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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Pukkalolo: 6:54pm On Aug 13 |
Skepticus: The redpill is awesome. But I noticed the redpill knowledge has unintentionally created more hatred and anger in many guys against women. Unfortunately, this is due to some unhelpful ridiculous advice that emanate from the redpill community. Let me explain. #1. In Redpill, I read stuff like, you have to a baddass, money-bag, muscular fit, famous, successful, be-on-your-purpose motherfucker in order to find a girl. Unfortunately, that thinking only serve to destroy the confidence and self-esteem of a guy....if a guy with that thinking see a girl he likes, he thinks, "I guess she doesn't want a normal guy like me, she'll only wants to date a strong muscular billion dollar motherfucker, so why bother talking to her"... Then he chicken out and avoid her. But before she gets out of his sight, he looks at her ass carefully and stores it in his memory. This might comes in handy when he wants to masturbate later that night. #2. In Redpill, I read things like, "Women will dump you when a richer guy comes along. Speaking of hypergamy." This is only true if you yourself used money or material things to attract her initially. It's simple: if you attract her with money, then when a guy with more money and better resources shows up, she's gonna dump your sorry ass for him. In my experience, If you can provoke raw genuine attraction from her, then trust me, she's not gonna dump you just because a richer guy comes along. #3. In Redpill, I read things like, "The woman hate guys that care about her and she only wants to Bleep the guys that treat her like dirt." But in my experience, this is far from the representation of girls I dealt with that easily drop their panties for me. When I'm dealing a girl (who's interested in me), I rarely treat her like dirt. Instead I give her the impression that I genuinely care about her, but I also give her the impression that I'm always ready to walk away if she stops proving herself to me. #4. In Redpill, I read things like, "Wait for choosen signals before approaching women." But in my experience, attractive girls don't give choose signals, instead they carry a saucy attitude look on their face. A woman attitude look is a "shit test". Men who are crippled by the look, already failed. One reason why I'm very experience with women is because I don't wait for choosen signals. When I see a beautiful girl and I'm in proximity with her, I confidently initiate conversation with her and see what happens. #5. In Redpill (this thread for example), we read things like, "All road leads to sex. Just focus on getting the pussy." On this same Redpill thread we read things like: " Never marry a damaged hoe that has been pounded by several men. Marry only virgins." Is the contradiction not mind blowing? Wait...I wanna ask us. If we all Bleep all the girls....Then where are we going to meet the virgin Mary that we are wishing to marry? From the moon? Anyways, that's enough for now. Final note. Don't get me wrong. The redpill is great, but you need to take the redpill from a healthy mindset. Don't take the redpill dose from a unhealthy mindset of "women are evil creatures that wants to destroy men". This will only make you hate women more. It will even make you even worse with women. Instead take the redpill dose from a healthy mindset of "how can I use this Redpill knowledge to create a better sexual relationship with women." 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rillycool(m): 5:06am On Aug 14 |
It's how this was written with the assumption that men know nothing about women's mischievous sexual behavior so you can just tell a man anything and he will fall for it easily. ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Bignuell(m): 11:03am On Aug 14 |
Pukkalolo:Well crafted. Taking the redpill should have a positive impact in how we relate with the opposite gender not just sexually but in other aspect. When i read some post, i can't help but perceive the hate from it. I think we can all agree that the red pill knowledge is to have a healthy mindset, better relationship and an over all transformed individual. A guy doesn't give a girl cash after a sex romp, you hear "alpha male". Let's make better and profitable use of the knowledge 6 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Haydens: 3:09pm On Aug 14 |
#5. In Redpill (this thread for example), we read things like, "All road leads to sex. Just focus on getting the pussy." On this same Redpill thread we read things like: " Never marry a damaged hoe that has been pounded by several men. Marry only virgins." Is the contradiction not mind blowing? Wait...I wanna ask us. If we all Bleep all the girls....Then where are we going to meet the virgin Mary that we are wishing to marry? From the moon? It's like saying "everyone wants to go to heaven but no one wants to die." This is where redpill has a question mark. I keep on asking myself this question often. Some girls will come with good intentions but guys will end her up with bad intentions. 4 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 4:28pm On Aug 14 |
Haydens:SMH. This thread has come too far for people who don't do their due diligence on basic things to be corrected. "All roads lead to sex", as discussed and said by redpillers, means fùck every pùssy? ![]() Anyway, I have strength for no one. The misrepresentations and ignorance can wax unrestrained for all I care. Good day. 4 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 5:58pm On Aug 14 |
Rillycool:No lies detected. There's just so much to say about these. Bonus part is that you can always apply these advice as a man to your own advantage. Society demands a woman be virtuous else they be shamed. Same way society demands men to have value in order to be valued. Each gender has their prejudice and expectations. The Madonna - whorre effect Everybody wants to have fun with the slvt but nobody wants anything to do with the slvt. So as women ,they have to pretend,game and catch gullible simps who have no idea about women's secret nature. It's left to you as a sharp guy to watch out for those subtle hidden red flags so as to filter the manageable ones from the damaged ones. 5 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 5:59pm On Aug 14 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 6:03pm On Aug 14 |
Haydens:lol Bad guys gaming good girls Bad girls gaming good guys There's no impartiality,just understand how the game works,you'll be alright 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by 2special(m): 6:19pm On Aug 14 |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by AlphaNugget(m): 7:22am On Aug 15 |
As a man, once you've conquered your lust for women, you become an unstoppable man. Let's discuss a few powerful ways to control your lust: Before we go into it, you need to understand this. There are two types of men in the modern world. Those who simp for women and those who hate and blame women for everything. Both are pitiful. But some men operate on a different level. These men are rare and never simp nor do they hate women. What these men are focused on is their purpose and they don't let their sexual desire distract them from their path. You see, lust is a very strong desire in men. But you will never be successful if your lustful thoughts overpower you. We will go over a few powerful ways to control your lust. 1. Channel your lust. Most guys don't have any control over their emotions and this makes them a slave to their desires. They fap like a little worms or are constantly wasting time simping over girls. Pathetic! Lust is a natural emotion and like any other emotion, it can become a superpower if you know how to channel it. The reality is that most guys lack stoicism. When they're angry, they will break things and when they are full of desire, they can't help but focus on women. What's crucial to understand is that you are not your feelings and you are not your thoughts. Emotions come and go but that does not mean you should act on them. When you control your emotions, you'll be able to talk to women without flinching because lustful thoughts will go unnoticed. You simply let them pass by, and when it's time to work on your goals, you can use the lust you ignored earlier, and it will help you work even harder. Emotions are a source of energy and you must choose when to use them. 2. Set boundaries on your phone. If you follow Instagram models or take your phone to bed with you late at night, there is a good chance you will go down a dark path of porn. At the very least, you will waste time scrolling and watching girls online like a simp. It is embarrassing. Our phone is a very powerful device and useful, but it can also be extremely self-destructive, and most guys use their phones to self-sabotage. They destroy themselves with distractions. Think about that for a second. You have a phone which could be used for gaining new knowledge, networking or making money but most guys use it to chase pleasure instead of success. Here is what I advise every man to do. Unfollow girls on Instagram, stop mindless scrolling on TikTok and use your bed for sleep instead of watching sexual content. Do not be cocky and think your willpower alone is strong enough to handle the temptations online. Many guys have tried and they all fail. The algorithm is too strong. It is designed to play with your desires and lure you in. The only way to beat it is by setting some boundaries that you will never cross. 3. Make a list. Clearly defining your values can strengthen your resolve. When you set a goal for yourself, whether it's eating healthier or getting better at resisting sexual temptation, it helps to have a clear idea of why you're doing it. Write down the main reasons why overcoming lust is important to you and review it anytime you feel your resolve starting to slip. For example, your list might include things like, I don't want short-term pleasure to destroy my potential, or Self-discipline is an important part of my spiritual beliefs. I want to overcome lustful thoughts to improve my relationship with God. Whatever your reasons are, write them down on a list. 4. Don't look at her. Women feel a sense of power when men turn their heads for them. Attention is their currency and they chase it all the time. That is why you must know how to deny them of that power. Even if you feel tempted by a woman and feel lustful thoughts, you must know how not to show it because turning your eyes will stroke her ego and give her satisfaction. Nothing feels better than walking past a woman who is used to getting attention and not giving her a single look. Do not misunderstand it. I'm not saying you should act insecure and look at the ground when a girl walks by. You can ignore her while still being supremely confident. Just to look forward or look in another direction and don't give them what they want. It will both humble her and help you with your lustful desires. 5. Identify your triggers. If you don't understand your desires, you can't control them. So the next time you experience feelings of lust, think about what's going on. For instance, if you realize that you've been using sexual thoughts or behaviours to cope with stress, set an intention to find new coping methods and form healthier habits. You may realize those lustful thoughts show up more when you're bored. Boredom is one of the most common reasons why guys get lost in their sexual desires. You see, we live in times where we are so hyper-stimulated that people can't even be bored anymore without their desires taking over instantly. That is why they will grab junk food or start fapping the moment they have nothing going on. My advice for dealing with boredom is to use visualization. Think about your dream life. Where do you want to be and what is the man you want to become? Boring times are perfect to get into deep thoughts. Now, it may take time to sit through boredom if you're not used to it and your lust may be too strong. So the next best thing is to keep your mind busy. Try listening to a podcast or an audiobook while you're doing boring tasks instead of letting sexual desires take over. 6. Conquer Goals There are two main driving forces in the mind of any man. The first is the desire to conquer goals and the second is the desire to conquer women. Fortunately for you, your mind only has space for one of these voices at a time. This means that it's impossible to distract a hardworking man who is in the flow state. No amount of sex will interrupt his mind if he is too busy conquering an objective. Imagine a soldier going to war. What do you think is going on in his mind at that time? The desire to win the war, protect his brothers and clear the objective or to have sex with a woman. When you are a single man, make it your sole purpose to work towards goals and always keep your mind occupied with new goals to conquer you. ----- Wise Words of Bambulu 👑 ----- 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by AlphaNugget(m): 7:34am On Aug 15 |
Modern women have an over-inflated ego. A 4 thinks she's a 9 all because she has pussy starved men worshipping the ground she walks on. Destroy her Ego with these 13 Tricks: 1) Ignore her looks. By ignoring her looks, you prove to her that you aren't like the low-value men who chase her, hence making her more interested in you. Better still, don't compliment anything about her. Only compliment her when she does something you like. 2) Don't make any effort to impress her: To me, this is the best way to deflate her ego. Don't try to prove yourself to her. The more you try to prove yourself, the more you prove to her that you are below her. And she won't fall for you. 3) Don't tolerate bullshit from her: Don't let her get away with treating you like a doormat. Call her out on her bullshit. And if she continues to misbehave, walk away. 4) Don't be needy: Two simple ways to avoid being needy: • Have a Purpose • Approach and go on dates with multiple women. 5) Make everything relating to you a priority. She's used to guys making her a priority and she will respect you the more if you make her the least of your concerns. 6) Don't let her boss you around: Be a man, stand up for yourself. Don't let her lead you or make decisions for you. Make your own decisions. This is masculinity in its truest form. 7) Don't always agree with her: Have the guts to disagree with some of her opinions. 8. Leave her on read for hours: She intentionally leaves guys on read to inflate her ego, to prove that she's above them. Do the same to her. 9) Be cold towards her once in a while. This is good. This proves to her that you don't care about losing her. 10) Be mysterious: Don't tell her everything about your life. Keep a lot of things to yourself. This will pique her interest in you because you aren't like most guys who are an open book. 11) Be an asshole. Don't be afraid to piss her off. 12) Be extremely good in bed. When you are good in bed, she will have no choice but to beg you for your d...k 13) Walk away if she doesn't reciprocate your efforts. Don't inflate her ego by pursuing her even though she made it obvious to you that she doesn't give a sh*t about you. Next her. ---- Wise Words of DurableMLecture 👑 ---- 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Emodeee: 2:35pm On Aug 15 |
--Men remember being boys. Man has a lucid perspective in comparing the diminished affection of his adulthood to the greater bounty of his childhood. Women do not experience such a significant loss of affection. As such, man is forced to realise he will never again be loved so profusely, for the boy gets his fill, but man loves the most to be loved the least. The profundity of maternal love is longed for, but forever gone. A girlfriend cannot provide that, and is loathe to do so should a weak man demand it. This is perhaps the bitterest of all the pills. No lies detected. 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 7:56pm On Aug 15 |
AlphaNugget: I need to patent my '419' women self evaluation. I have been seeing this being copied and I never made money from it🤣. The correct evaluation is a Girl that you think is a 4 but in reality is a 1, but she thinks she is a 9. So there are three perspectives. Yours, hers and reality(based on the quality of girls in her area). A village girl that is 9 can become a 2 when she comes to Banana Island Lagos or Asokoro,Abuja. But their perspectives always shift no matter the reality because men help to overinflate an already bloated ego. So the 419 paradigm is the scam of the ages. 11 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 7:59pm On Aug 15 |
Emodeee:💯 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by AlphaNugget(m): 8:04pm On Aug 15 |
luminouz:Lol 😆🤣 true tho 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 1:21am On Aug 16 |
Philosopher1979:No give her attention..let her starve 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tigernut101: 5:59am On Aug 17 |
This is what a girl posted on her WhatsApp status “No pussy for the weak boy” In other words, no pussy for the simp and nice guy. You are missing a lot if you are not a redpiller. God bless all the red pillers around the world. Bleep all the simpsons ✅ 2 Likes
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ChristianBen: 7:55am On Aug 17 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Origamist: 4:10pm On Aug 17 |
Some girls let you get really sexual with them,oral ,and other stuff But draw the line at penetration claiming they're try to preserve their virginity. What do you guys make of this? 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kaczynski: 4:49pm On Aug 17 |
Origamist: Depends on the girl and whether she really likes you or see you as a forking pay pig My girl lets me do all kind of shit to her including bdsm . Just pity the simp way go marry her bich arse 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rizzputin(m): 5:28pm On Aug 17 |
Origamist: It depends. Some girls have made the decision of having one foot inside the pleasures of life without fully committing. They'll suck dìcks, get their ass fùcked and do more but hold back on penetration. This is done to preserve their "virginity" Some do it as a test. They want penetration but test you to see if you can find your way around it. Another group of girls do this to make themselves look less cheap. Sometimes when a girl is falling hard & fast for a guy she'll bring up obstacles like this. "We'll do everything but penetration" To make it look like they have self control. What they want you to do is NOT give in. But continue. This way they can convince themselves that "I bleeped him because he wanted it not me" The last reason is because she's not fully aroused by you. Or she doesn't feel comfortable enough with you. If you notice there's a recurring pattern where girls don't want penetration with you then this is the most likely reason. 4 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rizzputin(m): 5:40pm On Aug 17 |
Gradually, men are starting to realize shortcomings of the red pill. I've always maintained that no real seducer or someone that understands female nature is a red piller. While there are similarities with the red pill and real seduction, the errors from red pill are too many to link them up together. However, I'd like to clarify things. Smart people read things in context. When someone takes a line from a post and judges the entire post, that is a hallmark of foòlishness. For example, people have obviously and ignorantly misunderstood the phrase "All roads lead to sex" So, I'll explain. "All roads lead to sex" is a metaphorical reminder that romantic relationships should first begin with sex. When you allow a woman get you into a relationship without sex, you set yourself up for failure and heart breaks. All roads leads to sex also means any path you decide to take when it comes to love or romance should and will inevitably end up in sex being a huge factor in your relationship. Most guys tend to separate romantic love from sex. But lust & sex is a key component of love. Both her heart in her chest and the one between her legs must beat for you. That is why all paths you take lead to sex. Another one inexperienced guys have ignorantly misunderstood is "Always go for the pùssy" This doesn't mean you should go for every pùssy you see. Not only is this unrealistic, it is detrimental for you. What that line means is that the pùssy unlocks her real self for you. No matter how much you feel you know a woman, you will never truly know her well enough until you've fùcked her. As the metaphor goes, your dìck is a key that unlocks her. Once her legs and pùssy opens up for you, so does her mind, emotions and heart. The phrase reminds you on what matters most. Guys tend to chase irrelevant things like trying to win a girl with gifts or begging her or doing some unnecessary therapy with her.... when they're better off fùcking her and opening up her world Anyways, hope this helps give you guys clarity on what matters 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MarkHenry9: 6:57pm On Aug 17 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 7:27pm On Aug 17 |
SMH. Let the ignorance, silly games, and misunderstanding continue. Have a nice day. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 7:32pm On Aug 17 |
Martinez39s: Ermmm...I'm lost...something is going on I don't know. 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 7:39pm On Aug 17 |
luminouz:Just allow the dirty water flow to its destination. Just cover your nose and watch in amusement. Don't stress yourself or be bothered to interfere. 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Origamist: 7:39pm On Aug 17 |
Rizzputin:You are right,boss. I also think it's being used as a bargaining chip to secure exclusive commitment in this case. Because the girl involved knows the guy is seeing another girl. His polarizing honesty about the other girl is part of what attracted her in the first place. Now she wants him to herself only 😂 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Origamist: 7:50pm On Aug 17 |
Kaczynski:Lol. I think she's trying to limit her investment in the situationship. Also,boss,you shouldn't pity your girl. She consented to the act,and also enjoys it. Or she loves whatever benefits she gets in return. 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 7:51pm On Aug 17 |
Martinez39s:Lol..ok 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Origamist: 7:54pm On Aug 17 |
Rizzputin:Seduction is about game. A subset of the red pill. You can be a seducer without being a redpiller;whereas,all redpillers are equipped with enough knowledge to be master seducers. 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rizzputin(m): 8:42pm On Aug 17 |
Origamist: Seducers and red pillers are different. What is confusing you is that both sides have different approaches to game. There are similarities. But how they view game and women as a whole is different 3 Likes |
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