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Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by RenaissanceGuy: 5:05pm On Aug 23
Hope the also pastor warned you to stay away from cohabitation and fornication.
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by Jh0wsef(m): 5:10pm On Aug 23
KingintheNorth:
Let me tell you a a true life story.


It actually happend about 10 years ago but the memories will live with me forever . Although I have not talked about it on social media but I feel like telling the story so that people will learn. It's a long story but I'll make it brief.

I was cohabiting with my girl back in the Uni, we have been like that for a few years , but then one day I came back to my lodge late in the night because I watched a football game on my way back from school. I opened my door and met my girl on the floor. She was motionless and her eyes were wide open, I checked her pulse but I couldn't feel anything. Her teeth and her palms were clenched tight. I panicked and just froze at the spot not knowing what to do. I then called a few people in the lodge and alerted them about what was happening but before I knew it , the whole lodge people have gathered in my room and outside the door.

Nobody could tell what must have happend to her. We thought about rushing her to hospital but the school clinic is closed and there are no good hospitals in the area because the school is in a remote location, and it was almost midnight at the time. Some people did different type of first aid on her , trying to see if they can revive her but after few hours there still wasn't any sign of life.
People started suspecting that she might be dead and started taking somethings from their rooms and leaving the lodge immediately. Out of the 30 occupants of the lodge only one person (student pastor) remained with me. The rest ran away from the lodge ,even my best friend .πŸ™

The student pastor prayed and prayed to see if she will come back to life but nothing happend , at about 4am the Pastor told me that he has done everything he can and that it's in the hands of God now. He then went to his room. It was just the two of us left in the building.

I sat down in my room, I didn't know what to do, I couldn't cry , I thought about how I was going to be arrested and charged for murder when in truth I'm innocent, which nobody will believe because of nigeria justice system. I thought about my parents , how they sacrificed to send me to school not knowing I was cohabiting with a girl . At some point I thought about running away, but that will mean I'm guilty and perhaps how far and how long would I be on the run before I would be caught.

I didn't know who to call , I was just bereft of ideas. I decided I'll submit myself to the police in the morning and explain what happend and possibly face the consequences. As I sat there waiting for day to break, I started scrolling through my phone contacts.
Mind you, I believe in God but I'm not a very religious person. I came across one pastor that gave me his phone number a long time ago. I then decided to just try my luck and call him. I called him and he picked up the call immediately as if he was waiting for the call.
I wanted to tell him what's happening, but he cut me short and told me he already knows. That he was disturbed in the spirit and God revealed it to him so he started praying but he didn't know it was for my situation he was praying for at that time.

He told me I should not be afraid , that everything will be fine. He asked me if I have any sachet water around , I looked around and got a sachet water . He then asked me to put the phone ontop of the water so her can pray in it. I did as he asked. After praying , he then asked me to try and force open her mouth anyway I can pour some water inside ,then sprinkled the rest all over her body.

I did everything he instructed. He then told me that everything will be alright and ended the call. By then it was almost 6am in the morning. I just sat there starring at her , then I saw her hand move a little bit, I cleaned my eyes and got closer to her so as to be sure my eyes were not deceiving me. Her hand moved again , then her legs . Before I knew it she opened her eyes and sat up. I couldn't believe my eyes, I was in shock and was wondering if I'm imagining the whole thing.

Then she spoke and asked me what's happening, and why is her body wet with water . I rushed out and called the student pastor who came running in to witness the first miracle of my life. He was singing praises to God. I knelt down and prayed to God and thanked him for the first time in a very long time . I made her a cup of tea after which she has a shower.

At about 7am in the morning, none of my lodgemates have returned . I looked outside the gate from my room and saw some of them with other people gathered in small groups whispering, waiting to get the full gist of how my girl died in my room .

I called my bike guy to come to the lodge because I want to take her to the hospital for checkup, I then came down to the gate with my girlfriend. As they saw her , they opened their mouth with shock and we're too surprised to talk.

To cut the whole story short . I learnt some valuable lessons . Cohabiting with anybody you are not married is very risky, you wouldn't know the risk until something happens to him or her.
The second lesson I learnt was that, when you get in trouble that's when you will know that you are alone, people will run away from you.

Anyways , we continued dating, but I rented an apartment for her so stay separately. I also stopped her from sleeping in my place. Untill we eventually parted ways after I graduated.


How true is this
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by GreatOchuks: 5:14pm On Aug 23
redcliff:


Lol. Una dey mad. Really. Na this flipped mentality and behaviors vdm dey fight for una bit you guys do not understand. He did not kill the person, its a bailable charge especially given the fact of the case, so why should he be remanded in prison for what exactly? Make una change this nonsense mentality una dey carry about, na wetin make una give army leg to be behaving anyhpw to you guys

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£ , What did I just read ?
Calling a Charge of Murder plus Conspiracy "A bailable Charge"
A whole Capital offence.
πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ I pray you are never indicted to learn the hard way .
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by CreatedtwoRule: 5:32pm On Aug 23
Who knows it would have been ten years behinh bars by now? It's a lesson not to leave your spirit hollow! , We all must be tested One way or the in life, your believe in a higher power not churchiness would answer at that moment. Even if not God believe in something but why not God through his son? Those two saved me from ASP Atine Daniel and DCP Abba Kyari's bullet one on one, Afterwards I believe anything that can stop bullet an advance technology gun to kill someone with no single jas on could be a God, that was how I stopped deconstructing my faith cos I was in the process then! Hillux load of dead bodies drove pass after I fled the scene I'm sure headed for close by morgue. Funny thing was I remember rejecting a tract from an evangelist shortly before the movie played out! You have a big testimony bro!
KingintheNorth:
Let me tell you a a true life story.


It actually happend about 10 years ago but the memories will live with me forever . Although I have not talked about it on social media but I feel like telling the story so that people will learn. It's a long story but I'll make it brief.

I was cohabiting with my girl back in the Uni, we have been like that for a few years , but then one day I came back to my lodge late in the night because I watched a football game on my way back from school. I opened my door and met my girl on the floor. She was motionless and her eyes were wide open, I checked her pulse but I couldn't feel anything. Her teeth and her palms were clenched tight. I panicked and just froze at the spot not knowing what to do. I then called a few people in the lodge and alerted them about what was happening but before I knew it , the whole lodge people have gathered in my room and outside the door.

Nobody could tell what must have happend to her. We thought about rushing her to hospital but the school clinic is closed and there are no good hospitals in the area because the school is in a remote location, and it was almost midnight at the time. Some people did different type of first aid on her , trying to see if they can revive her but after few hours there still wasn't any sign of life.
People started suspecting that she might be dead and started taking somethings from their rooms and leaving the lodge immediately. Out of the 30 occupants of the lodge only one person (student pastor) remained with me. The rest ran away from the lodge ,even my best friend .πŸ™

The student pastor prayed and prayed to see if she will come back to life but nothing happend , at about 4am the Pastor told me that he has done everything he can and that it's in the hands of God now. He then went to his room. It was just the two of us left in the building.

I sat down in my room, I didn't know what to do, I couldn't cry , I thought about how I was going to be arrested and charged for murder when in truth I'm innocent, which nobody will believe because of nigeria justice system. I thought about my parents , how they sacrificed to send me to school not knowing I was cohabiting with a girl . At some point I thought about running away, but that will mean I'm guilty and perhaps how far and how long would I be on the run before I would be caught.

I didn't know who to call , I was just bereft of ideas. I decided I'll submit myself to the police in the morning and explain what happend and possibly face the consequences. As I sat there waiting for day to break, I started scrolling through my phone contacts.
Mind you, I believe in God but I'm not a very religious person. I came across one pastor that gave me his phone number a long time ago. I then decided to just try my luck and call him. I called him and he picked up the call immediately as if he was waiting for the call.
I wanted to tell him what's happening, but he cut me short and told me he already knows. That he was disturbed in the spirit and God revealed it to him so he started praying but he didn't know it was for my situation he was praying for at that time.

He told me I should not be afraid , that everything will be fine. He asked me if I have any sachet water around , I looked around and got a sachet water . He then asked me to put the phone ontop of the water so her can pray in it. I did as he asked. After praying , he then asked me to try and force open her mouth anyway I can pour some water inside ,then sprinkled the rest all over her body.

I did everything he instructed. He then told me that everything will be alright and ended the call. By then it was almost 6am in the morning. I just sat there starring at her , then I saw her hand move a little bit, I cleaned my eyes and got closer to her so as to be sure my eyes were not deceiving me. Her hand moved again , then her legs . Before I knew it she opened her eyes and sat up. I couldn't believe my eyes, I was in shock and was wondering if I'm imagining the whole thing.

Then she spoke and asked me what's happening, and why is her body wet with water . I rushed out and called the student pastor who came running in to witness the first miracle of my life. He was singing praises to God. I knelt down and prayed to God and thanked him for the first time in a very long time . I made her a cup of tea after which she has a shower.

At about 7am in the morning, none of my lodgemates have returned . I looked outside the gate from my room and saw some of them with other people gathered in small groups whispering, waiting to get the full gist of how my girl died in my room .

I called my bike guy to come to the lodge because I want to take her to the hospital for checkup, I then came down to the gate with my girlfriend. As they saw her , they opened their mouth with shock and we're too surprised to talk.

To cut the whole story short . I learnt some valuable lessons . Cohabiting with anybody you are not married is very risky, you wouldn't know the risk until something happens to him or her.
The second lesson I learnt was that, when you get in trouble that's when you will know that you are alone, people will run away from you.

Anyways , we continued dating, but I rented an apartment for her so stay separately. I also stopped her from sleeping in my place. Untill we eventually parted ways after I graduated.
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by TrainPark: 5:45pm On Aug 23
hstar:

My thought was
Maybe after she spent one or two days

U just threw away the idea of using condom
But as great as the sex was, did the woman contacted you afterwards? Say, maybe some months after, since she's got your contact already?

No, never made that mistake!

I spoke to her on WhatsApp even yesterday sef.

Na my padi she still be!!!
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by sam121(m): 6:11pm On Aug 23
chigoziri2403:

What was her explanation when she woke up
Same thing happened to me,it was by divine intervention

Please share your story with us brother man...
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by Proserpina: 6:31pm On Aug 23
folake4u:


Lol. 99% of NL trolls fall into this category.

They're averse to growth. You see them fooling themselves year in, year out and viola! 10years has past with nothing substantial to show proof of existence other than trolling.

Later they will say women are bad. They live worthless lifestyles and expect women to manage them.

Nonsense and Nl trolls
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by folake4u(f): 6:58pm On Aug 23
Proserpina:
Later they will say women are bad. They live worthless lifestyles and expect women to manage them.

Nonsense and Nl trolls

Don't mind them.

Big nonsense.
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by livebullet(m): 8:27pm On Aug 23
KingintheNorth:
Let me tell you a a true life story.


It actually happend about 10 years ago but the memories will live with me forever . Although I have not talked about it on social media but I feel like telling the story so that people will learn. It's a long story but I'll make it brief.

I was cohabiting with my girl back in the Uni, we have been like that for a few years , but then one day I came back to my lodge late in the night because I watched a football game on my way back from school. I opened my door and met my girl on the floor. She was motionless and her eyes were wide open, I checked her pulse but I couldn't feel anything. Her teeth and her palms were clenched tight. I panicked and just froze at the spot not knowing what to do. I then called a few people in the lodge and alerted them about what was happening but before I knew it , the whole lodge people have gathered in my room and outside the door.

Nobody could tell what must have happend to her. We thought about rushing her to hospital but the school clinic is closed and there are no good hospitals in the area because the school is in a remote location, and it was almost midnight at the time. Some people did different type of first aid on her , trying to see if they can revive her but after few hours there still wasn't any sign of life.
People started suspecting that she might be dead and started taking somethings from their rooms and leaving the lodge immediately. Out of the 30 occupants of the lodge only one person (student pastor) remained with me. The rest ran away from the lodge ,even my best friend .πŸ™

The student pastor prayed and prayed to see if she will come back to life but nothing happend , at about 4am the Pastor told me that he has done everything he can and that it's in the hands of God now. He then went to his room. It was just the two of us left in the building.

I sat down in my room, I didn't know what to do, I couldn't cry , I thought about how I was going to be arrested and charged for murder when in truth I'm innocent, which nobody will believe because of nigeria justice system. I thought about my parents , how they sacrificed to send me to school not knowing I was cohabiting with a girl . At some point I thought about running away, but that will mean I'm guilty and perhaps how far and how long would I be on the run before I would be caught.

I didn't know who to call , I was just bereft of ideas. I decided I'll submit myself to the police in the morning and explain what happend and possibly face the consequences. As I sat there waiting for day to break, I started scrolling through my phone contacts.
Mind you, I believe in God but I'm not a very religious person. I came across one pastor that gave me his phone number a long time ago. I then decided to just try my luck and call him. I called him and he picked up the call immediately as if he was waiting for the call.
I wanted to tell him what's happening, but he cut me short and told me he already knows. That he was disturbed in the spirit and God revealed it to him so he started praying but he didn't know it was for my situation he was praying for at that time.

He told me I should not be afraid , that everything will be fine. He asked me if I have any sachet water around , I looked around and got a sachet water . He then asked me to put the phone ontop of the water so her can pray in it. I did as he asked. After praying , he then asked me to try and force open her mouth anyway I can pour some water inside ,then sprinkled the rest all over her body.

I did everything he instructed. He then told me that everything will be alright and ended the call. By then it was almost 6am in the morning. I just sat there starring at her , then I saw her hand move a little bit, I cleaned my eyes and got closer to her so as to be sure my eyes were not deceiving me. Her hand moved again , then her legs . Before I knew it she opened her eyes and sat up. I couldn't believe my eyes, I was in shock and was wondering if I'm imagining the whole thing.

Then she spoke and asked me what's happening, and why is her body wet with water . I rushed out and called the student pastor who came running in to witness the first miracle of my life. He was singing praises to God. I knelt down and prayed to God and thanked him for the first time in a very long time . I made her a cup of tea after which she has a shower.

At about 7am in the morning, none of my lodgemates have returned . I looked outside the gate from my room and saw some of them with other people gathered in small groups whispering, waiting to get the full gist of how my girl died in my room .

I called my bike guy to come to the lodge because I want to take her to the hospital for checkup, I then came down to the gate with my girlfriend. As they saw her , they opened their mouth with shock and we're too surprised to talk.

To cut the whole story short . I learnt some valuable lessons . Cohabiting with anybody you are not married is very risky, you wouldn't know the risk until something happens to him or her.
The second lesson I learnt was that, when you get in trouble that's when you will know that you are alone, people will run away from you.

Anyways , we continued dating, but I rented an apartment for her so stay separately. I also stopped her from sleeping in my place. Untill we eventually parted ways after I graduated.

No vex, but this story is a lie sir...
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by hstar: 8:48pm On Aug 23
TrainPark:


No, never made that mistake!

I spoke to her on WhatsApp even yesterday sef.

Na my padi she still be!!!
Alright boss
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by dododawa1: 9:19pm On Aug 23
Lie Muhammad
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by Duchexx: 9:55pm On Aug 23
Orlu13:



omo dis virginity issue really pain u sha...I didn't even bother to read wat u wrote... I didn't know dat dis can really pain non-virgins like u dis way...but lemme jst ask u...

since u know loosing ur virginity can get u angry, why did u lose it with jst indomie nd eggs undecided

I just finish for the night with your mama. Such a useless womanπŸ˜…πŸ˜‚πŸ€£ no man gree carry am. She dey street dey hustle..pikin dey nairaland dey disgrace himself. What a pity!😭
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by ellizy(m): 10:14pm On Aug 23
When I saw the topic, the only thing that comes to my mind was GBESE!*
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by hanymasahun: 10:22pm On Aug 23
Click like If you don't believe the story S of you believe
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by chigoziri2403(m): 12:43am On Aug 24
sam121:


Please share your story with us brother man...
Sure will
It's somewhat lengthy to type, I might do that in my free time
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by Konquest: 4:35am On Aug 24
KingintheNorth:
Let me tell you a a true life story.


It actually happend about 10 years ago but the memories will live with me forever . Although I have not talked about it on social media but I feel like telling the story so that people will learn. It's a long story but I'll make it brief.

I was cohabiting with my girl back in the Uni, we have been like that for a few years , but then one day I came back to my lodge late in the night because I watched a football game on my way back from school. I opened my door and met my girl on the floor. She was motionless and her eyes were wide open, I checked her pulse but I couldn't feel anything. Her teeth and her palms were clenched tight. I panicked and just froze at the spot not knowing what to do. I then called a few people in the lodge and alerted them about what was happening but before I knew it , the whole lodge people have gathered in my room and outside the door.

Nobody could tell what must have happend to her. We thought about rushing her to hospital but the school clinic is closed and there are no good hospitals in the area because the school is in a remote location, and it was almost midnight at the time. Some people did different type of first aid on her , trying to see if they can revive her but after few hours there still wasn't any sign of life.
People started suspecting that she might be dead and started taking somethings from their rooms and leaving the lodge immediately. Out of the 30 occupants of the lodge only one person (student pastor) remained with me. The rest ran away from the lodge ,even my best friend .πŸ™

The student pastor prayed and prayed to see if she will come back to life but nothing happend , at about 4am the Pastor told me that he has done everything he can and that it's in the hands of God now. He then went to his room. It was just the two of us left in the building.

I sat down in my room, I didn't know what to do, I couldn't cry , I thought about how I was going to be arrested and charged for murder when in truth I'm innocent, which nobody will believe because of nigeria justice system. I thought about my parents , how they sacrificed to send me to school not knowing I was cohabiting with a girl . At some point I thought about running away, but that will mean I'm guilty and perhaps how far and how long would I be on the run before I would be caught.

I didn't know who to call , I was just bereft of ideas. I decided I'll submit myself to the police in the morning and explain what happend and possibly face the consequences. As I sat there waiting for day to break, I started scrolling through my phone contacts.
Mind you, I believe in God but I'm not a very religious person. I came across one pastor that gave me his phone number a long time ago. I then decided to just try my luck and call him. I called him and he picked up the call immediately as if he was waiting for the call.
I wanted to tell him what's happening, but he cut me short and told me he already knows. That he was disturbed in the spirit and God revealed it to him so he started praying but he didn't know it was for my situation he was praying for at that time.

He told me I should not be afraid , that everything will be fine. He asked me if I have any sachet water around , I looked around and got a sachet water . He then asked me to put the phone ontop of the water so her can pray in it. I did as he asked. After praying , he then asked me to try and force open her mouth anyway I can pour some water inside ,then sprinkled the rest all over her body.

I did everything he instructed. He then told me that everything will be alright and ended the call. By then it was almost 6am in the morning. I just sat there starring at her , then I saw her hand move a little bit, I cleaned my eyes and got closer to her so as to be sure my eyes were not deceiving me. Her hand moved again , then her legs . Before I knew it she opened her eyes and sat up. I couldn't believe my eyes, I was in shock and was wondering if I'm imagining the whole thing.

Then she spoke and asked me what's happening, and why is her body wet with water . I rushed out and called the student pastor who came running in to witness the first miracle of my life. He was singing praises to God. I knelt down and prayed to God and thanked him for the first time in a very long time . I made her a cup of tea after which she has a shower.

At about 7am in the morning, none of my lodgemates have returned . I looked outside the gate from my room and saw some of them with other people gathered in small groups whispering, waiting to get the full gist of how my girl died in my room .

I called my bike guy to come to the lodge because I want to take her to the hospital for checkup, I then came down to the gate with my girlfriend. As they saw her , they opened their mouth with shock and we're too surprised to talk.

To cut the whole story short . I learnt some valuable lessons . Cohabiting with anybody you are not married is very risky, you wouldn't know the risk until something happens to him or her.
The second lesson I learnt was that, when you get in trouble that's when you will know that you are alone, people will run away from you.

Anyways , we continued dating, but I rented an apartment for her so stay separately. I also stopped her from sleeping in my place. Untill we eventually parted ways after I graduated.
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by Nnamdipapa(m): 8:44am On Aug 24
Duchexx:


I just finish for the night with your mama. Such a useless womanπŸ˜…πŸ˜‚πŸ€£ no man gree carry am. She dey street dey hustle..pikin dey nairaland dey disgrace himself. What a pity!😭

Why abuse his mother?
Your mother did a bad job raising you. Tueh!

What a nasty girl.
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by delishpot: 11:58am On Aug 24
Majesty7:


The truth is, it only feels like you were in a deep sleep. You feel and hear nothing. However, if you say, you've been there before and woke up in a bright place, who am I to argue with you? You went there alone and you are free to describe what you saw.

I am just stating the obvious. I have also been there and saw nothing. I could as well told you I saw angels but I am not cut from such cloth.

If you didn't see angels why would you claim you did? Get it? You prolly were in the first phase. The darkness phase. In my case, I went black before I awoke to a new peaceful world.
So if you went and saw angels then it is what it is. Many people don't see angels anyways. They meet someone or people related to them. Some even meet people they didn't know existed in their families only to wake up, investigate and find out that they had a relative that died in childhood or looong before they were even conceived.
I didn't see angels or anybody. When I passed the blank phase, I transitioned to a beautiful field with plants where colors can be felt. Our world is a joke beside that one.
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by Maysdevices(f): 12:16pm On Aug 24
Orlu13:


I don't see any woman here...only h*es
Takes one that came from one to know one
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by betwise2024(m): 3:41am On Aug 25
Lucky you, op. Lucky you.
I also went through something similar, but not as dire, on two different occasions and girls. To reply those arguing against your advice, I have posted my own experience in romance section
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by Rexymania(m): 7:33am On Aug 25
ucheuzor1:


There is nothing to see. You will blank out and not remember anything. I had similar situation but definitely not dead for long. I was already dead. It's by God's mercy that am still typing this.

Hmmm
Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by meobizy(f): 6:19am On Aug 27
Nairaland spreading lies again. I curse you children.

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