Good morning everyone. I need your honest opinion on what to do on this matter.
.
I am a commercial bus driver dating a girl working in a petrol station. We have been dating since February this year.
After knowing the meagre salary she received per month, I placed her on 2k daily allowance.
Every week she get foods beverages and every two weeks or sometimes more she gets money for her other material things.
You guys don't need a soothsayer to know we actually met and started dating while I was filling my bus tank.
.
To cut long story short, something happened ystday that surprised me and got me seriously angry with her.
You all know there's a bit of fuel scarcity in the country now, I'm working in Lagos though.
So ystday I was at their fuel station on the queue waiting to buy fuel, the queue I was, was the one my girl was serving. Cuz I'm in a hurry and needed to go to work, I said let me even use gallon to go get it since it's my girl that's serving.
I told my conductor to be moving the bus in case the line move while I took the gallon to the front where she was.
.
When she first saw me she smile at me and I signal to her that I needed fuel asap. She gave me a hand that indicate "wait". I was there she was selling for other people both cars and on keg. I was calling her and trying to get her attention to attend to me but she ignored me.
Ah ah! I was so furious, apart from her being my girl, that filling station is my permanent filling station where I get fuel and I'm supposed to be giving that small privilege. To make matter worst my own girl that we just smash each other the night prior to that day is ignoring me for no reason.
I wanted to cause commotion there not bcuz of my girl but bcus I was one of their regular customer. But I held my peace and went back to where my bus is.
.
Lo and behold before it got to my turn they said their fuel is finished. My girl began looking for me and when she saw me ran to where I was to explain, I just ignored her, start my bus and drove off.
I later got fuel but it wasn't until 6pm ystday and I missed that ystday's work.
Since then she has been calling and I refused picking, she has sent msg giving me flimsy excuse on why she didn't answered me at first, that they're so many people there before me. She just want to answer some before attending to me, that she doesn't want them to start saying who be this one wey just come now and you quickly answer am.
Me I haven't reply her text or pick or call her back. I'm still angry for missing that ystday's work. Bcuz of that I didn't send her her daily allowance.
.
Pls guys, I need your honest opinion. What should I do, cuz this is the first time I needed her to do something for me and she failed?

Kvarachi:
Good morning everyone. I need your honest opinion on what to do on this matter.
.
I am a commercial bus driver dating a girl working in a petrol station. We have been dating since February this year.
After knowing the meagre salary she received per month, I placed her on 2k daily allowance.
Every week she get foods beverages and every two weeks or sometimes more she gets money for her other material things.
You guys don't need a soothsayer to know we actually met and started dating while I was filling my bus tank.
.
To cut long story short, something happened ystday that surprised me and got me seriously angry with her.
You all know there's a bit of fuel scarcity in the country now, I'm working in Lagos though.
So ystday I was at their fuel station on the queue waiting to buy fuel, the queue I was, was the one my girl was serving. Cuz I'm in a hurry and needed to go to work, I said let me even use gallon to go get it since it's my girl that's serving.
I told my conductor to be moving the bus in case the line move while I took the gallon to the front where she was.
.
When she first saw me she smile at me and I signal to her that I needed fuel asap. She gave me a hand that indicate "wait". I was there she was selling for other people both cars and on keg. I was calling her and trying to get her attention to attend to me but she ignored me.
Ah ah! I was so furious, apart from her being my girl, that filling station is my permanent filling station where I get fuel and I'm supposed to be giving that small privilege. To make matter worst my own girl that we just smash each other the night prior to that day is ignoring me for no reason.
I wanted to cause commotion there not bcuz of my girl but bcus I was one of their regular customer. But I held my peace and went back to where my bus is.
.
Lo and behold before it got to my turn they said their fuel is finished. My girl began looking for me and when she saw me ran to where I was to explain, I just ignored her, start my bus and drove off.
I later got fuel but it wasn't until 6pm ystday and I missed that ystday's work.
Since then she has been calling and I refused picking, she has sent msg giving me flimsy excuse on why she didn't answered me at first, that they're so many people there before me. She just want to answer some before attending to me, that she doesn't want them to start saying who be this one wey just come now and you quickly answer am.
Me I haven't reply her text or pick or call her back. I'm still angry for missing that ystday's work. Bcuz of that I didn't send her her daily allowance.
.
Pls guys, I need your honest opinion. What should I do, cuz this is the first time I needed her to do something for me and she failed?

Na WA oh, so you decided to be giving her 2k daily. You built the relationship on bribery, very wrong foundation. She must have seen how simple you are it appears to her that you are desperate. In case you meet another lady, I will advise you don't appear desperate and stop investing your money on a woman you have not married

Child's brain on a matured body .


Go man up bro

OP is FOOLISH and ENTITLED.

Regular customer of a Filling station?
Wants special privileges?

Foolish man.

ALL the money that you've spent at that Filling Station is less than 1% of what they make per day.

Your spending is a BIG DEAL to you but it's CHICKEN CHANGE to the Filling Station.

Let that SINK in!

Only privilege you deserve is being attended to AS and WHEN due.

Also the fact that you're fucking a fuel attendant, who's practically a salesgirl, does NOT give you the right to JUMP queues in a time of DIRE fuel scarcity.

Nigerians complain about corruption and nepotism in the political class but are EAGER to take advantage of the same when it benefits them.

People had been on that queue for HOURS and you wanted to CHEAT them because you are a "regular customer" who's fucking a salesgirl.

What an ENTITLED joker!

ALSO putting a girl on a DAILY allowance is STUPID!

If you work at least 5 days a week and save 2k each day instead of giving it to a girl, you'd have 40k saved each month.

If you started since February when you began dating, you'd have ALMOST #250K extra saved.

Anyway, the girl did the RIGHT thing!

Ynix:



Na WA oh, so you decided to be giving her 2k daily. You built the relationship on bribery, very wrong foundation. She must have seen how simple you are it appears to her that you are desperate. In case you meet another lady, I will advise you don't appear desperate and stop investing your money on a woman you have not married

Thank you for the advise, but giving her 2k didn't start immediately. It started after like a month or there about after we have been into each other so much and I found out she was receiving 15k per month.
2ndly, the 2k is only on the days I go to work and it's nothing to me cuz I know how much I make daily once I work.
.
And lastly bro, you didn't advise on what I should do. Should I pick her calls or keep ignoring her.

Kvarachi:
Good morning everyone. I need your honest opinion on what to do on this matter.
.
I am a commercial bus driver dating a girl working in a petrol station. We have been dating since February this year.
After knowing the meagre salary she received per month, I placed her on 2k daily allowance.
Every week she get foods beverages and every two weeks or sometimes more she gets money for her other material things.
You guys don't need a soothsayer to know we actually met and started dating while I was filling my bus tank.
.
To cut long story short, something happened ystday that surprised me and got me seriously angry with her.
You all know there's a bit of fuel scarcity in the country now, I'm working in Lagos though.
So ystday I was at their fuel station on the queue waiting to buy fuel, the queue I was, was the one my girl was serving. Cuz I'm in a hurry and needed to go to work, I said let me even use gallon to go get it since it's my girl that's serving.
I told my conductor to be moving the bus in case the line move while I took the gallon to the front where she was.
.
When she first saw me she smile at me and I signal to her that I needed fuel asap. She gave me a hand that indicate "wait". I was there she was selling for other people both cars and on keg. I was calling her and trying to get her attention to attend to me but she ignored me.
Ah ah! I was so furious, apart from her being my girl, that filling station is my permanent filling station where I get fuel and I'm supposed to be giving that small privilege. To make matter worst my own girl that we just smash each other the night prior to that day is ignoring me for no reason.
I wanted to cause commotion there not bcuz of my girl but bcus I was one of their regular customer. But I held my peace and went back to where my bus is.
.
Lo and behold before it got to my turn they said their fuel is finished. My girl began looking for me and when she saw me ran to where I was to explain, I just ignored her, start my bus and drove off.
I later got fuel but it wasn't until 6pm ystday and I missed that ystday's work.
Since then she has been calling and I refused picking, she has sent msg giving me flimsy excuse on why she didn't answered me at first, that they're so many people there before me. She just want to answer some before attending to me, that she doesn't want them to start saying who be this one wey just come now and you quickly answer am.
Me I haven't reply her text or pick or call her back. I'm still angry for missing that ystday's work. Bcuz of that I didn't send her her daily allowance.
.
Pls guys, I need your honest opinion. What should I do, cuz this is the first time I needed her to do something for me and she failed?

From her explanation... She did the right thing by trying to attend to few of the people that came before you.
It wouldn't have been fair on others...

Kvarachi:

Thank you for the advise, but giving her 2k didn't start immediately. It started after like a month or there about after we have been into each other so much and I found out she was receiving 15k per month.
2ndly, the 2k is only on the days I go to work and it's nothing to me cuz I know how much I make daily once I work.
.
And lastly bro, you didn't advise on what I should do. Should I pick her calls or keep ignoring her.

ignore her totally, get like 2 to 3 other ladies better than her as alternatives, and don't woo them with money, just tell them your intentions if they stay good if they don't good. Be in charge of your life, its normal for ladies to treat you bad if you appear to be too caring, go and work on your communication skills too

2k daily for this hard economy. She makes extra from the sales of petrol to gallons and kegs. They pay them low because the management knows they make lots of money selling petrol to gallons and kegs. Sometimes, car owners even tip them.
But back to your matter, she should have look for a way to attend to you knowing the petrol they have left at their station will soon finish. A friend i know that sells black market at the street during scarcity usually have that privilege to sell petrol to his gallons by himself through the understanding of the petrol attendants pretending to want to do somethings and he will pick the nozzle to sell to him self. That privilege is given to him and no other person present that particular moment.

Ynix:


ignore her totally, get like 2 to 3 other ladies better than her as alternatives, and don't woo them with money, just tell them your intentions if they stay good if they don't good. Be in charge of your life, its normal for ladies to treat you bad if you appear to be too caring, go and work on your communication skills too

Lolz, where did I fail on communication skills

dawnomike:
From her explanation... She did the right thing by trying to attend to few of the people that came before you.
It wouldn't have been fair on others...

Hmm.... Good talk

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Kvarachi:

Thank you for the advise, but giving her 2k didn't start immediately. It started after like a month or there about after we have been into each other so much and I found out she was receiving 15k per month.
2ndly, the 2k is only on the days I go to work and it's nothing to me cuz I know how much I make daily once I work.
.
And lastly bro, you didn't advise on what I should do. Should I pick her calls or keep ignoring her.

Kvarachi:

Lolz, where did I fail on communication skills

if you are calling and she is not picking you are not doing well in terms of communication obviously

Ynix:
if you are calling and she is not picking you are not doing well in terms of communication obviously

Where did I said I'm calling and she's not picking. In fact in the relationship she's the one that doesn't know how to communicate.

lazkizz:
Child's brain on a matured body .


Go man up bro

Hmm.... Man up in what aspect, tell me pls.

All this many info you put up here now, is to what end exactly

You want her to recieve free bashing in her workplace just because she's your girlfriend

The young girl is wise.

Give her a break!

Namaster:
OP is FOOLISH and ENTITLED.

Regular customer of a Filling station?
Wants special privileges?

Foolish man.

ALL the money that you've spent at that Filling Station is less than 1% of what they make per day.

Your spending is a BIG DEAL to you but it's CHICKEN CHANGE to the Filling Station.

Let that SINK in!

Only privilege you deserve is being attended to AS and WHEN due.

Also the fact that you're fucking a fuel attendant, who's practically a salesgirl, does NOT give you the right to JUMP queues in a time of DIRE fuel scarcity.

Nigerians complain about corruption and nepotism in the political class but are EAGER to take advantage of the same when it benefits them.

People have been on that queue for HOURS and you wanted to CHEAT them because you are a "regular customer" who's fucking a salesgirl.

What an ENTITLED joker!

ALSO putting a girl on a DAILY allowance is STUPID!

If you work at least 5 days a week and save 2k each day instead of giving to a girl, you'd have 40k saved each month.

If you started since February when you began dating, you'd have ALMOST #250K extra saved.

Anyway, the girl did the RIGHT thing!

I'm driving and at work now, when I'm free I will give you the perfect reply

dawnomike:
From her explanation... She did the right thing by trying to attend to few of the people that came before you.
It wouldn't have been fair on others...

That pump is her office, she should be able to enjoy little privilege in her office. To help her boyfriend that placed her on daily allowance is not bad.

If she cannot help him in her office, she's of no use to the young man.

Dear OP, stop crossing express for someone that cannot cross a gutter for you.

The girl is RIGHT.

Let's say no to corruption and entitlement.

Or are you the owner of the filling station

Kvarachi:

I'm driving and at work now, when I'm free I will give you the perfect reply

There's no need to reply anyone again. Any girl you're taking care of from your daily hustle and she refused to take risk to facilitate your hustle is not for you.

Kvarachi:
Good morning everyone. I need your honest opinion on what to do on this matter.
.
I am a commercial bus driver dating a girl working in a petrol station. We have been dating since February this year.
After knowing the meagre salary she received per month, I placed her on 2k daily allowance.
Every week she get foods beverages and every two weeks or sometimes more she gets money for her other material things.
You guys don't need a soothsayer to know we actually met and started dating while I was filling my bus tank.
.
To cut long story short, something happened ystday that surprised me and got me seriously angry with her.
You all know there's a bit of fuel scarcity in the country now, I'm working in Lagos though.
So ystday I was at their fuel station on the queue waiting to buy fuel, the queue I was, was the one my girl was serving. Cuz I'm in a hurry and needed to go to work, I said let me even use gallon to go get it since it's my girl that's serving.
I told my conductor to be moving the bus in case the line move while I took the gallon to the front where she was.
.
When she first saw me she smile at me and I signal to her that I needed fuel asap. She gave me a hand that indicate "wait". I was there she was selling for other people both cars and on keg. I was calling her and trying to get her attention to attend to me but she ignored me.
Ah ah! I was so furious, apart from her being my girl, that filling station is my permanent filling station where I get fuel and I'm supposed to be giving that small privilege. To make matter worst my own girl that we just smash each other the night prior to that day is ignoring me for no reason.
I wanted to cause commotion there not bcuz of my girl but bcus I was one of their regular customer. But I held my peace and went back to where my bus is.
.
Lo and behold before it got to my turn they said their fuel is finished. My girl began looking for me and when she saw me ran to where I was to explain, I just ignored her, start my bus and drove off.
I later got fuel but it wasn't until 6pm ystday and I missed that ystday's work.
Since then she has been calling and I refused picking, she has sent msg giving me flimsy excuse on why she didn't answered me at first, that they're so many people there before me. She just want to answer some before attending to me, that she doesn't want them to start saying who be this one wey just come now and you quickly answer am.
Me I haven't reply her text or pick or call her back. I'm still angry for missing that ystday's work. Bcuz of that I didn't send her her daily allowance.
.
Pls guys, I need your honest opinion. What should I do, cuz this is the first time I needed her to do something for me and she failed?

I don’t know what y’all are saying but if it’s my man that came to buy fuel or anywhere I have the power (bank, fast food etc) I’d attend to him first!
All these people talking rubbish are saying so because they enjoy talking rubbish.
@poster, you are right to feel however you feel!

calabaman:
The girl is RIGHT.

Let's say no to corruption and entitlement.

Or are you the owner of the filling station

Too much pettiness in one post I tell you.

Duchexx:


I don’t know what y’all are saying but if it’s my man that came to buy fuel or anywhere I have the power (bank, fast food etc) I’d attend to him first!
All these people talking rubbish are saying so because they enjoy talking rubbish.
@poster, you are right to feel however you feel!

For the first time you said something reasonable. There's joy in Heaven.

Duchexx:


I don’t know what y’all are saying but if it’s my man that came to buy fuel or anywhere I have the power (bank, fast food etc) I’d attend to him first!
All these people talking rubbish are saying so because they enjoy talking rubbish.
@poster, you are right to feel however you feel!

All these people talking rubbish

You must be feeling really good now.

I really don't care about the happenings at the filling station but that you place her on a weekly wages even when is working is very embarrassing and SIMPish if I might add.

Attendants at filling stations do make little gains daily yet you as a driver which is not an easy job decided to be adding to it just because she is your girlfriend
I won't even be suprised if you never placed any of your siblings or even parents on such wages scheme.

MMempire:
2k daily for this hard economy. She makes extra from the sales of petrol to gallons and kegs. They pay them low because the management knows they make lots of money selling petrol to gallons and kegs. Sometimes, car owners even tip them.
But back to your matter, she should have look for a way to attend to you knowing the petrol they have left at their station will soon finish. A friend i know that sells black market at the street during scarcity usually have that privilege to sell petrol to his gallons by himself through the understanding of the petrol attendants pretending to want to do somethings and he will pick the nozzle to sell to him self. That privilege is given to him and no other person present that particular moment.

Thank you for this honest truth

Zonefree:

That pump is her office, she should be able to enjoy little privilege in her office. To help her boyfriend that placed her on daily allowance is not bad.

If she cannot help him in her office, she's of no use to the young man.

Dear OP, stop crossing express for someone that cannot cross a gutter for you.

Zone free I dey feel you jare

(Don't bite the hands that feeds you).... normally she Bleep up sha.

But why place her on 60k monthly salary?
Guy una never wan get sense for woman or relationship matter.

I drive keke before and I nor place any body on daily salary or monthly wages haba mana.

U put your parents on daily salary? Tueh

Na him make the thing pain you so much na. U are investing in relationship.

U never see anything yet. Infact increase her daily wages she go still fall your hand.

dawnomike:
From her explanation... She did the right thing by trying to attend to few of the people that came before you.
It wouldn't have been fair on others...

Oga calm down this is Nigeria.
If your junior brother is working at a queued up fuel station, you will be happy with him that he didn't sell for you before the fuel finish?
Talk truth o today is Sunday

RoyalBlu:


All these people talking rubbish

You must be feeling really good now.

You can't approbate and reprobate at the same time

Anyone who thinks is a man's duty to take care of a girlfriend or a wife can't have a contrary opinion of not using corruption to fill up the boyfriend's can with PMS unless you think otherwise then your opinion is valid.

Where I will have a problem with your opinion is when you think you are entitled to a man's money and that it's a man's duty to feed your lazy ass because you are a woman and at the same time you are not entitled to fraudulently give the man PMS because he is not entitled to getting PMS expressly from your station even if he comes last.

What I see most times is that people cherry pick what suits their selfish interest and not for the greater good of all its only in your selfish interest when the man goes the extra miles to give you free money but not in your interest when you go the extra miles to give him speedy PMS. I support people who are consistent irrespective of whose ox is gored and not cherry pickers. I only dissected a better representation of the ladies comment you called rubbish hope same applies to me also?

When I was in a relationship with a pump attendant whenever I come she sell fuel on my 4 liter gallon ignoring everyone including cars and bikes and tricycles.
That was pure love then. Love Sweet sha.

Duchexx:


I don’t know what y’all are saying but if it’s my man that came to buy fuel or anywhere I have the power (bank, fast food etc) I’d attend to him first!
All these people talking rubbish are saying so because they enjoy talking rubbish.
@poster, you are right to feel however you feel!

Thank you for your honest assertion

RoyalBlu:


All these people talking rubbish

You must be feeling really good now.

She ought to cuz she said the right thing