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Immorality In Our Living Room. The Internet Needs Parental Guidance. by FRANCISTOWN: 7:36pm On Jul 21
Strictly speaking, I prefer reading to watching TV. And once in a while, if I wanted to chill myself out. I watch Hollywood movies, Chinese and Japanese (the likes of Rorouni Kenshin) and my favourite genres: Action, Thriller, Adventure and fantasy. I hate romance all the way, one of the reasons I dislike kdrama.

This is not to disrespect Nollywood in anyway. They are fantastic in Africa but on a personal level. I just can't flow with the plots in Nollywood movies.
Uh! Except the 80s-early 2000s. I really enjoyed movies in the days of Herbert Ogunde, Duro Ladipo, Afin Obo, Oyiboyi, Yemi My Lover, Ajileye, Epo gingin, Baba sala, Baba Suwe, Koledowo, Aluwe , Nkem Owoh, Sam Loco, Chiwetalu Agu, Kanayo o Kanayo, Hanks Anuku Vinvent Obi and many more who used to bless our screen during the days of video cassette. Those were the movies we watched whenever my father was not around, because, he was all about the foreign movies to improve our grammar. The likes of Ali baba and the Forty thieves, the seven voyages of Simbad, phantom forces, The 7 Ninjas, The thief of Bagdad, Willow, Ever After, Charlie's Angels, Rambo, Terminator, Show down in lil Tokyo, The mask of Zoro, Lion heart, Rocky Bilbao, Sholey, Mard, Don(Amitabh Bachchan) and so many more.

Well! That's by the way. Now the question is: What exactly is wrong with Nollywood?

Those days, the darkest erotic scene would be just two people under the duvet, no kissing, just slight hugs.
No indecent dressing. No vulgar words.
As a matter of fact, Nollywood was very safe for children back then.
Those actors used Nollywood to represent the African culture. They protected our values and our traditions.
And even in those days, despite the maturity of our age. Whenever a romance scene came up in a movie. We would excuse ourselves with impelling alacrity because, we didn't want to see the abominations.
I remember when I was in the higher institution and I saw a naked body of a woman for the first time. I ran out and never looked back. I thought I was going to die the way my heart jumped.
That was how my parents raised me. I even thought I was going to be a Reverend Father.

Ride with me...

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Re: Immorality In Our Living Room. The Internet Needs Parental Guidance. by FRANCISTOWN: 7:37pm On Jul 21
Now, Immorality has entered our living room and it's shocking that no one is doing nothing about it. Parents! Are you comfortable with the way your kids are turning out?
Okay! Someone sent a video of compiled nude scenes in Nollywood movies into the group so, you can know which movies to avoid seeing with your children.
For the ones I could remember, I'll list 'em.
•Shantytowns
•Blood sisters
•Anikulapo
•Kesari 2024
•Kofa
•Eleshin Oba

These are the few that I could remember from the compilation. I mean, scenes with fully naked or unclad women.
This is not South Africa. Nudity isn't our culture. The erotic scenes are not necessary in the movies. I think there is a body that is responsible for censoring and all that.
Where did that body go?
Nigerians are gradually losing it and no one is saying shit.
If you had ever visited the Darkweb, you would see sex videos of Nigerian kids 13, 14, 15, 16 . And you'll be disturbed because, what is a kid under the age of 18 doing with kiss and sex? I don't understand. When I was 16, mere kissing never crossed my mind not even once. I just wanted to pass Additional Maths and Technical Drawing then gain admission.

So, when I saw the video. I kept wondering when and how Nollywood became this unpleasant.
I don't know why the media is promoting nudity and sex. Many of the podcasts are useless, no educative topic. It's all about sex , sex and sex and sex, those bunch of godforsaken retards. And your kids are on the Internet. They see and hear these things , and they go into their subconscious minds. And they start acting them. This shit is programming.
Now, my question is , why are they doin' this?

Stay with me...

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Re: Immorality In Our Living Room. The Internet Needs Parental Guidance. by FRANCISTOWN: 7:38pm On Jul 21
I could remember back in our days. There were several educative programs. Many people would go for a physics or mathematics contest on a TV or Radio program. And the first position would be given a tangible gift.
Where did all that go?

Parents, know this : The Internet space needs parental guidance, and if you refused to give your children close marking.
Other people on the Internet will help you give them, and I'm sure it won't be what you want.

These western parenting style cannot work in Africa. Many of you parents are so unparenting.
I'm not saying you should always beat your children or act like stray dogs. But your children need to fear you. Respect is not enough. The father is known to be the authority figure, but some fathers have reduced themselves to their children's play thing.
My father disciplined me to an extent that I thought he wasn't the one who birthed me. My father is 80+ now and I still fear and respect him a lot. That doesn't stop me from loving him, we are now very close and we talk a lot, now that I've understood him.
I've said it that my parents are the gods that I see face to face.

Some of you are scared that being firm will make your children hate you and they won't take care of you at old age. My father never had that fear. He used to tell us that His God had already provided everything he was going to eat even before he was born. And at 80+ he still got doings. Bought a new SUV last month, with his own money.
I already said any kid of mind who moves mad at any slight. I no go follow am talk too much, I dey from there carry am go army barrack make them mend am.
As long I'm fulfilling my responsibility as a father, ensuring they don't lack any good thing . Haha! Them too gats respect themselves.

Men, men , men. Take charge of your home and stop being a push over.

Your Ancestor is here

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Re: Immorality In Our Living Room. The Internet Needs Parental Guidance. by Kevineleven(m): 10:18pm On Jul 21
Welcome to the new age

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Re: Immorality In Our Living Room. The Internet Needs Parental Guidance. by FRANCISTOWN: 8:16am On Jul 22
Kevineleven:
Welcome to the new age
This new age is infact the age of moral decadence. Parents need to be on their toes or else these kids could bring shame into the family.

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Re: Immorality In Our Living Room. The Internet Needs Parental Guidance. by ExcalibursWrath: 9:13am On Jul 22
Simply providing isn't love though. You think children don't deserve love, care, affection and words of affirmation?
Re: Immorality In Our Living Room. The Internet Needs Parental Guidance. by FRANCISTOWN: 9:19am On Jul 22
ExcalibursWrath:
Simply providing isn't love though. You think children don't deserve love, care, affection and words of affirmation?

Does loving your children mean you should turn yourself to their play thing?
Re: Immorality In Our Living Room. The Internet Needs Parental Guidance. by DonroxyII: 6:06pm On Jul 22
FRANCISTOWN:

This new age is infact the age of moral decadence. Parents need to be on their toes or else these kids could bring shame into the family.
You are an Hypocrite ...

Your Age was also a Moral Decadence Ages Compared to The Ages of Your Grandparents...

It's not possible for the world to continue from your mental Spheres..... The World Would Continue to Evolve & Revolve Till Eternity With It's Goods & Evils ... Nothing Gonna Stop That Except God ....

Why Do You Peeps Always Become Morality Referees Without seeing the Beauties of a Generations But It's Ugliness

Why would any Sane human dedicated their attentions to the moral decadence of Gen Z without eulogising the Prowess & Smartness of this new Generations ....

This is the world where Battles-Wars is no more uniting humanity but commerce powered by www. & Cyberspace .....

This is The Generations that makes it possible to be in Nigeria & US at the same time real time Live without visiting the airport ....

People are making millions from Internet by content creations than looking for few jobs ..

All you care about is Morality That's why you are suffering from Godisms(Feeling like God)!
Re: Immorality In Our Living Room. The Internet Needs Parental Guidance. by Alphamentips: 6:07pm On Jul 22
Such movies are PG rated & not suitable for people under 16.. there's a reason you check that b4 playing the movie. . And for Dark web... How did you find the Videos u mentioned as you really have to browse through a ton of meaningless stuff to get to any thing of interest apart from BTC scammers littered everywhere.

Sounds fishy the story

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Re: Immorality In Our Living Room. The Internet Needs Parental Guidance. by GOFRONT(m): 6:13pm On Jul 22
You are trying to shake Gen Z table.
Re: Immorality In Our Living Room. The Internet Needs Parental Guidance. by FRANCISTOWN: 9:01pm On Jul 22
DonroxyII:
You are an Hypocrite ...

Your Age was also a Moral Decadence Ages Compared to The Ages of Your Grandparents...

It's not possible for the world to continue from your mental Spheres..... The World Would Continue to Evolve & Revolve Till Eternity With It's Goods & Evils ... Nothing Gonna Stop That Except God ....

Why Do You Peeps Always Become Morality Referees Without seeing the Beauties of a Generations But It's Ugliness

Why would any Sane human dedicated their attentions to the moral decadence of Gen Z without eulogising the Prowess & Smartness of this new Generations ....

This is the world where Battles-Wars is no more uniting humanity but commerce powered by www. & Cyberspace .....

This is The Generations that makes it possible to be in Nigeria & US at the same time real time Live without visiting the airport ....

People are making millions from Internet by content creations than looking for few jobs ..

All you care about is Morality That's why you are suffering from Godisms(Feeling like God)!
K
Re: Immorality In Our Living Room. The Internet Needs Parental Guidance. by FRANCISTOWN: 9:02pm On Jul 22
Alphamentips:
Such movies are PG rated & not suitable for people under 16.. there's a reason you check that b4 playing the movie. . And for Dark web... How did you find the Videos u mentioned as you really have to browse through a ton of meaningless stuff to get to any thing of interest apart from BTC scammers littered everywhere.

Sounds fishy the story
k
Re: Immorality In Our Living Room. The Internet Needs Parental Guidance. by ExcalibursWrath: 6:16am On Jul 23
FRANCISTOWN:


Does loving your children mean you should turn yourself to their play thing?
that is being extreme, everything in life should be done with proportion
Re: Immorality In Our Living Room. The Internet Needs Parental Guidance. by FRANCISTOWN: 8:21am On Jul 23
ExcalibursWrath:
that is being extreme, everything in life should be done with proportion
Well, I agree with you. Too much of everything is bad. A lil bit of whip and talk. That's how to raise a 21st century kid.
Re: Immorality In Our Living Room. The Internet Needs Parental Guidance. by StillDtruth: 7:54am On Jul 25
FRANCISTOWN:

K

See, you just got a bite from how you stupid you atheists sound when you attack God and the bible.

And see it, you did not even fight back!

And to think of it, this is the world you atheists wamted, so its funny that you should complain about moral decandence.
Re: Immorality In Our Living Room. The Internet Needs Parental Guidance. by StillDtruth: 8:02am On Jul 25
DonroxyII:
You are an Hypocrite ...

Your Age was also a Moral Decadence Ages Compared to The Ages of Your Grandparents...

It's not possible for the world to continue from your mental Spheres..... The World Would Continue to Evolve & Revolve Till Eternity With It's Goods & Evils ... Nothing Gonna Stop That Except God ....

Why Do You Peeps Always Become Morality Referees Without seeing the Beauties of a Generations But It's Ugliness

Why would any Sane human dedicated their attentions to the moral decadence of Gen Z without eulogising the Prowess & Smartness of this new Generations ....

This is the world where Battles-Wars is no more uniting humanity but commerce powered by www. & Cyberspace .....

This is The Generations that makes it possible to be in Nigeria & US at the same time real time Live without visiting the airport ....

People are making millions from Internet by content creations than looking for few jobs ..

All you care about is Morality That's why you are suffering from Godisms(Feeling like God)!

This is a most fallacious and silly counter ever given; full of ad hominems, Tu qu quos and literarilly begging the topic. etc.

Clearly, you are supporter of nudity and your point is children should be exposed to porn and soft porn because people are making millions from the Internet.

What a rotten generation. Atheist your dream world is here!

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Re: Immorality In Our Living Room. The Internet Needs Parental Guidance. by FRANCISTOWN: 9:36am On Jul 25
StillDtruth:

And see it, you did not even fight back!
Make I dey follow an obvious Gen z guy drag words?
I dey mad?
Re: Immorality In Our Living Room. The Internet Needs Parental Guidance. by FRANCISTOWN: 9:40am On Jul 25
StillDtruth:

What a rotten generation. Atheist your dream world is here!
Wait first make I ask you something.
Do you think atheists really want a world of Immorality?
What's your proof of this?
Re: Immorality In Our Living Room. The Internet Needs Parental Guidance. by StillDtruth: 2:26pm On Jul 25
FRANCISTOWN:

Wait first make I ask you something.
Do you think atheists really want a world of Immorality?
What's your proof of this?

Is it not the princuple of atheism that people should do whatever makes them happy?

As this guy has shown, selling sex and being rich makes him happy, so its funny you atheist is complaining.
Re: Immorality In Our Living Room. The Internet Needs Parental Guidance. by FRANCISTOWN: 2:41pm On Jul 25
StillDtruth:


Is it not the princuple of atheism that people should do whatever makes them happy?

As this guy has shown, selling sex and being rich makes him happy, so its funny you atheist is complaining.

Where is it written? Do atheists have a common principle we follow except not believing in the existence of a God?
Re: Immorality In Our Living Room. The Internet Needs Parental Guidance. by ItisWell22(f): 2:44pm On Jul 25
FRANCISTOWN:


Does loving your children mean you should turn yourself to their play thing?

They are so bent on raising their kids like the West, only to end up losing them at the end of the day. That’s why we have a lot of mentally-delicate teens and young adults.
Small thing, “I’m traumatized”.

Like you rightly mentioned in one of the paragraphs up there, at a point in my teenage years, and even early adulthood, person go think sey no be my mama born me. The kind close marking wey she dey give, with stern corrections and cautions. Worst part then, was how my dad never cautioned her for being so tough on me.

Omo, now, the love and admiration I have for my mum and dad no be here.
I didn’t turn out perfect, but I can’t even imagine life without their effort.

It was real tough love.

For the sexual scenes in movies, till date we do feel awkward seeing movies in general with our parents especially our dad because of erotic scenes.

The upbringing had its downsides, but it was and still far better than what’s obtainable now…
Re: Immorality In Our Living Room. The Internet Needs Parental Guidance. by FRANCISTOWN: 3:03pm On Jul 25
ItisWell22:


They are so bent on raising their kids like the West, only to end up losing them at the end of the day. That’s why we have a lot of mentally-delicate teens and young adults.
Small thing, “I’m traumatized”.

Like you rightly mentioned in one of the paragraphs up there, at a point in my teenage years, and even early adulthood, person go think sey no be my mama born me. The kind close marking wey she dey give, with stern corrections and cautions. Worst part then, was how my dad never cautioned her for being so tough on me.

Omo, now, the love and admiration I have for my mum and dad no be here.
I didn’t turn out perfect, but I can’t even imagine life without their effort.

It was real tough love.

For the sexual scenes in movies, till date we do feel awkward seeing movies in general with our parents especially our dad because of erotic scenes.

The upbringing had its downsides, but it was and still far better than what’s obtainable now…

Finally here is someone raised by great parents.
It's the same with me. As old as I am. Last year when we all gathered at home for Christmas. I didn't even sit with my parents to see movies at all because I'm was not comfortable with seeing movies with kissing scenes with them. At least, I knew the kinds of movies we have these days.

At this age I don't feel comfortable seeing a naked or a half naked people in movies. And porn extremely disgusts me.
Truly we might not be perfect. But as parents, how do one feel comfortable with these current moral decadence of sexual indiscipline and lack of respect for the elderly.

During our days, we dared not disrespect our elderly ones but look at what we have now. These kids disrespect anyone and have no regards for age. They insult people who are old to be their fathers on the social space.

There used to be something called Operation Burst or something like that. They were in charge of mending anyone with indecent dressing those years. I remember they publicly flogged one of my coursemates then for indecent dressing. He came back and gave us the gist.

Even in movies, teenagers acting a romance scripts and even kissing. What does a 15y/o girl know about romance? Where are their mothers? Which director is pushing such plays?
What are they trying to teach kids their age?

Parents are losing it. The western parenting style cannot work in Africa.
Aren't these guys pedophiles?
Re: Immorality In Our Living Room. The Internet Needs Parental Guidance. by Jackanda1(m): 4:01pm On Jul 25
StillDtruth:


See, you just got a bite from how stupid you atheists sound when you attack God and the bible.

And see it, you did not even fight back!

And to think of it, this is the world you atheists wamted, so its funny that you should complain about moral decandence.
They condemn religion, but forget it has helped in keeping a lot of people in check as far as morality is concerned.

Atheists don't see anything wrong with Porn and homosexuality and other vices. I'm shocked that he is complaining.
Re: Immorality In Our Living Room. The Internet Needs Parental Guidance. by StillDtruth: 4:03pm On Jul 25
FRANCISTOWN:

Make I dey follow an obvious Gen z guy drag words?
I dey mad?

😆😆😆😆😆😆😆
Re: Immorality In Our Living Room. The Internet Needs Parental Guidance. by StillDtruth: 4:03pm On Jul 25
Jackanda1:
They condem religion, but forget it has helped kept a lot of people in check as far as morality is concerned...

Precisely!
Re: Immorality In Our Living Room. The Internet Needs Parental Guidance. by StillDtruth: 4:07pm On Jul 25
ItisWell22:


They are so bent on raising their kids like the West, only to end up losing them at the end of the day.…

And the worse one that is coming is that exactly like the west, these children will abandon them in their old age.

And since atheists have torn the family apart like the west did to themselves, no body is going to be there for them in their old age.

So finally, Africans would soon be as unhappy and dry and depressed and miserable like their gods in the west.
Re: Immorality In Our Living Room. The Internet Needs Parental Guidance. by FRANCISTOWN: 10:09am On Jul 30
Jackanda1:

Atheists don't see anything wrong with Porn and homosexuality and other vices. I'm shocked that he is complaining.
Some of you just speak like the representation of the sawdust that your brain contains.
So you are saying religious people don't watch porn or engage in homosexuality?
Re: Immorality In Our Living Room. The Internet Needs Parental Guidance. by Jackanda1(m): 11:42am On Jul 30
FRANCISTOWN:

So you are saying religious people don't watch porn or engage in homosexuality?
Ofcourse religious people struggle with this things, but they don't encourage such behaviours or openly promote it as right.

When they err, they carry out religious rituals like confession, prayers and make efforts to change.


Religious people even get suspended and reprimanded in church or mosques for such vices. This steps helps to keep them in check.

Unlike atheist who come here to promote homosexuality as natural and porn and masturbation as a 'stress reliever'. Imagine.

Atheists keep promoting the idea of live as you like, but complain of moral decay when they catch their teenage son masturbating to gay porn.

Which one would you prefer between catching your son knacking his gay partner and preaching the gospel to friends?

Your reply should indicate the person with sawdust in the brain.

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