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The Redpill Damage by Wainey: 8:30am On Aug 24
Waking up on a bright Saturday with no much plans for the day except eat, sleep and read a book I downloaded last night. I stumbled upon two thread on romance section insulting women in general, I wasn't comfortable with it.
I decided to address, some few misconceptions about the Alphas. I am not subjecting anyone to accept my opinion on Alphas, you should read with discretion.

Alphas are not some persons who came across, read and digested some fairytale and folklores stories with ambiguous grammer and catchy phrases called the redpill. Infact most Alphas were "first class simps" who learned from their mistakes and decided to change slowly and gradually.

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Re: The Redpill Damage by Wainey: 8:30am On Aug 24
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Re: The Redpill Damage by Wainey: 8:30am On Aug 24
Now here is the message, becoming an alpha and getting a lady is not about ur money and ur fowl mouth, Alpha was never about bringing someone down with some vulgar and insulting language.
Alpha is 98% about you becoming a better person and not about other person.
Those that were on NL a decade ago before the introduction of redpill could still remember intelligent ladies like naijasinglegirl, ishílove and more, we have people who found love on NL, but a lot of bodyshaming and toxicity in the recent times has driven most people out of the forum and we have few ladies who could bring up meaningful discussions due to the misconception that toxicity and bodyshaming makes you and alpha, but it reality, it makes people leave you and find solace in a more approachable person.
No relationship will last when one person is full of undereating and damaging the other person's self esteem, let us all try and learn, unlearn and relearn the magical word called Alpha

Thank u

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Re: The Redpill Damage by DonBenny77(m): 9:30am On Aug 24
Wainey:
Now here is the message, becoming an alpha and getting a lady is not about ur money and ur fowl mouth, Alpha was never about bringing someone down with some vulgar and insulting language.
Alpha is 98% about you becoming a better person and not about other person.
Those that were on NL a decade ago before the introduction of redpill could still remember intelligent ladies like naijasinglegirl, ishílove and more, we have people who found love on NL, but a lot of bodyshaming and toxicity in the recent times has driven most people out of the forum and we have few ladies who could bring up meaningful discussions due to the misconception that toxicity and bodyshaming makes you and alpha, but it reality, it makes people leave you and find solace in a more approachable person.
No relationship will last when one person is full of undereating and damaging the other person's self esteem, let us all try and learn, unlearn and relearn the magical word called Alpha

Thank u

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The difference it that the amount of farm tools then and now are not the same.
Now like 95% of the ladies are farm tools

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Re: The Redpill Damage by Wainey: 9:40am On Aug 24
DonBenny77:

The difference it that the amount of farm tools then and now are not the same.
Now like 95% of the ladies are farm tools
I wonder where u got this stat.

Couple of years ago, there was a lady who was called a farm tool by some wannabe redpillers, she receives insults daily.
There was this faithful day she decided to screenshot the number of people that sent her email and we're stalking her, Omo, e be like say 90% of NL guys names deh there, even the redpillers.
Now I have no issue whatesover if someone tried to woo her but these redpillers got agitated over the issue and tried to form damage control, it was a comedy that week.

Now as long as u are not feeding, clothing or providing shelter for anyone, u have no right to talk about how they get their daily bread as long as it's not illegal

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Re: The Redpill Damage by DonBenny77(m): 10:07am On Aug 24
Wainey:
I wonder where u got this stat.

Couple of years ago, there was a lady who was called a farm tool by some wannabe redpillers, she receives insults daily.
There was this faithful day she decided to screenshot the number of people that sent her email and we're stalking her, Omo, e be like say 90% of NL guys names deh there, even the redpillers.
Now I have no issue whatesover if someone tried to woo her but these redpillers got agitated over the issue and tried to form damage control, it was a comedy that week.

Now as long as u are not feeding, clothing or providing shelter for anyone, u have no right to talk about how they get their daily bread as long as it's not illegal
I'm not one of such guys that stalk ladies.
The fact that they stalked her doesn't necessarily mean they want to woo her.
And not all who wooed her want her some men just fool around some to prove a point. I don't have such time.
My point is the abuses have escalated because the farm tools have escalated also it's like an action/reaction curve.
Men are more bitter because they can't find decent ladies to marry some fear they may never get married.
Hence the frustration
Re: The Redpill Damage by Wainey: 11:29am On Aug 24
DonBenny77:

I'm not one of such guys that stalk ladies.
The fact that they stalked her doesn't necessarily mean they want to woo her.
And not all who wooed her want her some men just fool around some to prove a point. I don't have such time.
My point is the abuses have escalated because the farm tools have escalated also it's like an action/reaction curve.
Men are more bitter because they can't find decent ladies to marry some fear they may never get married.
Hence the frustration
u have no right to pour ur frustration on someone just because u can't see a woman to marry.
That is a sign of low intelligence

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