If a guy with a job spends less than 10k on his hair in a month ( i’m including low budget foreign shampoo, hair cream and weekly haircut)

While a girl without a job or a good paying job spending more than 20k in a month on her hair.


I’m one of those who believed people should live life according to their means. If a girl has no job or a good paying job to take care of her hair expenses she has no business making one.


I believe is sustainability. Giving you a onetime money to make the hair doesn’t make any sense to me since that cannot be sustained. You better look for cheaper alternative to look good.

Beside making expensive hair or using makeup is not what i use to measure beauty, class or standards. Like as how people will say Who fine done fine. Anything you wear just be clean and fresh with style and class people will still respect you and need you around.

There are girls with haircuts and men will pick them over expensive hair girls .

OP, why will you even give a one time money for hair ?

It is not your responsibility to take care of a woman when you are yet to marry her regardless of your financial status. Know this and know peace.

If you like do otherwise, you will see DUST.

Shut the fūck up!

No one wants to date you in the first place

You are not a lady so you may not understand.

I fit use my last card do hair Sha I don't joke with my hair o

Proserpina:
You are not a lady so you may not understand.

I fit use my last card do hair Sha I don't joke with my hair o

Me too.

See me go do long passion twists for 20k two weeks ago. I said to myself, "If I perish, I perish".

folake4u:


Me too.

See me go do long passion twists for 20k two weeks ago. I said to myself, "If I perish, I perish".

Likkkkkkeeeeee real " if I perish o"

My own is "nothing go happen "

I can control my spendings on other things but that hair ehn. I can't, I will do it. Especially when if I have been eyeing a specific hairstyle. Ah nothing can change my mind

Proserpina:
Likkkkkkeeeeee real " if I perish o"

My own is "nothing go happen "

I can control my spendings on other things but that hair ehn. I can't, I will do it. Especially when if I have been eyeing a specific hairstyle. Ah nothing can change my mind

I know right.

I already have hairstyle that I'd do next month till year ending. I don plan am for my head already.

Hair takes one's dressing from 0 to 100. 💯

Proserpina:
You are not a lady so you may not understand.

I fit use my last card do hair Sha I don't joke with my hair o

You're lucky you're not my girlfriend. Na mallam (gorimapa, skin) you go de barb.

I go buy olive oil way you go de use run am so that it would shine very well and bring out your inner beauty.

folake4u:


I know right.

I already have hairstyle that I'd do next month till year ending. I don plan am for my head already.

Hair takes one's dressing from 0 to 100. 💯

The bolded is on point 👍

Nazgul:

You're lucky you're not my girlfriend. Na mallam (gorimapa, skin) you go de barb.

I go buy olive oil way you go de use run am so that it would shine very well and bring out your inner beauty.

Lol if I no barb gorimapa as single what makes you think a boyfriend will make me? .

Boyfriend will look for extra job ni

Inner beauty ko,X-ray beauty ni

Just take a simple and clearer look at those Over-fed native hens above talking about making their hair . Funniest thing is that none of Dem even talked about spending their own hard earned money on doing their hair...

As a guyman dating any banny,the moment you realize she's got nothing upstairs,like what she's calling a head is equivalent to the emptiness and size of a coconut, just tell her to go and barb her hair,cuz there's no need wasting that money on doing her hair...

Proserpina:
Lol if I no barb gorimapa as single what makes you think a boyfriend will make me? .

Boyfriend will look for extra job ni

Inner beauty ko,X-ray beauty ni

Why are you ladies sacred of bringing out your inner beauty.

Besides gorimapa is easy to maintain that's what I barb sef. So it's not bad.

Sonnobax15:

Just take a simple and clearer look at those Over-fed native hens above talking about making her hair . Funniest thing is that none of Dem even talked about spending their own hard earned money on doing their hair...

As a guyman dating any banny,the moment you realize she's got nothing upstairs,like what she's calling a head is equivalent to the emptiness and size of a coconut, just tell her to go and barb her hair,cuz there's no need wasting that money on doing her hair...

At bolded , this is because we don't see it necessary to add to the conversation or beat chest about it like you 1k subscription sender come to do on Nl.

We both know we don't depend on men and men's contribution is extra not major (at least until marriage) so why do we need to state the obvious. You should really change your environment, not all ladies can't take care of themselves. Okay?

BTW if you like barb your banny's head like a mannequin nothing concern me.

Proserpina:
At bolded , this is because we don't see it necessary to add to the conversation or beat chest about it like you 1k subscription sender come to do on Nl.

We both know we don't depend on men and men's contribution is extra not major (at least until marriage) so why do we need to state the obvious. You should really change your environment, not all ladies can't take care of themselves. Okay?

BTW if you like barb your banny's head like a mannequin nothing concern me.

. Her hair,her business..my hair ,my business

Nazgul:

Why are you ladies sacred of bringing out your inner beauty.

Besides gorimapa is easy to maintain that's what I barb sef. So it's not bad.

Naz talk true... Don't you find your woman more attractive when she's on a new hairstyle?

Na everything you wan take stingy Sha... First Chicken Republic now gorimapa?

Shey you go fit do "soft life" for somebody's daughter like this?

Sonnobax15:
. Her hair,her business..my hair ,my business

Good for you.

Our money, our business. Our man's money , our business.

Proserpina:
Good for you.

Our money, our business. Our man's money , our business.

. You sure say you don ready to surrender for marriage so?

Proserpina:
Naz talk true... Don't you find your woman more attractive when she's on a new hairstyle?

Na everything you wan take stingy Sha... First Chicken Republic now gorimapa?

Shey you go fit do "soft life" for somebody's daughter like this?

Gorimapa makes them look younger and fresher. Wig can make a 15 year old girl look like someone in her 30s and gorimapa can make a girl in her 30s look like a 15 year old.

The goal is to look younger and fresher. 😏

Sonnobax15:
. You sure say you don ready to surrender for marriage so?

If I'm not getting married to you, you have no business asking such question.

Proserpina:
If I'm not getting married to you, you have no business asking such question.

My sweetest pity goes to the innocent man who may end up marrying someone like you with this kinda mentality . Cuz he's gonna be on a longgggggggggg thing

Nazgul:

Gorimapa makes them look younger and fresher. Wig can make a 15 year old girl look like someone in her 30s and gorimapa can make a girl in her 30s look like a 15 year old.

The goal is to look younger and fresher. 😏

Gorimapa makes a lady look like a widow nah how can a lady go bald ?

Braids makes one look younger and beautiful. Wigs makes gives the mature sophisticated kind of look.

You on gorimapa must complement with beards so you don't look absurd. Women can't keep beards nah. Lol

Sonnobax15:
My sweetest pity goes to the innocent man who may end up marrying someone like you with this kinda mentality . Cuz he's gonna be on a longgggggggggg thing

Yeah yeah yeah

Oh sweetie! you are starting to sound like a broken record.

Wrap it up nigga

Proserpina:


The bolded is on point 👍

Yes baby.

Your self esteem rising because you know you look good.

Proserpina:
At bolded , this is because we don't see it necessary to add to the conversation or beat chest about it like you 1k subscription sender come to do on Nl.

We both know we don't depend on men and men's contribution is extra not major (at least until marriage) so why do we need to state the obvious. You should really change your environment, not all ladies can't take care of themselves. Okay?

BTW if you like barb your banny's head like a mannequin nothing concern me.

@ the bolded. You getttttt!!! We don't find it necessary to add such to the convos or brag about it.

They always complain about "broke" women, oya change your environment and people you hang out with? Noooo. Some of them feel insecure around women that are doing well for themselves.

Na their type dey give their understanding girlfriend 1k to do all back from January to December but side chick go dey use deep curl 20 inches wig.

folake4u:


@ the bolded. You getttttt!!! We don't find it necessary to add such to the convos or brag about it.


They always complain about "broke" women, oya change your environment and people you hang out with? Noooo. Some of them feel insecure around women that are doing well for themselves.

Na their type dey give their understanding girlfriend 1k to do all back from January to December but side chick go dey use deep curl 20 inches wig.

I don't just get it with these Nl guys. Do they want us to add "oh I paid for it with my hard earned money" to conversations like this? I don't get it at all. I know they are creative when it comes to bragging but I can't waste brainpower on frivolities. The annoying thing is, they will still react to it if you make such additions. Very childish reasoning.

I even wonder how he could sum the whole conversation to men paying for hair when I practically personalized my initial comment. This is beyond insecure honestly, he really needs a change of women he involves with. If he can not imagine a woman can pay for her own here then it is finished for him o .

They are just too loud jare, any small thing they come to Nl. Men help women, women help men, you don't see women carrying placards online. Ordinary 200 airtime, Nl guys will start acting like they have given to nations Mumu people

I tell you. Funny enough men who really really spend on their women don't come online to shout. Na 1k for all back go dey scream everywhere. Abeggi!

Proserpina:
I don't just get it with these Nl guys. Do they want us to add "oh I paid for it with my hard earned money" to conversations like this? I don't get it at all. I know they are creative when it comes to bragging but I can't waste brainpower on frivolities. The annoying thing is, they will still react to it if you make such additions. Very childish reasoning.

I even wonder how he could sum the whole conversation to men paying for hair when I practically personalized my initial comment. This is beyond insecure honestly, he really needs a change of women he involves with. If he can not imagine a woman can pay for her own here then it is finished for him o .

They are just too loud jare, any small thing they come to Nl. Men help women, women help men, you don't see women carrying placards online. Ordinary 200 airtime, Nl guys will start acting like they have given to nations Mumu people

I tell you. Funny enough men who really really spend on their women don't come online to shout. Na 1k for all back go dey scream everywhere. Abeggi!

My sister, I tire too. If you add "with my hard earned money", problem, if you nor add am, problem still. You can't please them really.

Lmao. It is finished for him indeed. He go dey alright, no worry.

You getttttt?! Both gender help each other and even the ladies helping men or others, they don't carry placards or post it on the board at Muri Okunola Park.

Empty vessels (men) make the loudest noise. The ones spending on their women nor dey too talk. The real Odogwu silencer.

siofra:
Shut the fūck up!

No one wants to date you in the first place

People like you hate guys with standard. Op u are not on this table alone. If am dating any gal , whatever money I give to you is to assist you, u are not my responsibility.

folake4u:


My sister, I tire too. If you add "with my hard earned money", problem, if you nor add am, problem still. You can't please them really.

Lmao. It is finished for him indeed. He go dey alright, no worry.

You getttttt?! Both gender help each other and even the ladies helping men or others, they don't carry placards or post it on the board at Muri Okunola Park.

Empty vessels (men) make the loudest noise. The ones spending on their women nor dey too talk. The real Odogwu silencer.

The real Odogwu silencer... They are the one that matters jare not Nl guys

Good morning

Proserpina:
The real Odogwu silencer... They are the one that matters jare not Nl guys

Good morning

Yes oh.

Good morning to you too, Pee.

Nazgul:

You're lucky you're not my girlfriend. Na mallam (gorimapa, skin) you go de barb.

I go buy olive oil way you go de use run am so that it would shine very well and bring out your inner beauty.

When a relationship is built on what each person can do for the other, it's destined to fail because the foundation is inherently toxic.

Relationships thrive when both individuals take care of their own needs independently. This way, whatever you do for your partner comes from a place of genuine desire, not obligation.

That's why you see men taking on responsibility of a parent—because if they don't, they're afraid she'll leave.

Just look at these blind date shows online. There's always that ridiculous question: "How much will you give her monthly?" Why is he expected to provide her with money every month? Are they searching for love or someone to adopt them?

Relationships these days are seriously messed up.

How much my woman spends on her hair is not my business but I am not paying for it unless I feel like.

folake4u:


@ the bolded. You getttttt!!! We don't find it necessary to add such to the convos or brag about it.

They always complain about "broke" women, oya change your environment and people you hang out with? Noooo. Some of them feel insecure around women that are doing well for themselves.

Na their type dey give their understanding girlfriend 1k to do all back from January to December but side chick go dey use deep curl 20 inches wig.

This is not entirely accurate, and you know it. Or maybe you believe it's true because many people are saying it.

Here’s the reality: women don’t see men as competition because they aren’t. A woman might tell a man that she wears expensive clothes and hairstyles to look good for him, but that’s not the full truth. They say this to get money from him. Deep down, women invest in their appearance for two main reasons:

1. Self-Esteem and Opportunities: Looking good is good business. It boosts self-esteem, confidence, and how they carry themselves. It can even open doors.

2. Competition Among Women: Women dress well to outdress each other, not because they’re doing it for their men. It’s more about outshining other women.

Similarly, a successful woman doesn’t intimidate a man or make him insecure because men and women aren’t in competition. Sime men don’t value a woman’s money, so it doesn’t matter to them. In reality, one of the things that stops a broke guy from dating or marrying a very successful woman is competition from other wealthy men, not the woman’s money.

If ten broke guys are vying for a wealthy woman, none of them will be intimidated by her wealth because there’s no one outdoing them financially. The one who might feel intimidated is the one who’s both broke and unattractive.

It’s not the woman’s money that’s the issue, but the attractiveness of his competitors.

Tallesty1:
This is not entirely accurate, and you know it. Or maybe you believe it's true because many people are saying it.

Here’s the reality: women don’t see men as competition because they aren’t. A woman might tell a man that she wears expensive clothes and hairstyles to look good for him, but that’s not the full truth. They say this to get money from him. Deep down, women invest in their appearance for two main reasons:

1. Self-Esteem and Opportunities: Looking good is good business. It boosts self-esteem, confidence, and how they carry themselves. It can even open doors.

2. Competition Among Women: Women dress well to outdress each other, not because they’re doing it for their men. It’s more about outshining other women.

Similarly, a successful woman doesn’t intimidate a man or make him insecure because men and women aren’t in competition. Sime men don’t value a woman’s money, so it doesn’t matter to them. In reality, one of the things that stops a broke guy from dating or marrying a very successful woman is competition from other wealthy men, not the woman’s money.

If ten broke guys are vying for a wealthy woman, none of them will be intimidated by her wealth because there’s no one outdoing them financially. The one who might feel intimidated is the one who’s both broke and unattractive.

It’s not the woman’s money that’s the issue, but the attractiveness of his competitors.

About the bolded, we've seen times without number that there exist some men who aren't comfortable in women earning more than them because of ego issues. Also, some men have stated their preference about their partner being a full time house wife, making the woman abandon her budding career.

I'd still stand on my word that there are some men that feel insecure around women that are doing well for themselves.

Dressing the part for self esteem is a confidence booster, and it should be imbibed by both gender.

About dressing to outdo the next woman? That I cannot say because it doesn't apply to all females. Matter of fact, it doesn't apply to one gender alone. Men size their fellow men to gauge their level of wealth and sometimes in secret competition with each other.

There, I said it.