Copied just as seen in a WhatsApp group. Do you agree with him? FYI, I have just left the group before I get depressed over the kind of sons that are been raised in this generation.

Single mother's version/context of truth....it's always in their favour only

Simpsons all over the place.

As a man have enough respect for yourself and don't burden yourself with worthless girls around you.

Not all girls are meant for marriage.

Many girls are more suited for lower purposes

MAKE I HEAR WORD. PAYING FOR THAT CHILD WILL not MAKE HIM/HER YOURS.

Products of deadbeat fathers, second, third wives and concubines castigating single mothers

It does front , back and side ways. Always in their Favor.

Before marrying such, ask her first to drop her child/children with her mum/ sister and first live with you for 5 years, with promise of 2 children for you first before her child joins. Then she will drop you.

Many of them don't ever want to have another child and will secretly do family planning in your back

That guy looks like a fuckboy that just wants to use the promise of marriage KNACK single mothers.

As a guy starting life, don't ever make single mother your sixth option. Leave her for her learned colleagues.

ewedunamala:
It does front , back and side ways. Always in their Favor.

Before marrying such, ask her first to drop her child/children with her mum/ sister and first live with you for 5 years, with promise of 2 children for you first before her child joins. Then she will drop you.

Many of them don't ever want to have another child and will secretly do family planning in your back

So that you will start giving excuses when it's time for the child to join you? Many SM are regretting the decision of dropping the kid with their relatives for the first few years because when the time frame reaches,the man will not allow the kid come.

But SM nawa for Una,you gave birth to a child then drop the child because of man. Tufia!! Can't these women just focus on their kids and forget men? I hate the fact that losers and low lives get the chance to insult them every eke market day on top of relationship( men that on a normal day she will say "over her dead body ", if such men approach her)

If I were one,I will just focus on my child,that is a blessing alone.

Make una let this women breathe and focus on single childless ladies abeg

Depends. By default, won't go for one but if her circumstances stand out, I might reconsider.

Proserpina:
Products of second, third wives and concubines castigating single mothers

The matter sef tire me!

Tightpussy2024:

So that you will start giving excuses when it's time for the child to join you? Many SM are regretting the decision of dropping the kid with their relatives for the first few years because when the time frame reaches,the man will not allow the kid come.

But SM nawa for Una,you gave birth to a child then drop the child because of man. Tufia!! Can't these women just focus on their kids and forget men? I hate the fact that losers and low lives get the chance to insult them every eke market day on top of relationship( men that on a normal day she will say "over her dead body ", if such men approach her)

If I were one,I will just focus on my child,that is a blessing alone.

Make una let this women breathe and focus on single childless ladies abeg

That's the litmus test. Most of them are just looking for an insurance company and its only a simpleton will take that.

Most of them have wounded hearts from several men and are out like lion. If they refused to drop their child, it means, her child's upkeep is her major reason and not you as a person.

Ofcourse Women are fundamentally incapable of loving the way men do and expect to be loved, i.e Unconditional love is bullshît. Women love opportunistically.

ewedunamala:
It does front , back and side ways. Always in their Favor.

Before marrying such, ask her first to drop her child/children with her mum/ sister and first live with you for 5 years, with promise of 2 children for you first before her child joins. Then she will drop you.

Many of them don't ever want to have another child and will secretly do family planning in your back

Why shouldn't she drop you? Isn't it a yeye promise like this that made her a single mother to begin with?

ewedunamala:


That's the litmus test. Most of them are just looking for an insurance company and its only a simpleton will take that.

Most of them have wounded hearts from several men and are out like lion. If they refused to drop their child, it means, her child's upkeep is her major reason and not you as a person.

Ofcourse Women are fundamentally incapable of loving the way men do and expect to be loved, i.e Unconditional love is bullshît. Women love opportunistically.

You don't get the point do you? Women have been doing this for ages and men falling back on their promises of letting the child come. How many men in naija have their step kids living with them? It's a recent thing that women started insisting that if any man don't let them come with their kids,they can keep their marriage to themselves.its a Gen Z things.

If men were keeping to their promises on letting the kid come,most single moms will agree.

But then,why do men marry this women when they are childless women all around? The population of childless mother outways that of single moms,not that childless girls are scarce. So why can't they leave this women alone instead of separating them from their kids?

TheFreshVanilla:
Depends. By default, won't go for one but if her circumstances stand out, I might reconsider.

Which circumstances? Don't use pity and marry anyone oh. Of your standards don't align with SM,let them be oh. And don't try to separate them from their kids.

Tightpussy2024:

You don't get the point do you? Women have been doing this for ages and men falling back on their promises of letting the child come. How many men in naija have their step kids living with them? It's a recent thing that women started insisting that if any man don't let them come with their kids,they can keep their marriage to themselves.its a Gen Z things.

If men were keeping to their promises on letting the kid come,most single moms will agree.

But then,why do men marry this women when they are childless women all around? The population of childless mother outways that of single moms,not that childless girls are scarce. So why can't they leave this women alone instead of separating them from their kids?

You are perfectly right

Tightpussy2024:

You don't get the point do you? Women have been doing this for ages and men falling back on their promises of letting the child come. How many men in naija have their step kids living with them? It's a recent thing that women started insisting that if any man don't let them come with their kids,they can keep their marriage to themselves.its a Gen Z things.

If men were keeping to their promises on letting the kid come,most single moms will agree.

But then,why do men marry this women when they are childless women all around? The population of childless mother outways that of single moms,not that childless girls are scarce. So why can't they leave this women alone instead of separating them from their kids?

You no know? They believe single mothers are an easy target

There is something terribly wrong with humans.


I mean, it is not just enough to assert something for themselves. It is not just enough to have their own preferences and beliefs and choices, but they must go on to demean others who do not conform to their own value system.


Things that do not generally, directly affects/harms them. Like I get free speech and all that, and making a broad commentary on something that socially happens, but it does not just stop at a such general commentaries. It must be tinged with shame, condemnation, a totally reprehensible outlook.


It makes one wonder how truly great such people are living (their own) lives if they are so disturbed by and consumed with thoughts of others' perceived moral failings, to the point where they are grandstanding over it.

It makes one wonder.

1Sharon:


You no know? They believe single mothers are an easy target

Easy target for Bleep. But not marriage. With they way I see them bashing Dem every day on social media , I was thinking it's only widowers or divorced men that will marry them. But a lot of single men approach them and start giving them conditions,when they can just go for a childless woman and everyone rest

Magnoliaa:
There is something terribly wrong with humans.


I mean, it is not just enough to assert something for themselves. It is not just enough to have their own preferences and beliefs and choices, but they must go on to demean others who do not conform to their own value system.


Things that do not generally, directly affects/harms them. Like I get free speech and all that, and making a broad commentary on something that socially happens, but it does not just stop at a such general commentaries. It must be tinged with shame, condemnation, a totally reprehensible outlook.


It makes one wonder how truly great such people are living (their own) lives if they are so disturbed by and consumed with thoughts of others' perceived moral failings, to the point where they are grandstanding over it.

It makes one wonder.

On social media everyone is a king,and has standards.losers try to distract the world from noticing they are losers by creating a fake standard. 70% of men that leave their wives/ bring second wives,it's usually single moms or divorcees( people that normal day they will bash). A young Instagram baddie is really a second wife or a side chick that makes the wife goes Helter skelter. These are the women that wives to prayer houses and babalawos to seek help ones their husbands get entangled with them .
I know what these men do for these women. Everyone wants to be an "alpha male"by fire and force online.

They are the easy scapegoat for men insult, because it's assumed that society already bashes them,so they can bash them without anyone scolding them.

But in real life,men will still kneel and give a ring to a single mom, their anger is that they believe that on a normal day,they will choose their baby daddies before them and they are just a convenient person the women considered when things went wrong. They hate looking like someone not good enough/an after thought. So they lash out that frustration through insults,bashing and the rest to hide their crippling self esteem.

Man is right, marrying a single mother with children does not make you a fool.

Who are we to judge a man who finds happiness in marrying a single mother.


A single father can marry a single lady and a single mother can marry a single guy. Either ways, if both parties are cool, I wish them well!

Proserpina:
Products of second, third wives and concubines castigating single mothers

If them tell u to marry poor man u go say no why then do you have problems with men's preferences? Una dey think at all?

Tightpussy2024:

So that you will start giving excuses when it's time for the child to join you? Many SM are regretting the decision of dropping the kid with their relatives for the first few years because when the time frame reaches,the man will not allow the kid come.

But SM nawa for Una,you gave birth to a child then drop the child because of man. Tufia!! Can't these women just focus on their kids and forget men? I hate the fact that losers and low lives get the chance to insult them every eke market day on top of relationship( men that on a normal day she will say "over her dead body ", if such men approach her)

If I were one,I will just focus on my child,that is a blessing alone.

Make una let this women breathe and focus on single childless ladies abeg

Who are the losers ? the one who refused marrying a single mother or single mother? Una no dey ever get sense no be small.

It's never in the interest of the man to marry a single mother, imhe married a single mother he is expected to train , educate and feed the children of another man while a a single father married a lady he is expected to also take care of his own child . In the latter he does it willingly because the child belongs to him while the former the child doesn't belong to him and he owes the child nothing but is expected to do it. How many single ladies can train the children of single fathers with their hard earned money? If you can answer this question then you will know show me fill by getting to marry a single mother.

Single mother relationship with a single man doesn't benefit hima but, it is a thankless job

1Sharon:


Why shouldn't she drop you? Isn't it a yeye promise like this that made her a single mother to begin with?

Which promise? Nobody promised them. Some ladies don't like using condoms which is surprising to me because they are the highest hit when it comes to pregnancy. When this happens, you all will never take accountability to you it's always the man that is responsible carry on

idahme:



Who are the losers ? the one who refused marrying a single mother or single mother? Una no dey ever get sense no be small.

It's never in the interest of the man to marry a single mother, imhe married a single mother he is expected to train , educate and feed the children of another man while a a single father married a lady he is expected to also take care of his own child . In the latter he does it willingly because the child belongs to him while the former the child doesn't belong to him and he owes the child nothing but is expected to do it. How many single ladies can train the children of single fathers with their hard earned money? If you can answer this question then you will know show me fill by getting to marry a single mother.

Single mother relationship with a single man doesn't benefit hima but, it is a thankless job

That is why I said they should leave SM alone. It's not by force rather than separate them from their kids or deceive them into leaving their kids. It's an evil thing to do..why can't you just go for childless women? Will society judge for going for childless women ( society equally hates SM,so they got your back on this).

idahme:



Which promise? Nobody promised them. Some ladies don't like using condoms which is surprising to me because they are the highest hit when it comes to pregnancy. When this happens, you all will never take accountability to you it's always the man that is responsible carry on

Off point

idahme:



If them tell u to marry poor man u go say no why then do you have problems with men's preferences? Una dey think at all?

seems you are broke,and you want to exact vengeance on single moms. You will only get to exact it when one single moms are interested in you and begging you for dating( which is not possible because they will need a financial stable man whereas you are broke). Stop fighting people that can't fight you back or aren't even on this thread to defend themselves.it makes you low and cowardly

Tightpussy2024:

Off point

Comprehension is difficult these days

idahme:



Comprehension is difficult these days

it flew off your head because you came to argue and not reason. She didn't make a case or beg anyone to marry SM. It's choice. I don't even believe in marrying then for pity. She,like me is against deceit or making them leave their kids. You had to drag accountability and dating poor men into it. Shaming single moms as revenge for women not wanting poor men will never make sense.find peace and accept yourself

As a Man, Marrying a Single Mother is like you loaded with Enough Cash BUT walking past a Boutique
and moving to Bend-down Select Market to Buy Okrika clothes.

But as a Guy, If you must do it, let the woman be the Quiet, submissive type.

Hmmm

VinnyBaba:


As a Man, Marrying a Single Mother is like you loaded with Enough Cash BUT walking past a Boutique
and moving to Bend-down Select Market to Buy Okrika clothes.

But as a Guy, If you must do it, let the woman be the Quiet, submissive type.

And for some reason most guys are not with enough cash. Always the struggling or average guys feeling fly...how much do you have? Is it people that follow rich married men you are boasting that your pitiful self is too big for? Go and toast one single mom first,they will check the shoe you are wearing and lie they have husbands when they know it's a 3k palm. Don't go and do something with your life. be looking for who to pull down in order to feel better about yourself.