Magnoliaa:


You and Luminouz must think everyone is as unintelligent and as wicked as y'all are.


E say the way women dey think. How do YOU think? You that you've found the most unimaginable, asinine angles to justify rape on this forum. The day I made a sarcastic post, flipping things that men normally say and apply it to them, you were the one crying the most.

You know deep in your heart that you're the one with a comma in your thinking. There is no story about men/women on this forum that you will not find a way to blame the woman while exonerating the man. Always. So why would you not think everyone is as narrow-minded as you are? Why would you not think everyone thinks in black/white, only in defense of their own gender?


And of course, you will not recognise what being a devil's advocate mean even if it was punching you right in the face.

If it was a woman who came to share this story about her man eating her food and lying about it in her house, would you have expressly blamed the boyfriend? Would you have called him an hungry boyfriend? Would you not have called her all sort of names? Called her desperate in a thousand languages?

Nonsense.

U have so many records of me, yet I don't even know you...are u sure u are not mistaken??
Justify Rape?? Sigh!!
You obviously have a lot going on with you, and seized this moment to pour it out..... If I've offended you some how....I apologize...
If you don't like my views on your gender's behavior, that's normal...you are woman, u see thing from your "men must be at fault" angle ..I'm no gonna apologize for that..

Magnoliaa:


Yeah, right. Even luminouz would swear he's not a two-faced, and contentious person.

I am not, I swear🤣🤣🤣

Magnoliaa:


You and Luminouz must think everyone is as unintelligent and as wicked as y'all are.


E say the way women dey think. How do YOU think? You that you've found the most unimaginable, asinine angles to justify rape on this forum. The day I made a sarcastic post, flipping things that men normally say and apply it to them, you were the one crying the most.

You know deep in your heart that you're the one with a comma in your thinking. There is no story about men/women on this forum that you will not find a way to blame the woman while exonerating the man. Always. So why would you not think everyone is as narrow-minded as you are? Why would you not think everyone thinks in black/white, only in defense of their own gender?


And of course, you will not recognise what being a devil's advocate mean even if it was punching you right in the face.

If it was a woman who came to share this story about her man eating her food and lying about it in her house, would you have expressly blamed the boyfriend? Would you have called him an hungry boyfriend? Would you not have called her all sort of names? Called her desperate in a thousand languages?

Nonsense.

Damn, I must have ticked you off really badly.

Take it easy aunty!!!

advanceDNA:
If you don't like my views on your gender's behavior, that's normal...you are woman, u see thing from your "men must be at fault" angle ..I'm no gonna apologize for that..

So why do you have a problem with "women's thinking" when you think exactly the same way, and believe women are always at fault?

Why did you have to make a reference to my comment instead of looking and passing?

cc; Luminouz

luminouz:
I am not, I swear🤣🤣🤣

Look at you thinking I give a fuçk about your wret###d personality.

You must be a lot less smarter than I gave you credit for.


Try to catch up: you want to troll? I will troll you so bad into oblivion.

Shey you think you're slick by always mentioning people and then retreating behind a cowardly 'K?' You think you're sensible with your "provocation?" I will not respond to you anymore, but by the time I mention your moniker to my comments on frontpage, and senseless trolls spam your mentions with inanities, you will know.

Magnoliaa:

So why do you have a problem with "women's thinking"

I don't have a problem with all women's thinking or ur thinking.....I only express my disagreement in a context......just as men are scum or men are evil has its context but doesn't really mean all men are scum or evil

Magnoliaa:

when you think exactly the same way, and believe women are always at fault?

And I don't think the same way...neither do I think women are always at fault...may be you cherry pick on the comments that i fault ur gender, I fault men too...... The truth is I don't fault any gender, u are just mistaken and forming pseudo-solidarity for your gender......I fault all behaviors i don't agree...

I mean, I don't understand how u expect me to blame a man for paternity fraud, wife's infidelity, etc ....he's the victim fvck sake.

Ayomide11111:
Should I consider what happened yesterday? Nairaland pls advice.

I came back from the studio yesterday's afternoon and I met my girlfriend in my house, yes she has one of my spare keys, I entered the house and I went straight to the kitchen. I met her washing plates in the kitchen and I greeted her that she has done well but when I was about to leave the kitchen I observed that the kitchen walls were wet because anytime you cook in my kitchen the tiles on the walls gets wet due to the heat. Then, I asked her "babe what did you cook?" She said nothing that she only boiled water. I believed her and I did not suspect her because of the response but I was kind of thinking the water must have boiled over 100°c for those tiles to get wet.
I left the kitchen and I went to the bedroom when I got to the bedroom I saw some trashes she left undisposed and I was irritated and I decided to go and disposed them but when I got to our refuse bin I saw a fresh egg shells and some fresh noodles' pieces, I was kind of confused that which of my neighbors would have left his/her waste bin and come to used mine. Yet, I never thought too much because I knew it was my girlfriend, maybe she just wants to pull my legs that was why she lied at first, I concluded. When I got inside I found her inside the bedroom, she's done washing plates, then I put it to her jokingly " babe next time you cook noodles and eggs make sure you dispose the nylons properly because you didn't do it well today." As if I ignited a flame she took it up with me angrily that why should I be saying that, that she never cooked anything since morning and I was accusing her wrongly....bla..bla..bla..bla... And she acted so real and dry like as if truly she didn't cook.
Mind you, that she cooked wasn't my problem, why would I get disturbed that my girlfriend cooked and ate in my house? But every evidences I was seeing were making me to ask her if truly she cooked but she kept denying and not that I got angry at this point.
I told her to forget about everything that not that I'm suspecting her but I just felt all what I have been seeing showed me that you cooked and not that I will kill you if you did. You're my woman why would you lied to me if you do things in my home. We shut the chapter and everyone was fine. After like 5 minutes I went to the kitchen to cook beans, personally I don't like it when my gas cooker is dirty but my girl is a messy lady she doesn't care and I have been fighting over this on how to sort her out. I decided to clean the gas cooker and immediately as I raised the stand I saw enough fresh noodles at the angle corners of the gas Cylinder. I stood up and gave it a thought. After, I decided to show her so that she would not deny it. I called her to come to the kitchen and when she got to the kitchen I showed her and she could not say anything. Then I asked her " as little as cooking noodles and you lied. Why did you lie on this very little matter? Why babe? " Not that that I will quarrel with you why you cooked and eat. Why? When I was coming from the studio I have already bought things that we are going to eat. Why such a big denial and lie on a little matter? Why?

Pls Nairaland I suggested this is one of the RED FLAGS. Isn't it? Pls advice.

This is absolutely a Red Flag bro. If I was in your shoes right now I would be Patient with her and see if she can try to improve, Open up( I will do all this within a time limit). If she doesn't change then I'd get rid of her ASAP I no fit let one banny kill me. How u go dey Relationship trust no dey?. Anyways na man u be you have to make decisions on your own

I think the food was very sweet and she ate the part she kept for you. I think she lied to you because she respects you alot and didn't want to hurt your feelings

Even though I would blame her and all sort for lieing over something little, But from your write up I could draw the reason why she lied, like you already show how irritated you can be when she uses your kitchen so maybe she doesn't want you to start talking or making her feel somehow but still it doesn't justify the fact that she had to lie when you asked her severally

SkengRay:
This is absolutely a Red Flag bro. If I was in your shoes right now I would be Patient with her and see if she can try to improve, Open up( I will do all this within a time limit). If she doesn't change then I'd get rid of her ASAP I no fit let one banny kill me. How u go dey Relationship trust no dey?. Anyways na man u be you have to make decisions on your own

for this kind thing, there is no time to be given again, the hard writing is clearly written on the wall

The only time Op should consider her or give her more time, is if she accepts she is wrong and apologies, these not only show submissiveness, but shows she might have interest in continuing the relationship,

If not, the lady just sees him as a means to an end

Ayomide11111:
Should I consider what happened yesterday? Nairaland pls advice.

I came back from the studio yesterday's afternoon and I met my girlfriend in my house, yes she has one of my spare keys, I entered the house and I went straight to the kitchen. I met her washing plates in the kitchen and I greeted her that she has done well but when I was about to leave the kitchen I observed that the kitchen walls were wet because anytime you cook in my kitchen the tiles on the walls gets wet due to the heat. Then, I asked her "babe what did you cook?" She said nothing that she only boiled water. I believed her and I did not suspect her because of the response but I was kind of thinking the water must have boiled over 100°c for those tiles to get wet.
I left the kitchen and I went to the bedroom when I got to the bedroom I saw some trashes she left undisposed and I was irritated and I decided to go and disposed them but when I got to our refuse bin I saw a fresh egg shells and some fresh noodles' pieces, I was kind of confused that which of my neighbors would have left his/her waste bin and come to used mine. Yet, I never thought too much because I knew it was my girlfriend, maybe she just wants to pull my legs that was why she lied at first, I concluded. When I got inside I found her inside the bedroom, she's done washing plates, then I put it to her jokingly " babe next time you cook noodles and eggs make sure you dispose the nylons properly because you didn't do it well today." As if I ignited a flame she took it up with me angrily that why should I be saying that, that she never cooked anything since morning and I was accusing her wrongly....bla..bla..bla..bla... And she acted so real and dry like as if truly she didn't cook.
Mind you, that she cooked wasn't my problem, why would I get disturbed that my girlfriend cooked and ate in my house? But every evidences I was seeing were making me to ask her if truly she cooked but she kept denying and not that I got angry at this point.
I told her to forget about everything that not that I'm suspecting her but I just felt all what I have been seeing showed me that you cooked and not that I will kill you if you did. You're my woman why would you lied to me if you do things in my home. We shut the chapter and everyone was fine. After like 5 minutes I went to the kitchen to cook beans, personally I don't like it when my gas cooker is dirty but my girl is a messy lady she doesn't care and I have been fighting over this on how to sort her out. I decided to clean the gas cooker and immediately as I raised the stand I saw enough fresh noodles at the angle corners of the gas Cylinder. I stood up and gave it a thought. After, I decided to show her so that she would not deny it. I called her to come to the kitchen and when she got to the kitchen I showed her and she could not say anything. Then I asked her " as little as cooking noodles and you lied. Why did you lie on this very little matter? Why babe? " Not that that I will quarrel with you why you cooked and eat. Why? When I was coming from the studio I have already bought things that we are going to eat. Why such a big denial and lie on a little matter? Why?

Pls Nairaland I suggested this is one of the RED FLAGS. Isn't it? Pls advice.

🚩🚩🚩🏃🏃🏃

Ayomide11111:


You're definitely right oo BOSS. These are the things I've been thinking over and over for a while since. What if? If she could denied so bluntly like on a cooked noodles, what if?

you are looking for reasons to leave your girlfriend now you have it, she lied fine, forgive her and move on, or wait until you meet the one that will jazz you, beat you, and continue to render you useless, you see bad advicers you have here will ruin you, go now and made amend with your woman and guide her in whom you want her to be. That's all.

Nijimog:
for this kind thing, there is no time to be given again, the hard writing is clearly written on the wall

The only time Op should consider her or give her more time, is if she accepts she is wrong and apologies, these not only show submissiveness, but shows she might have interest in continuing the relationship,

If not, the lady just sees him as a means to an end

Totally understand bro. But nobody's perfect we all have our flaws. The issue with the girl might be a psychological problem. ( Nah on a Second thought I was I typing this I remember I read the OP saying the girl stole his Money only for him to find out while he got to his workplace. Best thing is to actually get rid of her. Or the OP will be the one to get hurt in the long run I've been in a similar case myself)

Whatisurproblem:
you are looking for reasons to leave your girlfriend now you have it, she lied fine, forgive her and move on, or wait until you meet the one that will jazz you, beat you, and continue to render you useless, you see bad advicers you have here will ruin you, go now and made amend with your woman and guide her in whom you want her to be. That's all.

How did u automatically know that girl that op said took his money behind him, lies and gaslights him is a good girl and staying with her is a best advice...?? Or u don't care what type of girl she is...he should just stay with her?

Just asking to learn nii oooo, since u have somehow assume every other advice here apart from your own is bad and will ruin him...

All this write-up on top noodles. My friend, it seems you’re better off single.

Strange story.

Hustle as a man sha,make your daughter no hide cook noodles with one boiled egg.

There is actually no benefit in marrying men of this generation.how can a woman look up to you,as her God on earth then you look up to ediots on internet for every damn thing. You report her when a gust of wind touch you.


No wonder respecting you all is very difficult and you attract the disdain and reproach you get . If it's not creating trolling threads, it's seeking advice from kangaroo courts or creating fake topics. And you wonder why masculine authority is ridiculed now.

Keep disgracing yourself online.our forefathers killed mamoths and wild beasts to find our fore mothers. A young lady has to lie about indomie and one egg out of fear of you.

Keep zuzuing online

Why did she lied?,may be u no dey play and very stingy with your indomie that's why.

You already bought what you were going to eat, and yet you still went to the kitchen to cook beans. What happened to what you bought

Oga, manage ya cross that's urs

Too trivial to make a decision. Just wait and observe, she will make another mistake again. Then you can do whatsoever!

It’s not a red flag 🚩 maybe you are stingy

For her to lie about this ... It is a red flag.

Ayomide11111:
Should I consider what happened yesterday? Nairaland pls advice.

I came back from the studio yesterday's afternoon and I met my girlfriend in my house, yes she has one of my spare keys, I entered the house and I went straight to the kitchen.

I met her washing plates in the kitchen and I greeted her that she has done well but when I was about to leave the kitchen I observed that the kitchen walls were wet because anytime you cook in my kitchen the tiles on the walls gets wet due to the heat. Then, I asked her "babe what did you cook?" She said nothing that she only boiled water. I believed her and I did not suspect her because of the response but I was kind of thinking the water must have boiled over 100°c for those tiles to get wet.

I left the kitchen and I went to the bedroom when I got to the bedroom I saw some trashes she left undisposed and I was irritated and I decided to go and disposed them but when I got to our refuse bin I saw a fresh egg shells and some fresh noodles' pieces, I was kind of confused that which of my neighbors would have left his/her waste bin and come to used mine. Yet, I never thought too much because I knew it was my girlfriend, maybe she just wants to pull my legs that was why she lied at first, I concluded.

When I got inside I found her inside the bedroom, she's done washing plates, then I put it to her jokingly "babe next time you cook noodles and eggs make sure you dispose the nylons properly because you didn't do it well today." As if I ignited a flame she took it up with me angrily that why should I be saying that, that she never cooked anything since morning and I was accusing her wrongly....bla..bla..bla..bla... And she acted so real and dry like as if truly she didn't cook.

Mind you, that she cooked wasn't my problem, why would I get disturbed that my girlfriend cooked and ate in my house? But every evidences I was seeing were making me to ask her if truly she cooked but she kept denying and not that I got angry at this point.

I told her to forget about everything that not that I'm suspecting her but I just felt all what I have been seeing showed me that you cooked and not that I will kill you if you did. You're my woman why would you lied to me if you do things in my home. We shut the chapter and everyone was fine.

After like 5 minutes I went to the kitchen to cook beans, personally I don't like it when my gas cooker is dirty but my girl is a messy lady she doesn't care and I have been fighting over this on how to sort her out. I decided to clean the gas cooker and immediately as I raised the stand I saw enough fresh noodles at the angle corners of the gas Cylinder. I stood up and gave it a thought. After, I decided to show her so that she would not deny it. I called her to come to the kitchen and when she got to the kitchen I showed her and she could not say anything.

Then I asked her "as little as cooking noodles and you lied. Why did you lie on this very little matter? Why babe? " Not that that I will quarrel with you why you cooked and eat. Why? When I was coming from the studio I have already bought things that we are going to eat. Why such a big denial and lie on a little matter? Why?

Pls Nairaland I suggested this is one of the RED FLAGS. Isn't it? Pls advice.

so when you asked her, what did she say?

That’s a woman for you ,even when you catch them red handed ,they will still deny it on your face ,that’s how it is bro ,if you see babes that will tell u straight to your face how it is ,they don’t gat manners and sometimes problematic and toxic so u choose wisely

Hezzyluv:
Lol...

If it were to be me, I know the decision I will take already. You're an adult and I also want to believe regardless of what people tell you here, you have already made up your mind on what to do w.r.t the subject matter.

"You gat Yam and the Knife. Do as it seemeth right to you."

He is not interested in her,this is just an excuse. He needs validation because he is aware of the misogynistic atmosphere in this forum and knows people will support him.

He should table this to a place of real men, and they will insult him

Wahala dey oo

Have you thought about why she has to deny she cooked noodles?

Maybe na this your attitude ooo

Try dey calm down

Tallesty1:
This is exactly why I count my garri and rice before leaving the house.

But seriously, is she a liar? Has she lied about things before? I’m just trying to understand what kind of person she is, because if she can lie about something like this, who knows what else she’s been lying to you about?

You called her your woman, but I’m not so sure you’re her man. That's disturbing.

The story is incomplete. He must have been counting his indomie or penny pinching and she is scared.

Why lying over noodles that she cooked in her mans place and eat , what kind of a lady is this.


No be Tinubu do this one

E be like say you dey date my ex.

At a point, I had to tell her that I don't even know if her name was her real name.
Coz omooo, lie just too much.

Because of noodles na him u bring this issue kom nairaland?

See as tinubu syndrome dey bite you hard.

Guy, you fall my hand ✋️.