StPete:

Too many insensible children in Nairaland these days

pls how?

ottajah:


I think these may have been the reasons he asked you to take down that introduction...It is because (1)You can never tell who is trailing you to hurt you seeing you are a manager work for the former governors wife..Even if the position sounds big with small salary..this could become a danger to your safety or security...
(2) Secondly... careful and do not show too much emotions as it could paint a different picture about you...Just maintain some level of balance...When I saw where you come from .,.it caught my attention cos i ocmw from the same state...
I care about you so much ..I can also see you spent a little bit above just two days on this platform...
thanks Princess

tnks a lot fr atleast beliving dat am nt fake,,cuz i notice dat any little comment i make on this forum,people do say am a guy and d call me names like moniker,whch i dnt even knw d meaning of that

TheWinterBird:
Well, did you take the pringles and malt?

Na me chop am

Sapasenator:


I can't because I will buy a car for my wife and she will never be needing a lift from co-workers. If I ever suspect the guy, I will ask my wife to invite him home so I can have a chat with him.
I am not the jealous or suspicious type.

i jst pray u remember all this things ur saying wen u get marrid,wish u d best

Deprincess4321:
i jst pray u remember all this things ur saying wen u get marrid,wish u d best

Don't worry, I am the type of man that allows my wife to go to a party alone with her friends. I have no jealous bone in my body.

Sapasenator:


Don't worry, I am the type of man that allows my wife to go to a party alone with her friends. I have no jealous bone in my body.

hahahaha,alrt sir

Deprincess4321:
hahahaha,alrt sir

Do you doubt me?

Sapasenator:


Do you doubt me?

am nt doubting u oh,am wishing u d best and praying dat u dnt change ur mind of buying her car and allowing her party by den,cuz words are easy said dan done

Deprincess4321:
am nt doubting u oh,am wishing u d best and praying dat u dnt change ur mind of buying her car and allowing her party by den,cuz words are easy said dan done

If she cheats on me, I will move on with another girl and cut her off and she knows the consequences. If I ever have a reason to doubt or suspect, That is what I will do instead going physical with her.

You guys don’t have a car? I feel sorry for your wife to be honest. Imagine being married, with a child, working and you’re struggling in life. Being a woman is hard! She’s a married single mother. Why haven’t you made life easier for your wife? What is your purpose as a husband that you could be so disrespected in your home? If this woman had her needs met she wouldn’t even entertain any man but there are gaps in your relationship and something must fill those holes.

Sapasenator:


If she cheats on me, I will move on with another girl and cut her off and she knows the consequences. If I ever have a reason to doubt or suspect, That is what I will do instead going physical with her.

lol,ok oh

TheWinterBird:
Well, did you take the pringles and malt?

Ojagun:
Has anyone else noticed how Nigerian men on the SM space

now constantly/whine/nag/cry/complain about their relationships with women rather than the other way round at a ratio of almost 30:1?

It used to be the women who complained/cried/whined more.

What is going on with Nigerian men?

You don't want your wife getting picked to & from work by another man?Then buy motor for your wife.

The man picking your wife up bought biscuit & coke to placate you yet, here you are still complaining/nagging/whining.

Walahi,Nigerian men have completely lost the plot

You are typically a mumu for the bolded...

Apologies for the insult tho..mi couldn't just resist

Deprincess4321:
my dear dnt mind all this people dat pretains not to see anythng wrong wit wat she is doing

Abi oo

Deprincess4321:
ur nt d first persn saying dis,,bt am a gir,my name is Joy,from cross river state,am 24yrs old,i base in calabar,i work at AD_PLAST NIG LTD,for the wife of the former deputy governor of cross river state,as a Manager,,,,,,,supply/sales of plastic products,and kitchen utensils at Bassey duke along bedwell,,,wat else do u wanto knw abt me? jst dat am a total different specie,i dnt entertain rubbish and irresponsible humans

A pity you can’t spell for shi! You lack critical thinking skills and you obviously missed school but your pick me attitude is top notch! 🫶

Deprincess4321:
swears ur on the same page with me,,,cuz a guy buying u malt and prinkles to gv ur husband for house,after ur sitout date with him dun see ur husband finish,,,live all this people trying to run away frm d truth,,d lady is cheating and trying to manipulate the husband with malt and prinkles,,send her back to her mother abeg,,mayb at 40yrs she wil start runing frm prayer house to prayer house,looking fr serious man and happy marriage,tomoro d wil say nigerian ladies,,i dnt even knw y i came as a lady sef,cuz dis genda detest me a lot mitcheew

Jacksmillionair or whatever you call yourself; we see you! 🤣🤣🤣

EreluRoz:
What type of mother starve her child of attention? Please if you are not ready for marriage remain single. Some of you going into marriage unprepared are nut case.

I dislike all these unnecessary friendship with the opposite sex that makes a partner uncomfortable, it's stupidity. You sef why did you go physical on her? Is that how to show your masculinity? Let me tell you that the moment you start hitting your wife, she's very prone to cheat on you.

Most of you should go learn silent treatment that's the best weapon to tame any woman.

Silent treatment is the best option when a bitch is dealing with another bitch. Men are known to be loud and boisterous.

Make some noise op. Verbally express how her actions made you feel. Unless you're also one of the vagina owners you should know what to do.

[quote author=Double0h7 post=131144381]
Jacksmillionair or whatever you call yourself; we see you!

[quote author=Double0h7 post=131144347]

A pity you can’t spell for shi! You lack critical thinking skills and you obviously missed school but your pick me attitude is top notch!

Sirhush:
Abi oo

v a nice evening

Deprincess4321:
ur not talking like a guy,,am a girl bt i wil never advice dis guy to go beg her,fr wat?Wats his offence that his wife dosnt plce value on herself? What should he beg her for if i may ask? If ur my brother i wil advice u to take the baby to ur mother or invite her around to hlp u take care of the bby while you do ur business,wen she is tired of rubbishing herself,u ask her to park her things n live ur house,,her eye is outside already,d is ntin u cn do,move on with ur life,,tomoro d wil say nigerian girls,,mitcheew

See better second wife Ohh.
Good reasoning. Make God bless you with better husband.

Do you not drive? I feel like cars for a married couple with kids should be a priority

Surface2AirToto:
Nairalanders, please help me ohh, my wife wants to destroy our marriage and she sees nothing wrong in what she's doing.

It's been two weeks now since the first day a guy at her place of work started dropping her off with his car when they close from work. First it was just dropping her off after work, now it has graduated and the same said guy has started picking her up from our marital home. I asked what was it all about and if she knew and told the guy she was married with a child, she said I just like to read meaning to little things and that the guy was just a friend, i kept calm ohh, until on Tuesday she came home with pringles and malt and said the guy said she should give me. We had a serious argument that turned physical and she has refused to talk to me ever since, no longer cooks before she leaves home anymore, even our baby she barely gives attention. Please Nairalanders i need your advice because i don't want to do what's in my mind right now because somebody might get hurt.

I guess your wife is being naive and there is nothing serious going on between the colleague and her.
A promiscuous wife will act smarter, you won't know another guy bought the malt and Pringles. She will be cheating on you codedly.
Mind the advice you take online. Some of these keyboard warriors telling you to dump her, pursuing her bla bla bla will never do so if it happens to them.
Sit your wife down and talk sense to her. Let her know you disapprove and will never want to see them together

Deprincess4321:
tnks a lot fr atleast beliving dat am nt fake,,cuz i notice dat any little comment i make on this forum,people do say am a guy and d call me names like moniker,whch i dnt even knw d meaning of that

Lol....
They call u names like Moniker got me rolling on the floor

Double0h7:
You guys don’t have a car? I feel sorry for your wife to be honest. Imagine being married, with a child, working and you’re struggling in life. Being a woman is hard! She’s a married single mother. Why haven’t you made life easier for your wife? What is your purpose as a husband that you could be so disrespected in your home? If this woman had her needs met she wouldn’t even entertain any man but there are gaps in your relationship and something must fill those holes.

Lol... ..werey full this nairaland

She's cheating....

1Sharon:
Do you not drive? I feel like cars for a married couple with kids should be a priority

Dash the couple one naa..since u are sounding like it's not a big deal and a norm for all couple to have in nigeria....
Cheap tokunbo Toyota Camry around 7 to 8million ...and if God bless u to do more..u can dash them brand new Hyundai like 28million

Zonefree:




Accept my sympathy in advance.

Luckysbab:
Pringles and Malt.

This has to be among the craziest things I've read.

Deprincess4321:

You’re a troll 🤣

advanceDNA:


Dash the couple one naa..since u are sounding like it's not a big deal and a norm for all couple to have in nigeria....
Cheap tokunbo Toyota Camry around 7 to 8million ...and if God bless u to do more..u can dash them brand new Hyundai like 28million

If transportation costs that much then maybe op should enjoy his Pringles and malt and not interrupt his online in-laws with this nonsense.

Deprincess4321:
ur not talking like a guy,,am a girl bt i wil never advice dis guy to go beg her,fr wat?Wats his offence that his wife dosnt plce value on herself? What should he beg her for if i may ask? If ur my brother i wil advice u to take the baby to ur mother or invite her around to hlp u take care of the bby while you do ur business,wen she is tired of rubbishing herself,u ask her to park her things n live ur house,,her eye is outside already,d is ntin u cn do,move on with ur life,,tomoro d wil say nigerian girls,,mitcheew

He's just being sarcastic.
He's mimicking how a typical Nigerian woman will advice a random man that is unrelated to her if he finds himself in such situation