Jman06:
Only a very f00lish man would put wife above family.

TrackerSK:
The only person that isn't part of your family is your wife.

femi4:
Your wife first.
The day a man got married, his new family has become his priority and first responsibility

Melagros:
COMRADES, forget about the Biblical teaching, the answer is Capital NO

Natbrowny:
Y'all need to understand emotional intelligence and boundaries

Love for mother is different from love for wife

Ur mother was married into the home by ur father, same way u married a lady as a wife into ur home

Mostly - wife and mother will not give a man any issues if there is respect for boundaries.

U cannot love one more than the other. They are seperate and the feelings n emotions dey breed are different. If u don't love ur wife enuff, ur kids will feel it. U cannot unlove ur mother too.

Natbrowny:
Y'all need to understand emotional intelligence and boundaries

Love for mother is different from love for wife

Ur mother was married into the home by ur father, same way u married a lady as a wife into ur home

Mostly - wife and mother will not give a man any issues if there is respect for boundaries.

U cannot love one more than the other. They are seperate and the feelings n emotions dey breed are different. If u don't love ur wife enuff, ur kids will feel it. U cannot unlove ur mother too.

femi4:
Your wife first.
The day a man got married, his new family has become his priority and first responsibility

real691:
Anyone who dares compare herself to my mother is my enemy



True, my wife's love for her children is far more than what she can give me. Mother's love is a wonder of nature

That picture attached is fire bro. My mother, my life. Woman who helped bring me into this earth. The only woman that can love you unconditionally. She is simply uncomparable to any other woman.




Why are you so pained? Even my wife knows the position of my mother is above everybody.

Take sex away and the love men claim they have for their wives will be greatly reduced.
Keep deceiving yourselves!

Melonsmasher:

Is there any such thing like new family and old family?
OK let me try to get it from your concept, your old family was when you were some person's responsibility, and your new family is when some persons are your responsibility.

Na your type of person dey abandon him family in the name of marriage

mmadu4:
So guys i often wonder is it OK to love wifey more than our mom. like can a man put his wife first before his mom?

a neighbor of mine sent his mom away all because she had altercation with the wife and told the wife to leave her son and set him free from her juju ,

i wanted to put mouth but don't want to insert my self in family matter . nothing will make me send my mom away like that though .

so guys would you do it?

TrackerSK:
The only person that isn't part of your family is your wife.

Yungmil:




If u compare your mum to any woman in the world.........u are lost


Ur wife can divorce u and marry another man in seconds.

Adakintroy:
Every wife who ask this question is in the mind space she will stay a wife forever. The wife of today is the mom of that son tomorrow. Don't ask the wife now. Wait till she becomes the mom and ask the son in front of her.

Demurray:
It depends on the kind of mother and wife you have.

If both of them are okay in characters, I will go for my wife because she whom I have chosen to be with for the rest of my life , mother will leave her life and depar leaving you behind however, that I can't send my mother away for my wife sake.

I doubt that in the case of most wives

1Sharon:


Is this what your dad believed?

I can only imagine how e be for the stranger in your family home your mother?

udeh3:


So, how did your mother became part of your family, if your dad had this notion then?

You see, there will be more problems in the social space in the nearest future if we continue to have this kind of baby mindset.

You have to grow and start taking stands now on how you want to raise a beautiful home. Every home you see today beautiful has lots of scars, but, one things stand out, preference for your immediate family. This is why your wife will see you as your mother's supporter and she won't invest in that business with you. She won't see that future with you. Because, over time, you've shown it to her she's not part of your family

And note, it's how you carry your wife in the mist of your family, that's how your mother and your siblings will carry her. If your family knows you cherish your wife and disrespecting her means disrespecting you, their heads go correct, except you're an irresponsible husband and sibling

Natbrowny:
Y'all need to understand emotional intelligence and boundaries

Love for mother is different from love for wife

Ur mother was married into the home by ur father, same way u married a lady as a wife into ur home

Mostly - wife and mother will not give a man any issues if there is respect for boundaries.

U cannot love one more than the other. They are seperate and the feelings n emotions dey breed are different. If u don't love ur wife enuff, ur kids will feel it. U cannot unlove ur mother too.

MrCork:



Son..so u sayin u rada fukk yor mother than yor girlfriend..are u ok in the head or is yor yansh scraching u?? So u prefer hairy old cargos to young beautiful gitlfriends..corrrect?
Seeeek medical doctor..please!!!(((no ooofenccse)))

Natbrowny:
Y'all need to understand emotional intelligence and boundaries

Love for mother is different from love for wife

Ur mother was married into the home by ur father, same way u married a lady as a wife into ur home

Mostly - wife and mother will not give a man any issues if there is respect for boundaries.

U cannot love one more than the other. They are seperate and the feelings n emotions dey breed are different. If u don't love ur wife enuff, ur kids will feel it. U cannot unlove ur mother too.

Natbrowny:
Y'all need to understand emotional intelligence and boundaries

Love for mother is different from love for wife

Ur mother was married into the home by ur father, same way u married a lady as a wife into ur home

Mostly - wife and mother will not give a man any issues if there is respect for boundaries.

U cannot love one more than the other. They are seperate and the feelings n emotions dey breed are different. If u don't love ur wife enuff, ur kids will feel it. U cannot unlove ur mother too.

femi4:
Your wife first.
The day a man got married, his new family has become his priority and first responsibility

MrCork:


Of course, dont u like pussssssy? Bro any male who chooose ther rubbbbish mother over ther wife or girlfriend is gay & deserve a double backhand slap for bein gay sir!!!!(no oofencse)

Yungmil:



U are lost!!!