I have come around female medical students and doctors, when it comes to acceptance of friendship, that is on a slight note but when it comes to furthering ahead for courtship or marital settlement, they just start telling you that they are only interested in friendship and not marriage that they are not looking at that picture even though, the spark in the relationship was already there initially when at the point of getting to know one another...

Then just a mistake in the relationship, you see them blocking and backing out when it could have easily been reconciled.

No be me oooo

I don't go close to them for relationship lailai.
Because, most of them are full of themselves.

Edpuma:
I have come around female medical students and doctors, when it comes to acceptance of friendship, that is on a slight note but when it comes to furthering ahead for courtship or marital settlement, they just start telling you that they are only interested in friendship and not marriage that they are not looking at that picture even though, the spark in the relationship was already there initially when at the point of getting to know one another...
Then just a mistake in the relationship, you see them blocking and backing out when it could have easily been reconciled.

a female doctor/nurse sees the doctor as ideal man sir

Creamypie:
a female doctor/nurse sees the doctor as ideal man sir

..

And the male doctors don't see them as the ideal woman...
Hypergamy 😹

Nyascobar1414:
..

And the male doctors don't see them as the ideal woman...
Hypergamy 😹

No one wants to marry a promiscuous woman.

The same woman giving you a tough time is using all here airtime to call another dude...
The female medic probably doesn't like what you do to earn a LIVING and is trying to wait if a rich dude will come her way

Nyascobar1414:
..

And the male doctors don't see them as the ideal woman...
Hypergamy 😹

na so their brain be. Most or all female nurses I know wey Marry from outside the profession, don divorce, except those wey marry high class professionals like lecturer, high Grade businessman,above average politician, Manufacturer, top tech men, bankers etc

SunShowAfrica:
The same woman giving you a tough time is using all here airtime to call another dude...
The female medic probably doesn't like what you do to earn a LIVING and is trying to wait if a rich dude will come her way

I quite agree with you, the first one just waited for a little misunderstanding and zoomed off and started blocking me from all social media platforms and she is still yet to marry since 2018, she is now a doctor for like five years now and still not married just taking her shots with the de creme la creme of the society... Hoping one works. I couldn't agree more with this.

Nyascobar1414:
..

And the male doctors don't see them as the ideal woman...
Hypergamy 😹

My Male Doctor friend always discourage me from dating them, he personally says, he knows how they behave in medical school and he finally married of recent outside the profession.

Hezzyluv:
No be me oooo

I don't go close to them for relationship lailai.
Because, most of them are full of themselves.

One just started snubbing, ignoring all my attempts to communicate with her.
These hypogamy and hypergamy are actually real in dating, I believe, the female medics only believe they are marrying at par not even marrying up (hypergamy), if they marry their colleagues or very wealthy/influential professionals while they feel they will be marrying down (hypogamy) if they see the dating move(s) coming from outside the medical field from my several experiences.

That girl wey dey block you and snub you dey beg one guy for attention for DM.
Do you know why? You're not their type na make dem dey block you, not because of their profession.
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news.
Oga did you meet her as a virgin If NO, then use 5 seconds to read below

Oga if you no meet her as a virgin, oga go for DNA test oooooo because boreholes aka non-virgins can't be trusted atall atall

Edpuma:


My Male Doctor friend always discourage me from dating them, he personally says, he knows how they behave in medical school and he finally married of recent outside the profession.

Wat do they do in medical school?

Lalami3232:
That girl wey dey block you and snub you dey beg one guy for attention for DM.
Do you know why? You're not their type na make dem dey block you, not because of their profession

Sad but true

First of all, OP

*They are Rich Men's Kids
*They are mostly Intelligent and Well read.
*They have very High Taste in Men.
*They know aLot about Male Anatomy and seems to Target Guys with Big Diccks.

When you think your Dicck is BIG, they feel it's small.

Th
That’s the rare fact, many of them see those guys outside their profession as someone that doesn’t worth their standard.
Due to job challenges in Nigeria, many Nigerians does not really have a good job, if I say “good”,I mean job of around 150k monthly. Because of that they either look for people in their field, or look for those high profile profession like Lecturing, lawyer,Accounting, not knowing that the narrative as changed as it was before that those profession were lucrative and were valued in society of Nigeria.
In Nigeria of today, a lawyer might not really make money up to a man that does POS, but because the job isn’t a white collar job or office work, most ladies in medicine won’t derive interest in such person even if the love is real. They have forgotten that true love matters and not considering any profession.
On the contrary, those guys they are tripping for in their dept don’t really end up marrying them. Most of them don’t like them because they don’t really make good wife in “child upbringing “ Only few of them does.
An average medical profession lady will be in hospital most time of her life, now if husband also does the same thing, who will nurture the children?
So, that’s why most were either single till old age, I know a chiprotractor in Florida still looking for husband at 62 years, imagine! She has never married before and had no child.
Some married wrongly because they don’t want to marry out of their field, and some that married were later divorced. That’s one of the reasons.

Lol. This particular guy, Zonefree, and that Benin Damnniggarrr guy, can never get the flimsiest chance of a medical student(in the top Medical Schools). I'm willing to bet anything. Bro has zero respect for women. Lol. Why?

Zonefree:

No one wants to marry a promiscuous woman.

That said, I won't train my daughter up to the level of a doctor and beyond to a specialist level, only to come bring one stupidd idiot that spends his whole life on NL yapping rubbish and hoping all day, or one fooll that lives large scamming people, doing yahoo, fraud, and the likes, when they're lots of important people who contribute meaningfully to the society. Well, my daughter has to be intelligent na sha... can't raise a dummy.

Be like you people don't know they're still a good number of vital people in the society. You don't just hear about them because they've all been scooped. No be to dey waste everyday dey see Burna boy, Wizkid, Davido. Portable, and whatnot gan, when you could radiate purer values yourself. You think a top notch female medical student with a handful of options will degrade herself like Chioma and be doing rubbish quitting medical schools and lowlifes be hailing her upandan? Lol.

Hian, poor or rich, better create values for your children so they have a high chance of attracting good things and people.

You see Chimamanda run comot Medicine. You think say na play

Note: any girl who is in the medical school (studying Medicine gangan o, not nursing or all these kinikan courses), and still gives you attention, must really love you, she's been withdrawn or you're her source of survival. Where the time abeg? Chai, una no know how much hard life is for an average medical student in a federal university(can't tell about others)—particularly among the TOP 10 MEDICAL SCHOOLS. Sadness upon sadness. Shege upon shege.

Na all these NL low IQ brain you wan dey follow pezin wey understand everything about your biological beingness talk? Pezin wey get brain pass you. Looool.

Una think say na play dem dey play, lol.

Sterlingdgreat:
No social life at all. It is not easy at all as you said it

social life ke, wetin e mean, where social life wan dey, when you're always studying, writing exams, and yet often a result-announcement away from shege and misery... despite the fact you might have put in so much effort. I say people like Chimamanda change their mind after some level. Lol.

Lalami3232:
That girl wey dey block you and snub you dey beg one guy for attention for DM.
Do you know why? You're not their type na make dem dey block you, not because of their profession

Abi.oooo, someone would just come online to use his abmysal performances to generalise the whole scenario .


.......you toasted 2 to 3 health professionals, probably bcoz u belong to least level of the social stratum, you rush gragra to forum, to label entire medics ugly name.

Let him go to big hospitals and see how nurses scramble to have relationships with guys outside doctors/nurses professions.

Creamypie:
na so their brain be. Most or all female nurses I know wey Marry from outside the profession, don divorce, except those wey marry high class professionals like lecturer, high Grade businessman,above average politician, Manufacturer, top tech men, bankers etc

Lecturer inside high class professionals?

Tricks to date a female medical dr
1)have a life..I.e get something doing that fetch you something decent
2) approach her with open mind by being friendly but not friends..
3) regular check up but don't be too clingy get to understand her personality likes and dislikes understand work can mess up her emotions don't take it to heart.
4) state your intention and give her space to decide..don't bombard with calls and attention let her choose with a clear eye
5) the key is never be too clingy and know when to walk away ..learn to respect yourself and walk away at any sight of disrespect.
6) keep focusing on your grind..continue improving and achieving in your chosen endeavour
7)make sure you have funds ready cos 99 percent of female Dr's are ripe for marriage so no loafing around you might not meet her single if u delay 1-3yrs max in rare cases some can be more .
understand that they love the why for every decision. Meaning you can't cook up stories..their brains are wired to think logically. But at times that emotional side comes up..u can't remove the woman in her frm the dr.
Peace

Tohsynetita1:
Th
That’s the rare fact, many of them see those guys outside their profession as someone that doesn’t worth their standard.
Due to job challenges in Nigeria, many Nigerians does not really have a good job, if I say “good”,I mean job of around 150k monthly. Because of that they either look for people in their field, or look for those high profile profession like Lecturing, lawyer,Accounting, not knowing that the narrative as changed as it was before that those profession were lucrative and were valued in society of Nigeria.
In Nigeria of today, a lawyer might not really make money up to a man that does POS, but because the job isn’t a white collar job or office work, most ladies in medicine won’t derive interest in such person even if the love is real. They have forgotten that true love matters and not considering any profession.
On the contrary, those guys they are tripping for in their dept don’t really end up marrying them. Most of them don’t like them because they don’t really make good wife in “child upbringing “ Only few of them does.
An average medical profession lady will be in hospital most time of her life, now if husband also does the same thing, who will nurture the children?
So, that’s why most were either single till old age, I know a chiprotractor in Florida still looking for husband at 62 years, imagine! She has never married before and had no child.
Some married wrongly because they don’t want to marry out of their field, and some that married were later divorced. That’s one of the reasons.

The only part I agree with is some female medics eventually don't end up with anyone, because it is true.
The problem is also in civil service and it's common in Nigeria too.

That aside, all other things you stated are the men's issue because they already decided in their mind that a lady in a particular field is bigger than them. So it's basically a self esteem issue.

I am surprised Nigerians consider 150k big money tho. No wonder this guy staying with us got married the moment he started earning 150.

Karleb:


Lecturer inside high class professionals?

Dr, associate prof, prof

Same thing with female police, a police man told us that we should not marry police women cause they're not good for marriage.

Creamypie:
Dr, associate prof, prof

Before you become a doctor, you'd probably be married so the chance of a female medic marrying a Dr. or vice versa is very very slim.

Besides, professors in nigeria hardly earn more than 400k.

A young boy in KPMG or Oando would double their salary probably at entry level.

So no, lecturing is not high professional career.

Baronthecelebri:
Same thing with female police, a police man told us that we should not marry police women cause they're not good for marriage.

Why you go open mouth toast police?

Dem jazz you?

The Critical Imperative to Address Children's Mental Health

The mental health of children is in crisis, requiring urgent attention from all sectors of society. With an increasing number of young people facing mental health challenges, it’s essential for parents, educators, and communities to act swiftly in recognizing the early signs and providing the necessary support. Many children struggle to express their emotions or may not even realize they need help, making early intervention a crucial factor in their well-being.

Spotting the Signs: Recognizing Behavioral Changes

Children often lack the ability to articulate their emotions as clearly as adults. Consequently, what may seem like a minor mood swing could be the early stages of a more serious mental health issue. Parents should be vigilant in noticing any unusual behavior or sudden changes in their child’s daily routine. Increased irritability, withdrawal from social interactions, or a decline in academic performance can all be potential indicators of emotional distress.

It’s important for parents to distinguish between typical childhood behavior and signs of potential mental health problems. Even if a behavior seems like just a passing phase, staying observant and engaged can lead to early identification and intervention, which is key to addressing mental health concerns effectively.

Fostering Open Communication: The Power of Dialogue

One of the most impactful ways to support a child’s mental health is through open, honest communication. Although children and adolescents may resist discussing their feelings, finding the right approach can significantly improve their willingness to share. Parents should strive to create a safe, non-judgmental environment where children feel comfortable expressing their thoughts and emotions.
Approaching these conversations with empathy and patience is crucial. Instead of demanding immediate answers, allowing children to express themselves at their own pace can lead to more genuine and productive discussions. By remaining calm, approachable, and understanding, parents can help their children feel secure enough to open up about their struggles.

Addressing Common Mental Health Issues in Children

Mental health issues in children can manifest in various ways, with anxiety and depression being among the most common. Early recognition of these conditions is essential for effective intervention. Anxiety in children may appear as excessive worry, restlessness, or physical symptoms like headaches and stomachaches. Depression might present as prolonged sadness, loss of interest in activities, or significant changes in sleep patterns.

Beyond anxiety and depression, other mental health concerns such as eating disorders, behavioral issues, and the effects of trauma can also significantly impact a child's well-being. It’s important for parents and caregivers to be aware of these issues and to seek help when needed.

Taking Decisive Action: When and How to Seek Help

When a child's mental health is in jeopardy, seeking professional help without delay is vital. Persistent mood changes, withdrawal from social activities, or behaviors that interfere with daily life are all signs that it may be time to consult a https://tematherapy.com/working-with-children. Parents should familiarize themselves with available resources, including school counselors, pediatricians, and specialized mental health professionals.

It’s also crucial to overcome the stigma often associated with mental health care. Many parents hesitate to seek help due to fear of judgment, but acknowledging the importance of mental health is the first step toward ensuring a child’s long-term well-being.

Promoting Ongoing Mental Wellness

Addressing a child's mental health needs goes beyond the initial intervention. Building resilience and teaching coping strategies are vital for sustaining long-term wellness. Parents can play a significant role in helping their children develop these skills by modeling positive behaviors, encouraging ongoing communication, and fostering a supportive home environment.

Engaging schools and community organizations can further bolster a child’s support system. Educators, peers, and community groups can provide additional resources and encouragement, reinforcing the importance of mental health care throughout a child’s development.

Conclusion: A Collective Call to Action for[url] https://tematherapy.com/working-with-children/[/url]

The crisis in children’s mental health is a complex challenge that requires awareness, proactive intervention, and sustained support. By recognizing the signs of mental health issues early, fostering open dialogue, and seeking professional assistance when necessary, parents can profoundly impact their children’s lives. As a community, we must work together to ensure every child has the support they need to thrive mentally and emotionally.

I remember the time I got one young female doctor pregnant after just one bang o

Make I no lie sha, her toto dey very tight and sweet just the way I like it

Reason is that Nigerians especially ladies date and marry a man's class only....that is the button reason marriages fail...

Ladies marry the guy's job Nd not the guy

SpaceX:
leave marriage for s.imps if you need any for a night just rent, pay and move on. Simple!

Smiles

haybhi1:
Note: any girl who is in the medical school (studying medicine o), and still gives you attention, must really love you or she's been withdrawn. Where the time abeg? Una no know how much hard life is for an average medical student in a federal university(can't tell about others)—particularly among the top 10 medical schools.

Una think say na play dem dey play, lol.

But for the high intolerance level, that's just my concern.

Fiscus105:



Abi.oooo, someone would just come online to use his abmysal performances to generalise the whole scenario .


.......you toasted 2 to 3 health professionals, probably bcoz u belong to least level of the society, you rush gragra to forum, to label entire medics ugly name.

Let him go to big hospitals and see how nurses scramble to have relationships with guys outside their doctors/nurses professions.

Your affirmation is not accurate Sir, mistakes do happen, but on trying to reconcile differences, that becomes a major challenge...