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Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by phorget(m): 4:45pm On Aug 03
I get brothers but unfortunately I can't ask ordinary 5k from any of them...😥
I AM A LONE WOLF.
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by Emdebby2: 4:50pm On Aug 03
That's nice. I wish I have a family like this.
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by wallrichy: 4:53pm On Aug 03
I guess u re a big guy and your inlaw too is another big guy. He knows ur worth that you are more than that 20M....so it's just decent not to refuse you.



Nice2023:
Not a big deal...I told my my brother in law that I needed the sum of 20million last month,within a space of 5minutes I got the alert.

Currently,I am to return the money in 12months time.
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by Zubeezanga(m): 4:56pm On Aug 03
englishmart:
Before I collect money from my siblings, I need to write a 450-word proposal. That doesn't even guarantee anything.
In this life, pray to have caring people around.
Lol let come at you based on caring people, omo most times na packaging, their are people that look thousands but omo they are struggling if them comot 5k e go choke them bro and some don't like complaining, some are so reserved no matter how close u are to them you won't see the pain or mathematics they solve in other to even eat, but some sha stingy, lol i do feel accomplished when the people that i love get a soft life.

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Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by JikSneh: 4:59pm On Aug 03
Stingy mofucka

You are even stingy and broke, sad
Nice2023:


While u are a nairaland 419.
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by luvtoteach(f): 5:00pm On Aug 03
I'm my own case, our mother must approve before they can release and after some months she will query on what the money was used for.
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by RealityKings: 5:01pm On Aug 03
Nice2023:



I am very nice and still nice...that I know for sure and I don't need to say what i can't do.

If I am not led to do something,forget it.

Please be led to help me.
God bless
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by Neddyogu(m): 5:05pm On Aug 03
Mariangeles:


That's not true.

A sister will most likely ask her brothers to give her, and not to lend her.
At least, that is what I would do. 🥰

Borrow from brothers kor! 🙄

'Borrowing' from ur big brothers is just a euphemism for 'dash'. All the money my younger sister don 'borrow' from me, I Neva see any.

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Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by GloriousGbola: 5:13pm On Aug 03
ivandragon:
Hmm...

In reality, this does not really represent a loving family per se.

There is a certain stage in life when rendering financial assistance without taking on responsibility is easier to do.

A better reflection of a caring family would be to send the money and then immediately ask a question like, 'I hope you are OK?' Or 'Are you safe?' That is showing more love and willingness to go even further than just sending money and not knowing if there is an immediate danger.

100 dollars is also not a big deal to a middle class American.
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by joseph1832(m): 5:22pm On Aug 03
Thank God I have this kind of family. 🙏
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by lakesider2006(m): 5:39pm On Aug 03
Nice2023:
Not a big deal...I told my my brother in law that I needed the sum of 20million last month,within a space of 5minutes I got the alert.

Currently,I am to return the money in 12months time.
vthat is wonderful. You are blessed with good people

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Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by ivandragon: 5:52pm On Aug 03
GloriousGbola:


100 dollars is also not a big deal to a middle class American.

From my perspective, it is not about the money.

Like I said, send the money, but a typical Nigerian brother would be concerned about the urgency and want to know their is no immediate danger.

And $100 is a bit of a big deal for a middle class American because most of the middle class have debts (mortgages). Can they afford it? Yes. But it would
be felt a bit for a couple of days.
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by hakeemhakeem(m): 6:04pm On Aug 03
Nazgul:

What are you even saying...did you read my post at all?

50k is even much. What's the percentage of people in Nigeria today that you can call for 10k and they'll ask you for your account details without question? Very little.

You should know that giving to people you don't know is also a global thing. And if you carry out a research on countries that render assistance to strangers, I can assure you that Nigeria wouldn't make top 50. So what's your point?
One single post from a family that helped one of them don't makes it looked like that's how everyone behaved over there, every man for himself.take it all leave it naija will surely be among top 20 on the list

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Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by finallybusy: 6:07pm On Aug 03
What if they were born in poverty, how would things be?
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by nedekid: 6:07pm On Aug 03
englishmart:
You lie like a 5-year-old girl
Why?
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by nedekid: 6:08pm On Aug 03
We4all:


Your inlaw must be an online Usain Bolt. No questions, no hesitations and no delays.
Some people at like that, the guy is lucky.
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by etrange: 6:19pm On Aug 03
Not to take anything away from this display of love, but if all the siblings could afford the money, giving that amount of money to their brother when he’s down isn’t exactly newsworthy especially if he’s not the type that regularly ask for money. I’m sure many siblings out there would do same. It would be a big shame otherwise.
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by CJStarz: 6:22pm On Aug 03
englishmart:
The only person I can conveniently ask for money is fairmoney. Nobody else.
Their interest rate don sky rocket under this Tinubu era
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by occfx: 6:31pm On Aug 03
englishmart:
Before I collect money from my siblings, I need to write a 450-word proposal. That doesn't even guarantee anything.
In this life, pray to have caring people around.

I don't know why but it's the fault of the parents why brothers don't care.
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by maxiuc(m): 6:41pm On Aug 03
My sister once told her coworkers that she needs 10k now and watch how she will get it she beg my 4 brothers for urgent 2k and she ended up getting 20k

Hehehehe
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by Abee79(m): 6:44pm On Aug 03
Lemme go and ask my brothers, sisters uncles and aunts to borrow me N1,000,000.00 each. I will update you guys tomorrow with their replies 😁

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Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by NOETHNICITY(m): 7:01pm On Aug 03
englishmart:
Before I collect money from my siblings, I need to write a 450-word proposal. That doesn't even guarantee anything.
In this life, pray to have caring people around.
Have you been a responsible brother to them yourself?
If you have been irresponsible and you expect them to take you seriously when you’re in, then don’t blame them.
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by ufuosman(m): 7:03pm On Aug 03
englishmart:
The only person I can conveniently ask for money is fairmoney. Nobody else.
You don talk many people mind
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by seanwilliam(m): 7:05pm On Aug 03
lol I have friends like that. I come through for them too,
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by anslemarinze52(m): 8:25pm On Aug 03
Nice2023:



There is no hunger my brother.

The money is not for food is for my business.

On top 2k he asked Yu. Lol 😂
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by Nice2023(m): 8:34pm On Aug 03
anslemarinze52:


On top 2k he asked Yu. Lol 😂


I no dey give shishi for now.
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by Mariangeles(f): 8:44pm On Aug 03
Neddyogu:


'Borrowing' from ur big brothers is just a euphemism for 'dash'.
All the money my younger sister don 'borrow' from me, I Neva see any.

She go pay you back someday.
I promise. 😀
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by Mariangeles(f): 9:09pm On Aug 03
seanwilliam:
lol I have friends like that. I come through for them too,

300/400 what? 👀
As in, what currency?
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by Mariangeles(f): 9:14pm On Aug 03
phorget:
I get brothers but unfortunately I can't ask ordinary 5k from any of them...😥
I AM A LONE WOLF.

God go do am for you, so that you go even get enough to give.
Re: This Is What A Loving Family Looks Like. by Paramount01(m): 9:30pm On Aug 03
englishmart:
The only person I can conveniently ask for money is fairmoney. Nobody else.

How is the interest of theat loan app

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