Mistral:


You can be deliberate on how you want your life to be. Remember number 10

You are right.. but to think constructively.. using mind has dynamo . Is rare

Mistral:


The internet is filled with all kinds of distractions to be clear. People have adapted fantasies to replace real life experiences as a coping mechanism to how they would have preferred their lives to be. There are many gifted people who would have been demigods if only they could focus more on the present and learn to seize or manipulate opportunities to their favour.

If people were obsessed with their goals the way they obsess with the internet, it is no miracle, they will achieve concrete value.

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Your sense of reason is above average

balaclava:
Salary is not designed for your freedom but your bondage.

Forget the appearance, your colleagues at work are not your friends.

Disregard the notion, your office is not a family.

Bosses are not interested in you progress, they are interested only in their business.

Like OP posted, It is all a scam

"your colleagues are not your friend"

... But someone fainted in the hospital and was rushed to the hospital by his colleagues. But they are not friends.

You're smart too.
Your thoughts create a balance.
Understanding the op's point is also crucial as that is the default setting of the world system.

Even in the saner climes you talk about, they are the authors of the evil, others are only copying them.

Remember all the evil experiments they have done, and especially using the blacks?
What's the LGBTQ+ movement all about?
Why is all evil black?
What was the whole COVID and vaccine drama all about?

And if you must know, the whites are the main drivers of this view who try to burst the myths, enter Andrew Tate, Alex, etc

Proserpina:
I'm honestly curious as to how you intend to "navigate" and "resist" society troubles you listed in your initial post as A REALIST you are.

This is you normalizing abnormalities in a society and preach them as fact. If Government is not your friend then who is the government? Aren't they people in our midst selected to govern us? If they can't be friends, shouldn't they be held accountable?

If the law is not there to protect you, why make them at all?

Churches are not there to save you, no Jesus saves not church. Church is a congregation of believers of Christ not the savior himself. Church is a group of people like you who come together to share what they have in their discretion. It is entitlement mentality to think a group of people whom you share same economic and social policies with are OBLIGATED to SAVE especially FINANCIAL saving. The Bible and Holy Spirit are number pathway to spiritual growth. There are lots of church goer's who don't grow spiritually not because the church is bad but they are yet to be saved.

Money in Essence isn't Debt, Loans are. Any right thinking being knows to minimize debts in business.

Doctors take oath to save lives, most doctors of functioning societies do all to ensure their patients are fine. If you preach otherwise it's little wonder your politicians would rather travel miles overseas to get treated than improve hospitals in Nigeria. Lol... They know people like you will understand and preach it as hard truth to gullible ones.

And who's fault is this? Your colonisers keep improving their educational system while you as a nation keep doing things same old way. Thank God for some private schools they inculcate practical life skills into their curriculum. Should we demand this for all institutions as well? Oh I forgot, Government is our enemy they are untouchable

Lol Probably because your nation is a dumping ground for things that ought to work but don't. If you produce drugs yourself and not wait for a group of pharmacist in India to research and create drugs maybe you won't get drugs that takes days to work at expensive prices.
Even at that some still work


Another sob story. Your vote should count shouldn't it

Lol I can go on and on but I'm curious how do you intend to navigate these hard truth?

segcymoor:


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Your sense of reason is above average

Thank you. I will eventually.

I haven't read because I haven't slept, but from my scan, you're making sense. I'll read when I'm free.

Rexymania:


"your colleagues are not your friend"

... But someone fainted in the hospital and was rushed to the hospital by his colleagues. But they are not friends.

He's right. Your collegues can never be your friend. Let me suggest a good book to you on that topic,if you don't mind ; "Workplace poker
" i can't remember the author name but just search it up.

One more thing,an act of kindness by someone does not means that person have your best interestat heart.

Unfortunately due to the harshness of this world, when we experienced such act,we tend to open up and trust that person further while also expecting something like that to happen once again in the future. We ended up getting disappointed though.

You can be quite friendly with your collegues at work,heck you can even be the best of buddies but when it comes to career elevation,they'd rather be ahead of you than you being in that position.

Collegues usually sabotage themselves behind each other backs,mostly to look good and gain favor from the boss. Not to talk of the hidden envy and hate some have for each other.

Do not be naive folks,your workplace is a battlefield of interest not a gathering of friends and family.

Proserpina:
Yeah yeah yeah the Realist are always "cynical" cliche again... Yawn . So positive mindset is for those who fantasize right?

It's funny how black men (Africans) are always the REALIST while those who "fantasize" build empires and better communities

Hard man, Weak brain

He made a general advice for anyone with interest to re-evaluate themselves but you turned it into black men narrative.

What's wrong with you?

1Sharon:
Doctors don't run the health sector. They only work within it's confines.

Lol...you know nothing.

Badmashiii:


He's right. Your collegues can never be your friend. Let me suggest a good book to you on that topic,if you don't mind ; "Workplace poker
" i can't remember the author name but just search it up.

One more thing,an act of kindness by someone does not means that person have your best interestat heart.

Unfortunately due to the harshness of this world, when we experienced such act,we tend to open up and trust that person further while also expecting something like that to happen once again in the future. We ended up getting disappointed though.

You can be quite friendly with your collegues at work,heck you can even be the best of buddies but when it comes to career elevation,they'd rather be ahead of you than you being in that position.

Collegues usually sabotage themselves behind each other backs,mostly to look good and gain favor from the boss. Not to talk of the hidden envy and hate some have for each other.

Do not be naive folks,your workplace is a battlefield of interest not a gathering of friends and family.

Exactly. You nailed it

Lol so Op changed his "Hard Truth" to " Harsh Realities "

That's better though.

Now you understand the difference between reality and hard truth.

balaclava:
Salary is not designed for your freedom but your bondage.

Forget the appearance, your colleagues at work are not your friends.

Disregard the notion, your office is not a family.

Bosses are not interested in you progress, they are interested only in their business.

Like OP posted, It is all a scam

Employees are also not interested in their work or the progress of their employer's business, they are only interested in their paycheck and how they can derive the most from their workplace doing as little as possible (or even nothing) that is not seen as bad enough to sack them.

luminouz:

Exactly. You nailed it

Appreciate that boss.

luminouz:


Lol...you know nothing.

You know everything. Okpo.

1Sharon:


You know everything. Okpo.

Okpo?

You are so razz!!! 🙄

Mistral:
In my opinion, the only category of humanity that is free from this mental oppression to a minimum are the children. They play around and live the way they please everyday without even realizing the mess we adults have to go through to survive in a corrupt and mumu society. It makes us want to envy them

Don't Mind The Op, The World of Humanities is Created In Cycles Of Recycled Value Systems...

The Children Of Yesterday Were Already Programmed(Characters) On What To Behave as Adults from Generations to Generations till Eon Time Across Different Civilisations... No Children is Innocent as the case might be because you are carrying the alleles of Your Parents, You Wouldn't be Carrying Their Genetic Info if You ain't In The Same Clusters as Them ...

The World is Advancing From Communal to Larger Societies Then We are Now Having Universal World of Humanities....

There is Nothing Bad in the world of Humanities as Being Propaganda By The Op,

We Are Just Suffering From "Convergence of Civilisations" Across Human Race But The Benefits Would Definitely Outweighs The Odds In The Longrun.

The Goal is The "Universes" not Just Earth .. We are 1000light years behind schedule as Conceived!

DonroxyII:
Don't Mind The Op, The World of Humanities is Created In Cycles Of Recycled Value Systems...

The Children Of Yesterday Were Already Programmed(Characters) On What To Behave as Adults from Generations to Generations till Eon Time Across Different Civilisations... No Children is Innocent as the case might be because you are carrying the alleles of Your Parents, You Wouldn't be Carrying Their Genetic Info if You ain't In The Same Clusters as Them ...

The World is Advancing From Communal to Larger Societies Then We are Now Having Universal World of Humanities....

There is Nothing Bad in the world of Humanities as Being Propaganda By The Op,

We Are Just Suffering From "Convergence of Civilisations" Across Human Race But The Benefits Would Definitely Outweighs The Odds In The Longrun.

The Goal is The "Universes" not Just Earth .. We are 1000light years behind schedule as Conceived!

I am the OP

Mistral:


I am the OP

I just realise

DonroxyII:
I just realise

You use a button phone. Dont you feel you need to least put the post into deep consideration?