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Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Zahra29: 5:04pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
kwakudtraveller: We will have to agree to disagree peacefully again. You don't agree with my logic, I also do not agree with your inability to consider any rational viewpoints or concerns outside the lens of a recent immigrant (not just now, even when we used to debate about student dependants and other immigration points). Thanks for your concern. Fortunately there are no protests nor any disruption where I live or work, however as a company we are taking employee wellbeing and safety seriously and have ensured that measures are in place to support any staff that need it e.g. WFH, signposting to HR and mental health services and so on. Stay safe as well. Hopefully after today's peak, the protests/riots will start to die down. 6 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by kwakudtraveller(m): 5:07pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
ReesheesuKnack:You should do a refresher training, as someone with a high EQ would understand that there’s a time and place for the sort of conversation that you are having. Here’s a video you can watch. I hope this helps. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cr8sLxde1m8?si=dQvIHOw0J4c5S0fW 4 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Zahra29: 5:15pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
justwise: Exactly - why? The fact that they didn't even wait for the asylum seeker rumour to be verified and quicky descended into protests and violence shows that there are serious deep rooted issues, including rising intolerance, islamophobia and anti immigration sentiment (particularly resentment against asylum seekers) which is pronounced in certain areas. What will happen in the future if/when an asylum seeker or refugee is confirmed as committing a murder(s) or terrorist attack(s)? Another eruption of violence? Its complex but these are some of the issues that the govt will need to look into after they've dealt with the rioters. 2 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Raalsalghul: 5:21pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
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Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Raalsalghul: 5:23pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by kwakudtraveller(m): 5:33pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
Zahra29:It is good that you are doing what you are doing as a company. If only you, as an individual, would show the same level of empathy and concern on this forum. Thank you, we go try to dey safe. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Zahra29: 5:35pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
ReesheesuKnack: That's because they no longer consider them as Illegal migrants, but fellow migrants. One positive thing to come out of these riots - instead of vilifying those crossing by boat as the problem migrants who are tainting the reputation of the superior legal migrants, there's now a bit more compassion towards them. Or at least less disdain. 1 Like |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Zahra29: 5:49pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
kwakudtraveller: How do I do that? By explicitly saying "stay safe" to every poster? Curious, has everyone said that out loud or it's just me who has to say it to prove that I am not a far-right supporter or rioter? Noted. And I genuinely hope that everyone, and their families, stays safe and well. 3 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by ehizario2012: 6:13pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
In the final analysis, the government has to do something about that £8m spent daily on immigrants who came through the channels as it were... That money is indeed much. And there's definitely a difference between migrants who came in through Heathrow and those who came in via the boats. The chances of a well documented immigrant involving in crime would be so much lower than those undocumented immigrants surviving under the radar. Unfortunately, the far right nationalists don't see any difference, they even attack BAME British citizens. 6 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by missjekyll: 6:46pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
ehizario2012: Yay. Was about to mention you again. There is no excuse for these racist riots. None. There are ways of addressing concerns, dragging people out of cars and beating them, chasing people with chain saws, burning people alive is not it. Simple and short. I m happy to report that many of these despicable racists are now in the finding out phase of F**k around, Find out. The police and courts are underresourced but nicely there is no statute of limitations on rioting. They will find out and I ll be giggling from the sidelines. Stay safe. We are sharing sit reps on the town WhatsApp group. My next plan is to set up a buddy system. See if that can work in your town too. Hopefully your children can still have some fun activities this summer. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by LionInZion: 6:49pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
Zahra29: It's amusing how you have turned this into satire and are entertaining yourself with it. Sometimes, I wonder whether it is your inability to keep conversations within context or a deliberate attempt to mislead people. I don't think anyone on this forum denies that there are fundamental issues with the system that are worth angering people. The point is they are directing their anger towards the wrong people, plus they are doing it dangerously. And when people on this thread raised their concern about it, you have been going on and on trying to justify the wicked act fuelled by racism and hatred, blaming it on deprivation. You were being told that your line of argument is faulty by many people, but instead of agreeing, you in your characteristic self keep bringing several other conflating angles to it to justify your stance. You went from whataboutism to speaking from both sides of the mouth and to downplaying a matter of life and death, turning it into some dry, unappealing comedy! What those rioters are doing has no basis for justification. If members of the BAME community did the same in 2011, as I have been reading here, every right-thinking person would have condemned it outright without trying to blame it on deprivation or what have you - and so should it be now that it is coming from far-right people. Ordinarily, I would have just ignored all your comments as I have mostly done for any such conversation that involves you (because I know it's like throwing a hand fan in the air a hundred times), but this a matter of life and death that has gotten people who look like me attacked, kept us in fear for days and forced us to stay indoors more than I should - and I can't just look the other way while someone tries to make mockery of it. 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Raytento: 6:54pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
Something to think about before making subtle (possibly unintentional) explanations/justification for racists and islamophobic people. If you look hard enough, you can find "seemingly logical" reasons for Hitler, Limpold, and Osama bin Laden actions. The core is that the reasons are camouflage for their underlying identity and IT IS NOT IN YOUR BEST INTEREST to be "logical" about it All the best 8 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Zahra29: 7:08pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
ehizario2012: A logical and balanced comment. The money is indeed much especially in deprived communities, and there are other concerns as you have noted such as crime. And you're right - what started off as racist attacks against refuge centres, migrant hotels and mosques (as bad as that is) has unfortunately snowballed in many places into broader attacks on anyone who looks like an immigrant or Muslim. Hopefully today will be worst of it and the protests/riots will start to die down. 1 Like |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Zahra29: 7:28pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
LionInZion: Respectfully, I think you should go back to ignoring my posts. You've made it apparent that I'm not your cup of tea (which is okay) and you clearly lack the ability to read any of my comments without bias and judgement. - Nowhere have I supported the violence or rioters or looters. - Nowhere have I said that they were justified to direct their anger via riots or violence - there is no "right" target to their violence contrary to your statement - Nowhere have I supported anyone being attacked, or property being vandalised. In fact I have said the opposite to the above several times and I have supported strong police action against the rioters. I can't keep repeating myself to satisfy you and the like, who are bent on twisting every word I say. I'm sorry to hear you were attacked. I hope you have a full recovery and that you and your family are well going forward, and that the perpetrators are caught and dealt with. 4 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by kwakudtraveller(m): 7:29pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
ehizario2012:Ehiz, just like you said, the attackers do not care if you came in through a boat or through the airport; all they see is a non-white person who is supposedly causing crimes, living lavishly, and taking their jobs. If they truly cared about the alleged £8 million daily spend or had issues with their government, then they would be protesting on Downing Street or marching to the House of Commons and not attacking people that look like you and me. After all, Bangladesh’s prime minister ran to India after her home was invaded. So let’s not justify their antics, please. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by hustla(m): 7:33pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
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Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by LionInZion: 7:37pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
Gerrard59: Thank you for bringing this up. There are two things I noticed in the video you shared (if the story is true): one - failure on the part of the government to prevent a chronic criminal from having access to its boders let alone their country. two - a chronic criminal who should be behind bars but is enjoying undue freedom and could wreak another havoc sooner or later. Now, should these two situations get people angry? Heck yes! Who should the anger be directed at? The govt who failed to do its work, and the criminal himself. Would it be right to now start attacking random people on the street who look like the criminal? Definitely not - and that is the point of the whole argument on the UK issue. Yes I agree with you that criminal act should be condemned outright and the dimwit who stabbed those three innocent girls should rot in jail because I feel bad for the news as if those girls were mine, and I will get personal with anyone trying to excuse the dastard act under whatever guide. Now, to your last paragraph, what makes you think the first and second-generation immigrants aren't pressuring politicians/parties to be hard on criminals? I asked because I don't think there is an identification mark that shows the immigration status of people condemning/condoning criminal acts. Let's even say they aren't, why should that be counted against them. It may interest you that many migrants only want a safe place to work and provide for their families and care less about politics. And if that's the path they chose, why should it be counted against them? Also, there is an ongoing agenda in media that is misleading natives into believing all problems in the country are caused by immigrants and when immigrants commit offence they only get a pat in the back. One of such is the picture below posted by a tweeter user and mischievously reposted by Elon Musk https://x.com/elonmusk/status/1820805335700873619 . And for the record, it is none of my business if natives vote in far right or close left, but it is my business if they make me the target of their frustration. 2 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by dupyshoo: 7:45pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
Where have you been? Welcome back. hustla: |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by LaXxOnebody(m): 8:18pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
Not friendly immigration policies. Rather, necessary immigration policies. ReesheesuKnack: 1 Like |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Goke7: 8:42pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
hustla: I remember warning then that when it comes to immigration policies, there was no segmentation and that everyone was placed inside the same bucket whether you came via boat, plane, or through the forest. Good to hear from you again hustla, keep safe dear! |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by LaXxOnebody(m): 8:42pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
You have the right to your opinions but this is distasteful. I live in Newcastle and work in Sunderland. You may be far removed from the reality of a possibility of violence You shouldn't however discount the people affected directly. If you were here, youd be a target too because you're not white. Your education, accent, visa type or passport colour counts for zilch. This is also a thread on a forum for people of largely Nigerian/black/coloured origins. Read the room. Your advice nuggets on UKVI policies are lovely, but for this one, your penalty went over the line for a throw-in. Zahra29: 3 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by LaXxOnebody(m): 8:46pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
Welcome back! Howfar with the job search? hustla: |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by kkins25(m): 9:37pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
budaatum: Or, he's a racist who has always wanted the "immigrants" out of his "precious" country and got the perfect "fall guy" to take on the blame.. Ridiculous.. Annoying... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Zahra29: 9:42pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
LaXxOnebody: Sigh. Another one. I fail to see how this comment about asylum seekers translates to me disregarding attacks against Nigerians and PoC in Newcastle or Sunderland. However I apologise if that's how you misinterpreted my comment. I hope you and your loved ones stay safe and that the unrest/riots calm down very soon. 2 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by LaXxOnebody(m): 10:01pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
Lol. You still don't get it. You may never sha. Let someone who's a recent Nigerian(lol) or person of colour to go through your last few posts and responses and see if they also misinterprete your comments. Intentionally or not, there's something blocking or influencing your general views, which is standard for everyone. But on these issues, nah. Also, there's no need to (try to) apologise. You're who you are. Zahra29: |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by LionInZion: 10:36pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
hustla: Yes, just like yesterday. I remember how some even reminded us how things were worse during Windrush, so why were we being irrational with our complaints? A lot of false rhetorics with derogatory words in media then, and when you complained here, the defenders of the system would twist and bend the narrative to suit themselves. Unfortunately, it is still the same old story in Ray charles' voice. 2 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Zahra29: 10:39pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
LaXxOnebody: No I don't. Gerrard59 for example has made far more direct, and what some might call harsh, comments on this issue and I don't think you've called him out on any of his views? Ehizario made very similar comments to me about some of the issues surrounding the protests. Silence from you (and everyone else except Kwakudtraveller who rebuked him very mildly lol) So I'm not naive to know that for a number of posters, it's more a case of "the messenger" as opposed to "the message". But that's a normal part of life. 3 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by lavida001: 10:47pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
ReesheesuKnack: The number of people who came in using dinghy is less than those of us that flew in. I still believe HO made a wrong prediction about the net migration. Let’s not forget this people are the natives and they can tell if the demography has change in their eyes and they have the right to seek redress but, the way they went about it is flawed. 3 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by NewDea4: 10:53pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
Viruses: You're not anonymous here, you'll be fished-out within thirty minutes if the stakes are high enough 1 Like |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by lavida001: 11:02pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
missjekyll: I laugh at your own country. This are the things you lots say that pisses them off. You get British passport doesn’t make it your country. We all know who the natives are, you are just a British passport holder the indigenes know themselves. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by AgentXxx(m): 11:05pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
Zahra29 The main issue people are having with your comment which you seems not to grab is the timing of your arguments. It should come later when it is all calm and not at the moment when POC are living in fear being harmed or maimed. If your family were in the position of harm during this riot, I believe you wouldn’t come here defending why they were being attacked. An important aspect of emotional intelligence is timing. 8 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by missjekyll: 11:17pm On Aug 07, 2024 |
lavida001: Lol. The only indigenes here are the celts. Everyone else came here from somewhere including the Anglo-Saxons . Yes,it's my country too. I ve earned the right to call it that and demand all the privileges that affords me with audacity. Anyone who tries to say otherwise and deprive me of those privileges ll meet me in court. Don't be scared. It's your country too. Noone can act otherwise . Just in passing: you weren't among the people saying Yoruba Ronu during the last election ,were you? because that was bs too 3 Likes |
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