to make the best decisions. |
Re: What An Ethiopian Man Told Me About Nigerian Women by tubolancer(m): 7:30pm On Jul 13 |
Tellmeastory:You are a mumu ma, Ethiopian is telling you about Nigeria, well I don't know sha. What is really happening to children born around early 90s and 2000, what is really happening? |
Re: What An Ethiopian Man Told Me About Nigerian Women by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:11pm On Jul 13 |
Zooposki: religion is irrelevant here... religious men and women are some of the dumbest people in marriage. so lets stick to the issue at hand... we all understand that many men will rather have a traditional woman than the type we all see everyday that want to challenge for head of the family (as if marriage was a competition).... so the important question IS: as we know there cant be two skippers in one boat, who do you think is the head of the family when your husband been working and providing for the family for decades (as well as making all the important decisions) and you now suddenly have a job after a few decades under this man's "leadership"? |
Re: What An Ethiopian Man Told Me About Nigerian Women by Bakrabas: 11:18pm On Jul 13 |
Leemzyy: As salaam alaikum sis, sorry for being late not quiet long I closed from work I was busy that's I was unable to to reply you. Below are some Muslimah names that some think that by removing some letters will give it a beautiful calling Rasheedah ( righteous) Sheedah (difficulty) Haleemah (gentle) Leemah (Wig) Fareedah (unique) Freedah (apostasy) Fateemah (abstinence) Teemah (catastrophe) Lateefah (kind) Teefah (ghost) |
Re: What An Ethiopian Man Told Me About Nigerian Women by Leemzyy(f): 11:33pm On Jul 13 |
Bakrabas:,Wslm,well you are right tho some research says meaning like patience,and endure while some says wig as u stated,but mashallah i will take still take that as an advice and lesson,jazakallah yaaya |
Re: What An Ethiopian Man Told Me About Nigerian Women by Bakrabas: 11:40pm On Jul 13 |
Leemzyy: Waantum fajazakhumllahu khaeran fhee Duniya Wal akhirah... Sleep tight. Masalaam |
Re: What An Ethiopian Man Told Me About Nigerian Women by Leemzyy(f): 11:41pm On Jul 13 |
Bakrabas:Mii salam |
Re: What An Ethiopian Man Told Me About Nigerian Women by Leemzyy(f): 11:55pm On Jul 13 |
[quote author=Bakrabas post=130940365] Thanks for what you just said but I didn't monitor anyone, I only corrected a muslimah and she understands better. And if there's any doubt at all, simply expose me through who I've monitored. If correcting a muslimah is what you termed monitoring, I'm sorry then. Also, if you are not the real monitoring attachē ma/sir, how do you get to know that my mate are already in the moon |
Re: What An Ethiopian Man Told Me About Nigerian Women by Cabalgeneral: 5:40am On Jul 14 |
Zooposki: Ethiopia are black Africa you think they are White |
Re: What An Ethiopian Man Told Me About Nigerian Women by DonroxyII: 9:20am On Jul 20 |
Tallesty1:Nigerian Women are The Most Insulted Abused Women On Earth .... Nevertheless, I still Love Our Women Like Today's Bread .. There is No Women From Any Nation That Would Helped You Raised an Ogbaa Children Like Nigerian Mothers .... We can Fvck Women From Other Nations For Fun But Strictly Nigerian Women For Marriage Make We No Dey Well Together !! |
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