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I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by canada123: 12:59pm On Aug 23 |
Hi guys, I thought I would have overcome this act by now, posted awhile back about my lust with women and escort, and how I’ve been spending so much on escorts more than $300 per session and from 2022 till date have spent over $20,000 on both escorts, onlyfans models and all. I have a girlfriend I’m in a long distance relationship with in Nigeria , but haven’t told her about this part of me and this my addiction issues. I tried seeking a therapist but it was a pastor and lots of judgemental things were attached to the therapy session, I couldn’t continue with it. Honestly I feel so lost especially after seeing the escorts or paying, it’s affecting my work and can’t focus at work or anything, the little savings I have , all have been depleted, I try to save back and in a week I can go all out and deplete it again I need help / guidance. I’m 27 years old living in Canada I’m just lost and like I posted I think last year and was advised against it, I feel marriage would help me or make me stop. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by Yugoslavia247(m): 1:03pm On Aug 23 |
Look for a homeless gal and date. Give her house and food. She will pay you with sex. Make sure you sign contract. And make sure she falls in love with you. Forget your gf. Is it the money you spend that is paining you or the sex. It seems like it is the money thst is the problem 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by ActiveFarms: 1:04pm On Aug 23 |
Have you considered saving those money and use it in financing your girls trip to you so you can get married and contained ? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by canada123: 1:07pm On Aug 23 |
Yugoslavia247: Honestly , the money part , then the sex part too . Cause it’s my saving I keep depleting and using . I feel worthless 2 Likes |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by canada123: 1:11pm On Aug 23 |
ActiveFarms: She’s in nigeria, and Canada visa process takes a really long time . I considered coming to Nigeria but I’m even scared cause I don’t trust myself at all. I might be seeing upto 5 different girls a day, cause of how cheap hookup is in Nigeria, I think it’s like 100k or so, Hence why I’m afraid of visiting , I don’t know why this lust/burden is on me . It’s been going on for a long time, for a period I think it’s all gone away, then I see a beautiful picture on Instagram and from there it goes downhill . |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by HopeVictor: 1:15pm On Aug 23 |
I'd have suggested masturbation but una go say na bad thing. 13 Likes |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by ActiveFarms: 1:16pm On Aug 23 |
canada123: I have seen one problem. The total erosion of your inner will power and your complete lack of confidence in yourself. Can I recommend God ? Therapy and recovery would take years but it's not impossible 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by canada123: 1:18pm On Aug 23 |
I just spent $350 last night on an escort and $15 on onlyfans For a 1hr session with the escort , after going about 2 weeks without doing anything then I fell back again . I’m thinking of breaking up with my girlfriend and telling her the truth . She’s always seen me as an angel but clearly I’m a terrible person .
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Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by okoroemeka(m): 1:19pm On Aug 23 |
canada123:it is you and only you that have the power to change that,it is possible for you to refocus your mind away from sex,I remembered when I got married I decided to stop smoking weed,nobody pressured or counseled me I just sat down and called a meeting between my body and mind and told them what I want and for 25 yrs now no weed has pass my mouth,to win or lose depends on how you control your mind,only you has the power to win 23 Likes |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by canada123: 1:22pm On Aug 23 |
HopeVictor: I sadly engage in that too since 2013 in my first year in university. |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by Lalami3232(m): 1:24pm On Aug 23 |
Bros, it's better you waste those money there than date a Nigerian woman. Laslas, both of them na waste. The only difference there be say, you dey get benefit from one while you won't get benefit from the other. 1 Like |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by RealityKings: 3:17pm On Aug 23 |
canada123: You are at the age where you should have a permanent woman spend the night with. If you can look for a woman and marry her or sign a contract with... Its just nature telling you what is next. Nature wants you to have a partner. Getting married is the best solution to masturbating and patronizing hookers. I was listening to an Islamic cleric who said, there is a demon that influences masturbation by the time an average male is matured to have a wife but refuses. This age spans from 17 upwards. It made me think back and remember the age I started sleeping and waking up with Wet Dreams. So normally, for a male, by the time you are 17 to 20 and unmarried, masturbating will set in because you are not meeting "Nature's Standards" except if you are lucky to get a girlfriend during this phase. Now you are way matured you need to get a constant or permanent woman. 5 Likes |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by JustPowerApps(m): 3:40pm On Aug 23 |
The solution is more women |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by Kung: 3:44pm On Aug 23 |
canada123: Quote me your WhatsApp detail on a dead thread.. I can run a therapy session for you |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by ElectronicMoney(m): 3:52pm On Aug 23 |
JustPowerApps: I support this suggestion 2 Likes |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by canada123: 4:03pm On Aug 23 |
JustPowerApps: You setting me up for further destruction lol 1 Like |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by canada123: 4:04pm On Aug 23 |
RealityKings: This is quite enlightening |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by carl90(m): 4:04pm On Aug 23 |
Is there no beautiful lady over there at Canada you can have as a girlfriend or build a relationship with ? do not put so much hope in this long relationship with your girlfriend here at Nigeria . Personally ,I do not even fancy long distance relationship. Life is too short for that. You can't have so much cash with you and still be paying to have sex with a woman. It does not make sense. Get a good woman over there at Canada and build a serious relationship with her. Life na once o. 1 Like |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by Meteng: 4:07pm On Aug 23 |
As in, you’re knacking ashawo? 2 Likes |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by Mikespecialone(m): 4:11pm On Aug 23 |
Focus , my brother .......... Find someone to marry and make sure she likes Sex too ..... then problem solved |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by LIVINGICONREBOR: 4:20pm On Aug 23 |
True true, this one nah case of person wey get cap but no get head. Damn!! 🥱 2 Likes |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by canada123: 4:31pm On Aug 23 |
Meteng: Technically escort but I guess you right 2 Likes |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by canada123: 4:32pm On Aug 23 |
Mikespecialone: I guess so too, marriage would solve all this for good 1 Like |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by canada123: 4:32pm On Aug 23 |
carl90: There are but I barely go to church where you find them a lot, 1 Like |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by canada123: 4:32pm On Aug 23 |
LIVINGICONREBOR: You right I guess |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by LIVINGICONREBOR: 4:40pm On Aug 23 |
canada123: Do you know how many people are willing to trade places with you right now? You are in Canada and you still want to throw your life away. Please don't be unfortunate. |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by carl90(m): 4:46pm On Aug 23 |
common ! Is the church the only place you can find a nice lady over there in Canada. really ? canada123: |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by jlomz: 5:10pm On Aug 23 |
canada123: OP drop me a message and I'd will help you by God's grace. There's the place of one's personal responsibility, but the first thing to do to solve the root issue is where I suppose you're missing it. Drop me a message. |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by ValCon888: 5:18pm On Aug 23 |
You don't have game that's why escorts are ruining your life. 1 Like |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by canada123: 5:20pm On Aug 23 |
LIVINGICONREBOR: I know, I mean I literally saw myself personally through school and paid over 40k in fees . But lately I’m loosing focus cause of this act , it’s terrible and shameful . Just struggling badly 1 Like |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by canada123: 5:21pm On Aug 23 |
ValCon888: I guess you right, if I did probably should have had a girl now I guess |
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