Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by essyiyk: 9:18am On Aug 23 |
Thank God for your life KingintheNorth: Let me tell you a a true life story.
It actually happend about 10 years ago but the memories will live with me forever . Although I have not talked about it on social media but I feel like telling the story so that people will learn. It's a long story but I'll make it brief.
I was cohabiting with my girl back in the Uni, we have been like that for a few years , but then one day I came back to my lodge late in the night because I watched a football game on my way back from school. I opened my door and met my girl on the floor. She was motionless and her eyes were wide open, I checked her pulse but I couldn't feel anything. Her teeth and her palms were clenched tight. I panicked and just froze at the spot not knowing what to do. I then called a few people in the lodge and alerted them about what was happening but before I knew it , the whole lodge people have gathered in my room and outside the door.
Nobody could tell what must have happend to her. We thought about rushing her to hospital but the school clinic is closed and there are no good hospitals in the area because the school is in a remote location, and it was almost midnight at the time. Some people did different type of first aid on her , trying to see if they can revive her but after few hours there still wasn't any sign of life. People started suspecting that she might be dead and started taking somethings from their rooms and leaving the lodge immediately. Out of the 30 occupants of the lodge only one person (student pastor) remained with me. The rest ran away from the lodge ,even my best friend .🙁
The student pastor prayed and prayed to see if she will come back to life but nothing happend , at about 4am the Pastor told me that he has done everything he can and that it's in the hands of God now. He then went to his room. It was just the two of us left in the building.
I sat down in my room, I didn't know what to do, I couldn't cry , I thought about how I was going to be arrested and charged for murder when in truth I'm innocent, which nobody will believe because of nigeria justice system. I thought about my parents , how they sacrificed to send me to school not knowing I was cohabiting with a girl . At some point I thought about running away, but that will mean I'm guilty and perhaps how far and how long would I be on the run before I would be caught.
I didn't know who to call , I was just bereft of ideas. I decided I'll submit myself to the police in the morning and explain what happend and possibly face the consequences. As I sat there waiting for day to break, I started scrolling through my phone contacts. Mind you, I believe in God but I'm not a very religious person. I came across one pastor that gave me his phone number a long time ago. I then decided to just try my luck and call him. I called him and he picked up the call immediately as if he was waiting for the call. I wanted to tell him what's happening, but he cut me short and told me he already knows. That he was disturbed in the spirit and God revealed it to him so he started praying but he didn't know it was for my situation he was praying for at that time.
He told me I should not be afraid , that everything will be fine. He asked me if I have any sachet water around , I looked around and got a sachet water . He then asked me to put the phone ontop of the water so her can pray in it. I did as he asked. After praying , he then asked me to try and force open her mouth anyway I can pour some water inside ,then sprinkled the rest all over her body.
I did everything he instructed. He then told me that everything will be alright and ended the call. By then it was almost 6am in the morning. I just sat there starring at her , then I saw her hand move a little bit, I cleaned my eyes and got closer to her so as to be sure my eyes were not deceiving me. Her hand moved again , then her legs . Before I knew it she opened her eyes and sat up. I couldn't believe my eyes, I was in shock and was wondering if I'm imagining the whole thing.
Then she spoke and asked me what's happening, and why is her body wet with water . I rushed out and called the student pastor who came running in to witness the first miracle of my life. He was singing praises to God. I knelt down and prayed to God and thanked him for the first time in a very long time . I made her a cup of tea after which she has a shower.
At about 7am in the morning, none of my lodgemates have returned . I looked outside the gate from my room and saw some of them with other people gathered in small groups whispering, waiting to get the full gist of how my girl died in my room .
I called my bike guy to come to the lodge because I want to take her to the hospital for checkup, I then came down to the gate with my girlfriend. As they saw her , they opened their mouth with shock and we're too surprised to talk.
To cut the whole story short . I learnt some valuable lessons . Cohabiting with anybody you are not married is very risky, you wouldn't know the risk until something happens to him or her. The second lesson I learnt was that, when you get in trouble that's when you will know that you are alone, people will run away from you.
Anyways , we continued dating, but I rented an apartment for her so stay separately. I also stopped her from sleeping in my place. Untill we eventually parted ways after I graduated. |
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by lereinter(m): 9:18am On Aug 23 |
themanderon:
Why would he want to lie? Do you know him? You can read and pass if you don't believe him but for us that knows what God can do this story is very much believable. What does he stand to gain if he lies on a faceless forum or did you see him advertise any church? Continue to disbelieve miracles you may surely not encounter one in your life though I pray you do to extinguish your doubts about the power of God. You don't have any measure of discerning, just religiosity You will be easily freak by fake I know if it's one imam he called you will agree it's a lie So cos he wrote a pastor did a kind miracle so the story is true Read it well it's just a make believe story to discourage cohabit, all those aspects are just spicing |
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by OlawaleBammie: 9:19am On Aug 23 |
nedekid:
Don't get carried away. What worked for him might not work for you. In the ops case, it was destined to be that way ie the proverbial moon aligned. Things worked out. That same pastor might have a sick child that he would have prayed for but still lost the child the next day. U re right, I belive in what u said. But same pastor could also have one or two things to say about my progress 1 Like |
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by Orlu13: 9:22am On Aug 23 |
Duchexx:
You’re mistaking me for your mother because she goes by the name “slot” I would have loved to insult you but life is already doing that for me🤣 hungry goat disvirgined slot...dats why u are crying all over his comment ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) I'm sure it's indomie nd eggs dat was used to disvirgin u....shameless h*e ![cool](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cool.png) |
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by mctech(m): 9:23am On Aug 23 |
You didn't learn ANY lesson. Why didn't you call on any of your fornicator friends to pray for her.
If you had learnt, you would have ended the illicit relationship and give your life to Christ so you can win future battles and even for others.
You saw the raw power of God at work and yet remained unchanged.
Are you waiting for a greater calamity before you change? 1 Like |
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by iramure(m): 9:23am On Aug 23 |
Was she truly dead in the first place?. The story is hard for me to believe. |
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by hikiki(m): 9:24am On Aug 23 |
Give me the pastors number pls...bro,God has big plans for you,he loves you. If not....... |
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by Duchexx: 9:39am On Aug 23 |
Orlu13:
disvirgined slot...dats why u are crying all over his comment ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png)
I'm sure it's indomie nd eggs dat was used to disvirgin u....shameless h*e ![cool](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cool.png) Indomie and egg ke? Your mother lied to you then because it’s garri and groundnut they used to disvirgin the both of us. You are the product of that day😂 Ask your impotent father to do DNA if you doubt me. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by Orlu13: 9:43am On Aug 23 |
Duchexx:
Indomie and egg ke? Your mother lied to you then because it’s garri and groundnut they used to disvirgin the both of us. You are the product of that day😂 Ask your impotent father to do DNA if you doubt me. Slot is running wild here....ur mum really taught u well dats why u are representing...It's hard being a product one night stand dats why virginity dey pain u wella....u be product of an ashawo so it's justifiable...na only ashawo dey vex once she hear virginity |
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by TrainPark: 9:46am On Aug 23 |
Funny question! I NEVER DID MUCH WAYWARD LIFE BUT EVEN THEN, I NEVER EVER TOUCH A WOMAN WITHOUT PROTECTION, Except WIfey! when she insisted to come over, I told her I did not have condom as an excuse to dissuade her but she offered to buy some on her way. So, definitely.. always used protection, always! hstar:
Did you use condom Or It was raw sex? |
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by Duchexx: 9:48am On Aug 23 |
Orlu13:
Slot is running wild here....ur mum really taught u well dats why u are representing...It's hard being a product one night stand
dats why virginity dey pain u wella....u be product of an ashawo so it's justifiable...na only ashawo dey vex once she hear virginity
Do DNA if e sure for you. Oh! You think you’re your father’s son because you also have erectile dysfunction like him?😅 no na. That one doesn’t count. I’m not even angry with you because I can only imagine how you feel living with erectile dysfunction and being a product of HOEloshoism (I don’t blame your mom..she explained and I understand) you needed to see the way Mr okoro scattered her already widened borehole🤣 I knew she’d definitely be pregnant but I didn’t know she’d give birth to a dingbat. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by GOOOGLE504(m): 9:56am On Aug 23 |
Agentsalt: 1 How can all the compound people vacate their houses within that time of the night,just because somebody died inside her boyfriend house. 2.Pastor you haven't called for a long time,picked your call and said he knows why you were calling him.... ![](/faces/huh.png) You raised two questions cos you feel like you are a detective but the questions show you don't know life, especially number 1. So you think it's only the guy that will enter soup the following morning? 9ja polica go carry all of them and the innocent ones wud v paid at least 50k to be released. About the spiritual part, unless you don't believe In anything supernatural, that's your issh, wasn't there so i can't confirm... Weda u it's superstory or not, youths need to hear stuffs like this to be more careful cos believe it or not, e fit happen o... The babe fit get ailness. mamiwater etc and an unguided fellow will suffer for wetin e no sabi... Make God dey watch us o |
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by Greenlandncom(m): 9:57am On Aug 23 |
Majesty7:
Nothing. Everything is always blank. All those seeing angels stories are fallacy ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) I think these things are in stages. It may also depend on one's spiritual state as at the time one passed. |
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Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by GOOOGLE504(m): 10:02am On Aug 23 |
GreatOchuks:
What you don't know is clearly bigger than you .
When he is arrested and detained in a Police cell , he will later be taken to the Magistrate Court for remanding pending the investigation as claimed by the Police , he will then be remanded and because it is Death of a Citizen , the State will file Charges against him for Murder to the High Court, then after his plea of not guilty , Trial will now start , while he's still in Prison rolling with hardened criminals and out of school. The case due to Nigerian factors of endless adjournments will linger on for years , if the Judge suddenly dies or Court gets burnt while the case is even 90 percent done , it will have to start afresh before another Court . Before the case will be concluded and him discharged and acquitted , 6 to 8 years might have gone .
You think it's to shout "Autopsy" and that's all , visit Prisons all over the Country , interview inmates and hear ordeals .
In this Country , no matter what , try not to be a victim of the accused honestly na pikin plenty pass for this forum these days. They lack deep wisdom and intellects |
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by DeeScan: 10:02am On Aug 23 |
EreluRoz: All because of p, they like what they hate infact they die there 😂😂😂 Did you read the part he said they continued dating? Let me keep laughing 😂😂😂 would you like to hear me say I'd take any risk for your p ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) |
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by Orlu13: 10:05am On Aug 23 |
Duchexx:
Do DNA if e sure for you. Oh! You think you’re your father’s son because you also have erectile dysfunction like him?😅 no na. That one doesn’t count. I’m not even angry with you because I can only imagine how you feel living with erectile dysfunction and being a product of HOEloshoism (I don’t blame your mom..she explained and I understand) you needed to see the way Mr okoro scattered her already widened borehole🤣 I knew she’d definitely be pregnant but I didn’t know she’d give birth to a dingbat. omo dis virginity issue really pain u sha...I didn't even bother to read wat u wrote... I didn't know dat dis can really pain non-virgins like u dis way...but lemme jst ask u... since u know loosing ur virginity can get u angry, why did u lose it with jst indomie nd eggs ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) |
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by DeeScan: 10:05am On Aug 23 |
KingintheNorth:
They ran checks and didn't find anything. Said she's fine. full checkup as in from head to toe?? |
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Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by GOOOGLE504(m): 10:08am On Aug 23 |
Meerahbel: You are gay?!!! How does what you bolded insinuate that he is gay "she was acting up because she found another guy"not "she was acting up because she found me with another guy"omo nairaland sope otilor 2 Likes |
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by Greenlandncom(m): 10:24am On Aug 23 |
Mandate1: she was actually dead but not gone completely. The Jews believe that when one dies, the spirit of that person would be hovering around for 3 days. After 3 days, the person is gone forever. That's why the raising of Lazarus to life by Jesus Christ, shocked them because Lazarus was raised on the 4th day. |
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by Zeebuy: 10:33am On Aug 23 |
numericalguy: KingintheNorth,
I have heard of people abandoning their lodges anytime someone fainted and I really never could understand the reason why. What could be the reason for your lodgemates leaving their lodge and disappearing like that?
Where they scared of the police? Did they think your girl's situation was spiritual and they too could pass out due to the spirit's activities? Where they thinking your girl had an infectious disease and they took off because they did not what to be infected? Or any other reason Everybody in Nigeria tries to avoid police wahala because of how terrible our police force is. Oftentimes, even if you weren't involved in a crime but you get arrested within the vicinity, you'll have to pay before you're released. |
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by Zeebuy: 10:39am On Aug 23 |
Nanalucky: There was a girl I was dating back them....I don't know where she stays or live....like the particular house....each time I go to see her,I will call her to come out,so before I get to her place she is outside her street....one day I asked her to take me to her place like she knows my room,my friends,my friends houses...but I don't know her....so I took a bike to her place,I didn't call her till I get there...I was just hiding to see where she will come out...when I get there and call her to come out that am in her street....she didn't come out....I was there like for 1 hour, there was no sign of her..I left .only for her to come to my place....I end everything....I told her,if she happens to you...who will I call.i only knew her village people most of them stays in my street...but not her relations just same village...I run oo... Akudaya 😏 I have a friend, she died 3 months ago but she's currently begging to come back to the land of the living; either to be reincarnated or as akudaya. Her soul is still restless |
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by folake4u(f): 10:40am On Aug 23 |
Proserpina: Year in year out you keep spitting regurgitated nonsense.
Will you ever evolve? No room for introspection and self development at all. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by themanderon: 10:42am On Aug 23 |
lereinter:
You don't have any measure of discerning, just religiosity
You will be easily freak by fake
I know if it's one imam he called you will agree it's a lie
So cos he wrote a pastor did a kind miracle so the story is true
Read it well it's just a make believe story to discourage cohabit, all those aspects are just spicing
I don't know if the story is true or not just emphasizing that the habit of discrediting people's account of events because they don't align with your beliefs is wrong. Miracles do happen and I am a living testimony to this fact. Not based on religiosity or whatever but real material facts. |
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by Zeebuy: 10:43am On Aug 23 |
Memyselfu2009: Guy ur story na big fat lie Give 1 reason why you say it's a lie |
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by fykes(m): 10:51am On Aug 23 |
Well that took a long time my brother... My own experience was having a gurl gasp ND pass out while having sezz. In a matter of seconds, I thought about who saw me and her going inside that night, How I wn take go prison, wetin I wan talk? As I open pure eater pour the girl and shook her violently, she woke up. This ws around 12pm, I watched her ll night and couldn't sleep. As soon as small daylight came like 4:30am, I discharged go my house. I did saw her some days again, I no dey even answer her greetings. Later found out the girl was actually married though she was a student then. |
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by Zeebuy: 10:53am On Aug 23 |
Aydot99: This is one of those tale by moonlight stories to scare children from doing something. Though it's a good one. So are you saying something like this can't happen? |
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Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by uzoka12(m): 11:47am On Aug 23 |
KingintheNorth: Let me tell you a a true life story.
It actually happend about 10 years ago but the memories will live with me forever . Although I have not talked about it on social media but I feel like telling the story so that people will learn. It's a long story but I'll make it brief.
I was cohabiting with my girl back in the Uni, we have been like that for a few years , but then one day I came back to my lodge late in the night because I watched a football game on my way back from school. I opened my door and met my girl on the floor. She was motionless and her eyes were wide open, I checked her pulse but I couldn't feel anything. Her teeth and her palms were clenched tight. I panicked and just froze at the spot not knowing what to do. I then called a few people in the lodge and alerted them about what was happening but before I knew it , the whole lodge people have gathered in my room and outside the door.
Nobody could tell what must have happend to her. We thought about rushing her to hospital but the school clinic is closed and there are no good hospitals in the area because the school is in a remote location, and it was almost midnight at the time. Some people did different type of first aid on her , trying to see if they can revive her but after few hours there still wasn't any sign of life. People started suspecting that she might be dead and started taking somethings from their rooms and leaving the lodge immediately. Out of the 30 occupants of the lodge only one person (student pastor) remained with me. The rest ran away from the lodge ,even my best friend .🙁
The student pastor prayed and prayed to see if she will come back to life but nothing happend , at about 4am the Pastor told me that he has done everything he can and that it's in the hands of God now. He then went to his room. It was just the two of us left in the building.
I sat down in my room, I didn't know what to do, I couldn't cry , I thought about how I was going to be arrested and charged for murder when in truth I'm innocent, which nobody will believe because of nigeria justice system. I thought about my parents , how they sacrificed to send me to school not knowing I was cohabiting with a girl . At some point I thought about running away, but that will mean I'm guilty and perhaps how far and how long would I be on the run before I would be caught.
I didn't know who to call , I was just bereft of ideas. I decided I'll submit myself to the police in the morning and explain what happend and possibly face the consequences. As I sat there waiting for day to break, I started scrolling through my phone contacts. Mind you, I believe in God but I'm not a very religious person. I came across one pastor that gave me his phone number a long time ago. I then decided to just try my luck and call him. I called him and he picked up the call immediately as if he was waiting for the call. I wanted to tell him what's happening, but he cut me short and told me he already knows. That he was disturbed in the spirit and God revealed it to him so he started praying but he didn't know it was for my situation he was praying for at that time.
He told me I should not be afraid , that everything will be fine. He asked me if I have any sachet water around , I looked around and got a sachet water . He then asked me to put the phone ontop of the water so her can pray in it. I did as he asked. After praying , he then asked me to try and force open her mouth anyway I can pour some water inside ,then sprinkled the rest all over her body.
I did everything he instructed. He then told me that everything will be alright and ended the call. By then it was almost 6am in the morning. I just sat there starring at her , then I saw her hand move a little bit, I cleaned my eyes and got closer to her so as to be sure my eyes were not deceiving me. Her hand moved again , then her legs . Before I knew it she opened her eyes and sat up. I couldn't believe my eyes, I was in shock and was wondering if I'm imagining the whole thing.
Then she spoke and asked me what's happening, and why is her body wet with water . I rushed out and called the student pastor who came running in to witness the first miracle of my life. He was singing praises to God. I knelt down and prayed to God and thanked him for the first time in a very long time . I made her a cup of tea after which she has a shower.
At about 7am in the morning, none of my lodgemates have returned . I looked outside the gate from my room and saw some of them with other people gathered in small groups whispering, waiting to get the full gist of how my girl died in my room .
I called my bike guy to come to the lodge because I want to take her to the hospital for checkup, I then came down to the gate with my girlfriend. As they saw her , they opened their mouth with shock and we're too surprised to talk.
To cut the whole story short . I learnt some valuable lessons . Cohabiting with anybody you are not married is very risky, you wouldn't know the risk until something happens to him or her. The second lesson I learnt was that, when you get in trouble that's when you will know that you are alone, people will run away from you.
Anyways , we continued dating, but I rented an apartment for her so stay separately. I also stopped her from sleeping in my place. Untill we eventually parted ways after I graduated. Thank God for everything |