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Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by themanderon: 11:09pm On Aug 22
obinna58:

Beliefs are useless to reality, it may serve as fantasy self motivation though


Believe whatever works for you. I believe in the supernatural and I see the evidence everyday.

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Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by Barteze: 11:09pm On Aug 22
KingintheNorth:
Let me tell you a a true life story.


It actually happend about 10 years ago but the memories will live with me forever . Although I have not talked about it on social media but I feel like telling the story so that people will learn. It's a long story but I'll make it brief.

I was cohabiting with my girl back in the Uni, we have been like that for a few years , but then one day I came back to my lodge late in the night because I watched a football game on my way back from school. I opened my door and met my girl on the floor. She was motionless and her eyes were wide open, I checked her pulse but I couldn't feel anything. Her teeth and her palms were clenched tight. I panicked and just froze at the spot not knowing what to do. I then called a few people in the lodge and alerted them about what was happening but before I knew it , the whole lodge people have gathered in my room and outside the door.

Nobody could tell what must have happend to her. We thought about rushing her to hospital but the school clinic is closed and there are no good hospitals in the area because the school is in a remote location, and it was almost midnight at the time. Some people did different type of first aid on her , trying to see if they can revive her but after few hours there still wasn't any sign of life.
People started suspecting that she might be dead and started taking somethings from their rooms and leaving the lodge immediately. Out of the 30 occupants of the lodge only one person (student pastor) remained with me. The rest ran away from the lodge ,even my best friend .🙁

The student pastor prayed and prayed to see if she will come back to life but nothing happend , at about 4am the Pastor told me that he has done everything he can and that it's in the hands of God now. He then went to his room. It was just the two of us left in the building.

I sat down in my room, I didn't know what to do, I couldn't cry , I thought about how I was going to be arrested and charged for murder when in truth I'm innocent, which nobody will believe because of nigeria justice system. I thought about my parents , how they sacrificed to send me to school not knowing I was cohabiting with a girl . At some point I thought about running away, but that will mean I'm guilty and perhaps how far and how long would I be on the run before I would be caught.

I didn't know who to call , I was just bereft of ideas. I decided I'll submit myself to the police in the morning and explain what happend and possibly face the consequences. As I sat there waiting for day to break, I started scrolling through my phone contacts.
Mind you, I believe in God but I'm not a very religious person. I came across one pastor that gave me his phone number a long time ago. I then decided to just try my luck and call him. I called him and he picked up the call immediately as if he was waiting for the call.
I wanted to tell him what's happening, but he cut me short and told me he already knows. That he was disturbed in the spirit and God revealed it to him so he started praying but he didn't know it was for my situation he was praying for at that time.

He told me I should not be afraid , that everything will be fine. He asked me if I have any sachet water around , I looked around and got a sachet water . He then asked me to put the phone ontop of the water so her can pray in it. I did as he asked. After praying , he then asked me to try and force open her mouth anyway I can pour some water inside ,then sprinkled the rest all over her body.

I did everything he instructed. He then told me that everything will be alright and ended the call. By then it was almost 6am in the morning. I just sat there starring at her , then I saw her hand move a little bit, I cleaned my eyes and got closer to her so as to be sure my eyes were not deceiving me. Her hand moved again , then her legs . Before I knew it she opened her eyes and sat up. I couldn't believe my eyes, I was in shock and was wondering if I'm imagining the whole thing.

Then she spoke and asked me what's happening, and why is her body wet with water . I rushed out and called the student pastor who came running in to witness the first miracle of my life. He was singing praises to God. I knelt down and prayed to God and thanked him for the first time in a very long time . I made her a cup of tea after which she has a shower.

At about 7am in the morning, none of my lodgemates have returned . I looked outside the gate from my room and saw some of them with other people gathered in small groups whispering, waiting to get the full gist of how my girl died in my room .

I called my bike guy to come to the lodge because I want to take her to the hospital for checkup, I then came down to the gate with my girlfriend. As they saw her , they opened their mouth with shock and we're too surprised to talk.

To cut the whole story short . I learnt some valuable lessons . Cohabiting with anybody you are not married is very risky, you wouldn't know the risk until something happens to him or her.
The second lesson I learnt was that, when you get in trouble that's when you will know that you are alone, people will run away from you.

Anyways , we continued dating, but I rented an apartment for her so stay separately. I also stopped her from sleeping in my place. Untill we eventually parted ways after I graduated.
Thank God for you.

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Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by Lusheyi(m): 11:09pm On Aug 22
KingintheNorth:



They ran checks and didn't find anything. Said she's fine.
She be Ooooooogbanje

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Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by Cha001: 11:14pm On Aug 22
God at Work
KingintheNorth:
Let me tell you a a true life story.


It actually happend about 10 years ago but the memories will live with me forever . Although I have not talked about it on social media but I feel like telling the story so that people will learn. It's a long story but I'll make it brief.

I was cohabiting with my girl back in the Uni, we have been like that for a few years , but then one day I came back to my lodge late in the night because I watched a football game on my way back from school. I opened my door and met my girl on the floor. She was motionless and her eyes were wide open, I checked her pulse but I couldn't feel anything. Her teeth and her palms were clenched tight. I panicked and just froze at the spot not knowing what to do. I then called a few people in the lodge and alerted them about what was happening but before I knew it , the whole lodge people have gathered in my room and outside the door.

Nobody could tell what must have happend to her. We thought about rushing her to hospital but the school clinic is closed and there are no good hospitals in the area because the school is in a remote location, and it was almost midnight at the time. Some people did different type of first aid on her , trying to see if they can revive her but after few hours there still wasn't any sign of life.
People started suspecting that she might be dead and started taking somethings from their rooms and leaving the lodge immediately. Out of the 30 occupants of the lodge only one person (student pastor) remained with me. The rest ran away from the lodge ,even my best friend .🙁

The student pastor prayed and prayed to see if she will come back to life but nothing happend , at about 4am the Pastor told me that he has done everything he can and that it's in the hands of God now. He then went to his room. It was just the two of us left in the building.

I sat down in my room, I didn't know what to do, I couldn't cry , I thought about how I was going to be arrested and charged for murder when in truth I'm innocent, which nobody will believe because of nigeria justice system. I thought about my parents , how they sacrificed to send me to school not knowing I was cohabiting with a girl . At some point I thought about running away, but that will mean I'm guilty and perhaps how far and how long would I be on the run before I would be caught.

I didn't know who to call , I was just bereft of ideas. I decided I'll submit myself to the police in the morning and explain what happend and possibly face the consequences. As I sat there waiting for day to break, I started scrolling through my phone contacts.
Mind you, I believe in God but I'm not a very religious person. I came across one pastor that gave me his phone number a long time ago. I then decided to just try my luck and call him. I called him and he picked up the call immediately as if he was waiting for the call.
I wanted to tell him what's happening, but he cut me short and told me he already knows. That he was disturbed in the spirit and God revealed it to him so he started praying but he didn't know it was for my situation he was praying for at that time.

He told me I should not be afraid , that everything will be fine. He asked me if I have any sachet water around , I looked around and got a sachet water . He then asked me to put the phone ontop of the water so her can pray in it. I did as he asked. After praying , he then asked me to try and force open her mouth anyway I can pour some water inside ,then sprinkled the rest all over her body.

I did everything he instructed. He then told me that everything will be alright and ended the call. By then it was almost 6am in the morning. I just sat there starring at her , then I saw her hand move a little bit, I cleaned my eyes and got closer to her so as to be sure my eyes were not deceiving me. Her hand moved again , then her legs . Before I knew it she opened her eyes and sat up. I couldn't believe my eyes, I was in shock and was wondering if I'm imagining the whole thing.

Then she spoke and asked me what's happening, and why is her body wet with water . I rushed out and called the student pastor who came running in to witness the first miracle of my life. He was singing praises to God. I knelt down and prayed to God and thanked him for the first time in a very long time . I made her a cup of tea after which she has a shower.

At about 7am in the morning, none of my lodgemates have returned . I looked outside the gate from my room and saw some of them with other people gathered in small groups whispering, waiting to get the full gist of how my girl died in my room .

I called my bike guy to come to the lodge because I want to take her to the hospital for checkup, I then came down to the gate with my girlfriend. As they saw her , they opened their mouth with shock and we're too surprised to talk.

To cut the whole story short . I learnt some valuable lessons . Cohabiting with anybody you are not married is very risky, you wouldn't know the risk until something happens to him or her.
The second lesson I learnt was that, when you get in trouble that's when you will know that you are alone, people will run away from you.

Anyways , we continued dating, but I rented an apartment for her so stay separately. I also stopped her from sleeping in my place. Untill we eventually parted ways after I graduated.

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Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by Ennyjude(f): 11:23pm On Aug 22
Ahhh
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by olaitan62(m): 11:29pm On Aug 22
redcliff:


I dont understand, why will he spend time in prison when he did not kill her? What happened to aitopsy? Na una dey always encourage and promote the rubbish wey dey go on for naija. Everybody is telling him, he is lucky, he would have done time. Which kine talk be that? Lets stop accepting nonsense so that nonsense will stop coming to us.
I no sure say you dey naija. E go clear soon, no worry.

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Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by McCoy9067(m): 11:34pm On Aug 22
I like your story, patiently waiting for another one

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Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by DuttyChuks: 11:36pm On Aug 22
Those days, i no dey allow girls follow me to my house, in short non of my Coursemates knows my house. I usually tell them, every business we initiated in school ends immediately we cross school gate. Na so i dey till I finish school. I no fvck any of them and I was glad i did.

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Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by Ojemedad: 11:42pm On Aug 22
Truly there is God, miracles do happen

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Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by Michano22: 11:44pm On Aug 22
Tales of the moonlight

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Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by MatrixCircle: 11:49pm On Aug 22
That's how my own girlfriend back in school took some concoctions and was fainting at her female lodge..Her female friends carried her and came to my house that midnight in that state, knocked my door, dropped her with me and disappeared. My room mate saw her situation that night, instead of finding a way we take her to the hospital, the guy grab his phone and put on his shirt and disappeared in the thick of the night. I was left alone crying and she could barely speak, every one has escaped. She survived until 7 am , I got hired a care that took her to the hospital, she was rushed into emergency treated and she survived.
Mannnnn shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked this was in 2015 back in Uni.
I escaped. "Na belle she be wan comot o" The hospital had to do emergency evacuation to safe her life. Since that day big big lesson.

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Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by ednut1(m): 11:50pm On Aug 22
I smell lies

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Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by rapheal5(m): 11:56pm On Aug 22
redcliff:


I dont understand, why will he spend time in prison when he did not kill her? What happened to aitopsy? Na una dey always encourage and promote the rubbish wey dey go on for naija. Everybody is telling him, he is lucky, he would have done time. Which kine talk be that? Lets stop accepting nonsense so that nonsense will stop coming to us.
I pray u no jam police wahala plus family wey hold money with strong connection...

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Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by lagosrd: 12:01am On Aug 23
So did you remember to thank you creator who still gave you the privilege to type here in nairaland today. Otherwise, you would have been in jail by now. Call the pastor , appreciate him and show your gratitude to GOD Almighty
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by hilaryCU(m): 12:04am On Aug 23
yarimo:
Until you are in a problem or emmergency situation, that's when you will know what you have are just friends not contacts .
Friends has a deeper meaning, acquitance should be more appropriate

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Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by Officialgarri: 12:12am On Aug 23
Healthrelatedjo:
.This same thing almost happened to me on the 12th of may 2023.
She went out with her aunt to assist a friend who was cooking for a party,so she really stressed herself.When she got back,we had sex after taking dinner.It was around 3am that everything started,she woke me up and said"Ay, o nre mi lati Inu" I stood up gave her ORS,and being an Health worker,I gave her diclofenac injection,not knowing she already gave herself fortwin(pent).She just stopped breathing the moment the diclofenac entered her bloodstream,but I noticed her pulse was still fine."omowunmi,wunmi!!"...nibo,she didn't even shake,few minutes later she opened her eyes and started saying yes,yes, who is calling me, someone is calling me,I just started slapping her back ,I already alerted my neighbor (a lady) who's now my girlfriend,she was the one that helped in holding her because I was disorganized,I Sha broke up with wunmi that same week.omo kan o le wa koba life me


She's Sickle cell (SS)

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Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by imustsaymymindo: 12:15am On Aug 23
luminouz:

Shût up jor. So a brain resetting slap would make her die or what? You are a coward...so rest

Lol. It could make her brain dead.
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by KingAzubuike(f): 12:22am On Aug 23
It is when you're in problem you'll know if you have friends or not.

Many will run away and abandon you.

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Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by Padipadi: 12:24am On Aug 23
Zonefree:



If your wife is not a virgin, you have no moral justification to smile and dance on your wedding day.
Are you a virgin?
See ya head like dîck head!

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Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by Healthrelatedjo: 12:24am On Aug 23
Officialgarri:


She's Sickle cell (SS)
yes.
She didn't tell me she injected herself with it alrdy

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Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by abbey621(m): 12:24am On Aug 23
COOL STORY BRUH........Wale Adenuga himself could not have written a better script......10/10 grin grin grin grin

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Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by 99thEnemy(m): 12:36am On Aug 23
KingintheNorth:
Let me tell you a a true life story.


It actually happend about 10 years ago but the memories will live with me forever . Although I have not talked about it on social media but I feel like telling the story so that people will learn. It's a long story but I'll make it brief.

I was cohabiting with my girl back in the Uni, we have been like that for a few years , but then one day I came back to my lodge late in the night because I watched a football game on my way back from school. I opened my door and met my girl on the floor. She was motionless and her eyes were wide open, I checked her pulse but I couldn't feel anything. Her teeth and her palms were clenched tight. I panicked and just froze at the spot not knowing what to do. I then called a few people in the lodge and alerted them about what was happening but before I knew it , the whole lodge people have gathered in my room and outside the door.

Nobody could tell what must have happend to her. We thought about rushing her to hospital but the school clinic is closed and there are no good hospitals in the area because the school is in a remote location, and it was almost midnight at the time. Some people did different type of first aid on her , trying to see if they can revive her but after few hours there still wasn't any sign of life.
People started suspecting that she might be dead and started taking somethings from their rooms and leaving the lodge immediately. Out of the 30 occupants of the lodge only one person (student pastor) remained with me. The rest ran away from the lodge ,even my best friend .🙁

The student pastor prayed and prayed to see if she will come back to life but nothing happend , at about 4am the Pastor told me that he has done everything he can and that it's in the hands of God now. He then went to his room. It was just the two of us left in the building.

I sat down in my room, I didn't know what to do, I couldn't cry , I thought about how I was going to be arrested and charged for murder when in truth I'm innocent, which nobody will believe because of nigeria justice system. I thought about my parents , how they sacrificed to send me to school not knowing I was cohabiting with a girl . At some point I thought about running away, but that will mean I'm guilty and perhaps how far and how long would I be on the run before I would be caught.

I didn't know who to call , I was just bereft of ideas. I decided I'll submit myself to the police in the morning and explain what happend and possibly face the consequences. As I sat there waiting for day to break, I started scrolling through my phone contacts.
Mind you, I believe in God but I'm not a very religious person. I came across one pastor that gave me his phone number a long time ago. I then decided to just try my luck and call him. I called him and he picked up the call immediately as if he was waiting for the call.
I wanted to tell him what's happening, but he cut me short and told me he already knows. That he was disturbed in the spirit and God revealed it to him so he started praying but he didn't know it was for my situation he was praying for at that time.

He told me I should not be afraid , that everything will be fine. He asked me if I have any sachet water around , I looked around and got a sachet water . He then asked me to put the phone ontop of the water so her can pray in it. I did as he asked. After praying , he then asked me to try and force open her mouth anyway I can pour some water inside ,then sprinkled the rest all over her body.

I did everything he instructed. He then told me that everything will be alright and ended the call. By then it was almost 6am in the morning. I just sat there starring at her , then I saw her hand move a little bit, I cleaned my eyes and got closer to her so as to be sure my eyes were not deceiving me. Her hand moved again , then her legs . Before I knew it she opened her eyes and sat up. I couldn't believe my eyes, I was in shock and was wondering if I'm imagining the whole thing.

Then she spoke and asked me what's happening, and why is her body wet with water . I rushed out and called the student pastor who came running in to witness the first miracle of my life. He was singing praises to God. I knelt down and prayed to God and thanked him for the first time in a very long time . I made her a cup of tea after which she has a shower.

At about 7am in the morning, none of my lodgemates have returned . I looked outside the gate from my room and saw some of them with other people gathered in small groups whispering, waiting to get the full gist of how my girl died in my room .

I called my bike guy to come to the lodge because I want to take her to the hospital for checkup, I then came down to the gate with my girlfriend. As they saw her , they opened their mouth with shock and we're too surprised to talk.

To cut the whole story short . I learnt some valuable lessons . Cohabiting with anybody you are not married is very risky, you wouldn't know the risk until something happens to him or her.
The second lesson I learnt was that, when you get in trouble that's when you will know that you are alone, people will run away from you.

Anyways , we continued dating, but I rented an apartment for her so stay separately. I also stopped her from sleeping in my place. Untill we eventually parted ways after I graduated.
Are you married to her, or are you still dating her?
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by Salt06(m): 12:52am On Aug 23
Agentsalt:
1 How can all the compound people vacate their houses within that time of the night,just because somebody died inside her boyfriend house.
2.Pastor you haven't called for a long time,picked your call and said he knows why you were calling him....


I've had similar experiences so I know it happens. Many years back I was praying one night and then I got to praying in tongues and someone just came up strongly on my heart and wouldn't go. I later got to know he was the one I was praying for and a passage from the bible was coming to mind so I knew it was for him ( I still recall the Bible passage). This was in the night. As I prayed my phone started ringing that night and I was shocked to see that it was the same person calling me. He was in far away Maiduguri while I was in Kaduna then. I can recall several if such incidences that I could even sometimes tell what I was praying for them about even tho they never told me. And there are scriptures from the bible to back such experiences up. I pray I've such time to spend in prayers again, hustle and bustle of life can make one really miss spending time with God. May God help us

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Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by yarimo(m): 1:04am On Aug 23
hilaryCU:
Friends has a deeper meaning, acquitance should be more appropriate
don't worry until you get in to serious emmergency situation, that's when you will know this your grammar is useless .
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by Trueprophet91: 1:19am On Aug 23
numericalguy:
KingintheNorth,

I have heard of people abandoning their lodges anytime someone fainted and I really never could understand the reason why. What could be the reason for your lodgemates leaving their lodge and disappearing like that?

Where they scared of the police?
Did they think your girl's situation was spiritual and they too could pass out due to the spirit's activities?
Where they thinking your girl had an infectious disease and they took off because they did not what to be infected?
Or any other reason

Police.
When they enter that place, they'd arrest everybody on sight.

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Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by Vision101(m): 1:21am On Aug 23
And you didn't add that you learned the lessons of believing in Jesus and giving your life to him.

You didn't learn the lesson that miracles are possible.

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Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by Trueprophet91: 1:22am On Aug 23
SIRKAY98:
Dont know if its a spiritual issue or if They are possessed beings,it happened to me,She woke me up at mid night and told me she will die the following day,my body gather goose bump immediately,I don't know when it will be, she said I should run as fast as I can to take her to any church around,I acted but she seized when people were around,she went dead on her seat, every effort to revive her by everyone around was effortless, she woke up by 1am in midnight from like 2pm on the afternoon. With a voice ,I have been returned after much prayers and deliverance

After the joy, that she is back,she lost her senses and madness starts, she ran out of the house while I was bathing a d the next place we got her where about was Akure the 3rd day, she became a wonderer,when she got to her senses ,she gave my number to.someone to call.me, I ran around 7pm at night to Akure I entered Akure at around 2am, I nearly died of accident my father too was lucky we could have died. The madness stayed for a while like 3months before God delivered her completely and she is fine till today.I spent all my savings! But God was faithful everything was restored in double fold,I stood by her I dint run.

On our own case we were married legally by then, co habiting is very bad and deadly,make sure the parent knows you are with their daughter else if unusual happens u can be jailed for what you dint know.

Are you two still married?
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by Osaremwantaelvi(m): 1:31am On Aug 23
Now come back forget the lesson na the story I day interested in for now.


Wetin happen to her, when you reach hospital wetin them say day do her?
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by nasbiafra(m): 1:38am On Aug 23
MOONLIGHT TALES angry angry angry angry
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by Trueprophet91: 1:41am On Aug 23
MatrixCircle:
That's how my own girlfriend back in school took some concoctions and was fainting at her female lodge..Her female friends carried her and came to my house that midnight in that state, knocked my door, dropped her with me and disappeared. My room mate saw her situation that night, instead of finding a way we take her to the hospital, the guy grab his phone and put on his shirt and disappeared in the thick of the night. I was left alone crying and she could barely speak, every one has escaped. She survived until 7 am , I got hired a care that took her to the hospital, she was rushed into emergency treated and she survived.
Mannnnn shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked this was in 2009 back in Uni.
I escaped. "Na belle she be wan comot o" The hospital had to do emergency evacuation to safe her life. Since that day big big lesson.

If na belle,her friends did the right thing. Especially if they knew.
You can't eat your cake and have it.
Na God save you

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Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by Trueprophet91: 1:42am On Aug 23
ednut1:
I smell lies
Get your nose mask
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by Trueprophet91: 1:43am On Aug 23
rapheal5:

I pray u no jam police wahala plus family wey hold money with strong connection...
Don't mind the guy. He's either just a kid or he's one of those attention deficit agbayas.

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