Gerrard59:

It is everywhere, and it is very dishonest. Tomorrow, the same people will say men are cheaters! Where were they when the men were toiling? Ndi stand at the finishing line waiting for the winners. I must admit tho that such an ideology propelled men to strive for success to win the "best" girl. But not any longer as women now work in the same positions as men. Both genders are now equal. Make everybody dey their dey.

noobody:
What about 37 and above,

Abi once you clock 36, automatic riches dey show?

MikeofKd:


How do have time to gym when your work takes almost all your time ? I wake by 4 am hit the road by 5 am , except Sunday , there's really no time tbh.
If only I had a high paying job with lot of time for myself I would be visiting the gym often.

MikeofKd:


I said 25 to 36 cause according to statistics most men above these age already have their life well put together, but i also said men above 25 to 36 could also share their thoughts.

CaveAdullam:
Waithood is a serious case in Africa.

Our counterparts in developed world faces same issues as us. That's work and pay bills. However, for them, they are not totally disadvantaged by poor economic policies, erratic power supply, high rates of crime, bad roads, chaos, disorderliness, and every other negative things you can think of.

They still live in a good geography.
Still have good passports.
Can still travel to third world countries and live a life of royalty.

The problem in Africa is that we lack a foundational support. The men that occupy societal totem pole today had solid family background. Successful generations of today have a long line of existing supports.

You ought to build on top what's on ground as a young adult. Not to start looking for bricks to build when you approach adult reality. Because after you rally around to get things done, time is far spent.

That's why we waste much time and at the end we have little to nothing to show for it. Because we are starting from point zero - scratch bottom level.

Again we lack a community of support. If there are stable network of people acting as a therapeutic conduit, the shock and stress of adulthood will be minimized. However, that's not the case. Our individualistic approach to life, a single line ambition in order to accrue all the benefits is a serious drawback to communal and national progress.

Community presence and network ought to be a shock absorber. But we lack it.

It's nobody's fault. You can only do the best you can.

Don't relent.
Keep thinking.
Keep planing.
Keep scheming.
Keep looking for positive leverage
Get in touch with reality.
Seek light, beauty, wisdom, and understanding.

If you follow this way, you may not get all that you desire. Definitely, you will get something better than your previous state.

Keep marching forward.

Thanks.

NiceLegs:
The problem with men today is this

Men don't help themselves financially.
Men will prefer to help a woman they have never met in life before than help their fellow men.
When these same men need help, those women they helped financially will never look their side.
Women never help men.
Instead those women will prefer to help their fellow women.
Then when these men need help,
These men will now be looking for who to help them.

Men need to change.

Men need to start helping themselves more because in this life, you are all you've got.

EreluRoz:
You write so well when you are not doing your redpill whatever. You are now in the first position of my ratings.

Benjamin4388:

he should be happy with himself because you are who

Benjamin4388:


you have a very big naive wrong self inflated ego bout your being

obinnazy:


After gym, you go give me food to eat? Foods are no longer affordable.

millionboi2:
any group to join?

honestly as a man within that specified age bracket and not financially stable, have it at the back of your mind that life is leading you 1 - 0, now if you’re a Nigerian, score should be
2 - 0. There’s no excuse to lament over the poor state of the economic , because your lamentation won’t change anything maybe it would but probably when you’re old and weak to enjoy the good things of life like expensive vacation in the pacific and all that good sh*t. The secret to Survive right now is Adaptation, they teach this in the military as it’s a core aspect of survival.

i believe for every problem, there is always a solution, it’s simple and concise. Learn a skill.
if you’re a corporate worker. Learn a skill
if you’re a skilled worker, also learn a skill.
i hate to say this, but the truth remains that one source of income is barely enough this days.

when i say skill, i mean an intellectual skill. A skills that pays you for your knowledge.
i won’t list everything as the search engine is there to assist you with any search queries, surf the internet for varieties of skills and learn a skill that picks your interest.

further narrowing this down early 2021 i was in a mess, i wasn’t satisfied with my income. i just knew the only way to survival was to have an additional skillset. i started off like this
data analysis for the first 6 month, learnt excel, python for D.A, power bi while learning sql, i found out that this career path wasn’t a good prospect for someone based in nigeria.

i transitioned from data analysis to frontend web development. AI wasn’t rampant and companies weren’t demanding too many frameworks to get you employed, competition was getting tighter and saturated. i kept pushing, the more i pushed the more i met resistance. stumbled upon a youtube video while searching for a frontend project to work on.

the youtuber is chuks maduka he interviewed Nigerian millionaires under 30. after watching his interview with habbyfx and jeffrey benson. me that my target was just to land a $1k job then and seeing these guys under 30 already having estates to their names. i wasn’t hustling enough lol.

long story short that was how i transitioned into currency trading. barely got enough sleep, at most 4hrs sleep and still had to work. i took courses and spent more time on my chart.
ever since then it’s been God all the way, i’m not there yet but i’m getting there. i’m funded with $15k as trading capital. what kept me going was consistency and determination to survive. i will say it over and over, learn an intellectual skill, so many skills can be monetized this days. peller earns a lot on tiktok live because of his funny accent. what’s stopping you from learning an intellectual skill?
for reference there’s a thread for currency traders https://www.nairaland.com/7954621/forex-trade-alerts-discussions-season
beginners wanting to learn, visit babypipdotcom

EreluRoz:
You write so well when you are not doing your redpill whatever. You are now in the first position of my ratings.

CaveAdullam:


How are you?

Hope you are fine.

EreluRoz:

I'm good

I'm fine thank you

CaveAdullam:


That's fine.

The weather is cold.

No need for fighting tonight.

Winks.

NiceLegs:
The problem with men today is this

Men don't help themselves financially.
Men will prefer to help a woman they have never met in life before than help their fellow men.
When these same men need help, those women they helped financially will never look their side.
Women never help men.
Instead those women will prefer to help their fellow women.
Then when these men need help,
These men will now be looking for who to help them.

Men need to change.

Men need to start helping themselves more because in this life, you are all you've got.

Ladoja19:
Wish, I can express my feelings without shedding tears
Guys
I don taya

Sapasenator:


I agree.

At some point in my life, I decided to take myself out of the hustle and bustle of life, challenged the status quo and now have my own life.