Creamypie:
a female doctor/nurse sees the doctor as ideal man sir

Let them continue using their dildos then. Ogun kee dem Mama

wunmi590:


Majority of them have ego, even my day I school then, when we were doing some medical courses together like parasitology and medical Microbiology, the way they class themselves as if they were dropped from heaven self, you will hate it

Ego ke, if you know their weak point, ego my foot. I just dey make jest of them. Medical doctor wey I dey make yanga with. If you have money and learned, they will swallow their ego. I currently live with them (both Medical Doctors and Nurses). I am not fabricating any thing here. Although they have ego, but if you know your way and know how to handle them, they will be the one chasing you. Most medical students are very busy from their 200 level to houseman-ship level. Give them breathing space, don't call them regularly. Know the time they are with their colleagues reading, don't call during that time, if u want to catch her attention, know when she's been in the class since morning, go to one eatery, buy her best delicacy, and go and give her where she's busy dissecting dead body. She will be the one calling you. If you don't have money to dress cool, wear a nice and near shirt, if it's even short and a clean palm slippers, even her friends will fall for you. They are easy to catch and also they hate mouth odour oooooo

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There is status in those professions. The female medic considers those.

On her wedding day she wants to hear Engr. Dr. Chief, Prof before her husband's name. It is what it is [/quote

I don't concur with this. Not all of them. Before I met my wife, I woo female medical Doctors like play play. Although, I have my cool ride back in 2008. It gave me an edge and confidence to woo them. If your mouth stinks or smells with bad body odour, it's better you run away than to embarrass yourself

magzey:
But they are easy going when it come to love relationship only that they don't have all the time and one thing again is that when they look into your eyes they will see Malaria in your eyes

You are 100% correct. They can either see malaria or pimples and they start removing it at their leisure time. That's what I'm been passing through

haybhi1:
Note: any girl who is in the medical school (studying Medicine gangan o, not nursing or all these kinikan courses), and still gives you attention, must really love you, she's been withdrawn or you're her source of survival. Where the time abeg? Chai, una no know how much hard life is for an average medical student in a federal university(can't tell about others)—particularly among the TOP 10 MEDICAL SCHOOLS. Sadness upon sadness. Shege upon shege.

Na all these NL low IQ brain you wan dey follow pezin wey understand everything about your beingness, pezin wey get brain pass you. Looool.

Una think say na play dem dey play, lol.

No social life at all. It is not easy at all as you said it

Then date the male ones. Easy very peasy.

Edpuma:


I quite agree with you, the first one just waited for a little misunderstanding and zoomed off and started blocking me from all social media platforms and she is still yet to marry since 2018, she is now a doctor for like five years now and still not married just taking her shots with the de creme la creme of the society... Hoping one works. I couldn't agree more with this.

If u don't bring equal or some value to a high value woman there is a tendency she will either get bored of u or not be so into u. As for medics they are like it depends on the situation. Some see themselves as hot cake or hot in demand so if a guy falls for the perception of her being a medic make her hot in demand she thinks ur after her for that.

I personally I'm not attracted to medics cos I come from a medical family and I'm used to them or I just don't fancy them as much as some guys who are desperate to marry doctors or nurses. I see them as ordinary people. unless they have great character.

This is spot on. But why is it not always the case outside the country? My white colleague's girlfriend is studying medicine at one of the Russell Group schools in the U.K. My colleague is a Logistics officer with just a Level 5 certificate in Logistics and supply chain while the gf is already a graduate of Biomedical science before she decided to proceed to study Medicine. I am 💯 sure, this would never have happened in Nigeria. Hypergamy is real in Nigeria

Edpuma:
I have come around female medical students and doctors, when it comes to acceptance of friendship, that is on a slight note but when it comes to furthering ahead for courtship or marital settlement, they just start telling you that they are only interested in friendship and not marriage that they are not looking at that picture even though, the spark in the relationship was already there initially when at the point of getting to know one another...

Then just a mistake in the relationship, you see them blocking and backing out when it could have easily been reconciled.

Speak for yourself, don't generalise. You are probably not good enough

Your experience, not mine.

Edpuma:
I have come around female medical students and doctors, when it comes to acceptance of friendship, that is on a slight note but when it comes to furthering ahead for courtship or marital settlement, they just start telling you that they are only interested in friendship and not marriage that they are not looking at that picture even though, the spark in the relationship was already there initially when at the point of getting to know one another...

Then just a mistake in the relationship, you see them blocking and backing out when it could have easily been reconciled.

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Dating for the heck of it or what values do you bring?

They may settle down with a man that makes sense.
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Funny how most of them marry pastors. Most marry their follow professional because they think it will bring common understanding and growth since both have same interest.
In my class 45% of our girls marry our senior colleague. Me sef I don dey chuk eyes for my colleague. Period

Karleb:


The only part I agree with is some female medics eventually don't end up with anyone, because it is true.
The problem is also in civil service and it's common in Nigeria too.

That aside, all other things you stated are the men's issue because they already decided in their mind that a lady in a particular field is bigger than them. So it's basically a self esteem issue.

I am surprised Nigerians consider 150k big money tho. No wonder this guy staying with us got married the moment he started earning 150.

You expected the guy earning 150k to wait till he get to 50 yrs of age when he will eventually earn a bigger salary. Even those who earn below 50k got marry to those who can manage with them and eventually built a family....If you dey wait for millions before taking some decision you just get stuck.

Edpuma:


I quite agree with you, the first one just waited for a little misunderstanding and zoomed off and started blocking me from all social media platforms and she is still yet to marry since 2018, she is now a doctor for like five years now and still not married just taking her shots with the de creme la creme of the society... Hoping one works. I couldn't agree more with this.

Are you married now?

Edpuma:
I have come around female medical students and doctors, when it comes to acceptance of friendship, that is on a slight note but when it comes to furthering ahead for courtship or marital settlement, they just start telling you that they are only interested in friendship and not marriage that they are not looking at that picture even though, the spark in the relationship was already there initially when at the point of getting to know one another...

Then just a mistake in the relationship, you see them blocking and backing out when it could have easily been reconciled.

They're too uppity!

SpaceX:
leave marriage for s.imps if you need any for a night just rent, pay and move on. Simple!

Keep on talking gibberish. Later you will be admiring other people's kids.

SpaceX:
leave marriage for s.imps if you need any for a night just rent, pay and move on. Simple!

Once you can continue doing that in the next 40years I will surely take you serious.

People who read medicine in Nigeria be doing like God-in-law.

Even when dem still dey school.

Wetin dem dey use sex do ehn

Edpuma:
I have come around female medical students and doctors, when it comes to acceptance of friendship, that is on a slight note but when it comes to furthering ahead for courtship or marital settlement, they just start telling you that they are only interested in friendship and not marriage that they are not looking at that picture even though, the spark in the relationship was already there initially when at the point of getting to know one another...

Then just a mistake in the relationship, you see them blocking and backing out when it could have easily been reconciled.

How many of them have you dated before concluding?

Honestwithme:
You expected the guy earning 150k to wait till he get to 50 yrs of age when he will eventually earn a bigger salary. Even those who earn below 50k got marry to those who can manage with them and eventually built a family....If you dey wait for millions before taking some decision you just get stuck.

I am not saying people should not get married. But we need to understand the real value of N150k. A man, a woman and a kid would struggle on that.

Fiscus105:



Abi.oooo, someone would just come online to use his abmysal performances to generalise the whole scenario .


.......you toasted 2 to 3 health professionals, probably bcoz u belong to least level of the society, you rush gragra to forum, to label entire medics ugly name.

Let him go to big hospitals and see how nurses scramble to have relationships with guys outside their doctors/nurses professions.

He made mistake generalizing, especially also adding nurses to it

But a lot of what he said is true to an extent (especially about female medical doctors). And he didn't deny not being rich either.

Karleb:


I am not saying people should not get married. But we need to understand the real value of N150k. A man, a woman and a kid would struggle on that.

That is the reality of life bro ....

Teeyoo:


Ego ke, if you know their weak point, ego my foot. I just dey make jest of them. Medical doctor wey I dey make yanga with. If you have money and learned, they will swallow their ego. I currently live with them (both Medical Doctors and Nurses). I am not fabricating any thing here. Although they have ego, but if you know your way and know how to handle them, they will be the one chasing you. Most medical students are very busy from their 200 level to houseman-ship level. Give them breathing space, don't call them regularly. Know the time they are with their colleagues reading, don't call during that time, if u want to catch her attention, know when she's been in the class since morning, go to one eatery, buy her best delicacy, and go and give her where she's busy dissecting dead body. She will be the one calling you. If you don't have money to dress cool, wear a nice and near shirt, if it's even short and a clean palm slippers, even her friends will fall for you. They are easy to catch and also they hate mouth odour oooooo

You be real OG, you don tey for the game 😆 🤣 😂 😹

ednut1:
You are not their spec because you are broke. Shikena

😂😂😂😂😂Drag them like Tiger Gen.

Creamypie:
a female doctor/nurse sees the doctor as ideal man sir

No be only ideal man

Interesting Thread

VinnyBaba:


First of all, OP

*They are Rich Men's Kids
*They are mostly Intelligent and Well read.
*They have very High Taste in Men.
*They know aLot about Male Anatomy and seems to Target Guys with Big Diccks.

When you think your Dicck is BIG, they feel it's small.

o ga oh

People are Emotionally low .. Don't blame them . .

I can not even imagine myself dating any medic except maybe a Doctor.

Doctors may sometimes be slightly more mature than others in the medical field but only slight.

Having travelled to the US and UK, I can reliable say that medical field is not so regarded in western countries. Nurses are basically glorified servants that most westerners will not bring down themselves to do such dirty jobs which is why they have to import immigrants from poor countriers like Nigeria, India and Pakistan to do that job

Karleb:


Before you become a doctor, you'd probably be married so the chance of a female medic marrying a Dr. or vice versa is very very slim.

Besides, professors in nigeria hardly earn more than 400k.

A young boy in KPMG or Oando would double their salary probably at entry level.

So no, lecturing is not high professional career.

Leave your utopian worldview and face reality. Lecturers secure grants, earn honorariums from professional institutes, journals and associations, go on funded sabbatical leaves and even double or triple their salaries teaching in other universities as adjuncts. No need to mention some that do illegal sortings and get 'gifts' from students.

No lecturer at any level is poor by Nigerian standards.. They just want to be at par with their colleagues abroad. That's why some of them leave.. If they need to build a house or execute a project, they easily take loans from the Bank (who beg them to take loans) or join the staff cooperative..

And yes, PhDs and young Profs are high on the list of suitors the female medics try to attract.

I can relate, when I was in uni, I had them as roommates, no time for frivolities, relationship and social activities, medical school no be beans.

haybhi1:
You see Chimamanda run comot Medicine. You think say na play

Note: any girl who is in the medical school (studying Medicine gangan o, not nursing or all these kinikan courses), and still gives you attention, must really love you, she's been withdrawn or you're her source of survival. Where the time abeg? Chai, una no know how much hard life is for an average medical student in a federal university(can't tell about others)—particularly among the TOP 10 MEDICAL SCHOOLS. Sadness upon sadness. Shege upon shege.

Na all these NL low IQ brain you wan dey follow pezin wey understand everything about your biological beingness talk? Pezin wey get brain pass you. Looool.

Una think say na play dem dey play, lol. social life ke, wetin e mean, where social life wan dey, when you're always studying, writing exams, and yet often a result-announcement away from shege and misery... despite the fact you might have put in so much effort. I say people like Chimamanda change their mind after some level. Lol.