razible5384:
you know this your story will not work in Nigeria.......a traffic warden dating a medical doctor

What is wrong with doctor dating a doctor? Even in Naigeria. It is like saying one cannot date a pollice woman, a judge or a politician. These people are humans who has emotions and feelings. I ve also had a one night with a police woman i met at a club. i found out she is a cop later.


Anyway, i was born in England, i live in England and this happened in England.

Edpuma:
I have come around female medical students and doctors, when it comes to acceptance of friendship, that is on a slight note but when it comes to furthering ahead for courtship or marital settlement, they just start telling you that they are only interested in friendship and not marriage that they are not looking at that picture even though, the spark in the relationship was already there initially when at the point of getting to know one another...

Then just a mistake in the relationship, you see them blocking and backing out when it could have easily been reconciled.

When they look at you, they see someone looking like a cadaver they've dissected before.

Johncuppa:

O yes! I'm stating the outliers.
On the other hand, what is the salary of a nurse? Tell me how much do nurses make?
I don't know many doctors, but the few nurses I see around me do not look like it, not even sure they make money than someone in an average multinational.
So please, let me know what makes nursing a high profession and left lecturing out.

I never said female medics are too big for a lecturer to date or marry. I don't even see the hype in female medics.

I have no opinion on weather their profession is a high class profession or not but lecturing is not a high class profession.

The nature of the job, its demanding, being on call at odd hours, spending over 10 hours at the clinic, no time for building relationships.

They also get options from male and female patients they are supposed to treat. Cant blame them.

If you must marry them, you must be ready to share them with others.

Tightpussy2024:

Yes, mistake.i will modify it. They married fellow doctors or some scientist or academic people. Not rich,but comfortable (earning just slightly above them ). They didnt joke with a man been intelligent

3 are igbos,and 1 in akwa ibom

I get hope then. I need to have intellectual discussions with my wife. Yes, it is boring, but na so my life dey. If it requires being faithful, no problem, provided she has above-average breasts.

They all are too prideful.....They believe just cos they have a degree in medicine, they above everyone else

Uchenna10:


Wat do they do in medical school?

- They sleep around.

[quote author=Caleycash post=131477506]All these to wife a woman that might divorce you as easy as anything?, why all the stress in life??, omo no wonder many men die of High BP and stroke always, nawaoo, just to get a human that'll rot away like everyone else, you put yourself through all these rubbish??, mtcheeww [/....


Wise man,to a fault everyone is equal,I see no reason another human should make another human feel superhuman,when he or she is just a mere mortal..

The meaning of life is that it ends👽

tivhador:
They all are too prideful.....They believe just cos they have a degree in medicine, they above everyone else

Stale comment

Shows inferiority complex

Can't you read other people's more rational reasons?

fxexperts:
Then i think that is an abysmall and dumb thinking of those medical females. they are the ones whom i think cannot major up to the standard of an Engineering, my own sister is graduate nurse, and she vowed in her life never to marry any medical doctor for any reason at all. reason been they are very broke; she was able to think like that because she was very well informed that engineers earn way more than most of them. How do you even consider Lecturing and medical doctor a high-class profession in Nigeria. you guys must be really joking. how much do they even
earn per month, like 150K. my entry level pay i earned more than double that amount when i started as an engineer more than 15 years ago. In my current level now as an experience engineer i do not think anyone in my profession with that much level of experience can collect anything less than N3M monthly.

Most Engineering student in Nigeria doesn’t really have good job. Probably because no tangible company here or no skill per say, just normal B. Tech. If you go to secondary schools, most of their, science teacher studied engineering courses, And you barely see a secondary school that pays up to 100k in Nigeria. But why those ladies in medical
profession rate themselves is because is very rare for them to finish without a job placement. Worst of it , around 150 to 200k payment monthly. But the commonest job engineering students can get is teaching which is less than 50k salary for most schools. That’s the reality of Nigeria. Even some engineering students dey do pos, bet9ja

[quote author=Nyascobar1414 post=131489680][/quote]Walahi, many people fail to realise this, just live this life, enjoy it and definitely we all die, I see no reason to put anyone on a pedestal, to think high or low of anyone, death makes any witty person to realise no one is SPECIAL!, I prefer a lifestyle of 50/50, best way to live and enjoy life even with little available one will live a a life of contentment, these are the reasons I even hates competition so much and avoid people with competitive tendency.

fxexperts:
You guys keep deceiving yourselves all the time. Who told you Chimamanda left because of your said reasons, she may have left because her passion does not lie there, or she has seen that people in that profession actually earn peanut. how can you put yourself in perpetual slavery all through the rest of life in the name of one useless profession. I dish medicine many years ago to study engineering even when my dad wanted me to study medicine because my passion was in engineering and i have no single regret over the decision, i am even happier today because i can boast of earning over 10x what an average doctor in Nigeria receive.

Lol... this guy prolly couldn't succeed the rigour of medicine, now he hates the profession. Lol.
Look, bruv, I respect Engineering a lot. It's one of the most important things in life today as we have it. I mean what's modern life without the beauty of engineering? What's existence without the beauty of science?
Harnessing the resilience of energy between its transformative forms, employing all the laws. Weaving through all the physical quantities and forces to bring about everything—from emv applications for phone networks and astrophysics applications; to newtons's and Mechanics applications for aircrafts; nuclearactivity and atomic activities for warfare application; the application of apt quantities of chemicals to derive revolutionary drugs; computer engineering nko... and so on sha.

Now, I know some extremely few people studied medicine against their wish, they always couldn't get hold of the threshold but you, my friend, most likely got withdrawn, cos you couldn't handle it. It's not subtle to understand where your hate for medicine stems from. Medicine still isn't play.

By the time your wife is set to give birth, you'll employ Archimedes principle to offload the baby from the uterine buoyancy.

Bullocks.

haybhi1:
Lol... this guy prolly couldn't succeed the rigour of medicine, now he hates the profession. Lol.
Look, bruv, I respect Engineering a lot. It's one of the most important things in life today as we have it. I mean what's modern life without the beauty of engineering? What's existence without the beauty of science?
Harnessing the resilience of energy between its transformative forms, employing all the laws. Weaving through all the physical quantities and forces to bring about everything—from emv applications for phone networks and astrophysics applications; to newtons's and Mechanics applications for aircrafts; nuclearactivity and atomic activities for warfare application; the application of apt quantities of chemicals to derive revolutionary drugs; computer engineering nko... and so on sha.

Now, I know some extremely few people studied medicine against their wish, they always couldn't get hold of the threshold but you, my friend, most likely got withdrawn, cos you couldn't handle it. It's not subtle to understand where your hate for medicine stems from. Medicine still isn't play.

By the time your wife is set to give birth, you'll employ Archimedes principle to offload the baby from the uterine buoyancy.

Bullocks.

wat of pple in d village who gives birth wtout goin to hospital nko

haybhi1:
Lol... this guy prolly couldn't succeed the rigour of medicine, now he hates the profession. Lol.
Look, bruv, I respect Engineering a lot. It's one of the most important things in life today as we have it. I mean what's modern life without the beauty of engineering? What's existence without the beauty of science?
Harnessing the resilience of energy between its transformative forms, employing all the laws. Weaving through all the physical quantities and forces to bring about everything—from emv applications for phone networks and astrophysics applications; to newtons's and Mechanics applications for aircrafts; nuclearactivity and atomic activities for warfare application; the application of apt quantities of chemicals to derive revolutionary drugs; computer engineering nko... and so on sha.

Now, I know some extremely few people studied medicine against their wish, they always couldn't get hold of the threshold but you, my friend, most likely got withdrawn, cos you couldn't handle it. It's not subtle to understand where your hate for medicine stems from. Medicine still isn't play.

By the time your wife is set to give birth, you'll employ Archimedes principle to offload the baby from the uterine buoyancy.

Bullocks.

This dude must be living in lala land. never in my life did i ever for ones put an application or has any form of wish to study your lord and Saviour medicine and surgery. I agree my dad had that wish for us, put i told him hands down i am not doing. if i wanted to i could have done that, for your info i got a Jamb score of 97 in physics and 91 in mathematics during my time i got an overall pretty good score to study your medicine but i declined. not actually because of their poor pay per say but because i had no single passion there, all my life i have always built small toy cars, helicopter and aeroplane. and to crown it up doctors in Nigeria are extremely poor people, so how do you lots see them and there ladies as high value people in this useless thread is mind blowing. If engineers never built the equipment they are using in the craft, they will be some huge bunch of medicine prescription herbalist and nothing more.
How can you value someone earning less than N300K per month in this current time. the last time one useless company called me and offer N1m per month i told them to get off my phone. Our mothers who gave birth in the past which doctor delivered them. dey play.

Bullocks.

fxexperts:
This dude must be living in lala land. never in my life did i ever for ones put an application or has any form of wish to study your lord and Saviour medicine and surgery. I agree my dad had that wish for us, put i told him hands down i am not doing. if i wanted to i could have done that, for your info i got a Jamb score of 97 in physics and 91 in mathematics during my time i got an overall pretty good score to study your medicine but i declined. not actually because of their poor pay per say but because i had no single passion there, all my life i have always built small toy cars, helicopter and aeroplane. and to crown it up doctors in Nigeria are extremely poor people, so how do you lots see them and there ladies as high value people in this useless thread is mind blowing. If engineers never built the equipment they are using in the craft, they will be some huge bunch of medicine prescription herbalist and nothing more.
How can you value someone earning less than N300K per month in this current time. the last time one useless company called me and offer N1m per month i told them to get off my phone. Our mothers who gave birth in the past which doctor delivered them. dey play.

Bullocks.

lol, why do you think they were saddled with high mortality in those days? Why do you think we hardly hear of Abiku today? You think it's magic? No, it's the wonderful doctors you deride so much. Go to teaching hospitals and see dire cases of fistula everywhere—they'll have done rubbish outside and now refer when complications surge so the surgeons have a bulk to handle.

Look oga, scoring 97 in Physics seems cheap. A tonne of us here eat JAMB raw. Don't feel good with 97, 91 bla bla...

There's a dude who graduated last year. Man finished engineering and came back for Medicine... he said it was for passion. lol.

That said, bro. We don't care about the pay. We care about y'all safe and healthful living. If the pay matter, doctors are most paid in the America. You're talking down on us, lol. Really? It's the patients that we handle well that'll give you responses, not me. I've got tonnes of paediatric topics staring at me to cover. I won't be wasting time discussing with you.

Anyway, just ensure you exercise right, take the right and balanced diet, drink enough water, avoid indiscriminate drugs use and abuse, avoid agbo, and most avoid hate—the type you have against the profession you prolly wished you had—so that you don't end in my hand someday. Lol. Well, of course, I'm bound by the hippocratic law anyway. God will save you through me just in case. And when your wife is about to give birth, I just hope the O&G shows you these comments of yours after the safe delivery so you eat your words. Pele baba olowo.


Maybe it's engineer or traditional method of delivery you'll use to seperate conjoin twins.

Female medics?
Never dated one maybe because I see them more as colleagues and I don't really like the doctor work!

Female medics tend to have a sense of pride, some allow the degree get into their heads, however few of them are lovely to be with Sha. The problem with dating them could be that you may not get enough time and attention from them as they are usually occupied with work or something else. Residency and the path to specialization can be very stressful and time consuming and hence they may lack in their family responsibilities.

I don't really know how they view relationships though but they can make good friends. If you're the one attracted to them and they're not to you, you're probably wasting your time and efforts. Shalom

haybhi1:
lol, why do you think they were saddled with high mortality in those days? Why do you think we hardly hear of Abiku today? You think it's magic? No, it's the wonderful doctors you deride so much. Go to teaching hospitals and see dire cases of fistula everywhere—they'll have done rubbish outside and now refer when complications surge so the surgeons have a bulk to handle.

Look oga, scoring 97 in Physics seems cheap. A tonne of us here eat JAMB raw. Don't feel good with 97, 91 bla bla...

There's a dude who graduated last year. Man finished engineering and came back for Medicine... he said it was for passion. lol.

That said, bro. We don't care about the pay. We care about y'all safe and healthful living. If the pay matter, doctors are most paid in the America. You're talking down on us, lol. Really? It's the patients that we handle well that'll give you responses, not me. I've got tonnes of paediatric topics staring at me to cover. I won't be wasting time discussing with you.

Anyway, just ensure you exercise right, take the right and balanced diet, drink enough water, avoid indiscriminate drugs use and abuse, avoid agbo, and most avoid hate—the type you have against the profession you prolly wished you had—so that you don't end in my hand someday. Lol. Well, of course, I'm bound by the hippocratic law anyway. God will save you through me just in case. And when your wife is about to give birth, I just hope the O&G shows you these comments of yours after the safe delivery so you eat your words. Pele baba olowo.


Maybe it's engineer or traditional method of delivery you'll use to seperate conjoin twins.

Smiles, it's alright.
Both Medicine and Engineering are good and wonderful, none is greater than the other. They are both special in their own class. For me, I love Engineering and wish I studied it but I eventually ended up in Medicine, yet I wouldn't say Medicine is greater than Engineering. You gave good reasons though and I quite agree with you

dontrulee:


Smiles, it's alright.
Both Medicine and Engineering are good and wonderful, none is greater than the other. They are both special in their own class. For me, I love Engineering and wish I studied it but I eventually ended up in Medicine, yet I wouldn't say Medicine is greater than Engineering. You gave good reasons though and I quite agree with you

Dope. Nice one boss.
I respect Engineering...just that guy talks too much hate about Medicine.

Meanwhile kudos boss... shey na naija you dey? No mind this guy wey say una poor

haybhi1:
Dope. Nice one boss.
I respect Engineering...just that guy talks too much hate about Medicine.

Meanwhile kudos boss... shey na naija you dey? No mind this guy wey say una poor

Smiles, na naija I dey. But I dey plan japa soon. I wrote USMLE step 2 few days ago in Ghana. Hopefully by next year, I should be in the US by God's grace. Practicing in Nigeria isn't worth it at all. How's your pediatrics studying going?

dontrulee:


Smiles, na naija I dey. But I dey plan japa soon. I wrote USMLE step 2 few days ago in Ghana. Hopefully by next year, I should be in the US by God's grace. Practicing in Nigeria isn't worth it at all. How's your pediatrics studying going?

Pediatrics is full of Shege, baba... big time. But what is shege without a medical student.

Damn baba no leave us na... wasn't it passion that pulled you to Medicine ni😁😁😁
Anyway, I'm happy it's US you're headed for. Is it 'cos UK is saturated of our people? Baba, I heard USMLE is shege pro max ultra, extremely difficult an exam, is that true?

Importantly, God's grace, the outcome shall be in your interests. It shall come out fine, boss.

haybhi1:
lol, why do you think they were saddled with high mortality in those days? Why do you think we hardly hear of Abiku today? You think it's magic? No, it's the wonderful doctors you deride so much. Go to teaching hospitals and see dire cases of fistula everywhere—they'll have done rubbish outside and now refer when complications surge so the surgeons have a bulk to handle.

Look oga, scoring 97 in Physics seems cheap. A tonne of us here eat JAMB raw. Don't feel good with 97, 91 bla bla...

There's a dude who graduated last year. Man finished engineering and came back for Medicine... he said it was for passion. lol.

That said, bro. We don't care about the pay. We care about y'all safe and healthful living. If the pay matter, doctors are most paid in the America. You're talking down on us, lol. Really? It's the patients that we handle well that'll give you responses, not me. I've got tonnes of paediatric topics staring at me to cover. I won't be wasting time discussing with you.

Anyway, just ensure you exercise right, take the right and balanced diet, drink enough water, avoid indiscriminate drugs use and abuse, avoid agbo, and most avoid hate—the type you have against the profession you prolly wished you had—so that you don't end in my hand someday. Lol. Well, of course, I'm bound by the hippocratic law anyway. God will save you through me just in case. And when your wife is about to give birth, I just hope the O&G shows you these comments of yours after the safe delivery so you eat your words. Pele baba olowo.


Maybe it's engineer or traditional method of delivery you'll use to seperate conjoin twins.

Thats your dude choice and not mine. You should stop suffering and smiling, you are here talking about pay when almost all you doctors are running abroad because of the said pay. And i repeat again for your info i have never and will never in my entire life ever wish to become a doctor, and i am not trying to ridicule your profession i like the profession, but it is certainly never my passion in any way. I have never ever even needed the help of a doctor before in my life the last time i did one idiot prescribed excess dose of medication which cause me a serious allergic reaction that almost became life threatening. Ever since then i do self-medication or if need be i quiz the doctors and pharmacist on the type of medicine and there principal constituents before consuming any of it, i have a very good knowledge of biology and i know how all these medicines work, most of them their principal function is just to trick your defensive mechanism nothing more. i know very well how to human body works. so stop coming here to talk so such like you guys are so important and how everyone want to become a doctor my foot.

fxexperts:
I do self-medication or if need be i quiz the doctors and pharmacist on the type of medicine and there principal constituents before consuming any of it, i have a very good knowledge of biology and i know how all these medicines work, most of them their principal function is just to trick your defensive mechanism nothing more. i know very well how to human body works.

Lol bro, sha be very careful with all you put here o... don't send yourself early grave o.

Meanwhile, baba, abeg con teach me forex na... boiz need better money... con drop update for boiz na, chief...
I dey willing to learn... I won't raise a talk about our profession... make me sef dey see hundreds of thousands na

haybhi1:
Pediatrics is full of Shege, baba... big time. But what is shege without a medical student.

Damn baba no leave us na... wasn't it passion that pulled you to Medicine ni😁😁😁
Anyway, I'm happy it's US you're headed for. Is it 'cos UK is saturated of our people? Baba, I heard USMLE is shege pro max ultra, extremely difficult an exam, is that true?

Importantly, God's grace, the outcome shall be in your interests. It shall come out fine, boss.

Smiles, I never loved pediatrics as a medical student or house officer. It's full of shege but we rough am then. Na passion make me write USMLE na, I initially wanted to ditch Medicine completely and go into tech however my mentors convinced me to stay. Lol.

Yes UK is saturated and simpler compared to USMLE however I have relatives and few connect in the US and that informed my decision. USMLE is not that difficult if you study the required materials

dontrulee:
Smiles, I never loved pediatrics as a medical student or house officer. It's full of shege but we rough am then. Na passion make me write USMLE na, I initially wanted to ditch Medicine completely and go into tech however my mentors convinced me to stay. Lol.

Yes UK is saturated and simpler compared to USMLE however I have relatives and few connect in the US and that informed my decision. USMLE is not that difficult if you study the required materials

You just dropped some impetus there for me. A few of us around here dream of USMLE, but people around throw ... they claim "it's tough", "they don't give one's desired specialty", bla bla... and you begin to wonder if you should explore other options. Omo, thanks jare.

Meanwhile, I read that you could practice in Ireland with USMLE, without a need to write Ireland medical council exams.
I'm rooting for you on the USMLE, baba. Can't wait to see you in US.

PS: Can't one combine Tech with Medicine ni? I've been taking an ALX SE course since 2022. Deferred a few times times but I have some 3 months to graduate. E go pain me if I no go fit find way take instill am in Medicine going forward.

Drella:


Please how's the hours of investment banking like in Nigeria?

Most people abroad claim they work 80+ hours per week. I've not really heard from Nigerian investment bankers.

Mine Mondays to Fridays...I do my businesses full-time on weekends

Edpuma:

Mine Mondays to Fridays...I do my businesses full-time on weekends

Thanks.
Closing hours is 5pm or you work late into the night many times?

tivhador:
They all are too prideful.....They believe just cos they have a degree in medicine, they above everyone else

So you expect a parent to apend millions training his daughter in medical school only or her to marry one riffraff

Drella:


Thanks.
Closing hours is 5pm or you work late into the night many times?

It depends on bulkiness/volume of work

bitsAndpieces:
Female doctors to me are the best if you want to be with an intelligent woman. They only go for intelligent men, and there aren’t many around.

I see no problem dating them. I prefer them to ordinary 9ja women.

Intelligent women shouldn’t frighten an intelligent man. You will both compliment each other to form a badass partnership.

Though there are intelligent ladies in diverse careers be it engineering,law, science, business, accounting etc.
The issue is how the ladies in question get extreme at the slightest provocation that erupted in those instances.

Gajagojo:

You sound like an expert

Lol, why did you say so?

jaephoenix:

Lol. Not true. They are regular babes. They just want the richest and most stable dudes around

You are right actually,that's the fact!

spiSeyi:

Agba the OP is only trying to console himself 99.99% of ladies are after status, power and wealth

Just wondering why they get offended to the extreme in those scenarios, I get angry but I don't just start blocking people I have known for sometime...