I feel like the loneliest person on the planet, and it's beginning to make me sick. I'm losing my appetite for food and other things that make up life on Earth.

Knowledge can be a curse, and for me, it truly is. Sometimes, I wish I didn't have the knowledge I do—maybe my life would be simpler.

I’m good-looking, have a good job, and a supportive family, but my love life is a mess. I end all my relationships over little things because I'm using my standards as the judge. I've lost so many beautiful people because of this—men and women alike.

I might never find the love I crave because I'm always ahead of the few I've met. My intelligence and looks seem to be a burden to many of them, to some, it breeds insecurity.

It's only been four days since I told her I was done, but even though we're thousands of kilometers apart, her company and commitment made it feel like it's been four years. Still, my ego won't let me text or call her.

She’s on here but not active, she might read this in time to come, she’d know it’s me, and she will understand that I didn’t leave her because I don’t love her, I left her because I’m battling with myself.

Give your life to Christ and everything will fall in place for you. Locate any of our church branches Christ embassy and receive your deliverance. I declare healing onto you and cancel every spirit of loneliness hovering over you. You are healed

It is well

EreluRoz:
Give your life to Christ and everything will fall in place for you. Locate any of our church branches Christ embassy and receive your deliverance. It is well

I don't need deliverance, I’ve identified my problems but surmounting them is the challenge, hence the reason I'm here. I hope someone here will come to my aid.

My problem is my ego, knowledge & high self-worth, they're not entirely bad moderately, but in my case, they're above the roof already and are affecting various spheres of my life.

I need practical tips from those who've been in my shoes on how to deflate ego & I don't give a damn attitude.

Darklover. You will always be alone.

DarkLover:


I don't need deliverance, I’ve identified my problems but surmounting them is the challenge, hence the reason I'm here. I hope someone here will come to my aid.

My problem is my ego, knowledge & high self-worth, they're not entirely bad moderately, but in my case, they're above the roof already and are affecting various spheres of my life.

It's a good thing you have identify your problems and know you have a lot to do on yourself. Release yourself first and see everything in this life as vanity. Make friends with people above and below your class so you can have a balance, while doing this call yourself to order each time your weakness want to rare it's ugly head. Healing is a process, start from somewhere.

wrongman665:
Darklover. You will always be alone.

I always feel like this curse has been placed, maybe by one of my exes. But I reject it!

That love I seek shall be found.

k! wot happened to ur marriage?

EreluRoz:
It's a good thing you have identify your problems and know you have a lot to do on yourself. Release yourself first and see everything in this life as vanity. Make friends with people above and below your class so you can have a balance, while doing this call yourself to order each time your weakness want to rare it's ugly head. Healing is a process, start from somewhere.

Thank you so much for this.

I'm trying to have acquaintances, but the more I try the more I fail, so many unanswered calls and texts from my to-be friends, old classmates and even colleagues, and over time they just forget my existence.

It's not intentional but it just happens and it's unfathomable to me. I'd be like, “why am I doing this?” but I’d still repeatedly do it. I'm sick 😫

DarkLover:

I feel like the loneliest person on the planet, and it's beginning to make me sick. I'm losing my appetite for food and other things that make up life on Earth.

Knowledge can be a curse, and for me, it truly is. Sometimes, I wish I didn't have the knowledge I do—maybe my life would be simpler.

I’m good-looking, have a good job, and a supportive family, but my love life is a mess. I end all my relationships over little things because I'm using my standards as the judge. I've lost so many beautiful people because of this—men and women alike.

I might never find the love I crave because I'm always ahead of the few I've met. My intelligence and looks seem to be a burden to many of them, to some, it breeds insecurity.

It's only been four days since I told her I was done, but even though we're thousands of kilometers apart, her company and commitment made it feel like it's been four years. Still, my ego won't let me text or call her.

She’s on here but not active, she might read this in time to come, she’d know it’s me, and she will understand that I didn’t leave her because I don’t love her, I left her because I’m battling with myself.

bro swallow your pride

muyico:
k! wot happened to ur marriage?

I never marry oo, I broke up with my supposed wife-to-be four days ago, and now I'm sad I did that😭

DarkLover:


Thank you so much for this.

I'm trying to have acquaintances, but the more I try the more I fail, so many unanswered calls and texts from my to-be friends, old classmates and even colleagues, and over time they just forget my existence.

It's not intentional but it just happens and it's unfathomable to me. I'd be like, “why am I doing this?” but I’d still repeatedly do it. I'm sick 😫

Like I said earlier it's good you identify your problems. Next thing is taking that bold step to solving it.

You can start by returning the calls you've ignored, visit some of them at your reach. Start from somewhere, it's difficult at the beginning but you'll begin to love yourself when you take that bold step.
Take the bold step now and start your redemption

DarkLover:


I never marry oo, I broke up with my supposed wife-to-be four days ago, and now I'm sad I did that😭

why?

Eya sorry

EreluRoz:
Like I said earlier it's good you identify your problems. Next thing is taking that bold step to solving it.

You can start by returning the calls you've ignored, visit some of them at your reach. Start from somewhere, it's difficult at the beginning but you'll begin to love yourself when you take that bold step.
Take the bold step now and start your redemption

Thank you so much sir/ma🙏🏾

Sandralight:
Eya sorry

😟😟😟

DarkLover:


Thank you so much sir/ma🙏🏾

You are welcome

muyico:
why?

That's the twist, I can't even give a tangible reason. Primarily, it's disagreement about call mode & relocation.

DarkLover:


I never marry oo, I broke up with my supposed wife-to-be four days ago, and now I'm sad I did that😭

The way see it, you will always walk alone and always be alone.
The habit has eaten you deep and you have anger issues.

It will take the grace of God to give you a partner who can tolerate you.

EreluRoz:
Give your life to Christ and everything will fall in place for you. Locate any of our church branches Christ embassy and receive your deliverance. I declare healing onto you and cancel every spirit of loneliness hovering over you. You are healed

It is well

Learn how to skip discussions you have no prior clue of.

I get you op. Sometimes our gifts/endowment can be perceived as a curse at a point. That doesn't imply we shy away from making the best out of them.

If it's all about looking for a soulmate, I suggest you lower your standards, you can't get it all in a person. Once their good virtues outweigh their vices/shortcomings as the case maybe, give them a chance.

Perfection is an illusion.

DarkLover:

I feel like the loneliest person on the planet, and it's beginning to make me sick. I'm losing my appetite for food and other things that make up life on Earth.

Knowledge can be a curse, and for me, it truly is. Sometimes, I wish I didn't have the knowledge I do—maybe my life would be simpler.

I’m good-looking, have a good job, and a supportive family, but my love life is a mess. I end all my relationships over little things because I'm using my standards as the judge. I've lost so many beautiful people because of this—men and women alike.

I might never find the love I crave because I'm always ahead of the few I've met. My intelligence and looks seem to be a burden to many of them, to some, it breeds insecurity.

It's only been four days since I told her I was done, but even though we're thousands of kilometers apart, her company and commitment made it feel like it's been four years. Still, my ego won't let me text or call her.

She’s on here but not active, she might read this in time to come, she’d know it’s me, and she will understand that I didn’t leave her because I don’t love her, I left her because I’m battling with myself.

You need some time to refresh your mentality and help you learn life's lesson to appreciate those who love you truly & fight for you.

My advice, go to Kirikiri, jump the fence into the prison and go to the guards to explain your way out. The outcome will teach you something very vital in life.

Mumuboy, e be like say over-feeding dey worry you.🥱

Perfection is an illusion.[/quote]

I swear, an illusion that no human can embrace.

ok rope so you stop taking up space

Knowledge without compassion and understanding

EreluRoz:
Like I said earlier it's good you identify your problems. Next thing is taking that bold step to solving it.

You can start by returning the calls you've ignored, visit some of them at your reach. Start from somewhere, it's difficult at the beginning but you'll begin to love yourself when you take that bold step.
Take the bold step now and start your redemption

So you know how to think like this, why did you suggest deliverance for him at first 🤔

Most smart people are introvert, @ op don't get it wrong, it's a pretty cold boring world.

Xinjin:
So you know how to think like this, why did you suggest deliverance for him at first 🤔

I'm actually a good counselor but I chose to be silly on nairaland because it's anonymous and fun

Farrason:


You need some time to refresh your mentality and help you learn life's lesson to appreciate those who love you truly & fight for you.

My advice, go to Kirikiri, jump the fence into the prison and go to the guards to explain your way out. The outcome will teach you something very vital in life.

What an advice🥲
I won't trade my freedom for anything on Earth. Thanks btw.

sam121:


The way see it, you will always walk alone and always be alone.
The habit has eaten you deep and you have anger issues.

It will take the grace of God to give you a partner who can tolerate you.

I want to love & be loved. I won't be alone forever. About having anger issues, it's an absolute zero.

EreluRoz:
You are welcome

I value your advice & contribution to this thread today, I made a few calls, and they were all happy I did. I also called my girlfriend and told her I didn't mean to break up with her. She was happy I put a call across, and we made peace together.

Below is one of the calling schedules my cousin prepared for me early in the year. I'd be following it up henceforth, thanks again🙇🏾

LIVINGICONREBOR:
Mumuboy, e be like say over-feeding dey worry you.🥱

Why are you angry? Or are you hungry?
😐