Hi guys,

I thought I would have overcome this act by now, posted awhile back about my lust with women and escort, and how I’ve been spending so much on escorts more than $300 per session and from 2022 till date have spent over $20,000 on both escorts, onlyfans models and all. I have a girlfriend I’m in a long distance relationship with in Nigeria , but haven’t told her about this part of me and this my addiction issues. I tried seeking a therapist but it was a pastor and lots of judgemental things were attached to the therapy session, I couldn’t continue with it.

Honestly I feel so lost especially after seeing the escorts or paying, it’s affecting my work and can’t focus at work or anything, the little savings I have , all have been depleted, I try to save back and in a week I can go all out and deplete it again

I need help / guidance. I’m 27 years old living in Canada

I’m just lost and like I posted I think last year and was advised against it, I feel marriage would help me or make me stop.

Look for a homeless gal and date. Give her house and food. She will pay you with sex.

Make sure you sign contract. And make sure she falls in love with you.

Forget your gf. Is it the money you spend that is paining you or the sex.

It seems like it is the money thst is the problem

Have you considered saving those money and use it in financing your girls trip to you so you can get married and contained ?

Yugoslavia247:
Look for a homeless gal and date. Give her house and food. She will pay you with sex.

Make sure you sign contract. And make sure she falls in love with you.

Forget your gf. Is it the money you spend that is paining you or the sex.

It seems like it is the money thst is the problem

Honestly , the money part , then the sex part too . Cause it’s my saving I keep depleting and using . I feel worthless

ActiveFarms:
Have you considered saving those money and use it in financing your girls trip to you so you can get married and contained ?

She’s in nigeria, and Canada visa process takes a really long time . I considered coming to Nigeria but I’m even scared cause I don’t trust myself at all. I might be seeing upto 5 different girls a day, cause of how cheap hookup is in Nigeria, I think it’s like 100k or so,

Hence why I’m afraid of visiting ,

I don’t know why this lust/burden is on me . It’s been going on for a long time, for a period I think it’s all gone away, then I see a beautiful picture on Instagram and from there it goes downhill .

I'd have suggested masturbation but una go say na bad thing.

canada123:


She’s in nigeria, and Canada visa process takes a really long time . I considered coming to Nigeria but I’m even scared cause I don’t trust myself at all. I might be seeing upto 5 different girls a day, cause of how cheap hookup is in Nigeria, I think it’s like 100k or so,

Hence why I’m afraid of visiting ,

I don’t know why this lust/burden is on me . It’s been going on for a long time, for a period I think it’s all gone away, then I see a beautiful picture on Instagram and from there it goes downhill .

I have seen one problem. The total erosion of your inner will power and your complete lack of confidence in yourself.


Can I recommend God ? Therapy and recovery would take years but it's not impossible

I just spent $350 last night on an escort and $15 on onlyfans
For a 1hr session with the escort , after going about 2 weeks without doing anything then I fell back again .

I’m thinking of breaking up with my girlfriend and telling her the truth . She’s always seen me as an angel but clearly I’m a terrible person .

canada123:
Hi guys,

I thought I would have overcome this act by now, posted awhile back about my lust with women and escort, and how I’ve been spending so much on escorts more than $300 per session and from 2022 till date have spent over $20,000 on both escorts, onlyfans models and all. I have a girlfriend I’m in a long distance relationship with in Nigeria , but haven’t told her about this part of me and this my addiction issues. I tried seeking a therapist but it was a pastor and lots of judgemental things were attached to the therapy session, I couldn’t continue with it.

Honestly I feel so lost especially after seeing the escorts or paying, it’s affecting my work and can’t focus at work or anything, the little savings I have , all have been depleted, I try to save back and in a week I can go all out and deplete it again

I need help / guidance. I’m 28 years old living in Canada

I’m just lost and like I posted I think last year and was advised against it, I feel marriage would help me or make me stop.

it is you and only you that have the power to change that,it is possible for you to refocus your mind away from sex,I remembered when I got married I decided to stop smoking weed,nobody pressured or counseled me I just sat down and called a meeting between my body and mind and told them what I want and for 25 yrs now no weed has pass my mouth,to win or lose depends on how you control your mind,only you has the power to win

HopeVictor:
I'd have suggested masturbation but una go say na bad thing.

I sadly engage in that too since 2013 in my first year in university.

Bros, it's better you waste those money there than date a Nigerian woman. Laslas, both of them na waste. The only difference there be say, you dey get benefit from one while you won't get benefit from the other.

canada123:


I sadly engage in that too since 2013 in my first year in university.

You are at the age where you should have a permanent woman spend the night with. If you can look for a woman and marry her or sign a contract with...
Its just nature telling you what is next. Nature wants you to have a partner. Getting married is the best solution to masturbating and patronizing hookers.

I was listening to an Islamic cleric who said, there is a demon that influences masturbation by the time an average male is matured to have a wife but refuses. This age spans from 17 upwards.

It made me think back and remember the age I started sleeping and waking up with Wet Dreams. So normally, for a male, by the time you are 17 to 20 and unmarried, masturbating will set in because you are not meeting "Nature's Standards" except if you are lucky to get a girlfriend during this phase.

Now you are way matured you need to get a constant or permanent woman.

The solution is more women

canada123:
Hi guys,

I thought I would have overcome this act by now, posted awhile back about my lust with women and escort, and how I’ve been spending so much on escorts more than $300 per session and from 2022 till date have spent over $20,000 on both escorts, onlyfans models and all. I have a girlfriend I’m in a long distance relationship with in Nigeria , but haven’t told her about this part of me and this my addiction issues. I tried seeking a therapist but it was a pastor and lots of judgemental things were attached to the therapy session, I couldn’t continue with it.

Honestly I feel so lost especially after seeing the escorts or paying, it’s affecting my work and can’t focus at work or anything, the little savings I have , all have been depleted, I try to save back and in a week I can go all out and deplete it again

I need help / guidance. I’m 27 years old living in Canada

I’m just lost and like I posted I think last year and was advised against it, I feel marriage would help me or make me stop.

Quote me your WhatsApp detail on a dead thread.. I can run a therapy session for you

JustPowerApps:
The solution is more women

I support this suggestion

JustPowerApps:
The solution is more women

You setting me up for further destruction lol

RealityKings:



You are at the age where you should have a permanent woman spend the night with. If you can look for a woman and marry her or sign a contract with...
Its just nature telling you what is next. Nature wants you to have a partner. Getting married is the best solution to masturbating and patronizing hookers.

I was listening to an Islamic cleric who said, there is a demon that influences masturbation by the time an average male is matured to have a wife but refuses. This age spans from 17 upwards.

It made me think back and remember the age I started sleeping and waking up with Wet Dreams. So normally, for a male, by the time you are 17 to 20 and unmarried, masturbating will set in because you are not meeting "Nature's Standards" except if you are lucky to get a girlfriend during this phase.

Now you are way matured you need to get a constant or permanent woman.

This is quite enlightening

Is there no beautiful lady over there at Canada you can have as a girlfriend or build a relationship with ?
do not put so much hope in this long relationship with your girlfriend here at Nigeria .
Personally ,I do not even fancy long distance relationship.
Life is too short for that.
You can't have so much cash with you and still be paying to have sex with a woman.
It does not make sense.
Get a good woman over there at Canada and build a serious relationship with her.
Life na once o.

As in, you’re knacking ashawo?

Focus , my brother .......... Find someone to marry and make sure she likes Sex too ..... then problem solved

True true, this one nah case of person wey get cap but no get head. Damn!! 🥱

Meteng:
As in, you’re knacking ashawo?

Technically escort but I guess you right

Mikespecialone:
Focus , my brother .......... Find someone to marry and make sure she likes Sex too ..... then problem solved

I guess so too, marriage would solve all this for good

carl90:
Is there no beautiful lady over there at Canada you can have as a girlfriend or build a relationship with ?
do not put so much hope in this long relationship with your girlfriend here at Nigeria .
Personally ,I do not even fancy long distance relationship.
Life is too short for that.
You can't have so much cash with you and still be paying to have sex with a woman.
It does not make sense.
Get a good woman over there at Canada and build a
serious relationship with her.
Life na once o.

There are but I barely go to church where you find them a lot,

LIVINGICONREBOR:
True true, this one nah case of person wey get cap but no get head. Damn!! 🥱

You right I guess

canada123:


You right I guess

Do you know how many people are willing to trade places with you right now? You are in Canada and you still want to throw your life away. Please don't be unfortunate.

common !
Is the church the only place you can find a nice lady over there in Canada.
really ?

canada123:


There are but I barely go to church where you find them a lot,

canada123:
Hi guys,

I thought I would have overcome this act by now, posted awhile back about my lust with women and escort, and how I’ve been spending so much on escorts more than $300 per session and from 2022 till date have spent over $20,000 on both escorts, onlyfans models and all. I have a girlfriend I’m in a long distance relationship with in Nigeria , but haven’t told her about this part of me and this my addiction issues. I tried seeking a therapist but it was a pastor and lots of judgemental things were attached to the therapy session, I couldn’t continue with it.

Honestly I feel so lost especially after seeing the escorts or paying, it’s affecting my work and can’t focus at work or anything, the little savings I have , all have been depleted, I try to save back and in a week I can go all out and deplete it again

I need help / guidance. I’m 27 years old living in Canada

I’m just lost and like I posted I think last year and was advised against it, I feel marriage would help me or make me stop.

OP drop me a message and I'd will help you by God's grace.

There's the place of one's personal responsibility, but the first thing to do to solve the root issue is where I suppose you're missing it.

Drop me a message.

You don't have game that's why escorts are ruining your life.

LIVINGICONREBOR:


Do you know how many people are willing to trade places with you right now? You are in Canada and you still want to throw your life away. Please don't be unfortunate.

I know, I mean I literally saw myself personally through school and paid over 40k in fees . But lately I’m loosing focus cause of this act , it’s terrible and shameful . Just struggling badly

ValCon888:
You don't have game that's why escorts are ruining your life.

I guess you right, if I did probably should have had a girl now I guess