Good morning, I keep suspecting my girl has been sleeping with my younger brother. both of them are the age mates. Some times I always leave both of them at home, I don't know how true is it . One day I came back to the house and saw a broken part of a condom on the toilet seat. I asked my brother how come he said he didn't bring in any woman. l asked my girl if he brought in a woman she said no. After some time I confronted my girl if she was having something to do with my brother. My girl doesn't like to wear things that reveal her body. but I can see that she can comfortably wear anything in front of my bro even while cooking, that alone aroused more of my suspicions. Though I don't have evidence l just asked her because I needed to clear my mind but at the same time the thought kept coming back . I was expecting us to have serious íssues when I asked her but she didn't even react. At this point I don't know what to do or say. Please I need advice on how to handle this situation. The thought is still in my mind. How do I get through this ?

Just buy a spy camera and fix in your room. Cos you can't expect them to admit to you that they're having sex.

You'll buy it less than 15k on jumia and it would be delivered right on your door step.

With your camera in place, every doubt and suspicion would be earsed from your mind within days.

Nazgul:
Just buy a spy camera and fix in your room. Cos you can't expect them to admit to you that they're having sex.

You'll buy it less than 15k on jumia and it would be delivered right on your door step.

With your camera in place, every doubt and suspicion would be earsed from your mind within days.

Please, what powers the camera?

triangulation:

Please, what powers the camera?

Some have built-in rechargeable batteries. Others can be powered by being connected to a power source, through a USB charger or a power outlet.

It just depends on the type you buy.

The lifespan of the battery when fully recharged varies based on the model you buy.

Nazgul:
Just buy a spy camera and fix in your room. Cos you can't expect them to admit to you that they're having sex.

You'll buy it less than 15k on jumia and it would be delivered right on your door step.

With your camera in place, every doubt and suspicion would be earsed from your mind within days.

Stop interfering in people's relationships, if they eventually break up then know you are responsible for it.

triangulation:

Please, what powers the camera?

Stop stressing yourself, you are highly insecure. Check well maybe you are the one that used it.

EreluRoz:
Stop interfering in people's relationships, if they eventually break up then know you are responsible for it.

Lol....The house belongs to him. If the girl isn't interested in him any more she can easily go.

Sleeping with your boyfriends younger brother under his roof is a slap to his face.

He deserves to know the truth of the matter. And if the girl is actually sleeping with his younger brother, it means she's the one who ended the relationship.

Nazgul:

Lol....The house belongs to him. If the girl isn't interested in him any more she can easily go.

Sleeping with your boyfriends younger brother under his roof is a slap to his face.

He deserves to know the truth of the matter. And if the girl is actually sleeping with his younger brother, it means she's the one who ended the relationship.

Learn to preach peace all the time. He should do more for his girl and erase such dirty thoughts from his heart. The used condoms could be from someone that was living in the house before or from their neighbors or he was the one that used it

EreluRoz:
Learn to preach peace all the time. He should do more for his girl and erase such dirty thoughts from his heart. The used condoms could be from someone that was living in the house before or from their neighbors or he was the one that used it

Can you listen to what you just said?

EreluRoz:
Learn to preach peace all the time. He should do more for his girl and erase such dirty thoughts from his heart. The used condoms could be from someone that was living in the house before or from their neighbors or he was the one that used it

I don't understand you ladies.

So secretly installing cameras to find out the truth has become a crime to you ladies?

If money is missing in your house and all your roommates deny having knowledge of the money, then you decide to install a secrete camera so as to catch the thief red-handed. Is that a crime to you?

Anyone who has a problem with the OPs decision to install cameras is guilty.

EreluRoz:
Learn to preach peace all the time. He should do more for his girl and erase such dirty thoughts from his heart. The used condoms could be from someone that was living in the house before or from their neighbors or he was the one that used it

Great! Great! Great!

Just see a lame defence!!!

He should do more for the girl! Really? So he is not entitled to hold his girlfriend to account?

So, he should just relax, and be acting like a cuckold....

The same way the babe would be relaxing if she had an inkling that her guy is possibly having something with her sister

I don't know what to say to you. Your thought process seems distorted!

LoveUdie:
Good morning, I keep suspecting my girl has been sleeping with my younger brother. both of them are the age mates. Some times I always leave both of them at home, I don't know how true is it . One day I came back to the house and saw a broken part of a condom on the toilet seat. I asked my brother how come he said he didn't bring in any woman. l asked my girl if he brought in a woman she said no. After some time I confronted my girl if she was having something to do with my brother. My girl doesn't like to wear things that reveal her body. but I can see that she can comfortably wear anything in front of my bro even while cooking, that alone aroused more of my suspicions. Though I don't have evidence l just asked her because I needed to clear my mind but at the same time the thought kept coming back . I was expecting us to have serious íssues when I asked her but she didn't even react. At this point I don't know what to do or say. Please I need advice on how to handle this situation. The thought is still in my mind. How do I get through this ?

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Just be doing as if you've gone out an just be hanging around so you'll know if truly 🤷 there are having intercus..

Nazgul:

I don't understand you ladies.

So secretly installing cameras to find out the truth has become a crime to you ladies?

If money is missing in your house and all your roommates deny having knowledge of the money, then you decide to install a secrete camera so as to catch the thief red-handed. Is that a crime to you?

Anyone who has a problem with the OPs decision to install cameras is guilty.

Lol. I find it hard to believe such kind of stories. Why will she sleep with his boyfriend's brother in heaven's name? So I don't always believe such stories

Nazgul:
Some have built-in rechargeable batteries. Others can be powered by being connected to a power source, through a USB charger or a power outlet.

It just depends on the type you buy.

The lifespan of the battery when fully recharged varies based on the model you buy.

Thanks Legend.
I will make my findings.
Is the name exactly 'spy camera'?

triangulation:

Thanks Legend.
I will make my findings.
Is the name exactly 'spy camera'?

You're welcome.

Just type spy cameras on jumia and you'll have a variety to choose from.

HandsomeSkeleto:



Great! Great! Great!

Just see a lame defence!!!

He should do more for the girl! Really? So he is not entitled to hold his girlfriend to account?

So, he should just relax, and be acting like a cuckold....

The same way the babe would be relaxing if she had an inkling that her guy is possibly having something with her sister

I don't know what to say to you. Your thought process seems distorted!

Women don't see anything wrong fxcking whoever they want.

Imagine a lady telling you to fxck a married woman without any iota of regret to what she's saying.

Almost all women wants to be knacked but don't want to be get caught.

Sonnobax15:

Omoh,it takes only a strong-hearted man these days to beat his chest and say--"I trust my woman". Unless you wan die carelessly

If a good guy has targeted your banny, him go knack.

The worst na when the two people dey see everyday. The feels go just dey grow stronger and the woman no go fit bear am again.

LoveUdie:
Good morning, I keep suspecting my girl has been sleeping with my younger brother. both of them are the age mates. Some times I always leave both of them at home, I don't know how true is it . One day I came back to the house and saw a broken part of a condom on the toilet seat. I asked my brother how come he said he didn't bring in any woman. l asked my girl if he brought in a woman she said no. After some time I confronted my girl if she was having something to do with my brother. My girl doesn't like to wear things that reveal her body. but I can see that she can comfortably wear anything in front of my bro even while cooking, that alone aroused more of my suspicions. Though I don't have evidence l just asked her because I needed to clear my mind but at the same time the thought kept coming back . I was expecting us to have serious íssues when I asked her but she didn't even react. At this point I don't know what to do or say. Please I need advice on how to handle this situation. The thought is still in my mind. How do I get through this ?

What if they are both on Nairaland. Next time, dey distort information to create confusion.

EreluRoz:
Learn to preach peace all the time. He should do more for his girl and erase such dirty thoughts from his heart. The used condoms could be from someone that was living in the house before or from their neighbors or he was the one that used it

. Your submissions just dey make me dey laugh this morning walai

Sonnobax15:
. Your submissions just dey make me dey laugh this morning walai

I'm of peace

Omoh,it takes only a strong-hearted man these days to beat his chest and say--"I trust my woman". Unless you wan die carelessly

EreluRoz:
I'm of peace

. This ain't peace my dear . This is war

EreluRoz:
I'm of peace

Peace kê!!!

In the face of infidelity.

Surely, the quest of confirmation of fidelity far outweighs any form of peace!

After all, how can one be in a peaceful relationship if one of the partners is suspecting infidelity on the part of the other?

If it were you having a strong reason to suspect your partner of such acts, can you just fold your arms and be 'peaceful'

We are always quick to advise others what we ourselves cannot take. Sheer hypocrisy!

LoveUdie:
Good morning, I keep suspecting my girl has been sleeping with my younger brother. both of them are the age mates. Some times I always leave both of them at home, I don't know how true is it . One day I came back to the house and saw a broken part of a condom on the toilet seat. I asked my brother how come he said he didn't bring in any woman. l asked my girl if he brought in a woman she said no. After some time I confronted my girl if she was having something to do with my brother. My girl doesn't like to wear things that reveal her body. but I can see that she can comfortably wear anything in front of my bro even while cooking, that alone aroused more of my suspicions. Though I don't have evidence l just asked her because I needed to clear my mind but at the same time the thought kept coming back . I was expecting us to have serious íssues when I asked her but she didn't even react. At this point I don't know what to do or say. Please I need advice on how to handle this situation. The thought is still in my mind. How do I get through this ?

best thing is to call ur brother, start with a different conversation then enter the main topic, tell him you know your babe is sleeping around, tell him u just want to Bleep and leave her then asked him if she had givwn him some pussy, ask him in a funny way....if he is gullible enough he would fall for it

LoveUdie:
Good morning, I keep suspecting my girl has been sleeping with my younger brother. both of them are the age mates. Some times I always leave both of them at home, I don't know how true is it . One day I came back to the house and saw a broken part of a condom on the toilet seat. I asked my brother how come he said he didn't bring in any woman. l asked my girl if he brought in a woman she said no. After some time I confronted my girl if she was having something to do with my brother. My girl doesn't like to wear things that reveal her body. but I can see that she can comfortably wear anything in front of my bro even while cooking, that alone aroused more of my suspicions. Though I don't have evidence l just asked her because I needed to clear my mind but at the same time the thought kept coming back . I was expecting us to have serious íssues when I asked her but she didn't even react. At this point I don't know what to do or say. Please I need advice on how to handle this situation. The thought is still in my mind. How do I get through this ?

If they were fucking you would know.

They are fucking already.

And you have an evil brother. The gal is an outsider. You can break up. But your brother is family and he knack your babe.

If you want to catch them it is easy.

Just complain you are sick or pretend to be to your brother.

Go and forge one doctor report with letter head saying you have early symptoms of an incurable disease.

Tell your brother in the most scariest way and tell him to keep it a secret from your gf.

Your gf will know and confront you. Then you know they are knacking.

Because it is am abominable act.

Your business could crumble.

LoveUdie:
Good morning, I keep suspecting my girl has been sleeping with my younger brother. both of them are the age mates. Some times I always leave both of them at home, I don't know how true is it . One day I came back to the house and saw a broken part of a condom on the toilet seat. I asked my brother how come he said he didn't bring in any woman. l asked my girl if he brought in a woman she said no. After some time I confronted my girl if she was having something to do with my brother. My girl doesn't like to wear things that reveal her body. but I can see that she can comfortably wear anything in front of my bro even while cooking, that alone aroused more of my suspicions. Though I don't have evidence l just asked her because I needed to clear my mind but at the same time the thought kept coming back . I was expecting us to have serious íssues when I asked her but she didn't even react. At this point I don't know what to do or say. Please I need advice on how to handle this situation. The thought is still in my mind. How do I get through this ?

I can only advise if she is ur wife already. Since she is ur girlfriend, she is up for grab by anybody including ur younger brother

The quality of men these days is below average.

Op, his brother ( if guilty) , the guy advising to get a spy camera .

Likeeeeeeeee I don't know why I find this thread annoying

Nazgul

Why buy a camera when he can easily stand up to them?

Listen to yourself are you making sense? I don't think so, maybe you should read this your opinion again and if it makes sense to you I'm afraid something is going wrong with you maybe you should..............

EreluRoz:
Learn to preach peace all the time. He should do more for his girl and erase such dirty thoughts from his heart. The used condoms could be from someone that was living in the house before or from their neighbors or he was the one that used it

Proserpina:
The quality of men these days is below average.

Op, his brother ( if guilty) , the guy advising to get a spy camera .

Likeeeeeeeee I don't know why I find this thread annoying

Nazgul

Why buy a camera when he can easily stand up to them?

Because he doesn't have proof. You should know that accusing them without proof can destroy their relationship most especially if they're innocent.

Also, if he stands up to them like you suggested, they'll most likely deny it. Cos it's almost impossible for people in such situations to admit to their actions.

That's why I suggested a spy cam.

Nazgul:

Because he doesn't have proof. You should know that accusing them without proof can destroy their relationship most especially if they're innocent.

If he decides stands up to them like you suggested, they'll most likely deny it. Cos it's almost impossible for people in such situations to admit to their actions.

That's why I suggested a spy cam.

Getting a spy camera is creepy. You don't install camera where people live without informing them it's a punishable offense. That and the fact that it's totally unnecessary.

The broken cd and the lady's attitude is enough proof. What you seek is justification not proof and the former can get you in problems if you are not careful

Proserpina:
Getting a spy camera is creepy. You don't install camera where people live without informing them it's a punishable offense. That and the fact that it's totally unnecessary.

The broken cd and the lady's attitude is enough proof. What you seek is justification not proof and the former can get you in problems if you are not careful

It's he's house. He's not sharing the rent with them. So whatever he does there is he's business. If you have about 2 of your niece living with you, and your money starts missing mysteriously. Would you take permission from them before installing a spy cam. Most especially after both of them have denied having knowledge about your missing money?

If he feels something's off about them, only a spy cam would provide the evidence he needs.

Anything aside that would be mere accusations which would vehemently denied by both parties.

If you feel the spy cam is an invasion of privacy, the girl in question is he's girlfriend so what's there to see in her body that he hasn't seen before?

Nazgul:

It's he's house. He's not sharing the rent with them. So whatever he does there is he's business. If you have about 2 of your niece living with you, and your money starts missing mysteriously. Would you take permission from them before installing a spy cam. Most especially after both of them have denied having knowledge about your missing money?

If he feels something's off about them, only a spy cam would provide the evidence he needs.

Anything aside that would be mere accusations which would vehemently denied by both parties.

If you feel the spy cam is an invasion of privacy, the girl in question is he's girlfriend so what's there to see in her body that he hasn't seen before?

Lol @bolded

You are right" 👍

Lol...Don't stress yourself. The person you quoted is a guy pretending to be a lady. He intentionally writes crazy stuff to drive attention. Yet morons think he's female.

Damian911:
Listen to yourself are you making sense? I don't think so, maybe you should read this your opinion again and if it makes sense to you I'm afraid something is going wrong with you maybe you should..............