Haakeem:
lol, you'll fall in the same fate as that noodles with another man some days.
Or how should I put it sef. That noodles might be her ex someday..
That noodles you caught behind the gas might be the man she is cheating on you with some days.
RED FLAGGGG!

Ayomide11111:


You're definitely right oo BOSS. These are the things I've been thinking over and over for a while since. What if? If she could denied so bluntly like on a cooked noodles, what if?

Ayomide11111:
Should I consider what happened yesterday? Nairaland pls advice.

I came back from the studio yesterday's afternoon and I met my girlfriend in my house, yes she has one of my spare keys, I entered the house and I went straight to the kitchen. I met her washing plates in the kitchen and I greeted her that she has done well but when I was about to leave the kitchen I observed that the kitchen walls were wet because anytime you cook in my kitchen the tiles on the walls gets wet due to the heat. Then, I asked her "babe what did you cook?" She said nothing that she only boiled water. I believed her and I did not suspect her because of the response but I was kind of thinking the water must have boiled over 100°c for those tiles to get wet.
I left the kitchen and I went to the bedroom when I got to the bedroom I saw some trashes she left undisposed and I was irritated and I decided to go and disposed them but when I got to our refuse bin I saw a fresh egg shells and some fresh noodles' pieces, I was kind of confused that which of my neighbors would have left his/her waste bin and come to used mine. Yet, I never thought too much because I knew it was my girlfriend, maybe she just wants to pull my legs that was why she lied at first, I concluded. When I got inside I found her inside the bedroom, she's done washing plates, then I put it to her jokingly " babe next time you cook noodles and eggs make sure you dispose the nylons properly because you didn't do it well today." As if I ignited a flame she took it up with me angrily that why should I be saying that, that she never cooked anything since morning and I was accusing her wrongly....bla..bla..bla..bla... And she acted so real and dry like as if truly she didn't cook.
Mind you, that she cooked wasn't my problem, why would I get disturbed that my girlfriend cooked and ate in my house? But every evidences I was seeing were making me to ask her if truly she cooked but she kept denying and not that I got angry at this point.
I told her to forget about everything that not that I'm suspecting her but I just felt all what I have been seeing showed me that you cooked and not that I will kill you if you did. You're my woman why would you lied to me if you do things in my home. We shut the chapter and everyone was fine. After like 5 minutes I went to the kitchen to cook beans, personally I don't like it when my gas cooker is dirty but my girl is a messy lady she doesn't care and I have been fighting over this on how to sort her out. I decided to clean the gas cooker and immediately as I raised the stand I saw enough fresh noodles at the angle corners of the gas Cylinder. I stood up and gave it a thought. After, I decided to show her so that she would not deny it. I called her to come to the kitchen and when she got to the kitchen I showed her and she could not say anything. Then I asked her " as little as cooking noodles and you lied. Why did you lie on this very little matter? Why babe? " Not that that I will quarrel with you why you cooked and eat. Why? When I was coming from the studio I have already bought things that we are going to eat. Why such a big denial and lie on a little matter? Why?

Pls Nairaland I suggested this is one of the RED FLAGS. Isn't it? Pls advice.

advanceDNA:


She cooked for herself alone and quickly washed the evidence because she ddnt want you to know of her self centered move ...instead of just saying I'm sorry when u found out...she gaslight you....

It's a redflag to me ooo ...I don't know about you... I hate when someone offends me,, deny it and still look for way to make it look like im the one that did wrong....

A4alpha:
From all indication and from your statement she isn't your wife just a mere GF so at this point I will advise you to continue pumping and don't have anything more with her because the trust is broken already and as such, she's not trustworthy to be your GF anymore. She is a pretender and a liar.

Ayomide11111:
Pls Nairaland I suggested this is one of the RED FLAGS. Isn't it? Pls advice.

Haakeem:
lol, you'll fall in the same fate as that noodles with another man some days.
Or how should I put it sef. That noodles might be her ex someday..
That noodles you caught behind the gas might be the man she is cheating on you with some days.
RED FLAGGGG!

Daptboy:
Seems this gender never ceases to amaze me... They just keep doing things that make us go 'ugh' or 'yuck'

In addition to what the OP said above lemme share how a simple lie can be so damaging..

One of my exes (we still dae smash though) she came around to the area.. Me been an indoor guy I heard her voice so I was like expecting her to knock and greet as customary.. She didn't..

Her friend lives in the same compound as I do... After a while I didn't see her nor hear from her... I then chatted madam, 'Afa you reach area you no come greet me sef'

Madam said 'I no reach area today o' I was shocked, shay my eyes dae deceive me ne?? So I stepped out to ask her friend who confirmed that madam was indeed around cos they were together..

I then told madam that 'your friend confirmed your presence yesterday,' madam said she wasn't around that she didn't 'reach that side' according to her..

I then called her a 'stupid liar' madam then left the main topic and focused on the 'stupid liar' that I called her..

You know women nau when you start dropping points they'll leave the main topic and focus on one insult you made or something that's not even in the topic on ground...

Madam later said '' I don't have anything to say' all the while claiming she wasn't wrong... Can you see how dumb she was??

Did you do this?? A simple yes/no would suffice... Why the blow up?? Why the sudden anger outburst??

Whats indomie and egg that you'd lie about?? What?? Hisses..

A creature that was created when we were unconscious, there's no way we can understand them bro.... But we can still show them who's boss..

That's women bro... Nothing upstairs..
Just salt water and toothpaste dazoll....

Magnoliaa:
I would like to hear the girl's side of the story.


We only have your words for it.

- You might be stingy.
- Perhaps you don't like to share...
And she was starving.


Or maybe you guys have had a previous disagreement like that and she feared your reaction?

Magnoliaa:
I would like to hear the girl's side of the story.


We only have your words for it.

- You might be stingy.
- Perhaps you don't like to share...
And she was starving.


Or maybe you guys have had a previous disagreement like that and she feared your reaction?

talktofemi:


Even if he is stingy ...even if he doesn't like to share she shouldn't have lied. Moreover it is his damn house, with all the things therein.

Ayomide11111:


Never! I am not someone like that.
I am not a stingy guy. Infact there was a day she took all the cash (#5000) inside my cross bag and left me with nothing, hunger almost killed me at the studio that day, because I didn't know she has taken everything. Yet I didn't complain or scold her. She said she's hungry and she has somethings to do at the church that's why she took all the money and I forget about it. And there's no way a lady can starve in my home even if there's no food stuff I must provide definitely. Because when a lady begins to starve she can compromise. What else she wants me to do.

advanceDNA:



He doesn't like to share?? .yet she has his key...someone that doesn't like to share won't give another person unrestricted access to his space and things...The way women dey think ehnn....

talktofemi:


Even if

Ayomide11111:
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advanceDNA:


U shàlàyè too much.... Its a redflag..

Make una nor dey date hungry girls...this one come add lying, and selfishness join her hunger

advanceDNA:
He doesn't like to share?? .yet she has his key...someone that doesn't like to share won't give another person unrestricted access to his space and things...The way women dey think ehnn....

Ayomide11111:
Never! I am not someone like that.
I am not a stingy guy.