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Depression, Now This. Why Me? by OndoRaph(m): 7:36am On Aug 04
On the 1st Aug (Thurs), After waking, still on bed though, I thought possible ways the last 2k in my account will take me through the weekend (Thurs, Fri, Sat, Sun today).

So got an equation. Next, I transferred the 2k to a list of recent accounts in my Opay (My neighbour's POS + small shop). Then got out of bed, brushed, dressed and rushed to the shop & retrieved 1900k, 100h deducted as POS charge.

On 2rd Aug (Fri), woke up to realise the previous day, I opened my toothpaste with a knife to scope the paste and had thrown it away. So I went to the shop again with the last N90 from the 2k to plead to be allowed to buy satchet Close-up toothpast and owe N10. Unfortunately, it was finished so I pathetically asked if I can get the one of
N300 and owe N210 & pay later same day (I had strong feeling I was going to pay despite being zero). It was granted to me.

Later in the evening, I helped someone write application letter and CV and got 1k (not cash. Transfer). Then I went back to pay my N210 debt. Bought N300 fish then transferred her N550 in total.

On 3rd (Sat, yesterday), this lady came to my house very early and told me she didn't see the complete amount, that I only transferred 550, remaining 2k that I said I transferred on 2nd Friday which she gave me without confirming based on trust.

For what now, me that came to buy on credit of N210. I couldn't have borrowed if I had. This lady was saying after she gave me the toothpaste, I went and came back in 1 sec that I transferred 2k.

She just mixed up and was duplicating what transpired on 1st to 2nd. And trust women, this became a scene and I am not used to such situations so I couldn't say much.

With my humble nature, some people were believing her based on action.

This morning again, she is at my door raising voices. Women are terrible. For over 2 and half years I transact with her in prompt and apt manner. Why not give a benefit of a doubt if you forgot.

I don't have and there is no hope soon. Now I am embarrassed.

I am fed up.
Re: Depression, Now This. Why Me? by Jeon(f): 7:51am On Aug 04
Go cry in the redpill thread ,they always offer charity.

😂 .

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Re: Depression, Now This. Why Me? by Elegantspiker(m): 8:02am On Aug 04
Jeon:
Go cry in the redpill thread ,they always offer charity.


😂 .
Stop this young man. You spend a lot of time here and everyone knows your moniker. Just that some are misled by the (f).

So, try to caution every word to come out. Aim to sound polite and relevant.

When you are popular, you are already a leader. You'll not regret being silent, but you'll regret saying something more often than not.

A wise man once said nothing.
Re: Depression, Now This. Why Me? by Jeon(f): 8:06am On Aug 04
Buhahaha!
Re: Depression, Now This. Why Me? by OndoRaph(m): 8:39am On Aug 04
Jeon:
Go cry in the redpill thread ,they always offer charity.


😂 .
Elegantspiker:


A wise man once said nothing.
Re: Depression, Now This. Why Me? by OndoRaph(m): 10:34am On Aug 04
UPDATE: anyone should help me with a loan of 3k to repay in 2 weeks time.

I don't want to default that's why I put it at 2 weeks.

Surely, I'll pay in less time.

Let's discuss the terms.

Palmpay 7071739549 r. a. n

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Re: Depression, Now This. Why Me? by OndoRaph(m): 11:18am On Aug 04
There is a saying that when you see fire, pour a teaspoon of water to it or pour a bucket of water or call the fire service or run away.
Re: Depression, Now This. Why Me? by OndoRaph(m): 12:29pm On Aug 04
Nothing is too small to drop
Re: Depression, Now This. Why Me? by sultaan(m): 12:44pm On Aug 04
You won't appreciate the highs of life if you have not lived the lows.

Enjoy this moment remember it for the stories you will tell.

There are folks in the world that have money up their wazoo and will trade it for what you have but do not appreciate.

Good life

Life is not all about money

look beyond money and enjoy what you have

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Re: Depression, Now This. Why Me? by abba09: 12:50pm On Aug 04
OndoRaph:
On the 1st Aug (Thurs), After waking, still on bed though, I thought possible ways the last 2k in my account will take me through the weekend (Thurs, Fri, Sat, Sun today).

So got an equation. Next, I transferred the 2k to a list of recent accounts in my Opay (My neighbour's POS + small shop). Then got out of bed, brushed, dressed and rushed to the shop & retrieved 1900k, 100h deducted as POS charge.

On 2rd Aug (Fri), woke up to realise the previous day, I opened my toothpaste with a knife to scope the paste and had thrown it away. So I went to the shop again with the last N90 from the 2k to plead to be allowed to buy satchet Close-up toothpast and owe N10. Unfortunately, it was finished so I pathetically asked if I can get the one of
N300 and owe N210 & pay later same day (I had strong feeling I was going to pay despite being zero). It was granted to me.

Later in the evening, I helped someone write application letter and CV and got 1k (not cash. Transfer). Then I went back to pay my N210 debt. Bought N300 fish then transferred her N550 in total.

On 3rd (Sat, yesterday), this lady came to my house very early and told me she didn't see the complete amount, that I only transferred 550, remaining 2k that I said I transferred on 2nd Friday which she gave me without confirming based on trust.

For what now, me that came to buy on credit of N210. I couldn't have borrowed if I had. This lady was saying after she gave me the toothpaste, I went and came back in 1 sec that I transferred 2k.

She just mixed up and was duplicating what transpired on 1st to 2nd. And trust women, this became a scene and I am not used to such situations so I couldn't say much.

With my humble nature, some people were believing her based on action.

This morning again, she is at my door raising voices. Women are terrible. For over 2 and half years I transact with her in prompt and apt manner. Why not give a benefit of a doubt if you forgot.

I don't have and there is no hope soon. Now I am embarrassed.

I am fed up.



stop playing around the bush just say u need someone to help u with 2k

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Re: Depression, Now This. Why Me? by abba09: 12:51pm On Aug 04
this country is a curse a young energetic man asking for meagre 2k

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Re: Depression, Now This. Why Me? by OndoRaph(m): 1:06pm On Aug 04
sultaan:
You won't appreciate the highs of life if you have not lived the lows. TRUE

Enjoy this moment remember it for the stories you will tell.

There are folks in the world that have money up their wazoo and will trade it for what you have but do not appreciate.

Good life

Life is not all about money

look beyond money and enjoy what you have
True talk but it's when those moments pass that they become memorable and said with a smile not during.

That's why it's better to support if you can during this time. It sticks the skull of the beneficiary.

However, paradoxically, people do things for their personal interests.

Two quotes that repel each other well enough: "The true worth of a man is how he treats someone who does him absolutely no good." And "Hail to the chief has a nice ring to it."
Re: Depression, Now This. Why Me? by OndoRaph(m): 1:41pm On Aug 04
abba09:
this country is a curse a young energetic man asking for meagre 2k
This moniker of all monikers
Re: Depression, Now This. Why Me? by abba09: 5:32pm On Aug 04
nobody help you yet?
Re: Depression, Now This. Why Me? by DAramis: 5:54pm On Aug 04
OndoRaph:
This moniker of all monikers
Re: Depression, Now This. Why Me? by abba09: 6:05pm On Aug 04
DAramis:


Have someone sorted you out yet?
i am in thesame situation can i drop? please
Re: Depression, Now This. Why Me? by OndoRaph(m): 6:14pm On Aug 04
DAramis:


Have someone sorted you out yet?
No, I would've appreciated here whether it's anonymous.
Re: Depression, Now This. Why Me? by OndoRaph(m): 6:52pm On Aug 04
DAramis:


Have someone sorted you out yet?
Or did you do drop anything for me sir. I don't receive alert and I don't had data to check.

I am using fee Opera since yesterday.
Re: Depression, Now This. Why Me? by DAramis: 6:56pm On Aug 04
OndoRaph:
Or did you do drop anything for me sir. I don't receive alert and I don't had data to check.

I am using fee Opera since yesterday.
.
Re: Depression, Now This. Why Me? by DAramis: 6:57pm On Aug 04
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Re: Depression, Now This. Why Me? by OndoRaph(m): 7:00pm On Aug 04
DAramis:

I will get back to you later... Already asked someone to but don't know it has been done.
OK, may God be with you and all your endeavous sir.

This is the solemn prayer of a beneficiary of your extended hand.
Re: Depression, Now This. Why Me? by DAramis: 7:13pm On Aug 04
OndoRaph:
OK, may God be with you and all your endeavous sir.

This is the solemn prayer of a beneficiary of your extended hand.
There was no account name in what you sent.... Anyway, I do hope this little token will be channeled to good use (feeding etc).

Confimed that it has been done
Re: Depression, Now This. Why Me? by Balablue64: 8:05pm On Aug 04
Jeon:
Go cry in the redpill thread ,they always offer charity.


😂 .


you like vawulence, jeon.
Re: Depression, Now This. Why Me? by OndoRaph(m): 8:32pm On Aug 04
DAramis:

There was no account name in what you sent.... Anyway, I do hope this little token will be channeled to good use (feeding etc).

Confimed that it has been done
I have confirmed the transfer sir.

You don't have an idea the leverage what you called 'token' has done to a fellow human somewhere.

My prayer is for God to answer my prayer, not because of me, but for you who even without knowing me felt i deserve a chance. For this, God should grant your heart desires and bring forth inexplicable breakthroughs in your life.

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Re: Depression, Now This. Why Me? by Foodqueen(f): 8:39pm On Aug 04
Why can't you show her your transaction receipt.
Re: Depression, Now This. Why Me? by OndoRaph(m): 10:35pm On Aug 04
Foodqueen:
Why can't you show her your transaction receipt.
It's a successful transaction. There is no 'her,' it was only 'he' involved, both sender and receiver.
Re: Depression, Now This. Why Me? by Foodqueen(f): 2:33am On Aug 05
OndoRaph:
On the 1st Aug (Thurs), After waking, still on bed though, I thought possible ways the last 2k in my account will take me through the weekend (Thurs, Fri, Sat, Sun today).

So got an equation. Next, I transferred the 2k to a list of recent accounts in my Opay (My neighbour's POS + small shop). Then got out of bed, brushed, dressed and rushed to the shop & retrieved 1900k, 100h deducted as POS charge.

On 2rd Aug (Fri), woke up to realise the previous day, I opened my toothpaste with a knife to scope the paste and had thrown it away. So I went to the shop again with the last N90 from the 2k to plead to be allowed to buy satchet Close-up toothpast and owe N10. Unfortunately, it was finished so I pathetically asked if I can get the one of
N300 and owe N210 & pay later same day (I had strong feeling I was going to pay despite being zero). It was granted to me.

Later in the evening, I helped someone write application letter and CV and got 1k (not cash. Transfer). Then I went back to pay my N210 debt. Bought N300 fish then transferred her N550 in total.

On 3rd (Sat, yesterday), this lady came to my house very early and told me she didn't see the complete amount, that I only transferred 550, remaining 2k that I said I transferred on 2nd Friday which she gave me without confirming based on trust.

For what now, me that came to buy on credit of N210. I couldn't have borrowed if I had. This lady was saying after she gave me the toothpaste, I went and came back in 1 sec that I transferred 2k.

She just mixed up and was duplicating what transpired on 1st to 2nd. And trust women, this became a scene and I am not used to such situations so I couldn't say much.

With my humble nature, some people were believing her based on action.

This morning again, she is at my door raising voices. Women are terrible. For over 2 and half years I transact with her in prompt and apt manner. Why not give a benefit of a doubt if you forgot.

I don't have and there is no hope soon. Now I am embarrassed.

I am fed up.




What do u mean there is no her, isn't the pos person a lady.
Re: Depression, Now This. Why Me? by OndoRaph(m): 7:37am On Aug 05
Foodqueen:


What do u mean there is no her, isn't the pos person a lady.
You didn't quote the post you're referring to. I did, what she meant was that, I transferred 2k on thw 1st which she acknowledged but I came again for thay I did another transfer on the 2nd but she didn't confirmed from her end but just gave me.

When I said I didn't even had any balance that day, she said but she gave me money
Re: Depression, Now This. Why Me? by DAramis: 11:42am On Aug 05
abba09:
i am in thesame situation can i drop? please
Sorry that I couldn't sort you out sir.
I do hope you find help or assistance
Re: Depression, Now This. Why Me? by abba09: 4:58pm On Aug 05
DAramis:

Sorry that I couldn't sort you out sir.
I do hope you find help or assistance
thanks

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