Edpuma:


Your affirmation is not accurate Sir, mistakes do happen, but on trying to reconcile differences, that becomes a major challenge...

Karleb:


Before you become a doctor, you'd probably be married so the chance of a female medic marrying a Dr. or vice versa is very very slim.

Besides, professors in nigeria hardly earn more than 400k.

A young boy in KPMG or Oando would double their salary probably at entry level.

So no, lecturing is not high professional career.

Fiscus105:


What's total number of young guys working in KPMG and oil company in Nigeria? Compare to nurses that scatter all over the country.

If a young lecturer is too small to marry nurse who will now marry nurse?

Nurses that are being married to pry school teacher on weekly basis.

The way you guys leaving completely outside from reality is worrisome. Perhaps, your low status or age is affecting your reasonings.

Edpuma:
I have come around female medical students and doctors, when it comes to acceptance of friendship, that is on a slight note but when it comes to furthering ahead for courtship or marital settlement, they just start telling you that they are only interested in friendship and not marriage that they are not looking at that picture even though, the spark in the relationship was already there initially when at the point of getting to know one another...
Then just a mistake in the relationship, you see them blocking and backing out when it could have easily been reconciled.

Fiscus105:



Why you want to marry medics at all cost?
What stops you married other professions?

You too, since 2018 that ur ex, who is now doctor left, you are still wandering in the wilderness of singleness.

Thank God she is even mingle with cream de la cream now,......for you, a frustrated and depressed single papa, who has waited endlessly to marry female medics.



It affirms my earlier assertion that you belong to lowest of ladder in society.

GOLD DIGGER!

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Edpuma:


I quite agree with you, the first one just waited for a little misunderstanding and zoomed off and started blocking me from all social media platforms and she is still yet to marry since 2018, she is now a doctor for like five years now and still not married just taking her shots with the de creme la creme of the society... Hoping one works. I couldn't agree more with this.

Baronthecelebri:
Same thing with female police, a police man told us that we should not marry police women cause they're not good for marriage.

haybhi1:
Note: any girl who is in the medical school (studying medicine o), and still gives you attention, must really love you or she's been withdrawn. Where the time abeg? Una no know how much hard life is for an average medical student in a federal university(can't tell about others)—particularly among the top 10 medical schools.

Una think say na play dem dey play, lol.

Karleb:


Baba, read to understand.

I never said lecturers are too small to marry female medics. I don't even see anything special about female nurses and doctors, or any female medics.

The point I'm making is, lecturers are not high level professionals.

They are average earners at best, and their profession is not so great as well.

Karleb:


The only part I agree with is some female medics eventually don't end up with anyone, because it is true.
The problem is also in civil service and it's common in Nigeria too.

That aside, all other things you stated are the men's issue because they already decided in their mind that a lady in a particular field is bigger than them. So it's basically a self esteem issue.




I am surprised Nigerians consider 150k big money tho. No wonder this guy staying with us got married the moment he started earning 150.

bigpicture001:
Reason is that Nigerians especially ladies date and marry a man's class only....that is the button reason marriages fail...

Ladies marry the guy's job Nd not the guy

Fiscus105:



Abi.oooo, someone would just come online to use his abmysal performances to generalise the whole scenario .


.......you toasted 2 to 3 health professionals, probably bcoz u belong to least level of the society, you rush gragra to forum, to label entire medics ugly name.

Let him go to big hospitals and see how nurses scramble to have relationships with guys outside their doctors/nurses professions.

bigpicture001:
Reason is that Nigerians especially ladies date and marry a man's class only....that is the button reason marriages fail...

Ladies marry the guy's job Nd not the guy

Edpuma:
I have come around female medical students and doctors, when it comes to acceptance of friendship, that is on a slight note but when it comes to furthering ahead for courtship or marital settlement, they just start telling you that they are only interested in friendship and not marriage that they are not looking at that picture even though, the spark in the relationship was already there initially when at the point of getting to know one another...

Then just a mistake in the relationship, you see them blocking and backing out when it could have easily been reconciled.

Edpuma:
I have come around female medical students and doctors, when it comes to acceptance of friendship, that is on a slight note but when it comes to furthering ahead for courtship or marital settlement, they just start telling you that they are only interested in friendship and not marriage that they are not looking at that picture even though, the spark in the relationship was already there initially when at the point of getting to know one another...

Then just a mistake in the relationship, you see them blocking and backing out when it could have easily been reconciled.

haybhi1:
Note: any girl who is in the medical school (studying medicine o), and still gives you attention, must really love you or she's been withdrawn. Where the time abeg? Una no know how much hard life is for an average medical student in a federal university(can't tell about others)—particularly among the top 10 medical schools.

Una think say na play dem dey play, lol.

Nyascobar1414:
..

And the male doctors don't see them as the ideal woman...
Hypergamy 😹

Skooltynz:


Sad but true

Zonefree:

No one wants to marry a promiscuous woman.

Blitzking:
Tricks to date a female medical dr
1)have a life..I.e get something doing that fetch you something decent
2) approach her with open mind by being friendly but not friends..
3) regular check up but [b]don't be too clingy get to understand her personality likes and [/b]dislikes understand work can mess up her emotions don't take it to heart.
4) state your intention and give her space to decide..don't bombard with calls and attention let her choose with a clear eye
5) the key is never be too clingy and know when to walk away ..learn to respect yourself and walk away at any sight of disrespect.
6) keep focusing on your grind..continue improving and achieving in your chosen endeavour
7)make sure you have funds ready cos 99 percent of female Dr's are ripe for marriage so no loafing around you might not meet her single if u delay 1-3yrs max in rare cases some can be more .
understand that they love the why for every decision. Meaning you can't cook up stories..their brains are wired to thing logically. But at times that emotional side comes up..u can't remove the woman in her frm the dr.
Peace