Hello nairalanders

I work in a place where both sexes interact freely,both men and women, and I can say I am one of the youngest guys in the place because most are married men there.
I am this kind of easy going and warm guy whom tends to listen to individuals when they talk and like to hear them out more than I doing the talking.
But one thing I came to discover even before now,is that married ladies are more attracted to me and when I give a lady especially single ones attention I discovered even if at first they play the I-don't-care attitude soon after they begin to get warm towards me and act jealous when I feel like I want to gist with some other lady or person.
I have gone into some relationships but the ladies in question want me to be with them 24/7 in a kind of possessiveness which bores me.
I listen to ladies talk,jest them and laugh at their jokes but I don't go far more than that except I want to go into relationship with them which I barely do,I don't even fancy the thought of bleeping them because I think that would only ruin me.
Right from my uni days till now both married colleagues of the opposite gender and the single ones due to my nature of creating an avenue of them being so relaxed around me,they felt that I am that sort of guy they can own,some of my guys think that I am into something serious with them and somehow this is trying to affect my going into relationship with a lady tomorrow, I know ladies are jealous more of each other but that's my nature.
Now my recent relationship crashed because the lady is quite over possessive.
What would I do.

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Neither of them (single and married ladies) are in love with you. It's just a simple manipulation trick women play in offices to get basic things like lunch and other goodies from weak men like you.

For you to fall for that shows how inexperienced you are in the ways women operate. And I can assure you that you won't get to hug any of them let alone see their pants.

Just focus on your job and maintain a cooperate relationship with them. That way you've successfully safeguarded your wallet.

Nazgul:
Neither of them (single and married ladies) are in love with you. It's just a simple manipulation trick women play in offices to get basic things like lunch and other goodies from weak men like you.

For you to fall for that shows how inexperienced you are in the ways women operate. And I can assure you that you won't get to hug any of them let alone see their pants.

Just focus on your job and maintain a cooperate relationship with them. That way you've successfully safeguarded your wallet.

He who get ear, let him hear. Run for your pocket.

shortgun:
I can't believe you studied in a university and you still seem to be unaware of how women behave. None of them is attracted to you, at best they just want to use you to their benefit.

Inexperienced has put so many men into problem. You have spoken well my bro. He who get ear let him hear.

Theopneustos:
Hello nairalanders

I work in a place where both sexes interact freely,both men and women, and I can say I am one of the youngest guys in the place because most are married men there.
I am this kind of easy going and warm guy whom tends to listen to individuals when they talk and like to hear them out more than I doing the talking.
But one thing I came to discover even before now,is that married ladies are more attracted to me and when I give a lady especially single ones attention I discovered even if at first they play the I-don't-care attitude soon after they begin to get warm towards me and act jealous when I feel like I want to gist with some other lady or person.
I have gone into some relationships but the ladies in question want me to be with them 24/7 in a kind of possessiveness which bores me.
I listen to ladies talk,jest them and laugh at their jokes but I don't go far more than that except I want to go into relationship with them which I barely do,I don't even fancy the thought of bleeping them because I think that would only ruin me.
Right from my uni days till now both married colleagues of the opposite gender and the single ones due to my nature of creating an avenue of them being so relaxed around me,they felt that I am that sort of guy they can own,some of my guys think that I am into something serious with them and somehow this is trying to affect my going into relationship with a lady tomorrow, I know ladies are jealous more of each other but that's my nature.
Now my recent relationship crashed because the lady is quite over possessive.
What would I do.

#Copied

Face your work

shortgun:
I can't believe you studied in a university and you still seem to be unaware of how women behave. None of them is attracted to you, at best they just want to use you to their benefit.

He knows nothing.. As soon as they are able to get very close to him,see finish go enter.. Better dey your dey and let them keep wondering why you are far from them.. Na that your behavior dey attract them,once you give in,you go resign for time when no too long..

Still trying to understand Op's problem.🤔🤔

You have a lovable personality but you don't want to be hooked? You love the attention but you don't want anyone to own yours. Is that it?

Haha... Internet Michael Jackson u never know anything. By the time they're done with U na Chris Mba U go resemble... Novice

dkidd:
Haha... Internet Michael Jackson u never know anything. By the time they're done with U na Chris Mba U go resemble... Novice

Vote Okpebelo

EreluRoz:
Vote Okpebelo

You mean Oklebholo? U already know I'm into partisan politics

dkidd:

Who's that one?

APC Edo 😂😂😂

EreluRoz:
APC Edo 😂😂😂

I don't play those things and even if I did can U vote from Lagos?

dkidd:

I don't play those things and even if I did can U vote from Lagos?

Nothing stops you from going down to vote. When the youth shy away from politics then the oldies keep dishing us rubbish

EreluRoz:
APC Edo 😂😂😂

is this the clone account 😀😀😀

Small boy trying to fvck big toto.

EreluRoz:
Nothing stops you from going down to vote. When the youth shy away from politics then the oldies keep dishing us rubbish

Wait o.. so because of that I should go down to Benin to vote abi? Casting ur votes or not the oldies will still dish out the same rubbish.

imagrg:
Small boy trying to fvck big toto.

No boy is too small, na how you carry yourself matter..

There’s no better time to focus and get mastery of the job than now, save your earnings and start a side business- stay away from office women- they do have their meetings someways and make a whole jest of male colleagues making evil plans- stay woke

Single mom are mostly married for short time. So you can turn fantasy to them. They re also married buy no longer with their man.

Leave married women who still in her husband's house.. protect the sanctity of holy matrimony

This person thinks he's Brad Pitt. All the women dey chase you, lol. Like someone said, you're a kid and don't understand women.

Stay away from anything office romance and focus on what puts food on your table. Any girl you're not serious with shouldn't know the direction to your office.