dumahi:

May not be what you think. My experience is that the ladies who find it most difficult to marry are some of the best behaved. And the society creates many of the problems like high bride prices, etc.

Not all of them were well behaved oh
Some are well behaved because they have now experienced life & now see things differently. They are just like some of us men that didn't understand why our parents didn't built mansions, but only got to understand after graduation. Life taught them, not that they were well behaved. Higher percentage of old single ladies were unreasonably selective during their prime!

docdes:
I've been seeing cases of our women advertising their need for husbands. What do you think about it?

Thé right way out of this
Families should look for life partners for their daughters once they turn 18
Arranged marriage would save a lot of ladies the stress of finding a good husband
The responsibility should’ve been on her family
It becomes difficult to find a serious guy once she’s past a certain age

Obierika:
The solution is for the government to mandate financially capable men to each marry at least 3 wives

Why mandate? You can marry as many as you wish, stop waiting for government to mandate you.

Coolsat:
Redflags no need to have taken this route if they were marriageable. Eligible bachelors are seriously searching but what we have around are not to be taken seriously. Sad

This is false. Men are scarce because times are hard. A man has to be able to feed himself before looking for a wife and children to cater for. Also, some eligible suitors are languishing in prisons for one crime or allegation.

Natbrowny:
What were they doing when they were younger?
How many have they rejected coz of different reasons?
How many serious lads have they friendzoned?

hmm... you will have daughters too ooooo
You think any single lady was rough or picky. Life is not black and white.

Natbrowny:
What were they doing when they were younger?
How many have they rejected coz of different reasons?
How many serious lads have they friendzoned?

Shut dude, age has no factor in marriage, those women are not up to 40yrs. I see men thronging after widows and women who are late 40s, the problem is the value of the women, what value are they adding to themselves that reflects on the society. It's a stupid thing for a woman of virtue to go around looking for a husband, it's disgusting affair.

The issue is simply that the society has washed their brain in looking for a man instead of finding fulfillment in single hood. A happy single man or woman will make a good marriage, do they have the qualities and if they do, why haven't they found a man yet. Some might be a spiritual case and also might be lack of information on how to add value to themselves.

docdes:
I've been seeing cases of our women advertising their need for husbands. What do you think about it?

Isaiah 4:1

1. In that day, seven women will take hold of one man, and say, “We will eat our own food, and provide our own clothes; only let us be called by your name, as your wife. Take away our disgrace!”

Greenfaces:
hmm... you will have daughters too ooooo
You think any single lady was rough or picky. Life is not black and white.

I wasn't judging homie

I was asking questions.
Truly life ain't black and white. I agree 💯

Sheuns:
Single mother of 3 at 27 years of age needs a white husband.

Her terms: Ready to be a good housewife.

God help you with your search.

That one nah cruise she dey catch abeg

docdes:
I've been seeing cases of our women advertising their need for husbands. What do you think about it?

Them dey catch cruise.

Obierika:
The solution is for the government to mandate financially capable men to each marry at least 3 wives

three is too much for some pen is

Any woman who goes to this extent in search of a husband is a red flag,if as a man you consider settling with such women, you would kpai prematurely of unnatural causes

These are the type of women, when you marry them, they will make you regret ever marrying them. To think most of them are baby mamas is not surprising at all.

Beauty fades away.

Westernization is the actual cause. Since they used both religion and so called civilisation to discredit Polygamy, that was when it all started gradually and consistently.

And it will definitely get worse UNTIL...

'Because Amaka was lucky to marry a rich man, me sef must marry rich man or boy or rich whatever'

This above is one of the reasons some of them are having this problem

Coolsat:
Redflags no need to have taken this route if they were marriageable. Eligible spinsters are seriously searching but what we have around are not to be taken seriously. Sad

kinharold:
Westernization is the actual cause. Since they used both religion and so called civilisation to discredit Polygamy, that was when it all started gradually and consistently.

And it will definitely get worse UNTIL...

My brother you may be right but on a second look, polygamy isn't a good option either in this time and age

Maintaining one woman and her children is now very expensive, talk more of marrying two. Except you want to breed almajiris and remain in poverty till death

God abeg o!

Earthstorms:


This shows one of the negative side of modern living.

Our forefathers married many wives and also families arranged marriage for their children. This largely ensured that majority of the women had husbands.

Today, polygamy is frowned at and arranged marriage is seen as a taboo by many.

The young ladies are now expected to source for husbands by themselves and some fail to get husbands.

Also many young men can not afford to marry because they financial requirements exceeds their capabilities unlike in the old days where the financial requirements to raise a family is very low.

You would marry someone you don't know anything about in this 21st century

I wanted to marry my ex bt she said i av wicked character...

So my ex before that ex forced me to marry her. She is an army officer, officer Certified with commisioned rank.

D day my ex called me on d phone and my wife picked d call. They ended up quarreling. She called some of her regular.

My woman didn't tell me what she did, i heard from someone that she took four soldiers to her place and they taught the my ex gf how to respect married women.


My ex is still single till now. Althoug we meet codedly

Natbrowny:
What were they doing when they were younger?
How many have they rejected coz of different reasons?
How many serious lads have they friendzoned?

Doesn't always follow this way

Reality is catching up with them

achimendy:


Is not totally true, some wasted their lives when they where young, some where busy Waiting for already made men.

You see the made men thing. That is the exact problem of 90% of these stupid and useless modern ladies especially the ones that are from poor homes. That is the truth.

It will get very much worse by year 2030. I sincerly hope they won't start committing suicide due to their delusions because by then their frustrations and pains will be so unbearable.

Rubyjade:

Keep deceiving yourself. Your ponmo will be full of cobwebs.

Earthstorms:


This shows one of the negative side of modern living.

Our forefathers married many wives and also families arranged marriage for their children. This largely ensured that majority of the women had husbands.

Today, polygamy is frowned at and arranged marriage is seen as a taboo by many.

The young ladies are now expected to source for husbands by themselves and some fail to get husbands.

Also many young men can not afford to marry because they financial requirements exceeds their capabilities unlike in the old days where the financial requirements to raise a family is very low.

Polygamy only works in a warfaring society full of tribes. The men at the top with resources get multiple wives. The men at the bottom are sent to war to vent their anger and capture war brides.

Polygamy is why the sahel and the north are full of angry terrorists. Its easy to recruit young men who will never be able to find a wife or start a family. If you want to practice polygamy then first decide which of Nigerias young men shall go to war and die and who's woman will Nigerians steal? Those of Benin and Togo? Those of Niger and Mali? Those of Ghana ?

SUPERBLOOM:
What were they doing when they were below 25 years Old? That's the best age for a woman to attract a suitor

high bride price

40 Is around the corner, its time to sell stale meat

hkidola00:
high bride price

I don't understand

godofuck231:
40 Is around the corner, its time to sell stale meat

lol

Oh! They've started public service announcement That will also crash like their useless ego failed woefully.

Una all need husband who know what they might use their past boyfriend face see b4 now ,like one useless bag of beans walk away from a guy that proposed to her within d campus.
Soon she most surely carry advert like una

JustPowerApps:
Oh! They've started public service announcement That will also crash like their useless ego failed woefully.