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Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by Swaelyf(f): 1:34pm On Jul 19 |
. Religion needs to be part of the convo b4 marriage,every1 has the right to their beliefs so if b4 marriage,if there is no conclusion or compromise its better not to go ahead because it always causes issues. Gr8mind07: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by Victoruzo95: 2:12pm On Jul 19 |
Mr Poster, Marriage is divine, God created marriage whether it is your pastor or her pastor it doesn’t matter as far as you verify they are from same source Looking for advice on this platform is very risky Because most “advicers” here are not married. (no marriage experience) secondly some don’t know the basicities of marriage. Obviously you love and respect your wife, don’t let social media and your ego If you sense within you the pastor is genuine swallow your pride. Let peace reign in your home. |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by ashantitope: 3:35pm On Jul 19 |
Just let her have do as she wish but if possible try and start keeping money for DNA before it to late and when the results comes out and you are the real father so let this be her last time she will give you order on something you are capable of handling |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by Caleycash(m): 3:55pm On Jul 19 |
BlindAngel:Carry your cross, una wey dey agree to marry this kind rebellious women una head no correct!, imagine struggling to make money when nobody even send you as a man then finally marrying trouble with same hard earned money, Godforbid! |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by Caleycash(m): 4:18pm On Jul 19 |
vanvickie:Walahi many men are finished!... I can't even fathom going to my wife's church, I dey mad??, she God no dey my own church??, weak men everything! |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by Caleycash(m): 4:18pm On Jul 19 |
vanvickie:Walahi many men are finished!... I can't even fathom going to my wife's church, I dey mad??, shey God no dey my own church??, weak men everywhere! |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by Caleycash(m): 4:23pm On Jul 19 |
BlindAngel:Nawa oo, na your kind of man many of them out there dey find, weak men who has no standards and principles, before I married my wife has become a member of my church already, you gave room for all these manipulations from tye onset so carry your cross!, a wife is to be submissive to your will not you doing that and that's not wickedness, God no dey your church?, are you worshipping devil there??, kai alot of you men are annoyingly very weak, Godforbid! |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by Caleycash(m): 4:27pm On Jul 19 |
Maeve7:Right thing is to follow him to his church not hers!, I wonder why you all love all these soft narratives, a man is tye leader of his home, I don't even pity men like him, he's obviously a very big SIMP! |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by Jamieb(m): 4:29pm On Jul 19 |
BlindAngel: I don't want to call you names cos you're a married man and I believe you should stamp your authority. If you had stopped this rubbish by ensuring you both attend your church together, this nonsense display from her won't come up. as long as you failed to address it and fell for her manipulation, expect more disrespect and challenge to your authority. You've already shown her you're a weak man by "allowing peace to reign ". |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by Jamieb(m): 4:35pm On Jul 19 |
BlindAngel: From all ramifications you married a wrong wife and you will suffer for it . First she manipulate you into marrying her , then this . If you're being honest, you will agree her mother controls their home , and now her daughter wants to control your home too. Better stand your ground and ban her from attending that church henceforth. If she's not ready to listen to you , she can become a single mum like her sis . But then get ready for more issues |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by Freddo99(m): 4:44pm On Jul 19 |
A complete SIMP and mumu guy! I no blame the woman but i blame u for allowing her to have her way from d beginning. |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by Caleycash(m): 4:45pm On Jul 19 |
Foodqueen:This stupidity not sacrifice, I bet there still won't be PEACE! |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by Ebowo(f): 5:11pm On Jul 19 |
BlindAngel: This one is a very serious matter o!.officiating naming or not is not d problem at all... |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by Boomark(m): 6:27pm On Jul 19 |
BlindAngel: https://www.nairaland.com/7654258/disobedience-to-husband-and-issue-of-attending-different-chuches Read this post bro and solve your problem. Let your wife read it too. |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by EndRape2(f): 6:29pm On Jul 19 |
I am sure you are single , so you know nothing, you are just typing trash. Women always want to be celebrated among their peers ,doing it in her church will make most of the women in her church to attend which is a plus to her , She has nothing to gain in her husband family church if naming is done there .since she is not attending that church. If her naming is not done in her church, she will feel left out, since other women are doing theirs I am married so I can proudly tell you this . All of you that are senseless and insensitive to women plight should stop giving Mumu advice to destroy homes . post=131020962]First of all, do you mean she wants her pastor to CHOOSE the name of your baby or OFFICIATE the naming ceremony? Secondly, do a DNA test to confirm rhat you'll not be raising the bastard son of her pastor. This woman obviously WORSHIPS her pastor. It's not UNIMAGINABLE that she's tendered her pussy as offering one or two times. Next you need to face the fact that a SCAMMER (the pastor) and a STRANGE man (still the pastor) exerts more INFLUENCE in your marriage than you do. And ask yourself whether you still want to be in that marriage. A strange man holds the remote control to your relationship. Your marriage subsists by his will. Are you okay with that? NEXT, she is blatantly MANIPULATING you without remorse. You are NOT responsible for the complications that led to the C-Section. Even if it's because the baby is too big because you are a big man, it's still NOT your fault. Her eyes were wild open when she CHOSE to marry you and have your child. If it's yours, that is. STOP letting her use child birth as an ammo for manipulating you. Because if you capitulate today, you best belive she'll NEVER stop. Next she'll weaponise the child. Then her next pregnancy would be a NUCLEAR weapon. Everything you previously disagreed on would be tabled again UNTIL she has her way. Maybe she'll demand you DONATE your house to her pastor and rent a room and parlour for yourself. Put your foot down and DON'T even compromise. Don't allow her pastor to be involved in ANYWAY when it comes to naming the child unless DNA proves the child is his. [/quote] |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by EndRape2(f): 6:30pm On Jul 19 |
Ignore this mad mad damaged man advice if you want a home. quote author=EndRape2 post=131041839]I am sure you are single , so you know nothing, you are just typing trash. Women always want to be celebrated among their peers ,doing it in her church will make most of the women in her church to attend which is a plus to her , She has nothing to gain in her husband family church if naming is done there .since she is not attending that church. If her naming is not done in her church, she will feel left out, since other women are doing theirs I am married so I can proudly tell you this . All of you that are senseless and insensitive to women plight should stop giving Mumu advice to destroy homes . post=131020962]First of all, do you mean she wants her pastor to CHOOSE the name of your baby or OFFICIATE the naming ceremony? Secondly, do a DNA test to confirm rhat you'll not be raising the bastard son of her pastor. This woman obviously WORSHIPS her pastor. It's not UNIMAGINABLE that she's tendered her pussy as offering one or two times. Next you need to face the fact that a SCAMMER (the pastor) and a STRANGE man (still the pastor) exerts more INFLUENCE in your marriage than you do. And ask yourself whether you still want to be in that marriage. A strange man holds the remote control to your relationship. Your marriage subsists by his will. Are you okay with that? NEXT, she is blatantly MANIPULATING you without remorse. You are NOT responsible for the complications that led to the C-Section. Even if it's because the baby is too big because you are a big man, it's still NOT your fault. Her eyes were wild open when she CHOSE to marry you and have your child. If it's yours, that is. STOP letting her use child birth as an ammo for manipulating you. Because if you capitulate today, you best belive she'll NEVER stop. Next she'll weaponise the child. Then her next pregnancy would be a NUCLEAR weapon. Everything you previously disagreed on would be tabled again UNTIL she has her way. Maybe she'll demand you DONATE your house to her pastor and rent a room and parlour for yourself. Put your foot down and DON'T even compromise. Don't allow her pastor to be involved in ANYWAY when it comes to naming the child unless DNA proves the child is his. [/quote] |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by EndRape2(f): 6:38pm On Jul 19 |
My dear you are the problem in your home, what is your family decision still doing in your home? You keep saying your family ,your family this is wrong, your new family is you and your wife, the two of you should start attending one church, different from that of your family, so that all things can be done there . Your family do not have right to decide where naming is done and where Thanksgiving should be done . Will your child start going to your family church? Please put your home in order, and focus on your new family . Get a Bible believing church, close to your house where you can attend with your family daily . Some churches have branches everywhere, even if you want to continue with your family church, look for a branch close to you and your wife, that is different from the branch your parents are going and start attending Put your house inorder . Concerning the naming, party belongs to women, she might pick her church because she want all her church members to be there that is women for you. Reason the two of you should start attending one church it is very important . Leave your mother and father church, start your own with your wife. quote author=BlindAngel post=131021173] That's the church she was attending before we got married, so I don't want to stop her in order for it not to seems like I'm wicked and for her not to call me names. Yesterday she reminded me that after our marriage my family forced her to do thanks giving at our church. She has been saying this for long, but stopped, until yesterday. I told her that doing thanks giving at our church is now a bad thing or something that's forceful? She cried a lot yesterday because of our argument of this naming. Same tears she used in forcing me into getting married to her when I wasn't in anyway ready. [/quote] |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by EndRape2(f): 6:42pm On Jul 19 |
Let her pastor be part, it gives women joy and honour in their church, besides more pastors can attend . Let your parent come with their own pastors ,and let her pastor be there also You can bring I million pastors to naming no problem Hope you are not planning to go do it in your parent house ? It should be done in your house please be a man and stop allowing your parent have say in your marriage . |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by EndRape2(f): 6:50pm On Jul 19 |
Lol You are about to make the biggest mistake of your life , you brought your marital issues to a platform full of damaged men, calling themselves Alpha male and you think they are in best positions to advice you? You will regreat this trust me ,I am not your wife but I am telling you that you will regreat your actions . Most of the people advicing you do not have a wife at home, some are in their 5th marriage, some are single Some are even doing better or tolerating more from their wives . But are here dishing advice and you want to take it? Calm down It took me 8years to change my husband name , because most documents have my surname it was not easy. Your marriage is new, take things one after the other . Before you regreat. Look for a counselor outside this place after your naming . |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by mankan2k7(m): 6:54pm On Jul 19 |
BlindAngel: Seems u are not ready to be a man. U are a SIMPle man. U are a disgrace to brotherhood. |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by EndRape2(f): 6:54pm On Jul 19 |
The love is not there , and you are not sexually attracted to her . This is the problem of your marriage . You do not love her and you are not sexually attracted to her, so let her go. Indeed you are a wicked man. quote author=BlindAngel post=131022640] This is what I intend doing, thanks for your advise, I will do as you advised as it's the absolutely best thing to do right now. Although I have already given in on letting her pastor officiate the naming because of her CS operation, for her cry not to affect her. But after everything, she won't go to that church again and I swear to God that if she refused she will pack her load and go, after all the love isn't there and I'm not sexually attracted to her. Same tears she used in manipulating me in getting married to her is same tears she's still using in getting her way after every little misunderstanding. I will stop her from going to that church, I have had enough already. [/quote] |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by Maeve7: 6:58pm On Jul 19 |
Caleycash: Find a woman who loves her man to be totally inconsiderate of what she wants and you‘ll be ok. Good luck! |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by Segzy19: 7:13pm On Jul 19 |
That's nonsense! Be the man of your house... Stand your ground As a father, you handle your child during the naming ceremony and pronounce the names as it is done in the bible. The pastor can say his own prayers and officiate things but the naming of the child i.e. the pronouncements should be done e by you whilst you or your wife carries the baby.... Don't loose your cool over this. Allow whichever pastor to officiate things but you must name your child and bless him or her first before any pastor does. That is one of the god-given fatherly authorities the Creator has given you over your children. Exercise it! The pastor can officiate but can't take over your fatherly authorities |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by iamL(f): 8:01pm On Jul 19 |
BlindAngel: Your last paragraph says alot about you and the reason your wife is using tears to get to you. I pity ladies that force themselves on a man. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by cybergawd: 9:17pm On Jul 19 |
You wrote my mind. DNA before Naming. No DNA No Naming.... His wife is a suspect. Namaster: |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by adebayoggt(m): 9:18pm On Jul 19 |
BlindAngel: You're not yet matured to get married. Know this and know peace. Even as I read your responses,I dey wish you're not my relation. Oga let's rest here abeg! |
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