Remember this thread?
https://www.nairaland.com/8130045/pcos-should-tell-parents-it
So I have an update about this issue! Long story short, she is pregnant but she wants to take it out! She said she isn’t ready for any pregnancy right now. Even when I told her I want to go see her family then we can do a courthouse wedding afterwards, she is very adamant on removing the pregnancy. She said she isn’t ready to be pregnant and she wants to be legally Married and pregnant through the right process.
I am thinking of breaking up with her if she goes through with her plan!
NB: I have also not involved my family in this matter

This are my two cents on this issue.
For someone that is so against having children outside of wedlock,why did she not insist on the use of protection during coitus?
Ok maybe she thought wasn't gonna get pregnant because of her condition?
I don't believe that lady loves you enough to settle down with you. She might have other options or believes that there are better options out there.
Finally i don't think the lady loves herself that much because what if that is her only shot at having a child, what if the process of abortion she developes more complications.
Well if she truely loves you and you genuinely love her too there is nothing good and proper communication can not resolve.

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Abeg we Dey watch BBN come back next 3month 😂😂😂😂😂

Exceptional300:
Remember this thread?
https://www.nairaland.com/8130045/pcos-should-tell-parents-it
So I have an update about this issue! Long story short, she is pregnant but she wants to take it out! She said she isn’t ready for any pregnancy right now. Even when I told her I want to go see her family then we can do a courthouse wedding afterwards, she is very adamant on removing the pregnancy. She said she isn’t ready to be pregnant and she wants to be legally Married and pregnant through the right process.
I am thinking of breaking up with her if she goes through with her plan!
NB: I have also not involved my family in this matter

young man,! What stop you from involving your family? If she kpai,dem go drag u as number 1 suspect.Tell your parents to go and meet her parents/let dem knw Hanty don DEVELOP

The fact that she still wants to remove the pregnancy despite knowing that her ability to give birth is on a low chance, I'll suggest you give her a concrete sit-down, clearly tell her to either quickly run the court wedding and settle down or remove the pregnancy and end the relationship.


Trust me, if she insists on removing the pregnancy, just know that lady wasn't meant for you.

Jejely carry your wahala and waka.

Haven't you suffered yourself untop that lady enough? Na you kill Jesus?

Exceptional300:
Remember this thread?
https://www.nairaland.com/8130045/pcos-should-tell-parents-it
So I have an update about this issue! Long story short, she is pregnant but she wants to take it out! She said she isn’t ready for any pregnancy right now. Even when I told her I want to go see her family then we can do a courthouse wedding afterwards, she is very adamant on removing the pregnancy. She said she isn’t ready to be pregnant and she wants to be legally Married and pregnant through the right process.
I am thinking of breaking up with her if she goes through with her plan!
NB: I have also not involved my family in this matter

She isn't telling you the truth
If you want her by your side true true
Take her out for a weekend getaways and give her premium enjoyment to where your power fit reach
Treat her like a queen for the weekend
No phone no work just the both of you away from it all
The following week you will have your true answer
My opinion though

@Mod

Logs no be you get the belle oo

austine4real:
Logs no be you get the belle oo

lol possible 😆

Tell her to go ahead if she insists but you're not giving her a Kobo for the procedure and since it's obvious she's not interested in settling down with you, tell her it's better you guys go your separate ways.

She'll either cry and beg, giving you reasons on why she can't keep the baby but still loves you (bullshît) her love is 79% less than yours or

She'll jump at the opportunity to be free of commitment

Any future marriage with her will be filled with hate and resentment towards you and there's nothing you can do about that no matter the amount you lavish on her or unblemished love you show her

Exceptional300:
she is very adamant on removing the pregnancy.

if you push further on this, you will regret and regret and regret it.
She sat down for days and came to this conclusion and stamped it even Before she opened her mouth to tell you she will terminate the pregnancy. Let her be and watch what happens. Run far If she goes through with the abortion.

Let your money never be involved in that abortion and at this point, IT IS BEST YOU START RECORDING ALL YOUR CONVERSATIONS because she will come back and blame you for everything.

superCleanworks:


if you push further on this, you will regret and regret and regret it.
She sat down for days and came to this conclusion and stamped it even Before she opened her mouth to tell you she will terminate the pregnancy. Let her be and watch what happens. Run far If she goes through with the abortion.

Let your money never be involved in that abortion and at this point, IT IS BEST YOU START RECORDING ALL YOUR CONVERSATIONS because she will come back and blame you for everything.

noted

The baby may not be yours. Also, this woman is living life “per-formatively” and you don’t want to be married to people like that!

Every decision they make will be based on how they look in public which means their private persona is horrible!

She makes dangerous decisions and childish choices! You’re seeing all these before marriage but you will ignore it and complain about it when it becomes your reality when married.

Double0h7:
Your fears have multiplied, and the gates of karma and stress have been opened. It’s your choice

What do you mean?

Exceptional300:

What do you mean?

You feared her fertility and now she’s planning on further stressing her reproductive health. Karma because this pregnancy could be a test from God and terminating it could lead to years of suffering and searching for the fruits of the womb. It could also all be okay but that’s a gamble you guys have to take.

Therock5555:
The fact that she still wants to remove the pregnancy despite knowing that her ability to give birth is on a low chance, I'll suggest you give her a concrete sit-down, clearly tell her to either quickly run the court wedding and settle down or remove the pregnancy and end the relationship.


Trust me, if she insists on removing the pregnancy, just know that lady wasn't meant for you.

Jejely carry your wahala and waka.

Haven't you suffered yourself untop that lady enough? Na you kill Jesus?

I am thinking of wasting her time before I kick her off if she proceeds with the Ab*ortn

Double0h7:


You feared her fertility and now she’s planning on further stressing her reproductive health. Karma because this pregnancy could be a test from God and terminating it could lead to years of suffering and searching for the fruits of the womb. It could also all be okay but that’s a gamble you guys have to take.

I am not in any gamble with her! I told her I will mobilize my family to go see her parents in 3 weeks afterwards we do a courthouse wedding. She is big on having a big ceremony, I told her we can do that after she gives birth. I even told her to come up with any suggestion that doesn’t involve abortion but she is adamant on taking it out. I have decided to waste her time for a couple of years before I kick her out if she goes ahead with the abortion

Exceptional300:
I am not in any gamble with her! I told her I will mobilize my family to go see her parents in 3 weeks afterwards we do a courthouse wedding. She is big on having a big ceremony, I told her we can do that after she gives birth. I even told her to come up with any suggestion that doesn’t involve abortion but she is adamant on taking it out. I have decided to waste her time for a couple of years before I kick her out if she goes ahead with the abortion

Why not just be a mature adult and walk away from this relationship if she has an abortion that you are not happy about ? Why waste anybody’s time? Stop being toxic and just live your life peacefully!

Boss waste her time

My own wickedness reach that level


Am wasting one of them type time right now

She is even 8 weeks pregnant

She first carry another man pikin wan hook me


But I was 7 steps ahead

Exceptional300:
Remember this thread?
https://www.nairaland.com/8130045/pcos-should-tell-parents-it
So I have an update about this issue! Long story short, she is pregnant but she wants to take it out! She said she isn’t ready for any pregnancy right now. Even when I told her I want to go see her family then we can do a courthouse wedding afterwards, she is very adamant on removing the pregnancy. She said she isn’t ready to be pregnant and she wants to be legally Married and pregnant through the right process.
I am thinking of breaking up with her if she goes through with her plan!
NB: I have also not involved my family in this matter

This issue has been stretched for far too long. I believe you know the line of action to take. We, your nairaland in-laws should be seen as third parties and you know third party opinion is not really needed in marriage.

Op, leave her and go ur separate ways

Exceptional300:
I am thinking of wasting her time before I kick her off if she proceeds with the Ab*ortn

Waste her time oh, make she hook you for throat, shebi as God wan comot the cross for your head, you no wan happy

Homeboiy:
Boss waste her time

My own wickedness reach that level


Am wasting one of them type time right now

She is even 8 weeks pregnant

She first carry another man pikin wan hook me


But I was 7 steps ahead

Oga drop this gist, I'm interested.l

Perhaps the baby is not yours that's why she insists on aborting it?

Lorayne:
Perhaps the baby is not yours that's why she insists on aborting it?

very possible