Hajokexyz:
Jazakallahu khayran.

ask4bk:
Omo, with all the things we see Nigerian ladies doing today, e reach to beg Allah not to give me daughters abeg.
Give me 10 boys, I don't care.
Having a daughter in this era is sending oneself to early grave with heart attack.
Mek I no come see my daughter leak de trend, or someone bending her over because of 10k.

Solitechworld:
Letter to my daughter in the future...


1. May Allāh bless and honour you, you have grown into a beautiful young lady and I am so proud of you. I love you so deeply even love itself will be jealous.

2. Know that it is a normal biological response to be attracted to a man. It only indicates you are healthy. Allāh will not question you about thoughts that form in your heart. You are only responsible for what you let them make you do. So, there is nothing special about being attracted to any boy or man. Where you could really lose your feminine esteem and dignity is what you let that feeling make you do.

3. My love, I didn't raise you to feel inferior to men. We don't believe in gender equality, but this inequality is more a matter of segregated responsibilities than a matter of superiority and inferiority. For instance, I haven't raised you to think you are by default less intelligent than any man. You can be the very best in any field you have chosen for yourself. Accepting your femininity makes you great. You will struggle to find your footing if you strive to be recognised the way men are recognised. Just be a woman, a great woman.

4. Let's talk a little about dependence and independence. For now you are dependent on me, and you may also be dependent on your brothers, and someday you will be dependent on your husband. Those men that are your mahrams, they are the ones you should feel confident depending on. Outside of them, strive to have as little need for other men as possible because that is a loophole men love to exploit. Strive to read and understand the course, you don't need any man to put you through. The less you need of men that are not your mahrams the more the respect and regard they will have for you. I want you to be a tough and fierce woman that still embodies all the meekness and gentility of femininity.

5. You are a Muslimah, you don't keep men as friends, and have no need for it. It is beneath you. Be the kind of woman that commands so much respect that men have to weigh what they say to you before they approach you.

6. I didn't raise you to go and propose to men. It is a vulnerability I want you to strive to overcome at all cost. Any man that is loved by many women you have to put special effort to be indifferent to him because he will likely be full of himself. He must have received many proposals from many women and you will only go and grow the list. You don't want to be that. By Allāh's will you will be a highly sought after woman and be the one to make your choice.

7. If you ever feel so strongly about any man at any time, do let me know. Sweetheart, I promise to NEVER judge your feelings and choices, as long as you trust me enough to understand I may accept or reject it. You have my word that I wouldn't mind going on your behalf to do things the right way. You will see young ladies your age that men pluck from the street at will. You are different dear. You are dignity personified. You are not that cheap.

8. It is a good thing your Dad knows a lot about the antics men use to trick their way into the heart of women. We will have a detailed discussion on that some other time. Treat all men as suspects until proven otherwise, and stay within the limits your Lord has set for you, may Allāh guide and protect you.

9. Learn to respect people and even admire them without getting emotionally attracted to them. Make your emotions very expensive. You may admire a person's knowledge, intelligence, commitment to the deen, speech and writing prowess and all but be emotionally indifferent to them. You don't need to love everything you like.

10. I have saved the best for the last, fear Allāh in all you do. Whatever you abandon Allāh to achieve will end in regret. Be willing to let go of anything that jeopardises your connection with Allāh. The grave is dark and lonely. I will travel the world to protect you but not even I can help you there. I am only a guide, you are responsible for yourself, but I have so much trust and confidence in you. May Allāh guide your every step and make you beneficial to yourself and to the world.

I love you pumpkin, more than you will ever know.

Abu Imrān

kkins25:
"you are not inferior to any man"

Then goes ahead to explain how she will be dependent...on men. 😂😂😂

Luckysbab:


As the men will depend on the women for some needs.

Solitechworld:
Letter to my daughter in the future...


1. May Allāh bless and honour you, you have grown into a beautiful young lady and I am so proud of you. I love you so deeply even love itself will be jealous.

2. Know that it is a normal biological response to be attracted to a man. It only indicates you are healthy. Allāh will not question you about thoughts that form in your heart. You are only responsible for what you let them make you do. So, there is nothing special about being attracted to any boy or man. Where you could really lose your feminine esteem and dignity is what you let that feeling make you do.

3. My love, I didn't raise you to feel inferior to men. We don't believe in gender equality, but this inequality is more a matter of segregated responsibilities than a matter of superiority and inferiority. For instance, I haven't raised you to think you are by default less intelligent than any man. You can be the very best in any field you have chosen for yourself. Accepting your femininity makes you great. You will struggle to find your footing if you strive to be recognised the way men are recognised. Just be a woman, a great woman.

4. Let's talk a little about dependence and independence. For now you are dependent on me, and you may also be dependent on your brothers, and someday you will be dependent on your husband. Those men that are your mahrams, they are the ones you should feel confident depending on. Outside of them, strive to have as little need for other men as possible because that is a loophole men love to exploit. Strive to read and understand the course, you don't need any man to put you through. The less you need of men that are not your mahrams the more the respect and regard they will have for you. I want you to be a tough and fierce woman that still embodies all the meekness and gentility of femininity.

5. You are a Muslimah, you don't keep men as friends, and have no need for it. It is beneath you. Be the kind of woman that commands so much respect that men have to weigh what they say to you before they approach you.

6. I didn't raise you to go and propose to men. It is a vulnerability I want you to strive to overcome at all cost. Any man that is loved by many women you have to put special effort to be indifferent to him because he will likely be full of himself. He must have received many proposals from many women and you will only go and grow the list. You don't want to be that. By Allāh's will you will be a highly sought after woman and be the one to make your choice.

7. If you ever feel so strongly about any man at any time, do let me know. Sweetheart, I promise to NEVER judge your feelings and choices, as long as you trust me enough to understand I may accept or reject it. You have my word that I wouldn't mind going on your behalf to do things the right way. You will see young ladies your age that men pluck from the street at will. You are different dear. You are dignity personified. You are not that cheap.

8. It is a good thing your Dad knows a lot about the antics men use to trick their way into the heart of women. We will have a detailed discussion on that some other time. Treat all men as suspects until proven otherwise, and stay within the limits your Lord has set for you, may Allāh guide and protect you.

9. Learn to respect people and even admire them without getting emotionally attracted to them. Make your emotions very expensive. You may admire a person's knowledge, intelligence, commitment to the deen, speech and writing prowess and all but be emotionally indifferent to them. You don't need to love everything you like.

10. I have saved the best for the last, fear Allāh in all you do. Whatever you abandon Allāh to achieve will end in regret. Be willing to let go of anything that jeopardises your connection with Allāh. The grave is dark and lonely. I will travel the world to protect you but not even I can help you there. I am only a guide, you are responsible for yourself, but I have so much trust and confidence in you. May Allāh guide your every step and make you beneficial to yourself and to the world.

I love you pumpkin, more than you will ever know.

Abu Imrān

hiyagroundz:
It seems the obsession of this father is strictly on protecting the girl child from the men, as if that is all to life & typical of a person who I believe has an history of destroying younger girls in his youthful days. Well never mind, we know she s already bethroded to her cousin for incest as practiced by her culture, so no seriously trained young man should waste his time dating her

Solitechworld:
Letter to my daughter in the future...


1. May Allāh bless and honour you, you have grown into a beautiful young lady and I am so proud of you. I love you so deeply even love itself will be jealous.

2. Know that it is a normal biological response to be attracted to a man. It only indicates you are healthy. Allāh will not question you about thoughts that form in your heart. You are only responsible for what you let them make you do. So, there is nothing special about being attracted to any boy or man. Where you could really lose your feminine esteem and dignity is what you let that feeling make you do.

3. My love, I didn't raise you to feel inferior to men. We don't believe in gender equality, but this inequality is more a matter of segregated responsibilities than a matter of superiority and inferiority. For instance, I haven't raised you to think you are by default less intelligent than any man. You can be the very best in any field you have chosen for yourself. Accepting your femininity makes you great. You will struggle to find your footing if you strive to be recognised the way men are recognised. Just be a woman, a great woman.

4. Let's talk a little about dependence and independence. For now you are dependent on me, and you may also be dependent on your brothers, and someday you will be dependent on your husband. Those men that are your mahrams, they are the ones you should feel confident depending on. Outside of them, strive to have as little need for other men as possible because that is a loophole men love to exploit. Strive to read and understand the course, you don't need any man to put you through. The less you need of men that are not your mahrams the more the respect and regard they will have for you. I want you to be a tough and fierce woman that still embodies all the meekness and gentility of femininity.

5. You are a Muslimah, you don't keep men as friends, and have no need for it. It is beneath you. Be the kind of woman that commands so much respect that men have to weigh what they say to you before they approach you.

6. I didn't raise you to go and propose to men. It is a vulnerability I want you to strive to overcome at all cost. Any man that is loved by many women you have to put special effort to be indifferent to him because he will likely be full of himself. He must have received many proposals from many women and you will only go and grow the list. You don't want to be that. By Allāh's will you will be a highly sought after woman and be the one to make your choice.

7. If you ever feel so strongly about any man at any time, do let me know. Sweetheart, I promise to NEVER judge your feelings and choices, as long as you trust me enough to understand I may accept or reject it. You have my word that I wouldn't mind going on your behalf to do things the right way. You will see young ladies your age that men pluck from the street at will. You are different dear. You are dignity personified. You are not that cheap.

8. It is a good thing your Dad knows a lot about the antics men use to trick their way into the heart of women. We will have a detailed discussion on that some other time. Treat all men as suspects until proven otherwise, and stay within the limits your Lord has set for you, may Allāh guide and protect you.

9. Learn to respect people and even admire them without getting emotionally attracted to them. Make your emotions very expensive. You may admire a person's knowledge, intelligence, commitment to the deen, speech and writing prowess and all but be emotionally indifferent to them. You don't need to love everything you like.

10. I have saved the best for the last, fear Allāh in all you do. Whatever you abandon Allāh to achieve will end in regret. Be willing to let go of anything that jeopardises your connection with Allāh. The grave is dark and lonely. I will travel the world to protect you but not even I can help you there. I am only a guide, you are responsible for yourself, but I have so much trust and confidence in you. May Allāh guide your every step and make you beneficial to yourself and to the world.

I love you pumpkin, more than you will ever know.

Abu Imrān

Saladdin:


Mods, there's a Looney on the loose. NLFPMOD, Sissie, please do the needful.

hiyagroundz:
I guess it would be correct to assume you were an offspring of such intimacy, Donkey!

Saladdin:


Like I suspected, you'll definitely show your lack of home training to the world. I'm not surprised.

Making conclusions without any proof or evidence are symptoms of low intellect. I'm definitely not surprised. I will be bringing myself low if I keep exchanging words with dumbos like you.

This is my last reply to you. Kindly do us a favour and do what you do best, bark!

Saladdin:


Like I suspected, you'll definitely show your lack of home training to the world. I'm not surprised.

Making conclusions without any proof or evidence are symptoms of low intellect. I'm definitely not surprised. I will be bringing myself low if I keep exchanging words with dumbos like you.

This is my last reply to you. Kindly do us a favour and do what you do best, bark!