Edpuma:


I quite agree with you, the first one just waited for a little misunderstanding and zoomed off and started blocking me from all social media platforms and she is still yet to marry since 2018, she is now a doctor for like five years now and still not married just taking her shots with the de creme la creme of the society... Hoping one works. I couldn't agree more with this.

she is a doctor now. What about you?

Creamypie:
na so their brain be. Most or all female nurses I know wey Marry from outside the profession, don divorce, except those wey marry high class professionals like lecturer, high Grade businessman,above average politician, Manufacturer, top tech men, bankers etc

In addition to that comment, never let any woman put you in that position. I stopped taking women seriously the very day I knew this. The same woman that is giving you hard time, another man is looking for a flimsy excuse to give her breakfast; a guy somewhere is already tired of her and the woman that’s dying for you is probably another guy’s prayer point.
Always go for a woman that can’t do without you and not the one that thinks she’s the one doing you a favor for dating you. Also if you love a woman, don’t let it be too explicit that you do. No be advice, na serious warning.
I just have this natural dislike for people working in the medical field. Most of them are just too proud and full of themselves

haybhi1:
Lol. This particular guy, Zonefree, and that Benin Damnniggarrr guy, can never get the flimsiest chance of a medical student(in the top Medical Schools). I'm willing to bet anything. Bro has zero respect for women. Lol. Why? That said, I won't train my daughter up to the level of a doctor and beyond to a specialist level, only to come bring one stupidd idiot that spends his whole life on NL yapping rubbish and hoping all day, or one fooll that lives large scamming people, doing yahoo, fraud, and the likes, when they're lots of important people who contribute meaningfully to the society. Well, my daughter has to be intelligent na sha... can't raise a dummy.

Be like you people don't know they're still a good number of vital people in the society. You don't just hear about them because they've all been scooped. No be to dey waste everyday dey see Burna boy, Wizkid, Davido. Portable, and whatnot gan, when you could radiate purer values yourself. You think a top notch female medical student with a handful of options will degrade herself like Chioma and be doing rubbish quitting medical schools and lowlifes be hailing her upandan? Lol.

Hian, poor or rich, better create values for your children so they have a high chance of attracting good things and people.

You'll only have proud daughters, that'll find it difficult to marry, you're full of PRIDE!

Blitzking:
Tricks to date a female medical dr
1)have a life..I.e get something doing that fetch you something decent
2) approach her with open mind by being friendly but not friends..
3) regular check up but don't be too clingy get to understand her personality likes and dislikes understand work can mess up her emotions don't take it to heart.
4) state your intention and give her space to decide..don't bombard with calls and attention let her choose with a clear eye
5) the key is never be too clingy and know when to walk away ..learn to respect yourself and walk away at any sight of disrespect.
6) keep focusing on your grind..continue improving and achieving in your chosen endeavour
7)make sure you have funds ready cos 99 percent of female Dr's are ripe for marriage so no loafing around you might not meet her single if u delay 1-3yrs max in rare cases some can be more .
understand that they love the why for every decision. Meaning you can't cook up stories..their brains are wired to thing logically. But at times that emotional side comes up..u can't remove the woman in her frm the dr.
Peace

All these to wife a woman that might divorce you as easy as anything?, why all the stress in life??, omo no wonder many men die of High BP and stroke always, nawaoo, just to get a human that'll rot away like everyone else, you put yourself through all these rubbish??, mtcheeww

Gotocourt:

They are very terrible, full time hoes💯


Lust from afar

You got it
They could be Toxic most people marry them for financial security and sometimes could be nice too

Caleycash:
You'll only have proud daughters, that'll find it difficult to marry, you're full of PRIDE!

When people know their worth, some call it pride. But even pride is okay, it's proudness and arrogance that's bad.
Okonjo Iweala got married. My daughters will marry if they like. Not everyone like to want to marry. Their choice.

Angelfrost:
Let's be honest... How many men are ready to support and help build a female medical professional's career?!!

How many?!! If you understand the career path of a Physician from Residency to Specialisation, you will understand that it's actually wisdom for them not to waste their time and lives on nearsighted, unambitious, and low self-esteem individuals. To successfully date a medic means you have to be highly patient, loving, accommodating, and willing to make serious sacrifices even denying yourself too.
Let the right career-supporting and patient men with vision locate them...!

The bold is very important. The man in question should be prepared to stay off sex with the female doctor, which most men find hard to do.

Caleycash:
All these to wife a woman that might divorce you as easy as anything?, why all the stress in life??, omo no wonder many men die of High BP and stroke always, nawaoo, just get a human that'll rot away you put yourself through all these rubbish??, mtcheeww

Not for everyone..many men can't stand a high achieving woman as a wife..its for passively strong men u think its easy to have a kamala..okonjo or Dora of blessed memory that's why if u really went tru my write up u will see I wrote about some areas you can't forgo.

numericalguy:
I can not even imagine myself dating any medic except maybe a Doctor.

Doctors may sometimes be slightly more mature than others in the medical field but only slight.

Having travelled to the US and UK, I can reliable say that medical field is not so regarded in western countries. Nurses are basically glorified servants that most westerners will not bring down themselves to do such dirty jobs which is why they have to import immigrants from poor countriers like Nigeria, India and Pakistan to do that job

Both countries are not a full representation of the West. Apart from the UK and only for nurses, nurses and medical doctors elsewhere in the Western world earn good salaries excluding those in high-level finance and technology companies. The UK government has underfunded medical education, which is why the lure has dropped. But elsewhere and especially in the US and Australia, medical professionals earn very well and are well respected.

OP,

Female medical doctors are like other women out there. They just happen to be at the zenith of hypergamy. That is all.

Blitzking:

Not for everyone..many men can't stand a high achieving woman as a wife..its for passively strong men u think its easy to have a kamala..okonjo or Dora of blessed memory that's why if u really went tru my write up u will see I wrote about some areas you can't forgo.

My brother it's PRIDE from there side and my own pride as a man can't allow me, make una enjoy!

haybhi1:
When people know their worth, some call it pride. But even pride is okay, it's proudness and arrogance that's bad.
Okonjo Iweala got married. My daughters will marry if they like. Not everyone like to want to marry. Their choice.

Alright I pray they really get that high in class and get to meet same class that actually wants them, cus it's really difficult out there.

CorrectionFLuid:


He made mistake generalizing, especially also adding nurses to it

But a lot of what he said is true to an extent (especially about female medical doctors). And he didn't deny not being rich either.

Female medical students/doctors I mean. I get your assertion. For the wealth, everyone has their own definition to that, am pushing...

ednut1:
she is a doctor now. What about you?

I am into Investment Banking and other SMEs I plan to scale up in the future.

GUNITGuy:

You got it
They could be Toxic most people marry them for financial security and sometimes could be nice too

The fact that about 5 I dated and just a little misunderstanding, they flare up and do the blocking is my issue here.
It's fine to get angry or disappointed, but I think pride is really what that flares it up.

Wickedlywicked:

In addition to that comment, never let any woman put you in that position. I stopped taking women seriously the very day I knew this. The same woman that is giving you hard time, another man is looking for a flimsy excuse to give her breakfast; a guy somewhere is already tired of her and the woman that’s dying for you is probably another guy’s prayer point.
Always go for a woman that can’t do without you and not the one that thinks she’s the one doing you a favor for dating you. Also if you love a woman, don’t let it be too explicit that you do. No be advice, na serious warning.
I just have this natural dislike for people working in the medical field. Most of them are just too proud and full of themselves

You have raised my concern too, loving too much can make some perceive you as weak as it's often said that the one that loves lower has higher power in the relationship.

nnamdi640:
How many of them have you dated before concluding?

About 5 of them now.
Like I said, I try my best being nice and not only medics, have dated, other areas are extensions of my dates. But the striking flaring up in medical students/doctors is the contention here.

Trueprophet91:

They're too uppity!

Exactly

wizod:

Are you married now?

Close to in my current affair... Trying to seal up certain things at present before finalizing.

femi4:
Speak for yourself, don't generalise. You are probably not good enough

I beg to differ on your submission. I have actually helped her get several good things of life. So that's not subject to contention.

Welcomme:
This is spot on. But why is it not always the case outside the country? My white colleague's girlfriend is studying medicine at one of the Russell Group schools in the U.K. My colleague is a Logistics officer with just a Level 5 certificate in Logistics and supply chain while the gf is already a graduate of Biomedical science before she decided to proceed to study Medicine. I am 💯 sure, this would never have happened in Nigeria. Hypergamy is real in Nigeria

It's peculiar to Nigeria from my experiences

NovusHomo:


Accept it, they are above your standard. In other words, you are beneath them. FACT.

Not at all, not on the basis of what I have acquired over the years in terms of Education, Skills, Training, Projects etc.

It is your personal opinion and it remains so.

FreeStuffsNG:

Gbam. Low self esteem is a very bad thing.

Where is low self esteem synonymous with broken relationships, it may contribute notwithstanding, but in parallel or sync? no...

wunmi590:


Majority of them have ego, even during my days in school then, when we were doing some medical courses together like parasitology and medical Microbiology, the way they class themselves as if they were dropped from heaven self, you will hate it

I couldn't agree more on this...

Edpuma:


I beg to differ on your submission. I have actually helped her get several good things of life. So that's not subject to contention.

When I say not good enough, you didn't ask me what I mean.

Trust me. you didn't tick her boxes

KingOfTheDamned:


Geta job bro. It will do you good? Stop wasting your time creating pointless threads

I already did for many many years now. That's not the point.

1Sharon:
You are not equally yoked. Most female medics want other medics.

Those I know, stylishly find out your financial details in a more definitive way than in the past.

ednut1:
You are not their spec because you are broke. Shikena

I don't get your point at all...

ednut1:
You are not their spec because you are broke. Shikena

Far from the truth. I even got them things, no need mentioning them here.

;DGuys,what if i tell you that some if these medical students fo hook up as a side hustle

Edpuma:
I have come around female medical students and doctors, when it comes to acceptance of friendship, that is on a slight note but when it comes to furthering ahead for courtship or marital settlement, they just start telling you that they are only interested in friendship and not marriage that they are not looking at that picture even though, the spark in the relationship was already there initially when at the point of getting to know one another...

Then just a mistake in the relationship, you see them blocking and backing out when it could have easily been reconciled.

The reason is Career over other things.