BarrElChapo:
My wife will come first. I and my wife are one and the Sacred Scripture says a man should love his wife as he loves himself.

U are lost!!!

Yungmil:




If u compare your mum to any woman in the world.........u are lost


Ur wife can divorce u and marry another man in seconds.

Your wife is actually you. If you don't understand this then you don't understand the mystery of marriage. Can you love another person more than yourself?

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Yungmil:



U are lost!!!

You are the lost one, not him

Bro's my mother first..... stop asking silly question. Please.

It's Only a Mumu Immature Man That Will Love His Mother More Than The Wife

The only person that isn't part of your family is your wife.

femi4:
Your wife first.
The day a man got married, his new family has become his priority and first responsibility

U are lost!!!

Yungmil:



U are lost!!!

Ki lomode e mo

Zonefree:
Father
Mother
Son
Daughter
Nephew
Niece
Wife


In that order.

I dey craze? Which kind yeye question be dat? Fok love, fok wife. Sweet mother forever and ever, amen.





Abeg who don go market today wetin be the scores.Who dey lead now rice or beans abi semo don overtake them😆😆😆😆

femi4:
Your wife first.
The day a man got married, his new family has become his priority and first responsibility

dem don wash pussy cook vegetables for this one

femi4:
Ki lomode e mo

na you we suppose to ask dat question. Mr loverboy! O ti yo ife

Yungmil:



U are lost!!!

completely lost.

Zackattack:

Some of you are just turning this question on its head and acting like you don’t know what it is about.
Your wife or your mother, who comes first?
If you only have a choice to pick one?

bro it all depends on a lot of thing.... lets say for example:
- if armed robbers came to my home and asked me to choose between killing my wife or my mother, my mother will stand and say "TAKE ME" before i can even answer the armed robber. my mother has lived a wonderful long life and she would be selfish to even think of having anyone else take that bullet. exact same thing that I would do if in the future, armed robber asked the same question to my daughter, to choose between me and her husband,
- if it comes to raising children, my mother has more experience in such matter therefore her words will come before my woman who is a new mother.
- anything that has to do with my home, then my woman come first. my mother has her own home where she can make her own rules.
- if my mother and woman were arguing about who sits in the car next to me, i would send them both on the backseat to sort their differences while i will have my son sit next to me.
- if i was on a crashing plane and there was only 2 parachutes and it was 3 of us, my mother would hand me and my woman the 2 parachutes and push us away (she wouldnt take the parachute even if i'd force her to do so).
AGAIN, motherly love is different than the love for a spouse. some days of the week the priority is family, and other days the priority is wifey/kids. none of them have a priority over the other, they both have their place in my life thus why i do not have to choose one or the other.

MrBrownJay1:


bro it all depends on a lot of thing.... lets say for example:
- if armed robbers came to my home and asked me to choose between killing my wife or my mother, my mother will stand and say "TAKE ME" before i can even answer the armed robber. my mother has lived a wonderful long life and she would be selfish to even think of having anyone else take that bullet. exact same thing that I would do if in the future, armed robber asked the same question to my daughter, to choose between me and her husband,
- if it comes to raising children, my mother has more experience in such matter therefore her words will come before my woman who is a new mother.
- anything that has to do with my home, then my woman come first. my mother has her own home where she can make her own rules.
- if my mother and woman were arguing about who sits in the car next to me, i would send them both on the backseat to sort their differences while i will have my son sit next to me.
- if i was on a crashing plane and there was only 2 parachutes and it was 3 of us, my mother would hand me and my woman the 2 parachutes and push us away (she wouldnt take the parachute even if i'd force her to do so).
AGAIN, motherly love is different than the love for a spouse. some days of the week the priority is family, and other days the priority is wifey/kids. none of them have a priority over the other, they both have their place in my life thus why i do not have to choose one or the other.

I don’t want to say you’re ignorant because you sound like a pro in fantasy.
It’s very easy to say everything up there and believe it.
Kal Max said realism is fascinating. Even us, sometimes is bewildered of the choice we make when reality is staring us in the face.
You know you will never choose your son inlaw over yourself when faced with death, but you needed to make your point. Ride on!

Mom: hello my dear dear son, I called to hear from you, I haven't heard from u today.

Me : thank you mama.

Wife: Hello, don't you know you were supposed to call me since?

Me : .

Mama love ❤️ is quite different from wife love, but there are some wife who are just like ur mother

bengenex:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4lf15zLz3LQ



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sMg-oe69w5I



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=13_Tb1n2wU8



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0KgBDWmHm7w

which smelling bombom you dey show us like this

MasterofNL:


Your wife is actually you. If you don't understand this then you don't understand the mystery of marriage. Can you love another person more than yourself?

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lol my wife is me& she still dey stress me? 😩 why's me doing this to me??

He will learn when the wife leave him.

I was speaking to a colleague just yesterday and in her little mind the wife comes first before the money became the Bible said 2 shall become 1.

Actually, the right answer is, you are supposed to love the 2 of them equally.

It's only those who do not understand the institution of marriage that argue this things. But first the talk of who you should love first shouldn't exist. However your wife is an aspect of you. Marriage is a covenant between a man and a woman that made them one. You are not in covenant with your mother but your father. If you are married you will live with your wife not your mother, at that point your wife comes first in preferences over your children, mother, father and anything, because your wife is you and you are your wife. The Bible says and the two shall become one.

ogascomax:
It's only those who do not understand the institution of marriage that argue this things. But first the talk of who you should love first shouldn't exist. However your wife is an aspect of you. Marriage is a covenant between a man and a woman that made them one. You are not in covenant with your mother but your father. If you are married you will live with your wife not your mother, at that point your wife comes first in preferences over your children, mother, father and anything, because your wife is you and you are your wife. The Bible says and the two shall become one.

I find it funny that people conveniently say this and back it up with bible.

Where did the bible say love your wife more than you mother? How does two shall become one translates to love your wife more than your mother?

If the roles were reversed, you'd find out that women actually love their mother than their husbands.

A wife’s love is different as well as a mother’s love….

MasterTeeUSA:
This is why I listen to Old Yoruba Song...The song said...you need to choose one, Mother or Wife. The singer said Mother and Wife are different, but a wife can leave and remarry, so a man must always realize Mom will always be Mother. Same argument was made for the Father. You grow into love with your wife...your love for your Mom and her love for you is why you actually lived long enough to marry wife. Do NOT let your Mother or Father curse you over your wife. You will understand why the Bible said HONOR your Mother and Father...in the 10 commandments without mentioning wife one single time Lol.

The Bible already called you one with your wife! You and your wife have become ONE the moment you LEfT your father and mother to marry her! Your love for your wife is love for yourself! It's funny how you guys are jumping on the mum first bandwagon without deep careful thought...you create problem for yourself when you start comparing mother's love and love for your wife. A good mother will encourage you to love your wife, she will pray for the success of your marriage without having any issues with your wife. A good wife will ensure she doesn't put you in a tight spot by making you choose between her and your mother... mother's love and spousal love are on 2 different levels!. Your mother gave birth to you; your wife gave birth to your children... even though your wife may leave you, love her until she leaves.

Which one do you love more, your hand or your leg, your mouth or your nose, your tongue or your teeth?
Your Mum is your Mum and your Wife is your Wife. If you don't know their place in your life each, go and learn more.

Never ... I will tell a story here one day

Natbrowny:
Y'all need to understand emotional intelligence and boundaries

Love for mother is different from love for wife

Ur mother was married into the home by ur father, same way u married a lady as a wife into ur home

Mostly - wife and mother will not give a man any issues if there is respect for boundaries.

U cannot love one more than the other. They are seperate and the feelings n emotions dey breed are different. If u don't love ur wife enuff, ur kids will feel it. U cannot unlove ur mother too.

God bless you for this. Emotional intelligence is key to a successful union. An emotionally intelligent spouse won't asked who should be loved more or less.

The Love you have for your wife should be different from the love you have for your mother. In Christianity your spouse comes first before others.

My mother comes first please.

Na old talk be this na... Just seperate the two of them. What the left hand do the right hand must not know no matter what. I trust myself when it comes to top secrecy on women matters. Whatever good I do especially to women, wifey o, mama o, gf o. It stays with them, I can never loose gaurd. Two women hardly coexist.