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Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by canada123: 5:21pm On Aug 23 |
carl90: Not the only place but I guess the easiest and fastest, cause I think lots of Nigerian girls are there |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by WantsandMore: 5:42pm On Aug 23 |
Wahala…What’s your income that you’re spending so much on pleasure? |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by techgen(m): 6:02pm On Aug 23 |
Op…I nor believe your story, for same Canada wey my guys Dey get am for free…or maybe probably you’re not good looking and lacks composure with women. Even with Tinder or bumble you’ll get free fu*k in Canada on a stead. |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by YoungDaNaval(m): 6:04pm On Aug 23 |
Whatever you do sha don't sponsor any girl from Nigeria to Canada because you want to marry her. You'll regret it on the long run. Look for a girl over there and date or marry 3 Likes |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by Oscarchims: 6:24pm On Aug 23 |
YoungDaNaval:Savage😂😂😂😂 |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by Zaheertyler(m): 7:14pm On Aug 23 |
canada123:Let’s pray together sir if you don’t mind 🙏 It’s not a must..but a bigger authority than that of what is holding you bound can help you.. Not by my power but by him who is willing to help you All I need from you is to open your heart and after I pray with you you will find a Bible believing church to be of service in |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by eniolorunfe: 7:20pm On Aug 23 |
canada123: I think part of your problem is the negative terms or negativity you are attaching to the fact that you have a high libido. You first need to accept that s*x is a beautiful thing and accept that aspect of yourself. This is where therapy comes in. If you’re serious about therapy, go seek help from a professional therapist in Canada. They can’t be that hard to find. It’s also obvious that long distance relationship is not working for you, so look for someone who is within your reach for a committed relationship. Make sure you both are sexually compatible, it’s a must! 1 Like |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by ObalendeCMS: 7:29pm On Aug 23 |
Forget that your girl for Nigeria; some dude is busy screwing her like no tomorrow. Nigerian girls are low-key prostitutes, especially if their lovers aren't near & they know they can easily get away with it! 3 Likes |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by LIVINGICONREBOR: 8:33pm On Aug 23 |
canada123: Only you can save yourself. You are still quite young but this is when you really need to put in the work on yourself. If you have a high libido what stop you from having a sex partner over there rather than wasting your resources on different women? |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by brodalikeme(m): 8:53pm On Aug 23 |
So many people on the platform, giving wrong, senseless advice because they don’t understand your pain. I feel your pain of addiction. I have been there. What you are doing is unnatural and will destroy you beyond what it had already done to you. I know aside escort, onlyfans, masturbation, there will be others too. Pornography is certainly part of this corktail as well. I’m also sure you do alcohol. I know, I have been there.. Sexual sin I’d one of the most ravenous vices to fall into. It’s will cause you stagnation, dis favour, poor self assessment etc. The truth is that you can quit all of these. I know you can, your spirit is already resisting these lifestyle. You need to start taking radical steps to overcome all these. YOU CAN OVERCOME ALL THESE TODAY IF YOU WANT. If I can be clean, then you can. If you want we can talk. I pray for you, and I break the hold of satan over your life. May the spirit of God guide you, live big inside you and give you the grace to overcome sin in Jesus name-amen. |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by Mosdiii(m): 8:53pm On Aug 23 |
canada123: I am also battling this addiction. I love women so much presently I am dating 5 girls simultaneously including other girls who i still meet. I am 35 years old and very comfortable. The strange thing is that all this girls are below 24 years old. I just don't know how to stop this sex addiction |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by 1Sharon(f): 9:05pm On Aug 23 |
ActiveFarms: Marriage wouldn't stop people like this! He has an addiction and it need to be cured. 1 Like |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by canada123: 9:50pm On Aug 23 |
eniolorunfe: Hmm, would work on breaking up with her, though she didn’t do anything to me at all, I just feel bad breaking up with her , but I need a partner here that would help out and all I guess |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by canada123: 9:51pm On Aug 23 |
LIVINGICONREBOR: You used the right word, wasting valuable resources, I would break up with my girl In Nigeria and then look for someone here |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by canada123: 9:56pm On Aug 23 |
brodalikeme: I think you understand my situation very well, though I don’t do alcohol or smoke but I do the rest. It’s so hard and I feel like I’m in a hole, I lost my virginity at 13 in ss1 and it’s been off and on, but of recent it’s been terrible so so terrible , cause of the money I’m spending on escorts and onlyfans models . Though I didn’t do it , but I once almost paid about $1,500 for an hour to a IndecentStar that stays in Buffalo New York and was willing to drive to New York to see her , it’s about 1hr drive from Niagara Ontario . But I didn’t do it though , but the thought of doing it alone scares me, I’ve watched so many of her videos and wanted to experience it in real life . It’s terrible. I need to turn away from this path otherwise it would completely destroy me totally . 2 Likes |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by canada123: 9:57pm On Aug 23 |
Mosdiii: Oh really you in similar situation, that’s sad, are you married? I hope we both find redemption and salvation |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by canada123: 9:58pm On Aug 23 |
1Sharon: Really, I thought it would, I’m already looking forward to possibly getting married soon if possible next year and have access to sex as long as I want I guess. 1 Like |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by canada123: 9:58pm On Aug 23 |
Zaheertyler: Would really appreciate it |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by canada123: 10:01pm On Aug 23 |
techgen: I joined tinder once, and have a profile there too, maybe I don’t have game lol I think, |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by canada123: 10:10pm On Aug 23 |
Just curious, how best to go about this She’s not done anything wrong to me and have been very nice and sweet since we crossed path, but I’m living a double life and she dosen’t know the other side of me which is this side of addiction Should I tell her the whole truth and breakup with her or I don’t need to tell her anything and just break up with her? Though she knows my family members and have their contacts, and if I tell her the whole truth, my mum or siblings might know the shameful thing I’ve been into for years now secretly, and I’m a pastors son too , Just complicated now, this stuff is hard . Just to make matters worse and add more context to how complicated it is, I made a terrible mistake She’s 22 year old I’m 27 year old, she’s currently doing her NYSC and she’s in Lagos, since all my family members have relocated I told her she can stay in our family house , since no one is literally there except I think my cousin or so . So breaking up with her in this situation, how best can I approach it please guys? I really need help 1 Like |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by Zaheertyler(m): 10:19pm On Aug 23 |
canada123:How do I contact you? Or should I type it out for you to repeat |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by sabbiboi: 10:19pm On Aug 23 |
Marriage will not bring a lasting solution to your problems, don’t mind all those telling you to get married. The truth is, you’re battling an addiction of sexual lust with females. You get turned on by what you see mostly on the internet (which I also see), and it affects a majority of guys, not me though. I can’t tell you to do this or that as a solution, it may not work for you. Certainly, the first thing to do in solving a problem is to define the problem. Which you have defined that you spend a lot on escorts, and you want to stop. A determined mind will stop that rubbish, but I doubt if it will be easy or happen quickly, because I realize you are far deep in the ocean of debauchery. Yes, you can quit. It’s all in the mind. Warning, that your Nigerian girlfriend may be your worst nightmare, when you later discover she’s not an angel, you supposedly know. I doubt it 99.9%. You go dey trust all these Nigerian gurls. To crown it all, a long distance relationship from Canada to Nigeria. LWKMD, toto wey dem dey service steady. Redefine your life and purpose if you want greatness. Better still, try to get a girlfriend within that county if you know sex is so important to you. |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by akube34: 10:21pm On Aug 23 |
canada123:I remember your post, but can’t you find someone on a dating site? 1 Like |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by canada123: 10:24pm On Aug 23 |
akube34: I sadly haven’t , instead I was doing a long distance relationship and it’s been over a year now and clearly it’s not working at all and it’s been a mess. Cheating is an understatement, I’ve literally lied to her everyday for one year straight , what breaks me is how would I break up with her , |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by anslemarinze52(m): 12:05am On Aug 24 |
canada123: Chief!!! Try see a way you can manage the situation and never allow it to affect yur source of income. It not like as if what you’re doing is extremely bad, just try yuur best not to allow it affect yur source of income!!!. By the way, gifting me 20 Canadian dollar wouldn’t be a big deal, make I enjoy this weekend. |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by haybhi1(m): 1:29am On Aug 24 |
RealityKings:damn, may I concede to being stupid the day I take this guy's talk serious again |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by nairaman66(m): 7:06am On Aug 24 |
I hope your savings run dry, only then you can have sense! 2 Likes |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by LoveJesus87(m): 7:53am On Aug 24 |
canada123:then start GOING!!!! |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by Nnamdipapa(m): 8:02am On Aug 24 |
Anytime you are in Nigeria, just send an email to a Nairalander. She does not charge a lot and will satisfy you even though she is very ugly. Her email is We4all@gmail.com. Save this email bro and you will thank me later. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by Vic11p(m): 8:48am On Aug 24 |
canada123: Inbox me I have a solution for you and I once like that but I am very happy with my life now happily married now |
Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by We4all: 8:53am On Aug 24 |
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