carl90:
common !
Is the church the only place you can find a nice lady over there in Canada.
really ?

Not the only place but I guess the easiest and fastest, cause I think lots of Nigerian girls are there

Wahala…What’s your income that you’re spending so much on pleasure?

Op…I nor believe your story, for same Canada wey my guys Dey get am for free…or maybe probably you’re not good looking and lacks composure with women.

Even with Tinder or bumble you’ll get free fu*k in Canada on a stead.

Whatever you do sha don't sponsor any girl from Nigeria to Canada because you want to marry her. You'll regret it on the long run. Look for a girl over there and date or marry

YoungDaNaval:
Whatever you do sha don't sponsor any girl from Nigeria to Canada because you want to marry her. You'll regret it on the long run. Look for a girl over there and date or marry

Savage😂😂😂😂

canada123:
Hi guys,

I thought I would have overcome this act by now, posted awhile back about my lust with women and escort, and how I’ve been spending so much on escorts more than $300 per session and from 2022 till date have spent over $20,000 on both escorts, onlyfans models and all. I have a girlfriend I’m in a long distance relationship with in Nigeria , but haven’t told her about this part of me and this my addiction issues. I tried seeking a therapist but it was a pastor and lots of judgemental things were attached to the therapy session, I couldn’t continue with it.

Honestly I feel so lost especially after seeing the escorts or paying, it’s affecting my work and can’t focus at work or anything, the little savings I have , all have been depleted, I try to save back and in a week I can go all out and deplete it again

I need help / guidance. I’m 27 years old living in Canada

I’m just lost and like I posted I think last year and was advised against it, I feel marriage would help me or make me stop.

Let’s pray together sir if you don’t mind 🙏
It’s not a must..but a bigger authority than that of what is holding you bound can help you..
Not by my power but by him who is willing to help you
All I need from you is to open your heart and after I pray with you you will find a Bible believing church to be of service in

canada123:


I know, I mean I literally saw myself personally through school and paid over 40k in fees . But lately I’m loosing focus cause of this act , it’s terrible and shameful . Just struggling badly

I think part of your problem is the negative terms or negativity you are attaching to the fact that you have a high libido. You first need to accept that s*x is a beautiful thing and accept that aspect of yourself. This is where therapy comes in. If you’re serious about therapy, go seek help from a professional therapist in Canada. They can’t be that hard to find.

It’s also obvious that long distance relationship is not working for you, so look for someone who is within your reach for a committed relationship. Make sure you both are sexually compatible, it’s a must!

Forget that your girl for Nigeria; some dude is busy screwing her like no tomorrow.

Nigerian girls are low-key prostitutes, especially if their lovers aren't near & they know they can easily get away with it!

canada123:


I know, I mean I literally saw myself personally through school and paid over 40k in fees . But lately I’m loosing focus cause of this act , it’s terrible and shameful . Just struggling badly

Only you can save yourself.
You are still quite young but this is when you really need to put in the work on yourself. If you have a high libido what stop you from having a sex partner over there rather than wasting your resources on different women?

So many people on the platform, giving wrong, senseless advice because they don’t understand your pain.

I feel your pain of addiction. I have been there. What you are doing is unnatural and will destroy you beyond what it had already done to you. I know aside escort, onlyfans, masturbation, there will be others too. Pornography is certainly part of this corktail as well. I’m also sure you do alcohol. I know, I have been there.. Sexual sin I’d one of the most ravenous vices to fall into. It’s will cause you stagnation, dis favour, poor self assessment etc.
The truth is that you can quit all of these. I know you can, your spirit is already resisting these lifestyle. You need to start taking radical steps to overcome all these.
YOU CAN OVERCOME ALL THESE TODAY IF YOU WANT. If I can be clean, then you can. If you want we can talk.
I pray for you, and I break the hold of satan over your life. May the spirit of God guide you, live big inside you and give you the grace to overcome sin in Jesus name-amen.

canada123:


She’s in nigeria, and Canada visa process takes a really long time . I considered coming to Nigeria but I’m even scared cause I don’t trust myself at all. I might be seeing upto 5 different girls a day, cause of how cheap hookup is in Nigeria, I think it’s like 100k or so,

Hence why I’m afraid of visiting ,

I don’t know why this lust/burden is on me . It’s been going on for a long time, for a period I think it’s all gone away, then I see a beautiful picture on Instagram and from there it goes downhill .

I am also battling this addiction. I love women so much presently I am dating 5 girls simultaneously including other girls who i still meet. I am 35 years old and very comfortable. The strange thing is that all this girls are below 24 years old. I just don't know how to stop this sex addiction

ActiveFarms:
Have you considered saving those money and use it in financing your girls trip to you so you can get married and contained ?

Marriage wouldn't stop people like this! He has an addiction and it need to be cured.

eniolorunfe:


I think part of your problem is the negative terms or negativity you are attaching to the fact that you have a high libido. You first need to accept that s*x is a beautiful thing and accept that aspect of yourself. This is where therapy comes in. If you’re serious about therapy, go seek help from a professional therapist in Canada. They can’t be that hard to find.

It’s also obvious that long distance relationship is not working for you, so look for someone who is within your reach for a committed relationship. Make sure you both are sexually compatible, it’s a must!

Hmm, would work on breaking up with her, though she didn’t do anything to me at all, I just feel bad breaking up with her , but I need a partner here that would help out and all I guess

LIVINGICONREBOR:



Only you can save yourself.
You are still quite young but this is when you really need to put in the work on yourself. If you have a high libido what stop you from having a sex partner over there rather than wasting your resources on different women?

You used the right word, wasting valuable resources, I would break up with my girl In Nigeria and then look for someone here

brodalikeme:
So many people on the platform, giving wrong, senseless advice because they don’t understand your pain.

I feel your pain of addiction. I have been there. What you are doing is unnatural and will destroy you beyond what it had already done to you. I know aside escort, onlyfans, masturbation, there will be others too. Pornography is certainly part of this corktail as well. I’m also sure you do alcohol. I know, I have been there.. Sexual sin I’d one of the most ravenous vices to fall into. It’s will cause you stagnation, dis favour, poor self assessment etc.
The truth is that you can quit all of these. I know you can, your spirit is already resisting these lifestyle. You need to start taking radical steps to overcome all these.
YOU CAN OVERCOME ALL THESE TODAY IF YOU WANT. If I can be clean, then you can. If you want we can talk.
I pray for you, and I break the hold of satan over your life. May the spirit of God guide you, live big inside you and give you the grace to overcome sin in Jesus name-amen.

I think you understand my situation very well, though I don’t do alcohol or smoke but I do the rest. It’s so hard and I feel like I’m in a hole, I lost my virginity at 13 in ss1 and it’s been off and on, but of recent it’s been terrible so so terrible , cause of the money I’m spending on escorts and onlyfans models .

Though I didn’t do it , but I once almost paid about $1,500 for an hour to a IndecentStar that stays in Buffalo New York and was willing to drive to New York to see her , it’s about 1hr drive from Niagara Ontario . But I didn’t do it though , but the thought of doing it alone scares me, I’ve watched so many of her videos and wanted to experience it in real life . It’s terrible.

I need to turn away from this path otherwise it would completely destroy me totally .

Mosdiii:


I am also battling this addiction. I love women so much presently I am dating 5 girls simultaneously including other girls who i still meet. I am 35 years old and very comfortable. The strange thing is that all this girls are below 24 years old. I just don't know how to stop this sex addiction

Oh really you in similar situation, that’s sad, are you married?

I hope we both find redemption and salvation

1Sharon:


Marriage wouldn't stop people like this! He has an addiction and it need to be cured.

Really, I thought it would, I’m already looking forward to possibly getting married soon if possible next year and have access to sex as long as I want I guess.

Zaheertyler:

Let’s pray together sir if you don’t mind 🙏
It’s not a must..but a bigger authority than that of what is holding you bound can help you..
Not by my power but by him who is willing to help you
All I need from you is to open your heart and after I pray with you you will find a Bible believing church to be of service in

Would really appreciate it

techgen:
Op…I nor believe your story, for same Canada wey my guys Dey get am for free…or maybe probably you’re not good looking and lacks composure with women.

Even with Tinder or bumble you’ll get free fu*k in Canada on a stead.

I joined tinder once, and have a profile there too, maybe I don’t have game lol I think,

Just curious, how best to go about this

She’s not done anything wrong to me and have been very nice and sweet since we crossed path, but I’m living a double life and she dosen’t know the other side of me which is this side of addiction

Should I tell her the whole truth and breakup with her or I don’t need to tell her anything and just break up with her?

Though she knows my family members and have their contacts, and if I tell her the whole truth, my mum or siblings might know the shameful thing I’ve been into for years now secretly, and I’m a pastors son too ,

Just complicated now, this stuff is hard .

Just to make matters worse and add more context to how complicated it is, I made a terrible mistake

She’s 22 year old I’m 27 year old, she’s currently doing her NYSC and she’s in Lagos, since all my family members have relocated I told her she can stay in our family house , since no one is literally there except I think my cousin or so .

So breaking up with her in this situation, how best can I approach it please guys?

I really need help

canada123:


Would really appreciate it

How do I contact you?
Or should I type it out for you to repeat

Marriage will not bring a lasting solution to your problems, don’t mind all those telling you to get married. The truth is, you’re battling an addiction of sexual lust with females. You get turned on by what you see mostly on the internet (which I also see), and it affects a majority of guys, not me though.

I can’t tell you to do this or that as a solution, it may not work for you. Certainly, the first thing to do in solving a problem is to define the problem. Which you have defined that you spend a lot on escorts, and you want to stop. A determined mind will stop that rubbish, but I doubt if it will be easy or happen quickly, because I realize you are far deep in the ocean of debauchery.

Yes, you can quit. It’s all in the mind.

Warning, that your Nigerian girlfriend may be your worst nightmare, when you later discover she’s not an angel, you supposedly know. I doubt it 99.9%. You go dey trust all these Nigerian gurls. To crown it all, a long distance relationship from Canada to Nigeria. LWKMD, toto wey dem dey service steady.

Redefine your life and purpose if you want greatness. Better still, try to get a girlfriend within that county if you know sex is so important to you.

canada123:
Hi guys,

I thought I would have overcome this act by now, posted awhile back about my lust with women and escort, and how I’ve been spending so much on escorts more than $300 per session and from 2022 till date have spent over $20,000 on both escorts, onlyfans models and all. I have a girlfriend I’m in a long distance relationship with in Nigeria , but haven’t told her about this part of me and this my addiction issues. I tried seeking a therapist but it was a pastor and lots of judgemental things were attached to the therapy session, I couldn’t continue with it.

Honestly I feel so lost especially after seeing the escorts or paying, it’s affecting my work and can’t focus at work or anything, the little savings I have , all have been depleted, I try to save back and in a week I can go all out and deplete it again

I need help / guidance. I’m 27 years old living in Canada

I’m just lost and like I posted I think last year and was advised against it, I feel marriage would help me or make me stop.

I remember your post, but can’t you find someone on a dating site?

akube34:
I remember your post, but can’t you find someone on a dating site?

I sadly haven’t , instead I was doing a long distance relationship and it’s been over a year now and clearly it’s not working at all and it’s been a mess. Cheating is an understatement, I’ve literally lied to her everyday for one year straight , what breaks me is how would I break up with her ,

canada123:
I just spent $350 last night on an escort and $15 on onlyfans
For a 1hr session with the escort , after going about 2 weeks without doing anything then I fell back again .

I’m thinking of breaking up with my girlfriend and telling her the truth . She’s always seen me as an angel but clearly I’m a terrible person .

Chief!!! Try see a way you can manage the situation and never allow it to affect yur source of income. It not like as if what you’re doing is extremely bad, just try yuur best not to allow it affect yur source of income!!!.

By the way, gifting me 20 Canadian dollar wouldn’t be a big deal, make I enjoy this weekend.

RealityKings:



You are at the age where you should have a permanent woman spend the night with. If you can look for a woman and marry her or sign a contract with...
Its just nature telling you what is next. Nature wants you to have a partner. Getting married is the best solution to masturbating and patronizing hookers.

I was listening to an Islamic cleric who said, there is a demon that influences masturbation by the time an average male is matured to have a wife but refuses. This age spans from 17 upwards.

It made me think back and remember the age I started sleeping and waking up with Wet Dreams. So normally, for a male, by the time you are 17 to 20 and unmarried, masturbating will set in because you are not meeting "Nature's Standards" except if you are lucky to get a girlfriend during this phase.

Now you are way matured you need to get a constant or permanent woman.

damn, may I concede to being stupid the day I take this guy's talk serious again

I hope your savings run dry, only then you can have sense!

canada123:


There are but I barely go to church where you find them a lot,

then start GOING!!!!

Anytime you are in Nigeria, just send an email to a Nairalander. She does not charge a lot and will satisfy you even though she is very ugly.

Her email is
We4all@gmail.com.

Save this email bro and you will thank me later.

canada123:
Hi guys,

I thought I would have overcome this act by now, posted awhile back about my lust with women and escort, and how I’ve been spending so much on escorts more than $300 per session and from 2022 till date have spent over $20,000 on both escorts, onlyfans models and all. I have a girlfriend I’m in a long distance relationship with in Nigeria , but haven’t told her about this part of me and this my addiction issues. I tried seeking a therapist but it was a pastor and lots of judgemental things were attached to the therapy session, I couldn’t continue with it.

Honestly I feel so lost especially after seeing the escorts or paying, it’s affecting my work and can’t focus at work or anything, the little savings I have , all have been depleted, I try to save back and in a week I can go all out and deplete it again

I need help / guidance. I’m 27 years old living in Canada

I’m just lost and like I posted I think last year and was advised against it, I feel marriage would help me or make me stop.

Inbox me I have a solution for you and I once like that but I am very happy with my life now happily married now

Nnamdipapa:
Anytime you are in Nigeria, just send an email to a Nairalander. She does not charge a lot and will satisfy you even though she is very ugly.

Her email is
NnamdiPapa@gmail.com.

Save this email bro and you will thank me later.