True. Forget what those feminists are saying. They love marriage genuinely more than anything. They also love children . Ask Linda Ikeji nah. She's not even trending on social media anymore, unlike when she used to be a feminists mentor.

Anyone who's in doubt that ladies love marriage genuinely should reason with the below:

Why is it that ladies always talk of marriage more than guys?

Why do ladies get happier during their wedding preparations and on their wedding day, regardless of their financial status and family background?

Why are they more populated than guys at marriage seminars and prayers for singles?

The above do not have anything to do with poverty or dependence on men as many guys have wrongly posited. There are super rich single ladies out there who aren't happy cos they don't have someone to call her husband.

You're telling us what we already know

Softmen:
But there are always happy fucking different dicksons before marriage

EreluRoz:
She's right especially when you have crossed 30. Also no man is happy as a single man, he will also feel less of a man seeing his mates with wives and kids. So it's both ways and let's not pretend about it.

Lies. I have a baby mama and live alone and I'm very happy plus doing better having a total freedom.

Marriage makes life so boring.

This logic is dead in water
Men and Women are different.

In marriage
Women see fulfillment
Men see responsibility

EreluRoz:
She's right especially when you have crossed 30. Also no man is happy as a single man, he will also feel less of a man seeing his mates with wives and kids. So it's both ways and let's not pretend about it.

Namaster:
Not married, just the WEDDING.

That's what they really care about.

u are right.

SocialJustice:
I love that you handled the issue of 2 sides to a coin. Women were not created with testosterone naturally running through their veins, they got oestrogen, the feminine nature and care to tame the wild man.

Instead of taming their men and bringing balance to their lives, women also want to live the testosterone controlled life.

I wish them the best.

what rubbish is this one saying. Are you saying that men are no better wild animals that need taming?

Is marriage the goal, or is it about finding the right person to marry? Because the truth is, there are countless married women who are deeply unhappy.

While I hold marriage in high regard, I firmly believe that if a woman isn't content while she's single, she'll never find happiness in marriage. This is often the root cause of many marital problems.

Too many singles rush into marriage, expecting their spouse to fill a void within them. They put off their own happiness, only to feel even more frustrated when their partner falls short of their expectations.

Marriage isn't about completing you—it's about complementing who you already are. If you can't feel whole as a single person, that emptiness will follow you into marriage.

Shinjawestern:
"No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married"

Nigerian woman reveals.

How true is this?

This is very true because it give women a lot of relief, furthermore, almost all responsibility is shifted to the man.

It's like when a man finished his NYSC and he got a job two years latter, you know the financial relief?

sweetkev:
Lies. I have a baby mama and live alone and I'm very happy plus doing better having a total freedom.

Marriage makes life so boring.

So you destroyed a woman's destiny for your freedom.

Mcheeew. Let the singles breathe. Not every lady is carrying marriage matter on top head. 🙄

EreluRoz:
She's right especially when you have crossed 30. Also no man is happy as a single man, he will also feel less of a man seeing his mates with wives and kids. So it's both ways and let's not pretend about it.

You are very correct, it's both ways,

As a man that is yet to mary I'm typing with experience as regards the feeling with the male gender.

They just wan make register as married women after that they continue knacks with their ex

SocialJustice:
I love that you handled the issue of 2 sides to a coin. Women were not created with testosterone naturally running through their veins, they got oestrogen, the feminine nature and care to tame the wild man.

Instead of taming their men and bringing balance to their lives, women also want to live the testosterone controlled life.

I wish them the best.

Lmao so women are the ones to tame grown up adult men, if we want balance in our lives it is our job to tame men 😂

And yet y'all claim the logical gender for yourselves, the gender with all the wisdom
and knowledge without emotions, yet you keep showing us over and over again that y'all have nothing upstairs, only to look for women to care for you like babies,

I think this mentality applies to only Nigerian men though, because white men with their achievement and inventions, and other men from African countries can't be this slow to reason that way, that's why Nigerian men can never invent anything only to destroy their country and image.

EreluRoz:
Exactly and redpill too

Red pill isn't a scam.

PerfectStranger:

No single man in his right senses that have seen disloyalty and shege in some women will be worried about marriage.

As a man, if you can't find a befitting and homely woman to marry, have your baby outside, do your child support,train them and live a peaceful and drama free life.

Saying by a guy in the lowest level of society stratum.

A foolish man talking as if, he would not continuing having sex after discarding wife that born for him,.......meanwhile the free-rangers you would be having sex with, are they immune from dramas that wife would do for you if she stays as a wife?

If that is how you cherish kids, a brave guy would know that he needs their mother for them to have proper upbringing

Too daft to share views in public.

The average man and woman want a happy family.

Forget all these social media braggadocio.

Underneath such complaints and rationalizations are young men and women who want to have a lovely spouse to call their own and enjoy all the beautiful sides of love and romance.

It's simply a biological imperative across the animal kingdom. The goal is to reproduce a generation of offspring that can sustain their lineage in the genetic pool.

Women love marriage because of the security it brings - shelter and food; protection and provision. Because they are the weaker sex.

Men love marriage because their bloodline will continue in the line of their dominance, power, and control.

A woman who's unable to secure a quality male before she hits the wall is a "failure in the sexual and dating market". Because her early maturity is a preparation for her to quickly scout for that male who will be her angel as she ages. That's why women are more beautiful than men. Nature is simply preparing them for the future.

Her inability to get that quality male also means she will struggle alone through this cruel world without any form of masculine support outside the home. Again, this is another reason that the foundation of a woman is strong and masculine. Else, she will get consumed and damaged by the demands of the cruel world.

Where the demands of the world refine men, even though many still get consumed, women, on the other hand, hardly come out of the furnace without smelling like black ugly burnt offerings.

Men without marriage are simply working for strangers. Because through marriage a dynasty or an empire is built and sustained.

Pragmatically, marriage doesn't make sense if you consider the end of life - death. And so with every other activity and event in life.

However, for the culture and human biological disposition, love and marriage make sense.

With that, the most powerful force pushing humans is not even our intellect. Do you know what it is?

Sex.

Sex is womanly leverage to get a man's commitment and lock him in marriage.

The thirst for sex pushes men to become bigger and better because they want to secure the best of women.

Women are happy when they are married because they can get the best of a man.

Men are happy when married because they know that even in immortality, their control and dominance continue.

Thanks.

If marriage makes them happy but genuine happiness only comes after conception and delivery

Na so e be nau! They comot dem from man's rib.
So they must want to fit back into where they were removed so that they are not just outside... WoMAN....

Marriage is a key KPI for women in life...
It's like a promotion or a big achievement for them

EreluRoz:
She's right especially when you have crossed 30. Also no man is happy as a single man, he will also feel less of a man seeing his mates with wives and kids. So it's both ways and let's not pretend about it.

i disagreed with you babe

PerfectStranger:

My parents time wasn't as bad as this generation. No one is normalizing abnormalities, these days women's orientation about the whole relationship and marriage stuff has changed and we men have also adjusted the rules too,no one wanna be a simp.

You desrve like 10k to go enjoy your favorite drink with serious peppersoup!

Right

Namaster:
Not married, just the WEDDING.

That's what they really care about.

Most of you born around 1995 to year 2000 are more dangerous in relationships,more than, what we can imagine

Namaster:
Not married, just the WEDDING.

That's what they really care about.

It's not even the wedding, the just want to mark registered and leave the marriage in a short while. Ladies compete alot

EreluRoz:
She's right especially when you have crossed 30. Also no man is happy as a single man, he will also feel less of a man seeing his mates with wives and kids. So it's both ways and let's not pretend about it.

Nope. He will only feel less of a man if he doesn't have money to marry.

But a man will never feel less of a man if he has money and decide not to marry

PerfectStranger:

No single man in his right senses that have seen disloyalty and shege in some women will be worried about marriage.

As a man, if you can't find a befitting and homely woman to marry, have your baby outside, do your child support,train them and live a peaceful and drama free life.

You are too young to understand the text you quoted. You will probably quote me to claim that you are 50, but the way you think has already given you away.

Una done come again oo🙄🙄

Magnumproperty:
I beg to disagree

I beg to disagree.
I know a lady who is almost 37. She's not married and she's not bothered. Her female younger siblings are married. As old as she is she's still using men to shakara.

EreluRoz:
Did your parents had you outside? What makes some of you think it's cool to have kids out of wedlock? The way some of you try to normalize abnormalities is appalling

What was the de divorce rate of your parents. How many feminist do we have then, how was the economy then, do girls Bleep around for iPhone and human hair.

With all the constant work in marriage there is still no happiness there

PerfectStranger:

My parents time wasn't as bad as this generation. No one is normalizing abnormalities, these days women's orientation about the whole relationship and marriage stuff has changed and we men have also adjusted the rules too,no one wanna be a simp.

Wedlock is an abnormality everywhere. Children from wedlock homes perform poorly compared to those raised in two-parent households. As a man, raising children in a two-parent household is the only benefit I see in marriage.

are you a wild animal?

Tame tame tame

Yet men want to be the leaders. When by their own admission they lack self control and self respect

SocialJustice:
I love that you handled the issue of 2 sides to a coin. Women were not created with testosterone naturally running through their veins, they got oestrogen, the feminine nature and care to tame the wild man.

Instead of taming their men and bringing balance to their lives, women also want to live the testosterone controlled life.

I wish them the best.